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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wallow in self pity. Youre the wrong sex, too old, too skinny, too fat, not hot enough,too inadequate down there, not bi, heck the list goes on!
But whilst we're on the subject of preferences, what UNIQUE thing about YOU is probably going to get you nowhere on the meet front? Maybe its that fungal nail infection? Anger management? Your taste in Y-fronts ? |
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" Wallow in self pity. Youre the wrong sex, too old, too skinny, too fat, not hot enough,too inadequate down there, not bi, heck the list goes on!
But whilst we're on the subject of preferences, what UNIQUE thing about YOU is probably going to get you nowhere on the meet front? Maybe its that fungal nail infection? Anger management? Your taste in Y-fronts ?"
I'm a dreadlocked misandrist, I don't stand a chance. |
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I had a social cancelled a while back because I said I wasn't excited about it. I do like meeting swingers and I was looking forward to meeting him but I don't get excited about it, nor do I get nervous.
So add 'boring and unemotional' to the list. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can overthink your faults and flaws
You can break yourself in doing so
I am at peace with myself - yes (with enough spare money) there are things I could change, but there is so much that I can't
... and then, even if I did, there would still be hundreds of reasons why people wouldn't meet
You will never be everyones cup of tea
All you can be is content
Be yourself
Be happy |
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"My lack of self love and the feeling of not being good enough for people  "
Relatable. I swear I sometimes self sabotage because I think they're not interested so I pull back and they sense that and think I'm not interested anymore  . |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"My lack of self love and the feeling of not being good enough for people "
This. I put myself down so much that people realise what I'm saying is true, or I become too much like hard work. |
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"My lack of self love and the feeling of not being good enough for people "
Yep, all this 
Deep-rooted self esteem issues, which combined with my general appearance and questionable personality, mean I cannot believe that anyone would ever be seriously interested in me....  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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" Wallow in self pity. Youre the wrong sex, too old, too skinny, too fat, not hot enough,too inadequate down there, not bi, heck the list goes on!
But whilst we're on the subject of preferences, what UNIQUE thing about YOU is probably going to get you nowhere on the meet front? Maybe its that fungal nail infection? Anger management? Your taste in Y-fronts ?
I'm a dreadlocked misandrist, I don't stand a chance."
Did you just type misogynist without looking? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im too tall and muscley. Amazonian is not a trait that is commonly sought out  "
Personally, I wouldn't mind climbing you. The air wouldn't be getting thinner, you would just be taking my breath away  |
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" Wallow in self pity. Youre the wrong sex, too old, too skinny, too fat, not hot enough,too inadequate down there, not bi, heck the list goes on!
But whilst we're on the subject of preferences, what UNIQUE thing about YOU is probably going to get you nowhere on the meet front? Maybe its that fungal nail infection? Anger management? Your taste in Y-fronts ?
I'm a dreadlocked misandrist, I don't stand a chance.
Did you just type misogynist without looking?"
Cross referencing! Good spot |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Im too tall and muscley. Amazonian is not a trait that is commonly sought out
Personally, I wouldn't mind climbing you. The air wouldn't be getting thinner, you would just be taking my breath away "
Goodness me like an episode of take me out |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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" Wallow in self pity. Youre the wrong sex, too old, too skinny, too fat, not hot enough,too inadequate down there, not bi, heck the list goes on!
But whilst we're on the subject of preferences, what UNIQUE thing about YOU is probably going to get you nowhere on the meet front? Maybe its that fungal nail infection? Anger management? Your taste in Y-fronts ?
I'm a dreadlocked misandrist, I don't stand a chance.
Did you just type misogynist without looking?
Cross referencing! Good spot "
Heck one day I'll read a profile too |
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probably coz if I think someone is telling porkies I'll walk away, and without evidence just a gut feeling.
I won't meet people unless they're single or with their partner.
Farting
I'll call you a cunt to yer face |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"probably coz if I think someone is telling porkies I'll walk away, and without evidence just a gut feeling.
