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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That some men think women on here are just prostitutes when they read profiles of women that state the man must pay for the hotel room or for the social meet, i.e, a meal out?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I didn't realise profiles had that type of thing written on them 
But then again, I tend to just look at the pics   "
Some have a whole load of things they expect the man to pay for  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I didn't realise profiles had that type of thing written on them
But then again, I tend to just look at the pics
Some have a whole load of things they expect the man to pay for "
Well I suppose somethings may be reasonable, but I'd definitely draw the line at paying for her post coitus covid test  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are a few female profiles that say I’ll meet in a hotel at your cost. I’ve seen them. "
There's also countless profiles straight up asking for money and linking amazon wishlists etc  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are a few female profiles that say I’ll meet in a hotel at your cost. I’ve seen them.
There's also countless profiles straight up asking for money and linking amazon wishlists etc "
Yeah I’ve seen the Amazon wish lists! Haha. Bloody cheek! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are a few female profiles that say I’ll meet in a hotel at your cost. I’ve seen them.
Me too. I think it’s wrong personally."
Me too. But if men are dumb enough to do it then good on them if that’s what they want! I’m the opposite I have to pay half of everything! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There are a few female profiles that say I’ll meet in a hotel at your cost. I’ve seen them.
There's also countless profiles straight up asking for money and linking amazon wishlists etc "
I’ve never seen a man’s profile asking for payment or Amazon wish lists  |
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"There are a few female profiles that say I’ll meet in a hotel at your cost. I’ve seen them.
There's also countless profiles straight up asking for money and linking amazon wishlists etc
Yeah I’ve seen the Amazon wish lists! Haha. Bloody cheek!"
I message them with 'Best wishes' |
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Understandable? Yes in so much as i understand people are a weird bunch. Acceptable? No to a degree and not just because a guy shouldn't treat a woman on here as a prostitute but they shouldn't enable an attitude in someone that says they SHOULD be spoilt. In my view fab and sites like it are for consenting adults to engage in their fantasies. Such a fantasy could of include spoiling or being spoilt but that is a world apart from prostitution which i suppose could form part of a fantasy too but if that's what someone wants then why practice it here? There are red light areas for that. The difficulty is that in any situation where money is involved there is a sense by at least one party that something is owed and as it is not lawful to pay for sex and if the "deal" is not clear then one or more parties can be putting themselves at risk. |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
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Really? Jesus - I'd always go halves for things as thats only fair! That was even when I was with my partner too which was a bugbear of his that I had to pay my way with everything |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are a few female profiles that say I’ll meet in a hotel at your cost. I’ve seen them.
There's also countless profiles straight up asking for money and linking amazon wishlists etc
I’ve never seen a man’s profile asking for payment or Amazon wish lists "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's up to others how they write their profiles. No one is forcing anyone to message these ladies who ask for payment.
We believe in live and let live "
Well yes but I believe it’s against site rules x |
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I can see how it may create a grey area, and the only way to combat that would be to state quite clearly that sex is not guaranteed or possibly even on the cards regardless of if he has paid for XYZ.
I don't think that's wrong as such if that's how someone wants to handle their meets, but it's how it's gone about. If you're chatting to someone with a view to meeting and one party can't afford it til payday say, but the other person says fuck it, don't worry I'll pay then cool. But if it's like a demand then to me it's cringey as fuck, like they think they're better than someone else, so much so they're like a celebrity attending a book signing or some shit they get paid for. I can totally see how that can be misjudged and give men the impression women are prostitutes coz effectively in that demandy scenario they're paying for someone's time.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a tough one, I personally wouldn't pay a woman for sex, or engage with a person demanding I pay for this and that. But on the other hand, I have paid for hotels rooms, coffee's and drinks, but that's because AI offered, and wasn't with the expectations of getting some nookie. I've done split down the middle also. There's many factors that would come into it, like who's travelled farthest, how well we knew each other to name a couple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's up to others how they write their profiles. No one is forcing anyone to message these ladies who ask for payment.
