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over a year ago
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"Yeah and weekend meets, you get to know the person more x "
I'm not judging this is out of genuine interest, would you do this the for a first face to face meet. |
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over a year ago
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"Most of the ladies that I've met off here have stopped at my gaff for a couple of nights, one even stayed for 4 nights, I thought that she was planning on moving in ffs   "
Was it a bank holiday weekend x |
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over a year ago
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"Yeah and weekend meets, you get to know the person more x
I'm not judging this is out of genuine interest, would you do this the for a first face to face meet. "
Id prefer to meet them at clubs/parties a few times before I go to the guys home though this isn’t an option anymore x |
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"Most of the ladies that I've met off here have stopped at my gaff for a couple of nights, one even stayed for 4 nights, I thought that she was planning on moving in ffs
Was it a bank holiday weekend x"
No, but we booked a room at Cupids for a couple of nights about 6 weeks later  |
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"Most of the ladies that I've met off here have stopped at my gaff for a couple of nights, one even stayed for 4 nights, I thought that she was planning on moving in ffs
Was it a bank holiday weekend x
No, but we booked a room at Cupids for a couple of nights about 6 weeks later "
4 days and nights having sex would be good right now iv not had sex in since February x
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"Most of the ladies that I've met off here have stopped at my gaff for a couple of nights, one even stayed for 4 nights, I thought that she was planning on moving in ffs
Was it a bank holiday weekend x
No, but we booked a room at Cupids for a couple of nights about 6 weeks later
4 days and nights having sex would be good right now iv not had sex in since February x
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I'm sure you aren't short of offers offering to blow the cobwebs off  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm too conscious of my morning breath and bleary eyed to be very comfortable on waking, plus I like my own shower and loo!"
Bring your own wash bag and towels x |
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"I'm too conscious of my morning breath and bleary eyed to be very comfortable on waking, plus I like my own shower and loo!
Bring your own wash bag and towels x"
You can't pack your own toilet, silly  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most of the ladies that I've met off here have stopped at my gaff for a couple of nights, one even stayed for 4 nights, I thought that she was planning on moving in ffs
Was it a bank holiday weekend x
No, but we booked a room at Cupids for a couple of nights about 6 weeks later
4 days and nights having sex would be good right now iv not had sex in since February x
I'm sure you aren't short of offers offering to blow the cobwebs off "
I have offers but Lockdown and lack of staff to blame x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm too conscious of my morning breath and bleary eyed to be very comfortable on waking, plus I like my own shower and loo!
Bring your own wash bag and towels x
You can't pack your own toilet, silly "
If you can’t use their toilet your not comfortable to met them x |
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"Most of the ladies that I've met off here have stopped at my gaff for a couple of nights, one even stayed for 4 nights, I thought that she was planning on moving in ffs
Was it a bank holiday weekend x
No, but we booked a room at Cupids for a couple of nights about 6 weeks later
4 days and nights having sex would be good right now iv not had sex in since February x
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This was a couple of years ago, and I've I've also been celibate since about October |
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"I'm too conscious of my morning breath and bleary eyed to be very comfortable on waking, plus I like my own shower and loo!