I won't meet people unless they're single or with their partner.
Farting
I'll call you a cunt to yer face "
Remind me not ask for a coffee in next weeks when I'm London based on the last bit  |
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"My lack of self love and the feeling of not being good enough for people
This. I put myself down so much that people realise what I'm saying is true, or I become too much like hard work. "
This x2, who knew putting yourself down was not a sought trait? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"probably coz if I think someone is telling porkies I'll walk away, and without evidence just a gut feeling.
I won't meet people unless they're single or with their partner.
Farting
I'll call you a cunt to yer face "
I like a straight talking girl  |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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" Wallow in self pity. Youre the wrong sex, too old, too skinny, too fat, not hot enough,too inadequate down there, not bi, heck the list goes on!
But whilst we're on the subject of preferences, what UNIQUE thing about YOU is probably going to get you nowhere on the meet front? Maybe its that fungal nail infection? Anger management? Your taste in Y-fronts ?"
Nah, because I look for perfection |
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"I don't like tattoos. Nearly everyone is inked by the time they reach my age bracket."
I'm glad I'm not the only one who isn't a fan.
I think I'm more unusual and individual these days by not having any tatts or piercings
But I can't believe I'm too young for a lady. That goes against all expectations on here....  |
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"You can overthink your faults and flaws
You can break yourself in doing so
I am at peace with myself - yes (with enough spare money) there are things I could change, but there is so much that I can't
... and then, even if I did, there would still be hundreds of reasons why people wouldn't meet
You will never be everyones cup of tea
All you can be is content
Be yourself
Be happy "
Completely agree with all of this.
I'm sure I'm not everyone's cup of tea but I don't need to be, there will be plenty that like the things about me that the next person would dislike..
My advice is be confident in yourself and and the right people will come along
I've embraced my curves way more since being on here for example.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My body size has always held me back from everything and everyone.
Its been thinner, fatter and everything inbetween.
I'm never confident with it "
You've always looked pretty good to me....you're also funny and smart. Ive seen your posts on lots of threads |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m fussy. I don’t like beards. I don’t like men shorter than me. I don’t do NSA one offs. I want someone local. I’ve no chance!!!! May as well call a cab now. But you lovely people keep me here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m fussy. I don’t like beards. I don’t like men shorter than me. I don’t do NSA one offs. I want someone local. I’ve no chance!!!! May as well call a cab now. But you lovely people keep me here "
I don’t have a beard |
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"probably coz if I think someone is telling porkies I'll walk away, and without evidence just a gut feeling.
I won't meet people unless they're single or with their partner.
Farting
I'll call you a cunt to yer face I like a straight talking girl "
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My body hair is going to be a deal-breaker for a lot of people. My skin is too sensitive to risk trying to remove it. I never used to be self-conscious about this until I joined this forum and discovered that everyone on here hates it. |
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"My body hair is going to be a deal-breaker for a lot of people. My skin is too sensitive to risk trying to remove it. I never used to be self-conscious about this until I joined this forum and discovered that everyone on here hates it. "
That's incredibly disingenuous to everyone here that defends the right of people to present themselves as they desire.
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"My body hair is going to be a deal-breaker for a lot of people. My skin is too sensitive to risk trying to remove it. I never used to be self-conscious about this until I joined this forum and discovered that everyone on here hates it. "
In the pics on your profile you are totally hairless. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My lack of self love and the feeling of not being good enough for people
This. I put myself down so much that people realise what I'm saying is true, or I become too much like hard work.
This x2, who knew putting yourself down was not a sought trait?"
Ladies your all awesome |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My body hair is going to be a deal-breaker for a lot of people. My skin is too sensitive to risk trying to remove it. I never used to be self-conscious about this until I joined this forum and discovered that everyone on here hates it. "
Trim it, don't shave it
I am naturally hairy and actually quite like it
When meeting someone (other than socially), I trim it back (normally a #2) so that they can see that I have body hair, but it isn't full on gorilla - which is the aspect of body hair that many have the issue with |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My body hair is going to be a deal-breaker for a lot of people. My skin is too sensitive to risk trying to remove it. I never used to be self-conscious about this until I joined this forum and discovered that everyone on here hates it.
