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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago
London |
If I f.c.u.k, shag, or have sex with a woman, years down the line we're all still good friends laughing and joking.
But if one makes the mistake of falling in love, or even making love to a woman
Give it a fortnight, your a barsteward
Why is that so? |
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over a year ago
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"If I f.c.u.k, shag, or have sex with a woman, years down the line we're all still good friends laughing and joking.
But if one makes the mistake of falling in love, or even making love to a woman
Give it a fortnight, your a barsteward
Why is that so?"
I’m going to put this to the audience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I f.c.u.k, shag, or have sex with a woman, years down the line we're all still good friends laughing and joking.
But if one makes the mistake of falling in love, or even making love to a woman
Give it a fortnight, your a barsteward
Why is that so?"
I used to be a bar steward many moons ago in my local Wetherspoons.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I f.c.u.k, shag, or have sex with a woman, years down the line we're all still good friends laughing and joking.
But if one makes the mistake of falling in love, or even making love to a woman
Give it a fortnight, your a barsteward
Why is that so?"
Because you’ve involved your hearts and that organ is so damn easy to shatter. |
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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"I don't understand, sorry OP. "
I have friends where we have had sex, and years later we laugh and joke go out and the sexual experience we shared together was then
But I don't have an ex where we can talk and have fun social, and they are the ones I should be friends with
Saying that I've never left a relationship so blame shouldn't be put on me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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women are complicated machines.
they never know what they want. but what they will tell you is when they dont want something.
best thing to do is give them space, she will contact you when she wants something.
never give your heart |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"women are complicated machines.
they never know what they want. but what they will tell you is when they dont want something.
best thing to do is give them space, she will contact you when she wants something.
never give your heart"
This doesn’t just apply to some women you know. Some men are exactly the same  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"women are complicated machines.
they never know what they want. but what they will tell you is when they dont want something.
best thing to do is give them space, she will contact you when she wants something.
never give your heart"
In my experience men are the ones who contact when they decide they need a fuck...definitely dont give them your heart. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"women are complicated machines.
they never know what they want. but what they will tell you is when they dont want something.
best thing to do is give them space, she will contact you when she wants something.
never give your heart"
Stop generalising all women! |
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"I don't understand, sorry OP.
I have friends where we have had sex, and years later we laugh and joke go out and the sexual experience we shared together was then
But I don't have an ex where we can talk and have fun social, and they are the ones I should be friends with
Saying that I've never left a relationship so blame shouldn't be put on me "
I have exs I could have a fun night out with. In fact my first long term boyfriend I was very good friends with until he met his current partner and dissappeared so I guess she didn't like it. I have others I certainly couldn't socialise with but that's due to their behaviour. I guess some people are incapable of graciously handling a break up. I guess for others it's just too painful to try and be friendly. |
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"women are complicated machines.
they never know what they want. but what they will tell you is when they dont want something.
best thing to do is give them space, she will contact you when she wants something.
never give your heart
Stop generalising all women!"
#notallwomen |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"women are complicated machines.
they never know what they want. but what they will tell you is when they dont want something.
best thing to do is give them space, she will contact you when she wants something.
never give your heart
Stop generalising all women!
#notallwomen"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can have sex with men I like, and remain friendly with them because there are no deep emotions involved.
I’m not friends with those I have had a relationship with where feelings were involved because I prefer to put clear boundaries in place which often involves no or limited contact. It’s easier that way and stops any confusion or prolonged hurt etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"women are complicated machines.
they never know what they want. but what they will tell you is when they dont want something.
best thing to do is give them space, she will contact you when she wants something.
never give your heart"
Wow |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't understand, sorry OP.
I have friends where we have had sex, and years later we laugh and joke go out and the sexual experience we shared together was then
But I don't have an ex where we can talk and have fun social, and they are the ones I should be friends with
Saying that I've never left a relationship so blame shouldn't be put on me "
I'm really sorry I'm trying to understand but I'm struggling.
So are you saying that you want a relationship and if you break up be friends.
Also I will say I have ex's and im friends with none of them.  |
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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"I don't understand, sorry OP.
I have friends where we have had sex, and years later we laugh and joke go out and the sexual experience we shared together was then
But I don't have an ex where we can talk and have fun social, and they are the ones I should be friends with
Saying that I've never left a relationship so blame shouldn't be put on me
I'm really sorry I'm trying to understand but I'm struggling.
So are you saying that you want a relationship and if you break up be friends.
Also I will say I have ex's and im friends with none of them. "
Why not
So your saying that shagging Ms Shag and falling in love and making love to you, that Ms Shag was a better friend to me although I loved you once, and know I'm not worthy of friendship.
But you said you loved me but know we don't communicate, but you can communicate with Mr Bigwilly who you never said you loved
I'm hurting  |
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By *hav02Man
over a year ago
Glasgow/London |
Women are complicated.
Some like the romance and sex without the relationship.
Suggesting a relationship sets a premise for expectations, and most think they don't want that.
Don't complicate it, be a friend and enjoy life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women are complicated.
Some like the romance and sex without the relationship.
Suggesting a relationship sets a premise for expectations, and most think they don't want that.
Don't complicate it, be a friend and enjoy life "
I’ll take the romance and sex and friendship without the relationship please. No complications with me!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't understand, sorry OP.
I have friends where we have had sex, and years later we laugh and joke go out and the sexual experience we shared together was then
But I don't have an ex where we can talk and have fun social, and they are the ones I should be friends with
Saying that I've never left a relationship so blame shouldn't be put on me
I'm really sorry I'm trying to understand but I'm struggling.
So are you saying that you want a relationship and if you break up be friends.
