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By *pal OP Woman
over a year ago
The Bermuda Triangle in Suffolk |
It seems that not everyone understands what this actually is. I had to do a profile update last night to spell it out after a conversation I had. Got asked why was I on here then after telling him what it means.
I know a lot of couples like to have fun this way but seems a single female who does is in the minority. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It means different things to different people.
There will always be some people who insist we are here for their pleasure and should do things they way they demand.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It seems that not everyone understands what this actually is. I had to do a profile update last night to spell it out after a conversation I had. Got asked why was I on here then after telling him what it means.
I know a lot of couples like to have fun this way but seems a single female who does is in the minority. "
As someone who is inexperienced I'd say soft play sounds to me like gentle touching and kissing/masturbating and watching one another?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is why we need a fab dictionary
Tbh I don’t have a clue what it means.
Soft play means no penetrative sex. "
Ah right. So basically everything but? |
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By *pal OP Woman
over a year ago
The Bermuda Triangle in Suffolk |
"This is why we need a fab dictionary
Tbh I don’t have a clue what it means.
Soft play means no penetrative sex.
Ah right. So basically everything but? "
Pretty much yes.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is why we need a fab dictionary
Tbh I don’t have a clue what it means. "
A Fab dictionary would be useless, people would ignore it and insist their own definition is just as "valid". It would end up like the body type descriptor on profiles, where "curvy" means everything from someone who looks like they had a large breakfast this morning, to someone who is left gasping for breath just getting out of bed. |
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It means different things to different people. Our soft play or swap is very different to a lot of people's. We discuss each others boundaries beforehand, doesn't everyone anyway, whether it's soft or full?  |
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
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"Honestly thought this was going to be about the kids centres.... 
I did at first !
Because we are the innocent ones  "
This, I thought it was going to be about opening an adult soft play area in a club, such as plastic balls, and a slide.
Think of the cleaning  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hi this site is full of idiots i enjoy soft play , you can have great fun without the actual sex, two clean people can have a great meal hope to hear from you "
Why do you want to meet idiots? |
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Then there's the slides, they would have ribs all the way down the middle 