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Tell me a reason why you're proud of yourself...

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Okayyyy.

Mine is that I have PTSD and one of my triggers for twelve years was a particular song that I would go straight into flashbacks and panic attacks mode when I heard just a tiny snippet. That's gradually gone away to the stage where it's just been on the radio and I had zero reaction to it. Yay for me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I raise 5 children on my own and run a business I think I'm doing ok and I'm proud of that

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By *argaryen starkCouple over a year ago

pinxton

I have donated blood 74 times

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just bought my first home, in a job I like and everything is peachy for the first time in quite a while.

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By *heslimoneMan over a year ago

Deeside

I manage to roll out of bed every morning and fully cloth myself, sometimes with matching socks

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Okayyyy.

Oh that's brilliant. Well done you xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I raise 5 children on my own and run a business I think I'm doing ok and I'm proud of that "

I read children as chickens

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Okayyyy.

Oh that's brilliant. Well done you xx"

Thank you! Simply The Best by Tina Turner. Of all the songs in all the world...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm two years sober next month.

Hubby is treating cancer with the contempt it deserves.

These two things make me happy

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By *harAndBryCouple over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

I'm proud that I'm still around! There's been many times that I haven't wanted to be. I've been through a lot. Most recently, I had bowel cancer. I'm not 100% well, but the cancer has gone. It made me realise what's important. I'm very happy with my life now

Char

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I raise 5 children on my own and run a business I think I'm doing ok and I'm proud of that

I read children as chickens

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they have me running around like a headless chicken at times

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have just started the job of my dreams a month ago, when 15 months ago I no longer wanted to walk on this earth anymore.

To all those single parents, to all those who have conquered a phobia or a panic trigger, to all those who have and still do beat the 'black dog' down. I salute you all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Okayyyy.

Im not.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman over a year ago

I've texted someone after 4 years of plucking up the courage.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because I have Schizophrenia, Depression and Anxiety

and everyone hates me because of them

even my own family

I have no friends no fuck buddies

and I bet no one could walk or even survive a day in my shoes

and I just breeze by like it's nothing while most people would commit suicide

that about sums it up

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I do no harm.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I feel pride for other people’s Achievements who are close to me, it’s not an emotion I feel about myself, probably the nearest I’ve come is when I’ve finished a job and it looks good and the costumer is pleased, but that’s more a sense of satisfaction more than anything else.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nowt today in particular for me. Well done though OP, I'm proud of YOU....

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By *oxyvixen99Woman over a year ago

Newtownabbey

"I do no harm. "
love this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This morning I looked at a picture of my son and smiled instead of tears.

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By *oxychicWoman over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

"This morning I looked at a picture of my son and smiled instead of tears."
awwww that's great

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This morning I looked at a picture of my son and smiled instead of tears. awwww that's great

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've raised a smart, kind and talented little girl completely on my own..

Everyday she fills me with pride. I adore her more than anything. She is the reason i am still alive..

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By *ionelhutzMan over a year ago

liverpool

"I'm two years sober next month.

Hubby is treating cancer with the contempt it deserves.

These two things make me happy "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Serving in the military even though i've left im still very proud of myself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In the past 9 years of my life atleast 1 person I love dearly has died, in total 13 people, I have had to pull a knife out the back of my uncles head as a wee boy, I’ve been decieved , lied to, neglected and forgotten about a lot recently, last month my best friend committed suicide, which was very sudden, I lost both of my jobs as soon as lockdown happened and just last week I had to move out of my flat, am signed off for my new job that I just got my full contract in because my hand is broken and has pins hanging out of it as support, and I was left just over last month by my partner because she couldn’t deal with my constant feelings of depression , and I will admit I tried some silly things that I will not repeat again, but at the end of the day I’m not stopping now, I’m still diligently working my way through uni studying psychology and criminology , and I’m not going to let those thoughts and events take over me , sorry this is a bit full on but ack well it’s always good to get you’re thoughts out there x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This morning I looked at a picture of my son and smiled instead of tears."

xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m on my way to starting my own business.

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"This morning I looked at a picture of my son and smiled instead of tears."

That got me fighting back more than I was expecting

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By *hrista BellendWoman over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

because I refused to let them break me now matter how hard they tried

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Going from a downtrodden, abused and insecure woman, to an absolute QUEEN

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By *ecadent_DevonMan over a year ago

Okehampton

Today I put together a “pamper package” for my friend who has been shielding after cancer treatment. Lots of odds and ends put in to bring a smile to her face. So from miniature bottles of Prosecco to scented candles and a few lotions and potions from lush and the occasional bag of vegan candies.