Also I will say I have ex's and im friends with none of them.
Why not
So your saying that shagging Ms Shag and falling in love and making love to you, that Ms Shag was a better friend to me although I loved you once, and know I'm not worthy of friendship.
But you said you loved me but know we don't communicate, but you can communicate with Mr Bigwilly who you never said you loved
I'm hurting "
I'm sorry you are hurting, love hurts.
Sometime though cutting all ties is the best thing to do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women are complicated.
Some like the romance and sex without the relationship.
Suggesting a relationship sets a premise for expectations, and most think they don't want that.
Don't complicate it, be a friend and enjoy life
I’ll take the romance and sex and friendship without the relationship please. No complications with me! "
Me too |
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By *hav02Man
over a year ago
Glasgow/London |
"Women are complicated.
Some like the romance and sex without the relationship.
Suggesting a relationship sets a premise for expectations, and most think they don't want that.
Don't complicate it, be a friend and enjoy life
I’ll take the romance and sex and friendship without the relationship please. No complications with me! "
Is that you asking me for a date  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women are complicated.
Some like the romance and sex without the relationship.
Suggesting a relationship sets a premise for expectations, and most think they don't want that.
Don't complicate it, be a friend and enjoy life
I’ll take the romance and sex and friendship without the relationship please. No complications with me!
Is that you asking me for a date "
Haha it was just in general. But would there be cheesecake? |
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By *hav02Man
over a year ago
Glasgow/London |
"Women are complicated.
Some like the romance and sex without the relationship.
Suggesting a relationship sets a premise for expectations, and most think they don't want that.
Don't complicate it, be a friend and enjoy life
I’ll take the romance and sex and friendship without the relationship please. No complications with me!
Is that you asking me for a date
Haha it was just in general. But would there be cheesecake? "
Consider My profile pic as a cheeky peak into the window of my friendship package. |
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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago
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Its what happens when you both open up your emotions. As fuck biddies or friends there's little emotional attachments soon as it goes further a weird cloud of pressure appears because of the fear of getting hurt.
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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Women are complicated.
Some like the romance and sex without the relationship.
Suggesting a relationship sets a premise for expectations, and most think they don't want that.
Don't complicate it, be a friend and enjoy life
Excuse me you two go get a room, I'm hurting here
But then again, Boris has said two households can't mix, or did he
I’ll take the romance and sex and friendship without the relationship please. No complications with me!
Is that you asking me for a date
Haha it was just in general. But would there be cheesecake? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its what happens when you both open up your emotions. As fuck biddies or friends there's little emotional attachments soon as it goes further a weird cloud of pressure appears because of the fear of getting hurt.
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It depends really. I’ve always had emotional attachments with FWBs. Fell for each other big time with one. Still friends with them all though. It’s how you handle it I think x |
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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago
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"Its what happens when you both open up your emotions. As fuck biddies or friends there's little emotional attachments soon as it goes further a weird cloud of pressure appears because of the fear of getting hurt.
It depends really. I’ve always had emotional attachments with FWBs. Fell for each other big time with one. Still friends with them all though. It’s how you handle it I think x"
I would agree.. and i think fwb on the whole is less pressurised. And once you both get past emotions to friendship it becomes easier to handle. |
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"I'm sorry you're hurting OP. Sometimes romance complicates things and it's hard to find a way to disentangle yourself. True of everyone.
And for the record, I'm not hurting, just asking  "
... But you said you were hurting earlier? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its what happens when you both open up your emotions. As fuck biddies or friends there's little emotional attachments soon as it goes further a weird cloud of pressure appears because of the fear of getting hurt.
It depends really. I’ve always had emotional attachments with FWBs. Fell for each other big time with one. Still friends with them all though. It’s how you handle it I think x
I would agree.. and i think fwb on the whole is less pressurised. And once you both get past emotions to friendship it becomes easier to handle. "
Everyone’s different though. I don’t think it can really be generalised to be honest x |
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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago
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"Its what happens when you both open up your emotions. As fuck biddies or friends there's little emotional attachments soon as it goes further a weird cloud of pressure appears because of the fear of getting hurt.
It depends really. I’ve always had emotional attachments with FWBs. Fell for each other big time with one. Still friends with them all though. It’s how you handle it I think x
I would agree.. and i think fwb on the whole is less pressurised. And once you both get past emotions to friendship it becomes easier to handle.
Everyone’s different though. I don’t think it can really be generalised to be honest x"
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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"I'm sorry you're hurting OP. Sometimes romance complicates things and it's hard to find a way to disentangle yourself. True of everyone.
And for the record, I'm not hurting, just asking
... But you said you were hurting earlier?"
I'm was responding to what was said to me by who said it
But to me this is something that I have thought about over the years |
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"I'm sorry you're hurting OP. Sometimes romance complicates things and it's hard to find a way to disentangle yourself. True of everyone.
And for the record, I'm not hurting, just asking
... But you said you were hurting earlier?
I'm was responding to what was said to me by who said it
But to me this is something that I have thought about over the years"
I'm sorry I misunderstood.
People are complicated and different emotions and commitment involves different emotional risk. It's not gendered per se. |
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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago
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"I'm sorry you're hurting OP. Sometimes romance complicates things and it's hard to find a way to disentangle yourself. True of everyone.
And for the record, I'm not hurting, just asking
... But you said you were hurting earlier?
I'm was responding to what was said to me by who said it
But to me this is something that I have thought about over the years
I'm sorry I misunderstood.
People are complicated and different emotions and commitment involves different emotional risk. It's not gendered per se."
I know that it's not a gender thing, I never posted it as one
But as ap personal thing, and opened it for everyone |
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