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I have never asked a man what size his junk is, it doesn't mean anything to me. What's interesting is that there are quite a few guys who have asked me if "women really care about size" because they seem to be getting stick about how small theirs is. As if by asking me, one woman, a woman who has NOT asked that question, answers that question.
I am "a woman" ... I am not "women" ... We are not a monolith and I do not represent womankind.
They want me to say "No, of course it doesn't matter to women". How can I say that? Again, I have not been elected as the universal spokesperson for all women.
The answer, my friends, is to be comfortable with who you are so you don't give a damn what certain women think. Y'all can't change your dick size (yes I know, I don't want your home instructions), but you can evolve your attitude. An evolved man, is a fucking sexy man! |
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"Heck yes
Right???  Give me your confidence, give me your brain, your sensuality. I can assure you, the size of your little buddy will never cross my mind  "
The fire in your eyes, the feel of your breath against me. The hunger matching mine.
If I like you, I like your cock |
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"Heck yes
Right??? Give me your confidence, give me your brain, your sensuality. I can assure you, the size of your little buddy will never cross my mind
The fire in your eyes, the feel of your breath against me. The hunger matching mine.
If I like you, I like your cock "
You, lady, are a woman after my own heart/loins  |
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"You can have the biggest cock in the world but if you don't no how too use it then it's pointless "
That's a fact  I've been with some "big dicked bunny fuckers" during my long and elusive slutting career I'll pass thanks. |
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"But what about us wallflowers who are brain-dead and insensitive but have massive cocks?
Why do my spidey senses tell me you're full of crap? I imagine you're quite fun to get to know "
Well the first part of that summary is correct. |
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"You can have the biggest cock in the world but if you don't no how too use it then it's pointless
That's a fact I've been with some "big dicked bunny fuckers" during my long and elusive slutting career I'll pass thanks. "
Yeah the pain from cervix bashing is something else. |
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"You can have the biggest cock in the world but if you don't no how too use it then it's pointless
That's a fact I've been with some "big dicked bunny fuckers" during my long and elusive slutting career I'll pass thanks.
Yeah the pain from cervix bashing is something else."
Where exactly do they think they are drilling to? |
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Surprising how many choose on size alone... Lots to say for an eager, experienced and confident guy I'd say.. Being unselfish, attentive and hungry for a particular woman can lead to very steamy sessions.. |
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"But what about us wallflowers who are brain-dead and insensitive but have massive cocks?
Why do my spidey senses tell me you're full of crap? I imagine you're quite fun to get to know
Well the first part of that summary is correct. "
Mhmm |
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By *imson87Man
over a year ago
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"You can have the biggest cock in the world but if you don't no how too use it then it's pointless
That's a fact I've been with some "big dicked bunny fuckers" during my long and elusive slutting career I'll pass thanks.
Yeah the pain from cervix bashing is something else."
What would you both class as the perfect size. average (5-6inchs) and a little thick. I would say people like thickness more than that size |
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Firstly OP love the post, completely thought it was going to be a fella and we would have to trot out the “if it matters to YOU, then it matters, but it shouldn’t”
As for not “knowing how to use a penis”  these comments always make laugh..... for a multitude of reasons, I think most men know how to use their penis, it is not only the skill of a few lotharios “I know how to use my cock, stop telling me how you like it, this is my tool ”. Communication is truly the key to great sex, not the size of your sword and how you buckle your swash. |
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"What’s the % of women with a certain size requirement in their profile on here? I’d vote high. "
And let me just repeat, I do not speak for them, they do not speak for me, we are not the same ... This was my point. |
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So I wouldn't say I'm huge, and I wouldn't say I'm small either. What I can say is that I can do very little about what size I am and I am happy with it. If someone wants a description of it they can have one, and if it's a deal breaker then so be it. But so far that hasn't happened, in fact a lot of women have said they don't like it too big as it can hurt. Anyways yeah it is what it is and that's fine with me. |
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"Firstly OP love the post, completely thought it was going to be a fella and we would have to trot out the “if it matters to YOU, then it matters, but it shouldn’t”
As for not “knowing how to use a penis” these comments always make laugh..... for a multitude of reasons, I think most men know how to use their penis, it is not only the skill of a few lotharios “I know how to use my cock, stop telling me how you like it, this is my tool ”. Communication is truly the key to great sex, not the size of your sword and how you buckle your swash. "
Facts all the way Communication is the only real tool you need! It sounds simplistic, but it's really not x |
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"I have never asked a man what size his junk is, it doesn't mean anything to me. What's interesting is that there are quite a few guys who have asked me if "women really care about size" because they seem to be getting stick about how small theirs is. As if by asking me, one woman, a woman who has NOT asked that question, answers that question.