Bring your own wash bag and towels x
You can't pack your own toilet, silly
If you can’t use their toilet your not comfortable to met them x"
I think I'd feel more comfortable swapping with a couple than destroying their toilet, but hey that's just me |
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"Most of the ladies that I've met off here have stopped at my gaff for a couple of nights, one even stayed for 4 nights, I thought that she was planning on moving in ffs
Was it a bank holiday weekend x
No, but we booked a room at Cupids for a couple of nights about 6 weeks later
4 days and nights having sex would be good right now iv not had sex in since February x
I'm sure you aren't short of offers offering to blow the cobwebs off
I have offers but Lockdown and lack of staff to blame x "
Wait, you have *staff* blow off the cobwebs for you!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most of the ladies that I've met off here have stopped at my gaff for a couple of nights, one even stayed for 4 nights, I thought that she was planning on moving in ffs
Was it a bank holiday weekend x
No, but we booked a room at Cupids for a couple of nights about 6 weeks later
4 days and nights having sex would be good right now iv not had sex in since February x
This was a couple of years ago, and I've I've also been celibate since about October "
It’s hard when your overnighters end and they move on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most of the ladies that I've met off here have stopped at my gaff for a couple of nights, one even stayed for 4 nights, I thought that she was planning on moving in ffs
Was it a bank holiday weekend x
No, but we booked a room at Cupids for a couple of nights about 6 weeks later
4 days and nights having sex would be good right now iv not had sex in since February x
I'm sure you aren't short of offers offering to blow the cobwebs off
I have offers but Lockdown and lack of staff to blame x
Wait, you have *staff* blow off the cobwebs for you!? "
Not anymore X
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most of the ladies that I've met off here have stopped at my gaff for a couple of nights, one even stayed for 4 nights, I thought that she was planning on moving in ffs
Was it a bank holiday weekend x
No, but we booked a room at Cupids for a couple of nights about 6 weeks later
4 days and nights having sex would be good right now iv not had sex in since February x
I'm sure you aren't short of offers offering to blow the cobwebs off
I have offers but Lockdown and lack of staff to blame x
Wait, you have *staff* blow off the cobwebs for you!?
Not anymore X
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The builder and the cleaner got another job x
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"Most of the ladies that I've met off here have stopped at my gaff for a couple of nights, one even stayed for 4 nights, I thought that she was planning on moving in ffs
Was it a bank holiday weekend x
No, but we booked a room at Cupids for a couple of nights about 6 weeks later
4 days and nights having sex would be good right now iv not had sex in since February x
I'm sure you aren't short of offers offering to blow the cobwebs off
I have offers but Lockdown and lack of staff to blame x
Wait, you have *staff* blow off the cobwebs for you!?
Not anymore X
The builder and the cleaner got another job x
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Crikey, don't let a cleaner sort out your cobwebs - you'll wind up with bleach in your cooch! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most of the ladies that I've met off here have stopped at my gaff for a couple of nights, one even stayed for 4 nights, I thought that she was planning on moving in ffs
Was it a bank holiday weekend x
No, but we booked a room at Cupids for a couple of nights about 6 weeks later
4 days and nights having sex would be good right now iv not had sex in since February x
I'm sure you aren't short of offers offering to blow the cobwebs off
I have offers but Lockdown and lack of staff to blame x
Wait, you have *staff* blow off the cobwebs for you!?
Not anymore X
The builder and the cleaner got another job x
Crikey, don't let a cleaner sort out your cobwebs - you'll wind up with bleach in your cooch! "
I’m not joking iv fucked a cleaner and builder while at work x |
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"Most of the ladies that I've met off here have stopped at my gaff for a couple of nights, one even stayed for 4 nights, I thought that she was planning on moving in ffs
Was it a bank holiday weekend x
No, but we booked a room at Cupids for a couple of nights about 6 weeks later
4 days and nights having sex would be good right now iv not had sex in since February x
I'm sure you aren't short of offers offering to blow the cobwebs off
I have offers but Lockdown and lack of staff to blame x
Wait, you have *staff* blow off the cobwebs for you!?
Not anymore X
The builder and the cleaner got another job x
Crikey, don't let a cleaner sort out your cobwebs - you'll wind up with bleach in your cooch!
I’m not joking iv fucked a cleaner and builder while at work x"
Are we talking at the same time? Because it seems a really inefficient use of time for a cleaner to clean where the builder ain't finished yet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most of the ladies that I've met off here have stopped at my gaff for a couple of nights, one even stayed for 4 nights, I thought that she was planning on moving in ffs
Was it a bank holiday weekend x
No, but we booked a room at Cupids for a couple of nights about 6 weeks later
4 days and nights having sex would be good right now iv not had sex in since February x
I'm sure you aren't short of offers offering to blow the cobwebs off
I have offers but Lockdown and lack of staff to blame x
Wait, you have *staff* blow off the cobwebs for you!?
