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over a year ago
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You have to make yourself stand out!
I do it by making sexist comments and then offering a feel you better hug, so it makes it seem like I'm a nice person! |
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over a year ago
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"You have to make yourself stand out!
I do it by making sexist comments and then offering a feel you better hug, so it makes it seem like I'm a nice person!"
I just get my lils out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Same for a lot of people WD. I can’t find what I want either. Don’t give up x
I went over a year without meeting at one point. Happens to most of us. "
Same. Not that bothered though. I could meet if I wanted to. Just want the right person  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whoever came up with “patience is key” needs their head wobbled. Focus man! Focus is key "
Yeah, I call bullshit on the patience is key mantra, our time is fleeting, we are nothing but shadows on the wall, all things must pass. |
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"Whoever came up with “patience is key” needs their head wobbled. Focus man! Focus is key
Yeah, I call bullshit on the patience is key mantra, our time is fleeting, we are nothing but shadows on the wall, all things must pass."
Ok. Come here I want you NOW |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whoever came up with “patience is key” needs their head wobbled. Focus man! Focus is key
Wait until Shag can start posting again "
It’s probably his next status update after what are your Saturday night plans?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Whoever came up with “patience is key” needs their head wobbled. Focus man! Focus is key
Wait until Shag can start posting again
It’s probably his next status update after what are your Saturday night plans?!"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the support guys I get loads of messages from guys and loads and loads from tv/ts they seem to like the hairy dad bod look but from women not so much and I dont like to send messages looking like some kinda sex pest so I tend to just fab a picture or maybe send a message with a simple compliment |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Whoever came up with “patience is key” needs their head wobbled. Focus man! Focus is key
Yeah, I call bullshit on the patience is key mantra, our time is fleeting, we are nothing but shadows on the wall, all things must pass.
Ok. Come here I want you NOW"
*Fires up the Ford Focus* |
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"Whoever came up with “patience is key” needs their head wobbled. Focus man! Focus is key
Wait until Shag can start posting again "
Well you can tell shag that line from a film. “You can either let it happen or make it happen”.
Sitting around waiting for snow or go to Lapland? |
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It's just not the best time is it!
Peeps maybe don't want to start chatting since they don't want to meet...understandably.
Yes, its frustrating but moaning won't win you brownie points either, I mean this in the nicest possible way WD
Jo x |
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"Thanks for the support guys I get loads of messages from guys and loads and loads from tv/ts they seem to like the hairy dad bod look but from women not so much and I dont like to send messages looking like some kinda sex pest so I tend to just fab a picture or maybe send a message with a simple compliment "
You're very unlikely to get a meet just from fabbing pictures. If your message is polite you're not being a sex pest so don't worry about that. Just send them then forget about them so any response is a bonus. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Whoever came up with “patience is key” needs their head wobbled. Focus man! Focus is key
Yeah, I call bullshit on the patience is key mantra, our time is fleeting, we are nothing but shadows on the wall, all things must pass.
Ok. Come here I want you NOW
*Fires up the Ford Focus*"
See you in 6 hours. I’ll have a fishfinger sandwich and a cuppa ready |
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I have the same problem. Polite happy and respectful. Some polite no's or not for me which is fine but i get ignored alot or just deleted. I understand it cant be helped sometimes but everyone says put effort in. When i do i get shot down in flames so to speak |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Whoever came up with “patience is key” needs their head wobbled. Focus man! Focus is key
Yeah, I call bullshit on the patience is key mantra, our time is fleeting, we are nothing but shadows on the wall, all things must pass.
Ok. Come here I want you NOW
*Fires up the Ford Focus*
See you in 6 hours. I’ll have a fishfinger sandwich and a cuppa ready "
How did she know those are my two favourite things, think she’s a keeper this one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Whoever came up with “patience is key” needs their head wobbled. Focus man! Focus is key
Yeah, I call bullshit on the patience is key mantra, our time is fleeting, we are nothing but shadows on the wall, all things must pass.