We believe in live and let live "
Well no, because it's against the site rules. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a tough one, I personally wouldn't pay a woman for sex, or engage with a person demanding I pay for this and that. But on the other hand, I have paid for hotels rooms, coffee's and drinks, but that's because AI offered, and wasn't with the expectations of getting some nookie. I've done split down the middle also. There's many factors that would come into it, like who's travelled farthest, how well we knew each other to name a couple. "
Yeah I agree with this. I used to meet someone a lot whose travel was expensive so I’d pay for the hotel etc. And I’ve had meals paid for me but I’ve also paid. To demand it though is different. |
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"It's a tough one, I personally wouldn't pay a woman for sex, or engage with a person demanding I pay for this and that. But on the other hand, I have paid for hotels rooms, coffee's and drinks, but that's because AI offered, and wasn't with the expectations of getting some nookie. I've done split down the middle also. There's many factors that would come into it, like who's travelled farthest, how well we knew each other to name a couple. "
I agree. It's more of a "thing" you arrange between you depending of varying factors, not a demand or requirement. |
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"I feel left out. I never get approached by prostitutes. I can’t say I have ever clicked on a prostitutes profile either.. they must have me blocked "
They just don't take payment in bottles of snake oil  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a tough one, I personally wouldn't pay a woman for sex, or engage with a person demanding I pay for this and that. But on the other hand, I have paid for hotels rooms, coffee's and drinks, but that's because AI offered, and wasn't with the expectations of getting some nookie. I've done split down the middle also. There's many factors that would come into it, like who's travelled farthest, how well we knew each other to name a couple.
Yeah I agree with this. I used to meet someone a lot whose travel was expensive so I’d pay for the hotel etc. And I’ve had meals paid for me but I’ve also paid. To demand it though is different. "
Yes, that is where I'd stand with things really, makes sense. But that's all circumstances at the time and agreement before hand.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I feel left out. I never get approached by prostitutes. I can’t say I have ever clicked on a prostitutes profile either.. they must have me blocked
They just don't take payment in bottles of snake oil "
Pfft no taste  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I feel left out. I never get approached by prostitutes. I can’t say I have ever clicked on a prostitutes profile either.. they must have me blocked "
They must of blocked me too as I've neither been approached or seen these profiles |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a tough one, I personally wouldn't pay a woman for sex, or engage with a person demanding I pay for this and that. But on the other hand, I have paid for hotels rooms, coffee's and drinks, but that's because AI offered, and wasn't with the expectations of getting some nookie. I've done split down the middle also. There's many factors that would come into it, like who's travelled farthest, how well we knew each other to name a couple.
I agree. It's more of a "thing" you arrange between you depending of varying factors, not a demand or requirement. "
Yes, and each situation would be different, and definitely not a demand or requirement from either party. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I can see how it may create a grey area, and the only way to combat that would be to state quite clearly that sex is not guaranteed or possibly even on the cards regardless of if he has paid for XYZ.
I don't think that's wrong as such if that's how someone wants to handle their meets, but it's how it's gone about. If you're chatting to someone with a view to meeting and one party can't afford it til payday say, but the other person says fuck it, don't worry I'll pay then cool. But if it's like a demand then to me it's cringey as fuck, like they think they're better than someone else, so much so they're like a celebrity attending a book signing or some shit they get paid for. I can totally see how that can be misjudged and give men the impression women are prostitutes coz effectively in that demandy scenario they're paying for someone's time.
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Exactly this
Demands on a profile are different to two people deciding between themselves how they are going to sort things like hotel rooms etc. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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I see it as no different and just as bad as the "entitlement" that is often aimed at men that expect meets to be honest.
Agree that each to their own profile and how they manage it, but expecting (as opposed to accepting when offered because a guy *wants to) a guy to pay for everything to me is a form of "entitlement" too. |
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"There are a few female profiles that say I’ll meet in a hotel at your cost. I’ve seen them.
Me too. I think it’s wrong personally.
Me too. But if men are dumb enough to do it then good on them if that’s what they want! I’m the opposite I have to pay half of everything!"
I’ve had a few meets a girl and was asked for a donation. Which I did and still do. Call me stupid if you like but I don’t get any invites any were else.  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"There are a few female profiles that say I’ll meet in a hotel at your cost. I’ve seen them.
Me too. I think it’s wrong personally.
Me too. But if men are dumb enough to do it then good on them if that’s what they want! I’m the opposite I have to pay half of everything!
