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Why do some women ask for only hotel meet in their profiles
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over a year ago
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Could also feel safer in a public place, where either their or their meets’ name is registered. Would you be comfortable allowing a relative stranger into your home? |
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They may not be able to accommodate, they maybe not want to bring people into there family home, they wouldn't feel safe going to a strangers home and the list goes on. |
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It's their preferred and it will vary. Some will be happy to have the security support that a hotel can provide, including CCTV, personnel, absence of nosy neighbours, intrusive ex's.
It also stops men knowing where you live, should any of them stalk or cause other problems.
Many have family at home, including kids and so the last thing wanted would be an NSA guy around. |
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"Could also feel safer in a public place, where either their or their meets’ name is registered. Would you be comfortable allowing a relative stranger into your home?"
If I got to know them a bit first then yes.
Lol but what I meant to ask last night was why do some ladies insist on meeting at home and not hotels.
I noticed it in a couple of profiles. In my d*unkeness I messed this thread up last night.  |
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What if your meet is a weirdo or psycho or becomes a stalker... Or decides to call by after getting d*unk on a night out.. Or mentions you to their mate.. Who needs that in their life 
Plus, imagine all the tidying up, changing the sheets, making them breakfast.. Meeting the neighbours knowing gaze as they remind you how thin the walls are
Ir forgetting to mention you have cats and then discover they are allergic   |
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I'm guessing because they want to meet in a hotel?
For a multitude of their own personal reasons, such as:
They might have kids at home.
Men can be dickheads and they don't want them knocking on at 2am after they've had a skinfull in future.
They don't want to invite random men they've met on the internet, who might possibly be murderers, into their home.
Neutral venue is the best first meet in my opinion. |
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My question is,,,,,,,,,,,, Does it matter what they ask for, its there profile there choice, simples |
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over a year ago
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Personally, my girlfriend and I love hotel meets! Getting a day room and inviting a stranger makes it feel so much more naughty and exciting!
Plus she's a squirter and I like my own mattress dry! |
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"Could also feel safer in a public place, where either their or their meets’ name is registered. Would you be comfortable allowing a relative stranger into your home?
If I got to know them a bit first then yes.
Lol but what I meant to ask last night was why do some ladies insist on meeting at home and not hotels.
I noticed it in a couple of profiles. In my d*unkeness I messed this thread up last night. "
Lol you really messed this one up |
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Yeah I prefer hotels. It’s neutral ground safer as cameras in hotels. (Though I have cameras in my building everywhere ) so they kinda moot the first point .
Mostly though bringing randoms home isn’t always the best of things as some people can be stalkerish / problematic Later on. etc. Had this myself in my last apartment with a crazy Ivan type Person that kept turning up 
Also a lot of women won’t feel safe going to a guys / couples home .
Maybe it’s also a turn on .
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"Personally, my girlfriend and I love hotel meets! Getting a day room and inviting a stranger makes it feel so much more naughty and exciting!
Plus she's a squirter and I like my own mattress dry! "
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