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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What was your first meet like. Was it a social or did you go straight in. Was it nerve racking or complete fun. Any funny stories, or things that went wrong? |
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Morning everybody.
I was a bit nervous on first meet. Met socially, with looking to go onto a swingers club that night. after chatting for awhile.
The lady had me at ease instantly. Lots of laughs and onto club for a great night. First ever 3some , then spent rest of the chatting with her and others in club. Went back to hers for lots more fun until it was daylight.
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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My first solo meet from here was a social and "nervous" isn't necessarily the right word, but there were a degree of nerves for sure but was lovely and we had a great time.
Agreed to meet another time to get more intimate and was a mixture of nervous and excited driving there but once there was able to relax and again had a great time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was supposed to be a social but within seven minutes I was sucking his dick
Hell yeah I was nervous
And you’ve been banned from that coffee shop ever since!  "
Costa has a nationwide ban on me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Was supposed to be a social but within seven minutes I was sucking his dick
Hell yeah I was nervous "
I remember I got the text ‘babe I did something but don’t be mad’  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Was supposed to be a social but within seven minutes I was sucking his dick
Hell yeah I was nervous
I remember I got the text ‘babe I did something but don’t be mad’ "
 I was so nervous that you’d realise you didn’t want me doing any of this and you’d hate me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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First meet was a social and, like every other meet since(not that's there have been that many), I be nervous. Nerves I treat as a good thing though, they keep me on my toes and keep me from getting too comfortable too soon. Plus, I've always been self conscious so even though we've swapped photos and messages etc, I still brick it hoping they like me in person  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always have lots of nervous energy. The only problem with that is it makes me giggly and talk way too much "
I can get like that, that's why I like going dancing, I can dance out the nervous energy. One place I always feel safe is the dancefloor. |
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"First meet was a social and, like every other meet since(not that's there have been that many), I be nervous. Nerves I treat as a good thing though, they keep me on my toes and keep me from getting too comfortable too soon. Plus, I've always been self conscious so even though we've swapped photos and messages etc, I still brick it hoping they like me in person "
Exactly this!... I think I’m inherently self conscious anyway, so meeting new people is nerve wracking in vanilla life let alone in this lifestyle! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Was supposed to be a social but within seven minutes I was sucking his dick
Hell yeah I was nervous
I remember I got the text ‘babe I did something but don’t be mad’
I was so nervous that you’d realise you didn’t want me doing any of this and you’d hate me"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"First meet was a social and, like every other meet since(not that's there have been that many), I be nervous. Nerves I treat as a good thing though, they keep me on my toes and keep me from getting too comfortable too soon. Plus, I've always been self conscious so even though we've swapped photos and messages etc, I still brick it hoping they like me in person
Exactly this!... I think I’m inherently self conscious anyway, so meeting new people is nerve wracking in vanilla life let alone in this lifestyle!"
I'm the same except for in everyday life, I think I'm a lot more confident when potential attraction is taken right out of the mix |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Was nervous as hell on the drive and even more nervous at the door. We were then fucking in less than two minutes after he opened the door lol. We'd talked and cammed a lot though xx |
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I wasn’t nervous, I treat every meet like catching up with an old friend.
We started with watching a footie match and gave up at half time as we weren’t really paying attention to the game, the rest stays private |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What was your first meet like. Was it a social or did you go straight in. Was it nerve racking or complete fun. Any funny stories, or things that went wrong? "
Hi op.
My very first meet was a social. In fact most of mine have been.
We went for a drink in the sunshine overlooking Broadstairs beach.
Was fine.
All socials been fine.
Ranging from coffee on Ramsgate Harbour.
To a drink in a pub all day. |
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It was a social meet at lunchtime with The Brain (remember him? Had his name written on his cock as his avatar, great forum contributor).
We arranged to meet outside Costas in Coventry and I was more nervous of standing there with the locals eyeing me up knowing I didn't belong than I was of having a coffee. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Awful. He looked nothing like his pics, I could just about see the resemblance. Looked like he’d not had a shower for a month, had hardly any teeth. Very very weird conversation. I couldn't get out of there quick enough! Then when I got home he said at least I’ve still got all your pics to wank to. Made me feel sick! Didn’t meet anyone else for 6 months after that then met someone who was to become one of my best friends in the world.
Older and wiser now! And the reason I rarely send explicit pics unless I’ve met someone. |
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I don’t remember my first meet as such as I dived straight into the club scene without having met/knowing anyone. I was absolutely terrified - I’d watched porn for the first time 6 weeks earlier. It was a total change of lifestyle tbh - but let’s just say I went in with both feet! |
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I was so nervous! Even though I'd recognised him from around town. We had chatted all day and then met in the evening, Literally met him and we were straight at it within minutes! 18 months later and im still here and fucking him regularly! |
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By *hav02Man
over a year ago
Glasgow/London |
my first fab meet - was straight to her hotel room while she was in town. Yes I was nervous, but so was she!
But now I'm not nervous meeting socially or more if I've been chatting a bit beforehand  |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
Was super nervous. Still get nervous now.
First meet was me and a partner with a couple. He was fine, I was a wreck. I still remember what I wore and when I was so nervous I didn't want to go in and in typical me fashion I was worked up about my looks, my size etc.
He pushed me against the stairs (they lived in a flat), kissed me and told me if I wanted to bottle it and leave, he wouldn't mind because the hard-on pressing into me was because of how I looked not where we were and he'd happily take me home and fuck me senseless.
That thought still makes me smile.
Doesn't stop me getting nervous now though. |
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My first fab meet, incredibly nervous! I tend to get nervous about all meets though
The first meet though just went for it! We spoke for a wee bit and he made me feel very relaxed and ended up spending the whole night together which I didn't think would happen but was a lovely night |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
My first ever fab meet was supposed to have been a social only. I had a bit of nervous excitement going in. Needless to say, the social part quickly escalated into more than I expected. Perfect first experience |
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