I put it all in a “fat balls” bird food box because it made me laugh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m fighting a lot of things just now, but I’m not losing myself doing it. I’m proud of that.

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By *rHotNottsMan over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Have 3 amazing daughters , all making good decisions regarding men, finance, education, career, I think I can relax a bit now....

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By *melia DominaTV/TS over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

Dropped my works email from 113 to 18 from yesterday to today....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm smiling and for the most part I'm happy. I'm gradually finding my feet again after a pretty rough year.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Okayyyy.

This is amazing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m proud of myself for not retaliating to someone’s cuntyness today

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I've chipped away every day during the pandemic to improve the lives of forgotten vulnerable people. I've kept myself alone, even when I didn't have to, because every interaction increases our danger and makes this all last longer. When I had a suspected case I only saw medical staff for two solid months so I killed the curve. I've decided to stay the course here rather than flee back to my family, even when my family have been very ill and I knew I'd have to handle that alone.

I have my own frailties. I am tired. I am weakened. My resolve is unbroken. I will do the right thing.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS over a year ago

Cheshire

Dealt with my divorce well, new town, job, home and friends. Kept a good relationship with my ex wife so we don’t argue over anything.

But most of all my Lads, both Autistic I surprised them last week by turning up at their home (my ex suggestion) and jumping out from the kitchen to scare them. As they entered the hall way I heard my youngest say ‘are we going to Dads now’ in an excitable tone, then when I jumped out, they were both over the moon to see me.

I’m proud I carried on and maintained those relationships, at my lowest I had considered other outcomes.

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By *onty1971Man over a year ago

London St Helier Trier

That is brilliant. Well done. I think it must have been very hard. Stay good.

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By *onty1971Man over a year ago

London St Helier Trier

"I raise 5 children on my own and run a business I think I'm doing ok and I'm proud of that "

That is amazing. Hats off to you.

I fear the day my kids might have me as a sole parent.

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By *onty1971Man over a year ago

London St Helier Trier

"I have donated blood 74 times"

Wish I could. Even registered for a Doner card but they are not really interested in me. Because I have lived for more than 6 months in the UK I might carry Mad Cow Disease. As there is no test. No blood donations please nor organ transplants as a donor. FFS.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because I have moral standards and will sacrifice myself for anybody in need. Yes I'm a deviant for swinging but my moral compass is strong and in normal life im the best friend you could ever have.

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By * Lexi xWoman over a year ago

stockport

I’ve kept my cool, didn’t retaliate and now enjoying the comeuppance.

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By *onty1971Man over a year ago

London St Helier Trier

This is a heart breaking and amazing thread. Thanks OP. You all rock. Keep it up.

I thought my achievement was something. To me it is. But I stand here and salute you all, for what you have acheived. Stand tall folks.

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By *he BWCMan over a year ago

Stafford

I saved a colleagues life after he collapsed from what I didn't know was a blood clot to his heart. 25 minutes of cpr and fitted a defibrillator and shocked him twice. Kept him alive and breathing until the ambulance arrived.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I saved a colleagues life after he collapsed from what I didn't know was a blood clot to his heart. 25 minutes of cpr and fitted a defibrillator and shocked him twice. Kept him alive and breathing until the ambulance arrived. "

Oh shit. Bravo to you

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

I had my son at 16, started my levels when he was 2wks old, went to uni when he was 3 and graduated when he was 6. I acquired a disability nearly 4 years ago but despite all the above, have pursued a successful career and am a department manager in a college. I'm proud of my drive and perseverance

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I got a 2g mobile. Life is a lot simpler now.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I fought my way out of agraphobia.

I live with depression,grief and loneliness but still get out of bed every morning to face rejection on this site.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Okayyyy.

That is brilliant...I had similar..beautiful piece of music but hear it and it would break me wherever I was..so one day I bought the cd and played it over and over until one day I stopped crying..so I understand how hard that was for you...BIG WELL DONE

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I survived an emotionally abusive marriage, managed to instill I’m my kids that how I was treated isn’t the right way for a man to treat a woman. Helped see them through the trauma of what’s happened to them as well as dealing with my own. And have 3 thoughtful and caring young adults I’m proud to say are my children x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've stopped 4 complete strangers on different occasions from committing suicide. They still keep in touch and they are all in loving relationships now.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My drive and determination never wavers. My motivation might, my mood most certainly does but when I put my mind to something that determination never waivers.

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