I’ve had a few meets a girl and was asked for a donation. Which I did and still do. Call me stupid if you like but I don’t get any invites any were else. "
Being asked for a "donation" and it being demanded on a profile that you pay for everything are two slightly different things though - personally I wouldn't entertain the latter but if someone asked me to pay half the costs as part of the discussion about meeting then that is slightly different and would be most welcome - it's what I usually prefer to do anyway. |
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"There are a few female profiles that say I’ll meet in a hotel at your cost. I’ve seen them.
Me too. I think it’s wrong personally.
Me too. But if men are dumb enough to do it then good on them if that’s what they want! I’m the opposite I have to pay half of everything!
I’ve had a few meets a girl and was asked for a donation. Which I did and still do. Call me stupid if you like but I don’t get any invites any were else.
Being asked for a "donation" and it being demanded on a profile that you pay for everything are two slightly different things though - personally I wouldn't entertain the latter but if someone asked me to pay half the costs as part of the discussion about meeting then that is slightly different and would be most welcome - it's what I usually prefer to do anyway."
I don’t mind paying the donation. It’s cheaper than getting an escort and the sex is good but I’d rather not be paying sorry giving a donation. Don’t get me wrong if there are genuine expenses (hotel for one ) I’d be more than happy to pay my share. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"There are a few female profiles that say I’ll meet in a hotel at your cost. I’ve seen them.
Me too. I think it’s wrong personally.
Me too. But if men are dumb enough to do it then good on them if that’s what they want! I’m the opposite I have to pay half of everything!
I’ve had a few meets a girl and was asked for a donation. Which I did and still do. Call me stupid if you like but I don’t get any invites any were else.
Being asked for a "donation" and it being demanded on a profile that you pay for everything are two slightly different things though - personally I wouldn't entertain the latter but if someone asked me to pay half the costs as part of the discussion about meeting then that is slightly different and would be most welcome - it's what I usually prefer to do anyway.
I don’t mind paying the donation. It’s cheaper than getting an escort and the sex is good but I’d rather not be paying sorry giving a donation. Don’t get me wrong if there are genuine expenses (hotel for one ) I’d be more than happy to pay my share. "
Oh you didn't mean a donation to costs? More a "donation"? Then personally not for me and also against site rules |
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"There are a few female profiles that say I’ll meet in a hotel at your cost. I’ve seen them.
Me too. I think it’s wrong personally.
Me too. But if men are dumb enough to do it then good on them if that’s what they want! I’m the opposite I have to pay half of everything!
I’ve had a few meets a girl and was asked for a donation. Which I did and still do. Call me stupid if you like but I don’t get any invites any were else.
Being asked for a "donation" and it being demanded on a profile that you pay for everything are two slightly different things though - personally I wouldn't entertain the latter but if someone asked me to pay half the costs as part of the discussion about meeting then that is slightly different and would be most welcome - it's what I usually prefer to do anyway.
I don’t mind paying the donation. It’s cheaper than getting an escort and the sex is good but I’d rather not be paying sorry giving a donation. Don’t get me wrong if there are genuine expenses (hotel for one ) I’d be more than happy to pay my share.
Oh you didn't mean a donation to costs? More a "donation"? Then personally not for me and also against site rules "
I know but if I didn’t “make a donation” I’d have the choice of seeing escorts (nah) or DIY (getting bored of that) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it understandable
That some men think women on here are just prostitutes when they read profiles of women that state the man must pay for the hotel room or for the social meet, i.e, a meal out?
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It's believable that a small minority of men would judge all women on here by the demands and expectations of a few. Just as a minority of women on here might judge all the men as abusive because of the degrading messages they get from a few...but that doesn't make either judgement understandable to most reasonable people on here...at least I hope it doesn't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No its not understandable that some men think the woman on here are prostitutes just because the small majority of women on her ask for money or gifts.
Iv been offered money several times and absolutely nothing on my profile suggests thats what I'm looking for. |
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"That some men think women on here are just prostitutes when they read profiles of women that state the man must pay for the hotel room or for the social meet, i.e, a meal out?
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A lovely lady I know from here was actually offered money for a meet recently! Interested to find out if this is something you lovely ladies get offered on here and thoughts...
My thoughts FYI very very very odd and very disrespectful.
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"That some men think women on here are just prostitutes when they read profiles of women that state the man must pay for the hotel room or for the social meet, i.e, a meal out?