I am "a woman" ... I am not "women" ... We are not a monolith and I do not represent womankind.
They want me to say "No, of course it doesn't matter to women". How can I say that? Again, I have not been elected as the universal spokesperson for all women.
The answer, my friends, is to be comfortable with who you are so you don't give a damn what certain women think. Y'all can't change your dick size (yes I know, I don't want your home instructions), but you can evolve your attitude. An evolved man, is a fucking sexy man! "
Nicely put thank you  |
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"You can have the biggest cock in the world but if you don't no how too use it then it's pointless
That's a fact I've been with some "big dicked bunny fuckers" during my long and elusive slutting career I'll pass thanks.
Yeah the pain from cervix bashing is something else.
What would you both class as the perfect size. average (5-6inchs) and a little thick. I would say people like thickness more than that size "
The size of the penis of a man I like. |
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"Yes. That doesn't mean the bigger the better but size certainly matters to me "
And that's where I'm coming from. We are not one entity, asking one woman what all women think or want, is ridiculous x |
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"What’s the % of women with a certain size requirement in their profile on here? I’d vote high.
And let me just repeat, I do not speak for them, they do not speak for me, we are not the same ... This was my point."
I said high, not 100%. That being my point, which is why if 4/5 times you’re used to seeing something of course on the 5th you’ll assume the same. |
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Never given 2 shits if size matters to one woman or another, if it ain't big enough that's just fine, I'm sure there are plenty more cocks in the sea. I'm pretty sure that a majority don't care if it's less than 9", some even prefer small, personal preference and all.
Regardless of this every man should have more tools at his disposal to please a lady than just a monster wang. |
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"Yes. That doesn't mean the bigger the better but size certainly matters to me
And that's where I'm coming from. We are not one entity, asking one woman what all women think or want, is ridiculous x"
The Borg need to assimilate you too apparently |
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"What’s the % of women with a certain size requirement in their profile on here? I’d vote high.
And let me just repeat, I do not speak for them, they do not speak for me, we are not the same ... This was my point.
I said high, not 100%. That being my point, which is why if 4/5 times you’re used to seeing something of course on the 5th you’ll assume the same."
Then that's really a you problem. There's an expression, "Never assume. It makes an ass out of u and me". |
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"Yes. That doesn't mean the bigger the better but size certainly matters to me
And that's where I'm coming from. We are not one entity, asking one woman what all women think or want, is ridiculous x
The Clique® need to assimilate you too apparently"
FTFY |
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"What’s the % of women with a certain size requirement in their profile on here? I’d vote high.
And let me just repeat, I do not speak for them, they do not speak for me, we are not the same ... This was my point.
I said high, not 100%. That being my point, which is why if 4/5 times you’re used to seeing something of course on the 5th you’ll assume the same."
We must be looking at different profiles, I'd say at most 1 in 5 say they want nothing less than a bigun |
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"What’s the % of women with a certain size requirement in their profile on here? I’d vote high.
And let me just repeat, I do not speak for them, they do not speak for me, we are not the same ... This was my point.
I said high, not 100%. That being my point, which is why if 4/5 times you’re used to seeing something of course on the 5th you’ll assume the same.
We must be looking at different profiles, I'd say at most 1 in 5 say they want nothing less than a bigun"
Right? I'm bisexual so I am, on the whole, looking at the same womens' profiles as straight guys There is no overriding "big dick, little dick hysteria" going on. |
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"What’s the % of women with a certain size requirement in their profile on here? I’d vote high.
And let me just repeat, I do not speak for them, they do not speak for me, we are not the same ... This was my point.
I said high, not 100%. That being my point, which is why if 4/5 times you’re used to seeing something of course on the 5th you’ll assume the same.
We must be looking at different profiles, I'd say at most 1 in 5 say they want nothing less than a bigun
Right? I'm bisexual so I am, on the whole, looking at the same womens' profiles as straight guys There is no overriding "big dick, little dick hysteria" going on."
You get a few for sure and that's to be expected, i think sometimes you can warp things in your mind to fit a narrative though hence posts that suggest something is the standard. |
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"What’s the % of women with a certain size requirement in their profile on here? I’d vote high.
And let me just repeat, I do not speak for them, they do not speak for me, we are not the same ... This was my point.
I said high, not 100%. That being my point, which is why if 4/5 times you’re used to seeing something of course on the 5th you’ll assume the same.