Ok. Come here I want you NOW
*Fires up the Ford Focus*
See you in 6 hours. I’ll have a fishfinger sandwich and a cuppa ready
How did she know those are my two favourite things, think she’s a keeper this one. "
There’s not much Nora doesn’t know  |
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"Thanks for the support guys I get loads of messages from guys and loads and loads from tv/ts they seem to like the hairy dad bod look but from women not so much and I dont like to send messages looking like some kinda sex pest so I tend to just fab a picture or maybe send a message with a simple compliment
You're very unlikely to get a meet just from fabbing pictures. If your message is polite you're not being a sex pest so don't worry about that. Just send them then forget about them so any response is a bonus. "
This is nice advise. But its not good trying and getting nowhere |
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"I give up I think I should turn bi I'm sure I'd get more luck or at least fab straight women just don't seem to want me  "
Just fab BS unfortunately... Send messages and they never even get read etc Dont let it get you down, as said above, have patience. The patience of a saint and, one day, you might be lucky!!  |
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Question for you mate.
What would you do if you weren’t on fab, because you can always still do that and remember that I’m sure something is bound to come along.
Don’t chase a dream, just be ready to grab it when it comes.
I’ll go back to being my dickish self now.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let’s all have a sing along, you know the tune
Whiny, unhappy people,
Whinny, unhappy people (not) holding glands...."
Oh look, the Bloke in a couple chirping up |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's just not the best time is it!
Peeps maybe don't want to start chatting since they don't want to meet...understandably.
Yes, its frustrating but moaning won't win you brownie points either, I mean this in the nicest possible way WD
Jo x"
I know you love me jo that's all that matters xxx |
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"I have the same problem. Polite happy and respectful. Some polite no's or not for me which is fine but i get ignored alot or just deleted. I understand it cant be helped sometimes but everyone says put effort in. When i do i get shot down in flames so to speak"
Then don’t hang your hope on a virtual message, sent to an unknown on the internet. We create our own disappointment in this life, build your profile as best you can, put photos out there that make you feel confident and desirable and let them come to you.
It is a fools hope to be eager on here, just be you, probably a nice kind gent with a few quirks and kinks that SOME people may find desirable. If you must send a message, don’t invest your happiness in it, enjoy the moment of crafting a saucy message to a random on the internet and playing with the potential.
I often think that once a month, for a week, single guys shouldn’t be able to send a message first, I wonder whether this would even the flow, so to speak and promote greater discourse.
Stay sane! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I give up I think I should turn bi I'm sure I'd get more luck or at least fab straight women just don't seem to want me "
You need to get yourself out there in a positive and respectful manner.
Try posting on the forums more.
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"Question for you mate.
What would you do if you weren’t on fab, because you can always still do that and remember that I’m sure something is bound to come along.
Don’t chase a dream, just be ready to grab it when it comes.
I’ll go back to being my dickish self now. "
Good advice , remember you’ll never get a bargain if you don't even go to sales.... but if you go the sales you may get more than you bargained for ( famous Chinese proverb) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't rely on fab for sexual attention. It'll probably wreck your self esteem too. "
This^
Plus, as already pointed out by some wise wizard, the patience thing really is utter bullshit along with so much of the universal one size fits all fab forum wisdom spouted by ppl trying to get a shag from pretty ladies and/or gents! Take time thinking about what you realistically want to achieve and what will make you happy, then take EVEN MORE time creating a plan to achieve it along with fab domination! Then when you're ready - execute it and enjoy!
Stand out in a good way.....  |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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"I give up I think I should turn bi I'm sure I'd get more luck or at least fab straight women just don't seem to want me "
From my experience most women don't appreciate whining and a "woe is me" attitude, Op. The more often you come across like this the harder they'll avoid.
Have you also considered that given current circumstances there's no incentive for messaging new people either as even if there's interest you might no be able to act on it for a while? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let’s all have a sing along, you know the tune
Whiny, unhappy people,
Whinny, unhappy people (not) holding glands...."
Ha ha I’m a big fan of humor.
Liked the holding glands bit.
Good band though.
T |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Coming back to this. And this is full of assumptions!
Don't rely on fab for your self esteem.