A lovely lady I know from here was actually offered money for a meet recently! Interested to find out if this is something you lovely ladies get offered on here and thoughts...
My thoughts FYI very very very odd and very disrespectful.
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Yes, we've been offered money and asked what I charge for various sexual favours. Delete! |
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"That some men think women on here are just prostitutes when they read profiles of women that state the man must pay for the hotel room or for the social meet, i.e, a meal out?
A lovely lady I know from here was actually offered money for a meet recently! Interested to find out if this is something you lovely ladies get offered on here and thoughts...
My thoughts FYI very very very odd and very disrespectful.
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Yes its not uncommon and alot of women have these kinds of messages.
Not alot though, iv been here 3 years and probably had 5 or 6 of these. |
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"That some men think women on here are just prostitutes when they read profiles of women that state the man must pay for the hotel room or for the social meet, i.e, a meal out?
A lovely lady I know from here was actually offered money for a meet recently! Interested to find out if this is something you lovely ladies get offered on here and thoughts...
My thoughts FYI very very very odd and very disrespectful.
Yes, we've been offered money and asked what I charge for various sexual favours. Delete! "
Wow, well on behalf of the not so f'd upped guys out there I apologise, pretty new to this but absolutely certain that's not what this site is for. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"No its not understandable that some men think the woman on here are prostitutes just because the small minority of women on her ask for money or gifts.
Iv been offered money several times and absolutely nothing on my profile suggests thats what I'm looking for. "
Of course it's not understandable that anyone should think that, but sadly it happens - likewise to me it's not understandable that anyone should "expect" someone to pay all of the costs of meeting either. |
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"That some men think women on here are just prostitutes when they read profiles of women that state the man must pay for the hotel room or for the social meet, i.e, a meal out?
A lovely lady I know from here was actually offered money for a meet recently! Interested to find out if this is something you lovely ladies get offered on here and thoughts...
My thoughts FYI very very very odd and very disrespectful.
Yes, we've been offered money and asked what I charge for various sexual favours. Delete!
Wow, well on behalf of the not so f'd upped guys out there I apologise, pretty new to this but absolutely certain that's not what this site is for. "
No need to apologise for what is not your fault. That's why there's a delete button and a block button! It's certainly NOT the ethos of the site and it's against the rules to boot, so.......
We just want to have fun times when times aren't Covid-y. Nothing money related. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No its not understandable that some men think the woman on here are prostitutes just because the small minority of women on her ask for money or gifts.
Iv been offered money several times and absolutely nothing on my profile suggests thats what I'm looking for.
Of course it's not understandable that anyone should think that, but sadly it happens - likewise to me it's not understandable that anyone should "expect" someone to pay all of the costs of meeting either."
Or i agree but if people message and exept the terms thats up them like preference i guess. I'm not saying its appropriate on here but I am saying its wrong to assume most women on her are wanting to gain financially or out for that they get based on a tiny percentage of profiles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That some men think women on here are just prostitutes when they read profiles of women that state the man must pay for the hotel room or for the social meet, i.e, a meal out?
A lovely lady I know from here was actually offered money for a meet recently! Interested to find out if this is something you lovely ladies get offered on here and thoughts...
My thoughts FYI very very very odd and very disrespectful.
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Were you thinking it was only your lady friend that had been offered money? |
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"That some men think women on here are just prostitutes when they read profiles of women that state the man must pay for the hotel room or for the social meet, i.e, a meal out?
A lovely lady I know from here was actually offered money for a meet recently! Interested to find out if this is something you lovely ladies get offered on here and thoughts...
My thoughts FYI very very very odd and very disrespectful.
Were you thinking it was only your lady friend that had been offered money?"
Not at all just wanted an idea of how widespread this is. There's plenty of sites out there for that kind of thing if it floats your boat, just didn't think this was one of them but I guess there's no escaping them..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That some men think women on here are just prostitutes when they read profiles of women that state the man must pay for the hotel room or for the social meet, i.e, a meal out?
A lovely lady I know from here was actually offered money for a meet recently! Interested to find out if this is something you lovely ladies get offered on here and thoughts...
My thoughts FYI very very very odd and very disrespectful.
Were you thinking it was only your lady friend that had been offered money?
