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Not burn out, but my world fell apart exactly 4 years ago today, I've been varying degrees of F.I.N.E. ever since. Every day is a struggle one way or another and the best I can do is endure it day by day.
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"That day when you've just had enough and are F.I.N.E?  "
For me, it was specifically yesterday. I burst into tears in a meeting because of the ridiculous bullshit being spouted. I can normally cope with the stress but yesterday was too much. I've worked every day for the past several weeks, including enough unpaid extra to give me more than a week of TOIL. I'm knackered  |
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"Not burn out, but my world fell apart exactly 4 years ago today, I've been varying degrees of F.I.N.E. ever since. Every day is a struggle one way or another and the best I can do is endure it day by day.
Stay strong and stay safe OP "
Struggles..just wear you out. I know mine did me but mine were 'fixable'. Hope you keep strong and safe too x
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"That day when you've just had enough and are F.I.N.E?
For me, it was specifically yesterday. I burst into tears in a meeting because of the ridiculous bullshit being spouted. I can normally cope with the stress but yesterday was too much. I've worked every day for the past several weeks, including enough unpaid extra to give me more than a week of TOIL. I'm knackered "
We all have our breaking points, sorry to see you have reached yours. Hopefully something good can come out of it x |
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"That day when you've just had enough and are F.I.N.E?
For me, it was specifically yesterday. I burst into tears in a meeting because of the ridiculous bullshit being spouted. I can normally cope with the stress but yesterday was too much. I've worked every day for the past several weeks, including enough unpaid extra to give me more than a week of TOIL. I'm knackered
We all have our breaking points, sorry to see you have reached yours. Hopefully something good can come out of it x"
They reluctantly agreed to two days TOIL, why is way less than I'm due. I also have 22/30 days hols to use before the end of 2020 but no solution for how to cover my job if I take time off. So no, they haven't grasped it yet. I'm much better today - nothing has changed but had online lessons today and the students are just lovely, so that cheered me up. |
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"Not burn out, but my world fell apart exactly 4 years ago today, I've been varying degrees of F.I.N.E. ever since. Every day is a struggle one way or another and the best I can do is endure it day by day.
Stay strong and stay safe OP
Struggles..just wear you out. I know mine did me but mine were 'fixable'. Hope you keep strong and safe too x
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Thank you Anabelle, I expected today would be a bad day but it's been ok, I have enough strength to stay safe |
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"That day when you've just had enough and are F.I.N.E?
For me, it was specifically yesterday. I burst into tears in a meeting because of the ridiculous bullshit being spouted. I can normally cope with the stress but yesterday was too much. I've worked every day for the past several weeks, including enough unpaid extra to give me more than a week of TOIL. I'm knackered
We all have our breaking points, sorry to see you have reached yours. Hopefully something good can come out of it x
They reluctantly agreed to two days TOIL, why is way less than I'm due. I also have 22/30 days hols to use before the end of 2020 but no solution for how to cover my job if I take time off. So no, they haven't grasped it yet. I'm much better today - nothing has changed but had online lessons today and the students are just lovely, so that cheered me up. "
I'm not familiar with toil but I am with the holiday situation. I actually managed to get a whole week of soon....can't wait for it!
I'm glad today was better for you. People really can make all the difference sometimes when your having a crappy day.
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"Not burn out, but my world fell apart exactly 4 years ago today, I've been varying degrees of F.I.N.E. ever since. Every day is a struggle one way or another and the best I can do is endure it day by day.
Stay strong and stay safe OP
Struggles..just wear you out. I know mine did me but mine were 'fixable'. Hope you keep strong and safe too x
Thank you Anabelle, I expected today would be a bad day but it's been ok, I have enough strength to stay safe "
Good. I'ts always a bonus when it's not as bad as we think it will be. |
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"That day when you've just had enough and are F.I.N.E?
For me, it was specifically yesterday. I burst into tears in a meeting because of the ridiculous bullshit being spouted. I can normally cope with the stress but yesterday was too much. I've worked every day for the past several weeks, including enough unpaid extra to give me more than a week of TOIL. I'm knackered
We all have our breaking points, sorry to see you have reached yours. Hopefully something good can come out of it x
They reluctantly agreed to two days TOIL, why is way less than I'm due. I also have 22/30 days hols to use before the end of 2020 but no solution for how to cover my job if I take time off. So no, they haven't grasped it yet. I'm much better today - nothing has changed but had online lessons today and the students are just lovely, so that cheered me up.