Having low self esteem sucks. I know, I have both been there and done that, but shallow attention on fab won't cure it a bit, especially if you're a man. Work on your esteem, give yourself your own confidence and it'll become less important on fab. |
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You come on here to meet people? I thought this is where people gathered to just talk about sex and get horny perving at pics and videos of things you only read about in your dad's vintage porn mag collection. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I give up I think I should turn bi I'm sure I'd get more luck or at least fab straight women just don't seem to want me "
Hhhmm.......Whada mean?
I sent you all those "special" videos, and private pic's
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No expectations is key. I enjoy the forum and the chats I have on messaging. At the moment I'm not particularly looking as I wouldn't be meeting anyway. I'm not thinking I've got to have a meet or I've got to generate interest. Just taking it easy, going with the flow and seeing what happens. Anything else is a bonus. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Didn't realise you were back Wookiedad! Lovely to see you again xx I've been back a week or so now I have fabbed a couple of your pictures xx  "
Thanks! Glad you're back, chin up though, I'm sure lots of people just aren't looking to meet at the mo so there's not much point messaging new people x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No point letting Fab get you down OP, its takes a very long time to show your personality on the forums but eventually people come to see the type of person you are and it becomes attractive to them, after that life on fab becomes far easier. I don't think a single woman spoke to me on fab for around 8 months but as I came with no expectations it made it much easier to accept, so I changed tac and used the forums to solely to amuse myself. If it is truly eating at you then maybe a break for a week or two would help. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When you really want to do other things in life and struggle, do you just say "I give up" and does saying that make you more likely to achieve them? Make your words and actions more positive and assertive and goal oriented. Courting pity and sympathy on the forum's brings a lot of chat and online friendships for a fella I'm sure, but I doubt a lot of shags....? |
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"You come on here to meet people? I thought this is where people gathered to just talk about sex and get horny perving at pics and videos of things you only read about in your dad's vintage porn mag collection. "
This is mostly what I do . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Didn't realise you were back Wookiedad! Lovely to see you again xx I've been back a week or so now I have fabbed a couple of your pictures xx
Thanks! Glad you're back, chin up though, I'm sure lots of people just aren't looking to meet at the mo so there's not much point messaging new people x"
I'm not to fussed about meeting I just love a good flirt the meetings will happen at some point in the future after that x |
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"Think of it like playing the slot machines, every once in a while youll win..meanwhile just keep tugging "
or even worse, the 10 p machines... ya think you gona get a win when the coins fall down... but you don't  |
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"You come on here to meet people? I thought this is where people gathered to just talk about sex and get horny perving at pics and videos of things you only read about in your dad's vintage porn mag collection.
This is mostly what I do . "
The best thing is you don't even have to get dressed up, pay for drinks/food and at the end of it you've still emptied the tank |
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"You come on here to meet people? I thought this is where people gathered to just talk about sex and get horny perving at pics and videos of things you only read about in your dad's vintage porn mag collection.
This is mostly what I do .
The best thing is you don't even have to get dressed up, pay for drinks/food and at the end of it you've still emptied the tank"
I just need to perfect the art of spooning myself after. |
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"You come on here to meet people? I thought this is where people gathered to just talk about sex and get horny perving at pics and videos of things you only read about in your dad's vintage porn mag collection.
This is mostly what I do .