Not at all just wanted an idea of how widespread this is. There's plenty of sites out there for that kind of thing if it floats your boat, just didn't think this was one of them but I guess there's no escaping them..... "
It doesn't happen that often and there aren't that many profiles asking for gifts, have wishlists ect but like any site it does happen. |
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"That some men think women on here are just prostitutes when they read profiles of women that state the man must pay for the hotel room or for the social meet, i.e, a meal out?
A lovely lady I know from here was actually offered money for a meet recently! Interested to find out if this is something you lovely ladies get offered on here and thoughts...
My thoughts FYI very very very odd and very disrespectful.
Were you thinking it was only your lady friend that had been offered money?
Not at all just wanted an idea of how widespread this is. There's plenty of sites out there for that kind of thing if it floats your boat, just didn't think this was one of them but I guess there's no escaping them.....
It doesn't happen that often and there aren't that many profiles asking for gifts, have wishlists ect but like any site it does happen. "
Fair enough, guess its just an aspect I'm not that used to, another one to add to the list.
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"That some men think women on here are just prostitutes when they read profiles of women that state the man must pay for the hotel room or for the social meet, i.e, a meal out?
A lovely lady I know from here was actually offered money for a meet recently! Interested to find out if this is something you lovely ladies get offered on here and thoughts...
My thoughts FYI very very very odd and very disrespectful.
Were you thinking it was only your lady friend that had been offered money?
Not at all just wanted an idea of how widespread this is. There's plenty of sites out there for that kind of thing if it floats your boat, just didn't think this was one of them but I guess there's no escaping them.....
It doesn't happen that often and there aren't that many profiles asking for gifts, have wishlists ect but like any site it does happen.
Fair enough, guess its just an aspect I'm not that used to, another one to add to the list.
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Its something to be aware of but don't let it spoil your enjoyment of the site. |
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"That some men think women on here are just prostitutes when they read profiles of women that state the man must pay for the hotel room or for the social meet, i.e, a meal out?
A lovely lady I know from here was actually offered money for a meet recently! Interested to find out if this is something you lovely ladies get offered on here and thoughts...
My thoughts FYI very very very odd and very disrespectful.
Were you thinking it was only your lady friend that had been offered money?
Not at all just wanted an idea of how widespread this is. There's plenty of sites out there for that kind of thing if it floats your boat, just didn't think this was one of them but I guess there's no escaping them.....
It doesn't happen that often and there aren't that many profiles asking for gifts, have wishlists ect but like any site it does happen.
Fair enough, guess its just an aspect I'm not that used to, another one to add to the list.
Its something to be aware of but don't let it spoil your enjoyment of the site. "
Thanks, I won't, enjoying the site just trying to get an idea of the messages you ladies get. Can imagine it's a bit much to say the least... |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"No its not understandable that some men think the woman on here are prostitutes just because the small minority of women on her ask for money or gifts.
Iv been offered money several times and absolutely nothing on my profile suggests thats what I'm looking for.
Of course it's not understandable that anyone should think that, but sadly it happens - likewise to me it's not understandable that anyone should "expect" someone to pay all of the costs of meeting either.
Or i agree but if people message and exept the terms thats up them like preference i guess. I'm not saying its appropriate on here but I am saying its wrong to assume most women on her are wanting to gain financially or out for that they get based on a tiny percentage of profiles. "
Of course it's up to the individual whether to accept how someone chooses to run their profile as I said further up - but personally I find a woman "demanding" a guy pay for everything just as "entitled" as a guy "expecting" to get meets just for being on here. |
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By *hav02Man
over a year ago
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Some are into that FinDom lifestyle 
But while there are desperados gagging for attention, the unemployed tax-evading women will take advantage of the free money and gifts. It's a self-perpetuating system. |
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over a year ago
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"Some are into that FinDom lifestyle
But while there are desperados gagging for attention, the unemployed tax-evading women will take advantage of the free money and gifts. It's a self-perpetuating system."
Thats a massive judgement. |
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"That some men think women on here are just prostitutes when they read profiles of women that state the man must pay for the hotel room or for the social meet, i.e, a meal out?
A lovely lady I know from here was actually offered money for a meet recently! Interested to find out if this is something you lovely ladies get offered on here and thoughts...
My thoughts FYI very very very odd and very disrespectful.
