Also take into account that some crossdressers may have spent most of their lives or part of it wondering if they are trans or not too.
It was only a few years ago that I realised I could be happy being 'just' a crossdresser and finding an outlet for it for me also meant I was finally happy as a guy too.
Yes most see it as just for fun and many like myself have purged everything numerous times over the years to try not to dress up but that itch never goes away and can often take over your whole being if you cannot do so.
Being the way I am is as much a part of me as any of my character traits are, I cannot get rid of it and will now always embrace it.
Some crossdressers are not doing this purely for fun, its a fundamental part of who they are.
No we are not the same as trans people and those who go through reassignment but it doesn't make us any less valid, just different. |
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"Also take into account that some crossdressers may have spent most of their lives or part of it wondering if they are trans or not too.
It was only a few years ago that I realised I could be happy being 'just' a crossdresser and finding an outlet for it for me also meant I was finally happy as a guy too.
Yes most see it as just for fun and many like myself have purged everything numerous times over the years to try not to dress up but that itch never goes away and can often take over your whole being if you cannot do so.
Being the way I am is as much a part of me as any of my character traits are, I cannot get rid of it and will now always embrace it.
Some crossdressers are not doing this purely for fun, its a fundamental part of who they are.
No we are not the same as trans people and those who go through reassignment but it doesn't make us any less valid, just different."
No one said crossdressers are any less valid at all it's about choice everyone has the right to do what ever they choose x |
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"Transwomen and crossdressers
Two different things entirely
Crossdressers dress for fun Transwomen
Have surgery take hormones etc well some have surgery
Some crossdressers are straight "
I’m straight.
I have bi curious as I’m wondering if I’ll like it with a girl. Tbh I’m not sure I can be bothered tho  |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
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"Transwomen and crossdressers
Two different things entirely
Crossdressers dress for fun Transwomen
Have surgery take hormones etc well some have surgery
Some crossdressers are straight
I’m straight.
I have bi curious as I’m wondering if I’ll like it with a girl. Tbh I’m not sure I can be bothered tho "
Yes you straight try it with a women you never know xxx |
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"Transwomen and crossdressers
Two different things entirely
Crossdressers dress for fun Transwomen
Have surgery take hormones etc well some have surgery
Some crossdressers are straight
I’m straight.
I have bi curious as I’m wondering if I’ll like it with a girl. Tbh I’m not sure I can be bothered tho
Yes you straight try it with a women you never know xxx"
Women smell funny  |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
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"Transwomen and crossdressers
Two different things entirely
Crossdressers dress for fun Transwomen
Have surgery take hormones etc well some have surgery
Some crossdressers are straight
I’m straight.
I have bi curious as I’m wondering if I’ll like it with a girl. Tbh I’m not sure I can be bothered tho
Yes you straight try it with a women you never know xxx
Women smell funny "
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"Transwomen and crossdressers
Two different things entirely
Crossdressers dress for fun Transwomen
Have surgery take hormones etc well some have surgery
Some crossdressers are straight
I’m straight.
I have bi curious as I’m wondering if I’ll like it with a girl. Tbh I’m not sure I can be bothered tho
Yes you straight try it with a women you never know xxx
Women smell funny
x"
We do. I’m not so sure I like it |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
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"Transwomen and crossdressers
Two different things entirely
Crossdressers dress for fun Transwomen
Have surgery take hormones etc well some have surgery
Some crossdressers are straight
I’m straight.
I have bi curious as I’m wondering if I’ll like it with a girl. Tbh I’m not sure I can be bothered tho
Yes you straight try it with a women you never know xxx
Women smell funny
x
We do. I’m not so sure I like it "
Smell of what? |
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"Transwomen and crossdressers
Two different things entirely
Crossdressers dress for fun Transwomen
Have surgery take hormones etc well some have surgery
Some crossdressers are straight
I’m straight.
I have bi curious as I’m wondering if I’ll like it with a girl. Tbh I’m not sure I can be bothered tho
Yes you straight try it with a women you never know xxx
Women smell funny
x
We do. I’m not so sure I like it
Smell of what?"
I dunno. It’s just weird. |
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I'd say that a CD wears opposite-gender clothing for sex, a TV wears opposite-gender clothing some of the time and a TS lives full time in their non-birth gender.
But even that is a bit complex - eg you could have a closeted TS who lives as their non-birth gender whenever they can, but doesn't feel able to all the time.
Ultimately like any label they're starting points, not someone's life story. And they may change over time with the person. |
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"Also take into account that some crossdressers may have spent most of their lives or part of it wondering if they are trans or not too.
It was only a few years ago that I realised I could be happy being 'just' a crossdresser and finding an outlet for it for me also meant I was finally happy as a guy too.
Yes most see it as just for fun and many like myself have purged everything numerous times over the years to try not to dress up but that itch never goes away and can often take over your whole being if you cannot do so.
Being the way I am is as much a part of me as any of my character traits are, I cannot get rid of it and will now always embrace it.
Some crossdressers are not doing this purely for fun, its a fundamental part of who they are.
No we are not the same as trans people and those who go through reassignment but it doesn't make us any less
valid, just different."
Totally agree here...I have a very strong female side but equally a male side..I do not dress for fun I dress because for me my female side needs that extra connection. As a parallel Im borderline personality, something very different to schizophrenic. Its part of who I am and rately involves fun..its a need. People shouldn t just generalise, its different for everyone.  |
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"Transwomen and crossdressers
Two different things entirely
Crossdressers dress for fun Transwomen
Have surgery take hormones etc well some have surgery
Some crossdressers are straight "
I'm a straight cross dresser I adore women and dress for the sensuality and arousal of dressing in women's lingerie and clothing! |
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"Also take into account that some crossdressers may have spent most of their lives or part of it wondering if they are trans or not too.
It was only a few years ago that I realised I could be happy being 'just' a crossdresser and finding an outlet for it for me also meant I was finally happy as a guy too.
Yes most see it as just for fun and many like myself have purged everything numerous times over the years to try not to dress up but that itch never goes away and can often take over your whole being if you cannot do so.
Being the way I am is as much a part of me as any of my character traits are, I cannot get rid of it and will now always embrace it.
Some crossdressers are not doing this purely for fun, its a fundamental part of who they are.
No we are not the same as trans people and those who go through reassignment but it doesn't make us any less
valid, just different.
Totally agree here...I have a very strong female side but equally a male side..I do not dress for fun I dress because for me my female side needs that extra connection. As a parallel Im borderline personality, something very different to schizophrenic. Its part of who I am and rately involves fun..its a need. People shouldn t just generalise, its different for everyone. "
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