The best thing is you don't even have to get dressed up, pay for drinks/food and at the end of it you've still emptied the tank
I just need to perfect the art of spooning myself after. "
If you're double jointed or especially flexible you may be just manage it, if not then give it up as a lost cause and be the big spoon to a pillow |
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Weird isn't it, I probably wouldn't want to meet someone that was actively wanting or searching to meet. It wouldn't feel like it was naturally developed if that makes sense. Would feel more like "I want to meet because I want sex, you'll do"
I prefer to decide after seeing forum posts and a wider range of subjects covered as to whether I'd think we were compatible in the convo and brain department, coz the company kept for me is more important than the sex itself |
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"Weird isn't it, I probably wouldn't want to meet someone that was actively wanting or searching to meet. It wouldn't feel like it was naturally developed if that makes sense. Would feel more like "I want to meet because I want sex, you'll do"
I prefer to decide after seeing forum posts and a wider range of subjects covered as to whether I'd think we were compatible in the convo and brain department, coz the company kept for me is more important than the sex itself "
You mean diy skills don't you? |
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"Weird isn't it, I probably wouldn't want to meet someone that was actively wanting or searching to meet. It wouldn't feel like it was naturally developed if that makes sense. Would feel more like "I want to meet because I want sex, you'll do"
I prefer to decide after seeing forum posts and a wider range of subjects covered as to whether I'd think we were compatible in the convo and brain department, coz the company kept for me is more important than the sex itself "
I agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I give up I think I should turn bi I'm sure I'd get more luck or at least fab straight women just don't seem to want me
From my experience most women don't appreciate whining and a "woe is me" attitude, Op. The more often you come across like this the harder they'll avoid.
Have you also considered that given current circumstances there's no incentive for messaging new people either as even if there's interest you might no be able to act on it for a while?"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Don't give up! Shame we're not nearer to you 
A lot of people aren't meeting due to Covid too."
be nice to be able to just flirt and build from there |
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"I give up I think I should turn bi I'm sure I'd get more luck or at least fab straight women just don't seem to want me "
That's one thing I can't bring myself to do - I don't think I could cope with being rejected by men as well as women....   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I give up I think I should turn bi I'm sure I'd get more luck or at least fab straight women just don't seem to want me
areyou giving me eyes x "
Maybe.. |
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"Thanks for the support guys I get loads of messages from guys and loads and loads from tv/ts they seem to like the hairy dad bod look but from women not so much and I dont like to send messages looking like some kinda sex pest so I tend to just fab a picture or maybe send a message with a simple compliment "
I get a lot of this too. Keep wondering if the Aether is trying to tell me something... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Weird isn't it, I probably wouldn't want to meet someone that was actively wanting or searching to meet. It wouldn't feel like it was naturally developed if that makes sense.
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Would feel more like "I want to meet because I want sex, you'll do"
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I prefer to decide after seeing forum posts and a wider range of subjects covered as to whether I'd think we were compatible in the convo and brain department, coz the company kept for me is more important than the sex itself "
*** I feel like they only mail me for that reason all the time. Not just this pandemic year. |
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"Thanks for the support guys I get loads of messages from guys and loads and loads from tv/ts they seem to like the hairy dad bod look but from women not so much and I dont like to send messages looking like some kinda sex pest so I tend to just fab a picture or maybe send a message with a simple compliment
You're very unlikely to get a meet just from fabbing pictures. If your message is polite you're not being a sex pest so don't worry about that. Just send them then forget about them so any response is a bonus.
This is nice advise. But its not good trying and getting nowhere"
Thing Is the numbers of messages women get it really wouldn’t b get noticed ... Hundreds of messages and I’m being honest I don’t ever check winks. Persistence is key to be fair ....... I often lose people I would have chatted with due to sheer volume. Which has its own frustrations believe me |
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So what or who is it you're looking for?
Be truthful.
Fact is even though people have been meeting, they shouldn't have been, so no, you've not missed out, you've not been unlucky.
Many peoples heads are in forum thread mode rather than 1-1 convo mode, and this IS because of covid. Starting chatting to someone with a view to meeting WILL make you then feel like you're missing out if you can't meet due to restrictions or then if it fizzles out over time you'll feel bad because of that. That will frustrate you more I would imagine than not getting messages.
I reckon your best bet is to do what most sensible people have done and write this year off as far as meeting or connection making goes, and wait until the organised socials are back up and running. |
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I think for me its the friendships I've made over the last 2yrs thats been the most important to me, I know what the site is here for but I'd say most of the girls I chat too don't remotely see me in that way if not all of them.
There friendships are more precious to me as God knows I've needed them over the last 12 months and more now than ever.
