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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago
Kingston upon Thames |
It is always personal preference. We respect the retro/natural trimmed style but recognize that it is not everyone's choice. However it would be good to be more flexible - often it is more than what meets the eye (wink). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's their body, they should rock on with what they like"
Of course they should but to be fair that wasn’t the question. I’ve had people say they’d shave the beard off for me but I say no. I don’t want people changing for me. I wouldn’t change for anyone. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"It's their body, they should rock on with what they like
Absolutely, but apparently it’s offensive to say I’m sorry but that’s not for me "
It's absolutely not offensive to say your preference is for clean shaven - it's more *how* that preference is often stated.
Invariably on threads like this you find the inevitable, and ridiculous, derogatory comments appear, from "Ugh" to "It's unhygienic" to "If I wanted dental floss I'd buy some" etc
And it's when they come out that it becomes offensive - simply stating you prefer a partner to be clean shaven, or indeed hairy, is not in the slightest bit offensive. |
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"It's their body, they should rock on with what they like
Of course they should but to be fair that wasn’t the question. I’ve had people say they’d shave the beard off for me but I say no. I don’t want people changing for me. I wouldn’t change for anyone. "
But it's my answer to the question. If I like you, I like your beard or bush. |
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