I'm not familiar with toil but I am with the holiday situation. I actually managed to get a whole week of soon....can't wait for it!
I'm glad today was better for you. People really can make all the difference sometimes when your having a crappy day.
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TOIL = time off in lieu. Offered because we can't get paid overtime. I work extra all the time, but it got stupid last week/weekend and so I claimed it back for the first time ever. I might as well have asked to shit on the manager's desk |
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Love to anyone struggling.
I seem to have hit mine today
Work is just so stressful and I'm in pain. Normally cope with one or the other, sometimes both
This week it's been constant. I got in the car and had an emotional crisis, kind of done with the World tonight. No more fucks to give |
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"That day when you've just had enough and are F.I.N.E?
For me, it was specifically yesterday. I burst into tears in a meeting because of the ridiculous bullshit being spouted. I can normally cope with the stress but yesterday was too much. I've worked every day for the past several weeks, including enough unpaid extra to give me more than a week of TOIL. I'm knackered
We all have our breaking points, sorry to see you have reached yours. Hopefully something good can come out of it x
They reluctantly agreed to two days TOIL, why is way less than I'm due. I also have 22/30 days hols to use before the end of 2020 but no solution for how to cover my job if I take time off. So no, they haven't grasped it yet. I'm much better today - nothing has changed but had online lessons today and the students are just lovely, so that cheered me up.
I'm not familiar with toil but I am with the holiday situation. I actually managed to get a whole week of soon....can't wait for it!
I'm glad today was better for you. People really can make all the difference sometimes when your having a crappy day.
TOIL = time off in lieu. Offered because we can't get paid overtime. I work extra all the time, but it got stupid last week/weekend and so I claimed it back for the first time ever. I might as well have asked to shit on the manager's desk "
Couldn't shit on my mangers desk ould you. That thought made me smile 
Ah TOIl...got you.
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"Love to anyone struggling.
I seem to have hit mine today
Work is just so stressful and I'm in pain. Normally cope with one or the other, sometimes both
This week it's been constant. I got in the car and had an emotional crisis, kind of done with the World tonight. No more fucks to give "
Bloody hell that sounds like a rough day x
Yee. Big hugs to anyone feeling stressed and having a tough time. And a big one from me for you xx |
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"Love to anyone struggling.
I seem to have hit mine today
Work is just so stressful and I'm in pain. Normally cope with one or the other, sometimes both
This week it's been constant. I got in the car and had an emotional crisis, kind of done with the World tonight. No more fucks to give "
Totally empathise, hugs to you  |
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"Love to anyone struggling.
I seem to have hit mine today
Work is just so stressful and I'm in pain. Normally cope with one or the other, sometimes both
This week it's been constant. I got in the car and had an emotional crisis, kind of done with the World tonight. No more fucks to give
Bloody hell that sounds like a rough day x
Yee. Big hugs to anyone feeling stressed and having a tough time. And a big one from me for you xx"
That is very much appreciated, thank you lovely xx |
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"Love to anyone struggling.
I seem to have hit mine today
Work is just so stressful and I'm in pain. Normally cope with one or the other, sometimes both
This week it's been constant. I got in the car and had an emotional crisis, kind of done with the World tonight. No more fucks to give
Totally empathise, hugs to you "
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Hey just wanted to say to everyone, the bad times never last forever.
The most important thing is being able to express yourself honestly, and not hold in any stress. Sometimes we aren't asking for the solution to our problems but actually wanting people to just listen to what we need to say.
Which is why sometimes the best thing to do is just listen and let people express their feelings. Feeling mentally isolated with those horrible feelings is what destroys people. So wanna help people? Just sit down and let them speak.
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"Hey just wanted to say to everyone, the bad times never last forever.
The most important thing is being able to express yourself honestly, and not hold in any stress. Sometimes we aren't asking for the solution to our problems but actually wanting people to just listen to what we need to say.
Which is why sometimes the best thing to do is just listen and let people express their feelings. Feeling mentally isolated with those horrible feelings is what destroys people. So wanna help people? Just sit down and let them speak.
Be good people "
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