That's incredibly disingenuous to everyone here that defends the right of people to present themselves as they desire.
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But you are dismissing how he feels. Isn't that the same thing? |
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"My body hair is going to be a deal-breaker for a lot of people. My skin is too sensitive to risk trying to remove it. I never used to be self-conscious about this until I joined this forum and discovered that everyone on here hates it. "
Not everyone on here hates it. Some of us have always made it clear it's OK to have body hair.
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"My body hair is going to be a deal-breaker for a lot of people. My skin is too sensitive to risk trying to remove it. I never used to be self-conscious about this until I joined this forum and discovered that everyone on here hates it.
In the pics on your profile you are totally hairless."
Full bush visible in all but one of them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My body hair is going to be a deal-breaker for a lot of people. My skin is too sensitive to risk trying to remove it. I never used to be self-conscious about this until I joined this forum and discovered that everyone on here hates it.
In the pics on your profile you are totally hairless.
Full bush visible in all but one of them."
If your skins too sensitive to use hair removal products try trimming it with scissors you could get rid of majority of it make it look neater then if you can trim it short enough use conditioner and a razor or even a womans razor to remove remainder.
I understand you feel that people will be put off and have been harsh/nasty about it but it's in your control to do something about it |
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"I can assure you there are far hairier men than you. "
There certainly are, yes. I am sorry that one of the things I feel counts against me is insufficiently unique for the purposes of this thread. |
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"I can assure you there are far hairier men than you.
There certainly are, yes. I am sorry that one of the things I feel counts against me is insufficiently unique for the purposes of this thread."
I was trying to be supportive and boost your confidence |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Beard, size, personality and that's just her....
We love to have a laugh, like most on here, but always seem to attract the ones who haven't got any sense of humour.
We know that when you type something that would ordinarily come across as funny when spoken, can be taken the wrong way. But, with exceptions, we never seem to attract those with a gosh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My right index finger and middle finger are rather crooked/twisted due to breaking them and not going getting them sorted.
Other than that, I'm all good |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My right index finger and middle finger are rather crooked/twisted due to breaking them and not going getting them sorted.
Other than that, I'm all good "
great for picking your nose and cleaning your ear at same time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My right index finger and middle finger are rather crooked/twisted due to breaking them and not going getting them sorted.
Other than that, I'm all good great for picking your nose and cleaning your ear at same time."
I never thought of it that way. You're a genius |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My body size has always held me back from everything and everyone.
Its been thinner, fatter and everything inbetween.
I'm never confident with it
You've always looked pretty good to me....you're also funny and smart. Ive seen your posts on lots of threads "
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"My body hair is going to be a deal-breaker for a lot of people. My skin is too sensitive to risk trying to remove it. I never used to be self-conscious about this until I joined this forum and discovered that everyone on here hates it.
That's incredibly disingenuous to everyone here that defends the right of people to present themselves as they desire.
But you are dismissing how he feels. Isn't that the same thing?"
He said everyone here hates it and that's simply not true. He's basing his feelings on those people who dislike genital hair and is dismissing those of us that loudly defend choice and call out the 'unhygienic/disgusting' brigade. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My body hair is going to be a deal-breaker for a lot of people. My skin is too sensitive to risk trying to remove it. I never used to be self-conscious about this until I joined this forum and discovered that everyone on here hates it.
That's incredibly disingenuous to everyone here that defends the right of people to present themselves as they desire.
But you are dismissing how he feels. Isn't that the same thing?
He said everyone here hates it and that's simply not true. He's basing his feelings on those people who dislike genital hair and is dismissing those of us that loudly defend choice and call out the 'unhygienic/disgusting' brigade."
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