Not anymore X
The builder and the cleaner got another job x
Crikey, don't let a cleaner sort out your cobwebs - you'll wind up with bleach in your cooch! "
The cleaner wasn’t aloud to use bleach in work x |
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"Most of the ladies that I've met off here have stopped at my gaff for a couple of nights, one even stayed for 4 nights, I thought that she was planning on moving in ffs
Was it a bank holiday weekend x
No, but we booked a room at Cupids for a couple of nights about 6 weeks later
4 days and nights having sex would be good right now iv not had sex in since February x
This was a couple of years ago, and I've I've also been celibate since about October
It’s hard when your overnighters end and they move on "
Yeah, sometimes it's hard to let go, especially when you find a connection and they live about 200+ miles away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most of the ladies that I've met off here have stopped at my gaff for a couple of nights, one even stayed for 4 nights, I thought that she was planning on moving in ffs
Was it a bank holiday weekend x
No, but we booked a room at Cupids for a couple of nights about 6 weeks later
4 days and nights having sex would be good right now iv not had sex in since February x
I'm sure you aren't short of offers offering to blow the cobwebs off
I have offers but Lockdown and lack of staff to blame x
Wait, you have *staff* blow off the cobwebs for you!?
Not anymore X
The builder and the cleaner got another job x
Crikey, don't let a cleaner sort out your cobwebs - you'll wind up with bleach in your cooch!
I’m not joking iv fucked a cleaner and builder while at work x
Are we talking at the same time? Because it seems a really inefficient use of time for a cleaner to clean where the builder ain't finished yet. "
Nope different times x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most of the ladies that I've met off here have stopped at my gaff for a couple of nights, one even stayed for 4 nights, I thought that she was planning on moving in ffs
Was it a bank holiday weekend x
No, but we booked a room at Cupids for a couple of nights about 6 weeks later
4 days and nights having sex would be good right now iv not had sex in since February x
This was a couple of years ago, and I've I've also been celibate since about October
It’s hard when your overnighters end and they move on
Yeah, sometimes it's hard to let go, especially when you find a connection and they live about 200+ miles away."
Yeah definitely x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes I have to overnight due to the distance I have to travel.
If I want a drink I can’t drive hence why have to stay.
I much prefer being able to get home though or even having mr P in the next room so we can carry on after
Mrs P x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only meet in clubs now but i used to occasionaly stay overnight with one guy, it wasn't much fun though as he smoked and his house stunk plus the sex wasn't that good so i stopped that. I have stayed in a hotel overnight with my now hubby, that was fun
Nowadays i like spending the night in my own bed with hubby. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely no way I'd spend a night with someone. It's just sex not a relationship. I don't visit stranger's houses and they don't know the town where I live. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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No, I can usually only get away for a few hours (and that’s one of the reasons I don’t like men offering to travel to me).
Plus overnights are a bit intimate to me, I reserve all that for love interests. |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
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I love an overnight as there is less time pressure etc and you get to enjoy the cuddles afterwards - along with more half asleep sex in the middle of the night and next morning. Not that I'm greedy at all  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love an overnight as there is less time pressure etc and you get to enjoy the cuddles afterwards - along with more half asleep sex in the middle of the night and next morning. Not that I'm greedy at all "
This 
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Most of the time I don't but it depends on the person and situation. If they're far away then it's a bit much travelling for a couple of hours and it's nice to spend decent time together when you're unlikely to see each other again any time soon. Also some people you just really click with beyond sex and enjoy spending a nice weekend together. Some people aren't a fan of sharing a bed and prefer their own space, others find going to bed alone after an evening of intimacy not a pleasant feeling. Personally I'm happy with either as I enjoy both my own space and being able to collapse into bed and fall asleep together and then have more sex in the morning  . It's all about finding out what you each want and figuring out what works for both of you. Setting personal boundaries is important too. I'm personally a fan of both being quite blunt about this. For example, if I've stayed over at their place I hate the awkward part in the morning of not wanting to overstay my welcome but not wanting them to feel I've rushed off if they were hoping for a lazy morning in bed and I don't want to leave someone else feeling that awkwardness if they stay at mine either. It's much easier to just have a conversation about this and be honest. Don't say to someone "you can hang out as long as you like" if you don't mean it. It's perfectly acceptable to set a time you want someone gone by, even if you just want your place to yourself to mong in front of the TV alone  . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would be difficult to do one of my biggest fantasies without them Rolling over in the morning to the giggles and moans of my other half and her girlfriend enjoying each other  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I didn't used to bring men to my home for safety reasons at all so obviously no overnights. Then I met my now OH who lived on the other side of England and I changed my rules as he was staying in mine over the weekend. At the time we were still just FWB so it was something completely new. I blame that for falling in love with him |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm too conscious of my morning breath and bleary eyed to be very comfortable on waking, plus I like my own shower and loo!
