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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

At least be honest about it,and don't put no time wasters on your profile when you happen to be the time waster

Rant over

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By *eneral HysteriaMan  over a year ago

Newcastle

Not all attached men are timewasters, just as not all women are or all couples are. Some are.

Try not to rant indiscriminately tarring everyone with your generalisations. It's not a good look.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Well sorry but,if the married guys where honest about there situation then I wouldn't feel the need to rant

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've always been honest about it x

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman  over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

My husband is honest on his profile that he's married just like I am on mine not everyone hides it but then not all married "singles" are playing away without consent

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I've always been honest about it x"

Which is always a good thing x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

same. Wish men would disclose this info from the start

I always ask now..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

How are they a time waster?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"My husband is honest on his profile that he's married just like I am on mine not everyone hides it but then not all married "singles" are playing away without consent"

That's all I'm asking for is honesty

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've always been honest about my situation.

But agree there must be loads that are not

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"How are they a time waster?"
one for just not being upfront about there situation even after after they knew what I'm looking for,so he waisted my time

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"same. Wish men would disclose this info from the start

I always ask now.. "

Yes it really makes my blood boil,and I shall also ask from now on

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Always honest and up front best way

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I've always been honest about my situation.

But agree there must be loads that are not "

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Always honest and up front best way "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Always honest and up front best way "

Not just about your status, but about most things too. All that's gonna happen is you'll get found out , and you would have waters your time and her time

Simple really

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By *urious couple22Couple  over a year ago

Derby

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm honest but not helped me on here lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Always honest and up front best way

Not just about your status, but about most things too. All that's gonna happen is you'll get found out , and you would have waters your time and her time

Simple really "

Well I wish that more guys where as honest as you

I've got nothing against married men ,at least if there honest then it's my choice if I want to meet them or whatever

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'm honest but not helped me on here lol"

Give it time lol

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By *opsy RogersWoman  over a year ago

London

Before I send my face pic in reply to a first message, I always ask if they are attached. It's easy to lie on a profile but a direct question in a nicely worded message usually sorts it out eventually.

"Hello John and thanks for the respectful and well constructed message, it makes a change! Before we carry on, may I just ask; are you attached or a smoker?"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Hi Op

Single people

Married

Couples who are on fab or elsewhere. Can also not be honest. It's not a singled out group. That's how I see things.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Before I send my face pic in reply to a first message, I always ask if they are attached. It's easy to lie on a profile but a direct question in a nicely worded message usually sorts it out eventually.

"Hello John and thanks for the respectful and well constructed message, it makes a change! Before we carry on, may I just ask; are you attached or a smoker?""

That it a very valid point,which I shall do in future,thanks for your input

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By *imple2020Man  over a year ago

Co Durham

Why lie.. we're here to find some one with simialr intrests, im sure after a while you'd find people who are comfortable with it anyway... well I hope so.. and just because your attached doesnt make you a lying cheating scumbag... not all the time anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Hi Op

Single people

Married

Couples who are on fab or elsewhere. Can also not be honest. It's not a singled out group. That's how I see things. "

Hi,yes that's also a fare point

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well sorry but,if the married guys where honest about there situation then I wouldn't feel the need to rant"

Stated on my profile married, wife knows I’m on here we have couple profile too. Not all men are bad guys.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It’s the second line on my profile but then who reads profiles?

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By *opsy RogersWoman  over a year ago

London


"Well sorry but,if the married guys where honest about there situation then I wouldn't feel the need to rant

Stated on my profile married, wife knows I’m on here we have couple profile too. Not all men are bad guys. "

So her post wasn't aimed at you then.

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By *opsy RogersWoman  over a year ago

London


"It’s the second line on my profile but then who reads profiles? "

Women do. That is women who are actually women and not men who think they are women. It's the first thing we do before opening a message or sending one.

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan  over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

Well I’m honestly single, and I live alone in my own house. (Just sayin’)

Doesn’t get me anywhere though

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By *moothshaftMan  over a year ago

Coventry

It's right at the start of my profile!

No point in dancing around it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well sorry but,if the married guys where honest about there situation then I wouldn't feel the need to rant"

I'm always honest about it. Never not been yes its ruined a few messages and that but atleast I'm honest and if it puts someone off then there's nothing I can do to change that

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

What is this

The I'm an honest cheater thread?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have to say though - I've chatted to a few ladies, who obviously did not read my profile, and then got the hump when I mentioned LOL

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It’s the second line on my profile but then who reads profiles?