Perhaps its my age or the fact I know I'm not as attractive to the girls as younger guys but despite my cheeky nature and the fact that I'm still a horny devil I'm less bothered about sexy meets but do cherish my tiny group of girl friends on my list. If you can alter your expectations and gain friends like mine then rich will you be my friend |
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"I think for me its the friendships I've made over the last 2yrs thats been the most important to me, I know what the site is here for but I'd say most of the girls I chat too don't remotely see me in that way if not all of them.
There friendships are more precious to me as God knows I've needed them over the last 12 months and more now than ever.
Perhaps its my age or the fact I know I'm not as attractive to the girls as younger guys but despite my cheeky nature and the fact that I'm still a horny devil I'm less bothered about sexy meets but do cherish my tiny group of girl friends on my list. If you can alter your expectations and gain friends like mine then rich will you be my friend "
Bonding not bondage |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"So what or who is it you're looking for?
Be truthful.
Fact is even though people have been meeting, they shouldn't have been, so no, you've not missed out, you've not been unlucky.
Many peoples heads are in forum thread mode rather than 1-1 convo mode, and this IS because of covid. Starting chatting to someone with a view to meeting WILL make you then feel like you're missing out if you can't meet due to restrictions or then if it fizzles out over time you'll feel bad because of that. That will frustrate you more I would imagine than not getting messages.
I reckon your best bet is to do what most sensible people have done and write this year off as far as meeting or connection making goes, and wait until the organised socials are back up and running. "
Well stated and completely agree |
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"I think for me its the friendships I've made over the last 2yrs thats been the most important to me, I know what the site is here for but I'd say most of the girls I chat too don't remotely see me in that way if not all of them.
There friendships are more precious to me as God knows I've needed them over the last 12 months and more now than ever.
Perhaps its my age or the fact I know I'm not as attractive to the girls as younger guys but despite my cheeky nature and the fact that I'm still a horny devil I'm less bothered about sexy meets but do cherish my tiny group of girl friends on my list. If you can alter your expectations and gain friends like mine then rich will you be my friend
Bonding not bondage "
You always leave me tongue tied PP xx |
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"So what or who is it you're looking for?
Be truthful.
Fact is even though people have been meeting, they shouldn't have been, so no, you've not missed out, you've not been unlucky.
Many peoples heads are in forum thread mode rather than 1-1 convo mode, and this IS because of covid. Starting chatting to someone with a view to meeting WILL make you then feel like you're missing out if you can't meet due to restrictions or then if it fizzles out over time you'll feel bad because of that. That will frustrate you more I would imagine than not getting messages.
I reckon your best bet is to do what most sensible people have done and write this year off as far as meeting or connection making goes, and wait until the organised socials are back up and running.
Well stated and completely agree "
Thank you. I do have sense at times. Rare, I know. |
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"Thanks for the support guys I get loads of messages from guys and loads and loads from tv/ts they seem to like the hairy dad bod look but from women not so much and I dont like to send messages looking like some kinda sex pest so I tend to just fab a picture or maybe send a message with a simple compliment "
You can message me anytime |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sorry but your profile seems thrown together in minutes ie straight looking for tv/ts ? Your single looking for separate room swapping? Your status says what does a guy have to do to get sexual attention a bit of thought in your profile may help this is an observation not criticism |
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"I give up I think I should turn bi I'm sure I'd get more luck or at least fab straight women just don't seem to want me "
I know you haven't asked for profile advice, so I shouldn't really give any...But I would remove the references to being a widower..it may well be putting lady's off...I speak from experience as a widow myself...I find telling people my husband died is a conversation killer in all walks of life... |
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"I have the same problem. Polite happy and respectful. Some polite no's or not for me which is fine but i get ignored alot or just deleted. I understand it cant be helped sometimes but everyone says put effort in. When i do i get shot down in flames so to speak
Then don’t hang your hope on a virtual message, sent to an unknown on the internet. We create our own disappointment in this life, build your profile as best you can, put photos out there that make you feel confident and desirable and let them come to you.
It is a fools hope to be eager on here, just be you, probably a nice kind gent with a few quirks and kinks that SOME people may find desirable. If you must send a message, don’t invest your happiness in it, enjoy the moment of crafting a saucy message to a random on the internet and playing with the potential.