Then that's really a you problem. There's an expression, "Never assume. It makes an ass out of u and me"."
There's no shortcut to "people are individuals who want different things" |
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"Yes. That doesn't mean the bigger the better but size certainly matters to me
And that's where I'm coming from. We are not one entity, asking one woman what all women think or want, is ridiculous x
The Clique® need to assimilate you too apparently
FTFY "
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"What’s the % of women with a certain size requirement in their profile on here? I’d vote high.
And let me just repeat, I do not speak for them, they do not speak for me, we are not the same ... This was my point.
I said high, not 100%. That being my point, which is why if 4/5 times you’re used to seeing something of course on the 5th you’ll assume the same.
We must be looking at different profiles, I'd say at most 1 in 5 say they want nothing less than a bigun
Right? I'm bisexual so I am, on the whole, looking at the same womens' profiles as straight guys There is no overriding "big dick, little dick hysteria" going on."
I’m a member of the “would you look at the size of that!!” Club (I make the tea and hand out the biscuits), I get asked to leave the room when the smut starts (“but leave the bloody biscuits this time”)
It’s real and true and I am blaming the size of my manhood (aka little John) on the fact I don’t get meets, you cannot deny me this!! Bloody sizests, I’m going on a march...... |
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"Try finding a dildo under 5" . 
It took me 3 seconds and a very basic google search to find many under 5" dildos
It used to be more difficult, I found, but it's certainly possible"
Haha still need to look if they made them so not for you then.. |
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"Try finding a dildo under 5" .
It took me 3 seconds and a very basic google search to find many under 5" dildos
It used to be more difficult, I found, but it's certainly possible
Haha still need to look if they made them so not for you then.. "
I didn't say I didn't have one. Back when I was first in the market they only seemed to come in the sizes ouch and holy shit. |
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"Try finding a dildo under 5" .
It took me 3 seconds and a very basic google search to find many under 5" dildos
It used to be more difficult, I found, but it's certainly possible
Haha still need to look if they made them so not for you then.. "
What is your point? You seem to be trying to make one ... |
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"Try finding a dildo under 5" .
It took me 3 seconds and a very basic google search to find many under 5" dildos
It used to be more difficult, I found, but it's certainly possible
Haha still need to look if they made them so not for you then..
I didn't say I didn't have one. Back when I was first in the market they only seemed to come in the sizes ouch and holy shit."
To be fair saw it as a meme I truly have little to known tangible knowledge on the size of of sex toys just trying to spread the joy we have a number as a couple never measured them. |
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"Try finding a dildo under 5" .
It took me 3 seconds and a very basic google search to find many under 5" dildos
It used to be more difficult, I found, but it's certainly possible
Haha still need to look if they made them so not for you then..
What is your point? You seem to be trying to make one ... "
Wow tough crowd just light-hearted banter.  |
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"Try finding a dildo under 5" .
It took me 3 seconds and a very basic google search to find many under 5" dildos
It used to be more difficult, I found, but it's certainly possible
Haha still need to look if they made them so not for you then..
What is your point? You seem to be trying to make one ...
Wow tough crowd just light-hearted banter. "
Text is the worst for conversational subtleties and nuance x |
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"Try finding a dildo under 5" .
It took me 3 seconds and a very basic google search to find many under 5" dildos
It used to be more difficult, I found, but it's certainly possible
Haha still need to look if they made them so not for you then..
What is your point? You seem to be trying to make one ...
Wow, the tough crowd just light-hearted banter.
Text is the worst for conversational subtleties and nuance x"
Just glad to have a conversation at times even one full of bad jokes will endeavour to make myself easy to understand. |
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I think it matters in the sense of compatibility to a woman's vagina and cervix. I personally can't take a big dick, I find it painful if the guy is bigger than 8. So in that sense, yes it does matter to me as I would prefer not to be in pain. But I don't think it matters in the way most men think it might - I don't judge guys for their size, I'm just aware that my physiology wouldn't suit a well endowed man. |
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"I think it matters in the sense of compatibility to a woman's vagina and cervix. I personally can't take a big dick, I find it painful if the guy is bigger than 8. So in that sense, yes it does matter to me as I would prefer not to be in pain. But I don't think it matters in the way most men think it might - I don't judge guys for their size, I'm just aware that my physiology wouldn't suit a well endowed man."
Which perfectly focuses the point I'm trying to make  How would asking me my opinion on dick size help them know what YOU want?  x |
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We are all different! To ask one woman's opinion on what all women think ... Is ridiculous x