Bring your own wash bag and towels x
You can't pack your own toilet, silly
If you can’t use their toilet your not comfortable to met them x
I think I'd feel more comfortable swapping with a couple than destroying their toilet, but hey that's just me "
"Destroying " their toilet!!
Good grief!  |
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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago
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"Yay from me, or full weekends.
I've done both as a first meet and prefer it. I don't meet on a whim though and get to know people first, so there are no surprises, only delights
Same for us
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Oooft D with the pic. I've not seen that one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've always said that weekend meets are good in its own way it all depends on if the woman or the man in some cases wants to stick around for an overnight cuppa |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I didn't used to bring men to my home for safety reasons at all so obviously no overnights. Then I met my now OH who lived on the other side of England and I changed my rules as he was staying in mine over the weekend. At the time we were still just FWB so it was something completely new. I blame that for falling in love with him "
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"I'm too conscious of my morning breath and bleary eyed to be very comfortable on waking, plus I like my own shower and loo!
Bring your own wash bag and towels x
You can't pack your own toilet, silly
If you can’t use their toilet your not comfortable to met them x
I think I'd feel more comfortable swapping with a couple than destroying their toilet, but hey that's just me "
Maybe have a look at your diet honey if this is what you do with toilets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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dont get me wrong a cuddle is lush..
But as for an over nighter with a meet i just dont think its 'me'..
Have sex and banter.. but then id leave.
I wouldnt have someone in my home, so id either get a hotel or meet at theirs. I just dont trust myself not to catch feels when is lazy morning snuggles n sex..
1st time on this place i also had a no more than 3 meet rule too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes it’s a necessity for me but I don’t tend to do one offs and only like fwb scenarios "
I can relate to this. Prefer the FWB thing , not a huge fuck and go. But then again depends on the scenario and people in with - I mean a overnight threesome might get alittle crowded lol |
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Yes, it is a lot of fun to fall asleep cuddled up and wake up with a hardon and then continue fucking for a couple of hours.
Unfortunately we had to leave the hotel room by noon otherwise we would have sex all day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a bit of an emotional/intimacy block when it comes to sleeping next to/with other people. I’ll share a bed with someone, but unless I 110% trust them I would be awake all night and probably trying to sleep on the very edge of the bed so not to touch too much if I do actually fall asleep.
However if I find the right connection and trust, the affection and intimacy of being close to a fwb overnight or over a weekend becomes magical. The skin to skin touches, listening to the others heartbeat as they doze off, feeling their breath on your neck as they snuggle in behind you and pull you close...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes it’s a necessity for me but I don’t tend to do one offs and only like fwb scenarios
I can relate to this. Prefer the FWB thing , not a huge fuck and go. But then again depends on the scenario and people in with - I mean a overnight threesome might get alittle crowded lol"
That’s when it’s better though the third person leaves and the 2 left carry on |
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We hired a hotel for our first meet and it had 2 double beds in the room so we agreed the lady could stay the night. It made me feel uncomfortable to be honest, I’d rather all play and let things come to a natural end then go our separate ways and sleep, it was awkward knowing when to call it a night and she seemed to think one of us would share a bed with her, then we had the uncomfortable politeness in the morning. I wouldn’t stay overnight again (unless it was just 1:1). I like Ed and I being able to relax and chat etc. afterwards.
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