I often think that once a month, for a week, single guys shouldn’t be able to send a message first, I wonder whether this would even the flow, so to speak and promote greater discourse.
Stay sane! "
Makes sense. Im not massively confident. I joined this to see what it was like. No joy so to speak |
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"Thanks for the support guys I get loads of messages from guys and loads and loads from tv/ts they seem to like the hairy dad bod look but from women not so much and I dont like to send messages looking like some kinda sex pest so I tend to just fab a picture or maybe send a message with a simple compliment
You're very unlikely to get a meet just from fabbing pictures. If your message is polite you're not being a sex pest so don't worry about that. Just send them then forget about them so any response is a bonus.
This is nice advise. But its not good trying and getting nowhere
Thing Is the numbers of messages women get it really wouldn’t b get noticed ... Hundreds of messages and I’m being honest I don’t ever check winks. Persistence is key to be fair ....... I often lose people I would have chatted with due to sheer volume. Which has its own frustrations believe me "
Thats true but i dont want to send too many then be classed as clingy/annoying |
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"Hold on your verified as recently as 3 months ago so this is clearly attention seeking
By webcam ! "
Yeah once but the other 3 times he was verified he has stated nobody wants him but his veris say different |
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"Hold on your verified as recently as 3 months ago so this is clearly attention seeking
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Yeah once but the other 3 times he was verified he has stated nobody wants him but his veris say different "
Columbo is on the case. |
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"Hold on your verified as recently as 3 months ago so this is clearly attention seeking "
he probably just voicing what alot of people feeling atm. dead-end conversations etc... verifications doesn't represent someone's feelings or experiences p |
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"Hold on your verified as recently as 3 months ago so this is clearly attention seeking
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Yeah once but the other 3 times he was verified he has stated nobody wants him but his veris say different "
yes did notice this a lot of people are using forums to try and bypass the fact that there is a pandemic on and try to improve their meet chances during it |
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"Hold on your verified as recently as 3 months ago so this is clearly attention seeking
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Yeah once but the other 3 times he was verified he has stated nobody wants him but his veris say different yes did notice this a lot of people are using forums to try and bypass the fact that there is a pandemic on and try to improve their meet chances during it "
Yep completely agree and then people wonder why the cases go up nearly 7000 cases over there I believe |
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"I give up I think I should turn bi I'm sure I'd get more luck or at least fab straight women just don't seem to want me
From my experience most women don't appreciate whining and a "woe is me" attitude, Op. The more often you come across like this the harder they'll avoid.
Have you also considered that given current circumstances there's no incentive for messaging new people either as even if there's interest you might no be able to act on it for a while?"
Its not a good look on women too if it's a regular thing!
Hope you can keep yourself busy. Busy man with interests and passions are ones which usually gather some interest. Change one thing about your look, changes often give me a boost of confidence. New hair. New accessory. New styling. Anything. In other words just focus on you not on who doesnt want you. And then someone might knock without much effort from you. |
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I couldn't believe the masturbation
Just had to trust Wookiedad's information
My shaft going boom, boom, boom
"Jim", he said, "keep on stroking, I've come to take you home |
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"I couldn't believe the masturbation
Just had to trust Wookiedad's information
My shaft going boom, boom, boom
"Jim", he said, "keep on stroking, I've come to take you home"
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I've finished. |
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"I couldn't believe the masturbation
Just had to trust Wookiedad's information
My shaft going boom, boom, boom
"Jim", he said, "keep on stroking, I've come to take you home
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I've finished."
Don't give up. |
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"I couldn't believe the masturbation
Just had to trust Wookiedad's information
My shaft going boom, boom, boom
"Jim", he said, "keep on stroking, I've come to take you home
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I've finished.
Don't give up."
Okay. |
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"I couldn't believe the masturbation
Just had to trust Wookiedad's information
My shaft going boom, boom, boom
"Jim", he said, "keep on stroking, I've come to take you home
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I've finished.
Don't give up.
Okay."
Morrisons offering discounts on dry cleaning of curtains. Pull yourself together. |
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