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Yes, I've been offered money or the guys who tell me if I meet them how they will 'spoil me generously' |
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"Some are into that FinDom lifestyle
But while there are desperados gagging for attention, the unemployed tax-evading women will take advantage of the free money and gifts. It's a self-perpetuating system."
Just wow |
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I would imagine with the a serious economic down turn and mass redundancies on the card historical trends will continue and we will see more women selling sexual services. People do what they need to survive and because of nature of society as it is there's always been a ready market for women to sell their bodies. Not that I'm anti sex worker, far from it. Just sad that some people find their only option is to do a very personal job that makes them feel horrid about themselves and only done out of complete desperation. |
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"Some are into that FinDom lifestyle
But while there are desperados gagging for attention, the unemployed tax-evading women will take advantage of the free money and gifts. It's a self-perpetuating system."
Just as they do on other sites. Or do some people think Instagram etc are just friendship sites. |
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"That some men think women on here are just prostitutes when they read profiles of women that state the man must pay for the hotel room or for the social meet, i.e, a meal out?
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I imagine they get very confused. Some people appear to be asking for 'gifts' in return for sex. Some people are giving away sex/ sex chat (verifications)/ sex pics/ sex vids .... for free ! |
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"That some men think women on here are just prostitutes when they read profiles of women that state the man must pay for the hotel room or for the social meet, i.e, a meal out?
I imagine they get very confused. Some people appear to be asking for 'gifts' in return for sex. Some people are giving away sex/ sex chat (verifications)/ sex pics/ sex vids .... for free ! "
I demand their soul in payment |
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"That some men think women on here are just prostitutes when they read profiles of women that state the man must pay for the hotel room or for the social meet, i.e, a meal out?
I imagine they get very confused. Some people appear to be asking for 'gifts' in return for sex. Some people are giving away sex/ sex chat (verifications)/ sex pics/ sex vids .... for free !
I demand their soul in payment "
Swingers don't have souls!  |
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"Understandable? Yes in so much as i understand people are a weird bunch. Acceptable? No to a degree and not just because a guy shouldn't treat a woman on here as a prostitute but they shouldn't enable an attitude in someone that says they SHOULD be spoilt. In my view fab and sites like it are for consenting adults to engage in their fantasies. Such a fantasy could of include spoiling or being spoilt but that is a world apart from prostitution which i suppose could form part of a fantasy too but if that's what someone wants then why practice it here? There are red light areas for that. The difficulty is that in any situation where money is involved there is a sense by at least one party that something is owed and as it is not lawful to pay for sex and if the "deal" is not clear then one or more parties can be putting themselves at risk."
Actually in the U.K. you can legally pay for sex. The way some guys on Fab treat women Fabbers with their crude messages they would be better to pay a prostitute in my opinion.
I don’t think that Fab is the right place for them though. |
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"That some men think women on here are just prostitutes when they read profiles of women that state the man must pay for the hotel room or for the social meet, i.e, a meal out?
A lovely lady I know from here was actually offered money for a meet recently! Interested to find out if this is something you lovely ladies get offered on here and thoughts...
My thoughts FYI very very very odd and very disrespectful.
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I have never had this happen over the past years that I have been on Fab but when I re-joined this year I did have one guy message me and ask if I would meet him that day if he paid me. I just blocked him. |
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People that judge the majority on the few aren't that clever are they.
Assuming that all the women on here have a price has nothing to do with the few women that do.
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I'm just an old fashioned guy who expects to pay the bill. Its how I got brought up. I find it awkward if a lady insists on paying. Anyway, that's why women don't have pockets in their dresses, nowhere to put a purse! So the guy has to pay.
I just think, it should be received in the spirit it's given. I don't ever mix up sex and money tho. Some things should always be free  |
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"Some are into that FinDom lifestyle
But while there are desperados gagging for attention, the unemployed tax-evading women will take advantage of the free money and gifts. It's a self-perpetuating system."
Sex work is real work |
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"That some men think women on here are just prostitutes when they read profiles of women that state the man must pay for the hotel room or for the social meet, i.e, a meal out?
A lovely lady I know from here was actually offered money for a meet recently! Interested to find out if this is something you lovely ladies get offered on here and thoughts...
My thoughts FYI very very very odd and very disrespectful.
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If I go a month without being offered money it's rare.
I must either have the look of 'desperate for money' or a 'Jack the Ripper target' |
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