Women do. That is women who are actually women and not men who think they are women. It's the first thing we do before opening a message or sending one."

Yeah they do eventually but I’ve had at least two speak to me for about a month before reading my profile then giving me shit for not telling them Cracked me up

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What is this

The I'm an honest cheater thread?

"

PMSL

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"It’s the second line on my profile but then who reads profiles? "

I always read profiles

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By *assion and MoreCouple  over a year ago

Here and There, Monaghan


"same. Wish men would disclose this info from the start

I always ask now.. "

Assuming that they are being honest in their answers

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS  over a year ago

west here ford shire


"At least be honest about it,and don't put no time wasters on your profile when you happen to be the time waster

Rant over"

I’m married

I never claim not to be

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"What is this

The I'm an honest cheater thread?

"

That would be more fitting

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"same. Wish men would disclose this info from the start

I always ask now..

Assuming that they are being honest in their answers "

Their pattern of communication is often a better indication

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Always honest yes I have a singles profile but states I'm part of a couple and vice versa on our couples profile..no need to hide it we open about what we do isnt that how it should be?

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By *issmorganWoman  over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I agree it annoys me too, its on my profile that I wouldn't meet someone playing away,but people still try it.

I always ask and usually suss them out as there are often clues.

Be upfront and give people the choice, I admire the people who are honest on their profile, knowing they get grief.

That goes for women and couples too if playing without their partners knowledge.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Always honest yes I have a singles profile but states I'm part of a couple and vice versa on our couples profile..no need to hide it we open about what we do isnt that how it should be?"

Yes that is how it should be

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

These posts always make me laugh single guys aren’t the only ones that lie about their marital/relationship status I’ve chatted with and arranged meets with females and it’s then turned out there’s an unknown partner in the background. I’m not bothered is their attached would just like honesty but rants like this are getting boring people know it happens accept it no move on this isn’t Facebook.

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By *oiluvfunMan  over a year ago

Penrith


"At least be honest about it,and don't put no time wasters on your profile when you happen to be the time waster

Rant over"

As most people only read the first line of a profile, that’s where I state my situation.

In the whole time I have been in Fab, I have never messed anyone around, nor have I failed to show for an arranged meet. A pity I cannot say the same for some of the solo females I’ve had dealings with........

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I agree it annoys me too, its on my profile that I wouldn't meet someone playing away,but people still try it.

I always ask and usually suss them out as there are often clues.

Be upfront and give people the choice, I admire the people who are honest on their profile, knowing they get grief.

That goes for women and couples too if playing without their partners knowledge. "

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"These posts always make me laugh single guys aren’t the only ones that lie about their marital/relationship status I’ve chatted with and arranged meets with females and it’s then turned out there’s an unknown partner in the background. I’m not bothered is their attached would just like honesty but rants like this are getting boring people know it happens accept it no move on this isn’t Facebook. "

Well don't comment it's that simple,I'm also aware that this isn't Facebook,I'm also bored of the ,this isn't Facebook remarks

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By *assy69Man  over a year ago

West Sussex and Wales


"At least be honest about it,and don't put no time wasters on your profile when you happen to be the time waster

Rant over"

It’s all there in my profile of people don’t like it then they can move on, I don’t ever want there to be any misunderstandings anywhere along the way so have always been open about my situation

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By *opsy RogersWoman  over a year ago

London


"These posts always make me laugh single guys aren’t the only ones that lie about their marital/relationship status I’ve chatted with and arranged meets with females and it’s then turned out there’s an unknown partner in the background. I’m not bothered is their attached would just like honesty but rants like this are getting boring people know it happens accept it no move on this isn’t Facebook. "

Yep, we all know that but this thread was specifically about men.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"At least be honest about it,and don't put no time wasters on your profile when you happen to be the time waster

Rant over"

I understand why you are ranting, I really do. But on my profile I am clear about my situation. Which leads to :

A) people have not read my profile and then are surprised after I tell them I have read their’s and they need to read mine as it looks as if I am not on their ‘requirements list’

2) assumed I am a timer waister and ignored.

Being up front and honest on here is .... difficult.

You have a great week and I hope things pick up for you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"At least be honest about it,and don't put no time wasters on your profile when you happen to be the time waster

Rant over

It’s all there in my profile of people don’t like it then they can move on, I don’t ever want there to be any misunderstandings anywhere along the way so have always been open about my situation "

Which is all that I ask

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If they’re cheating, they probably aren’t gonna be an honest person. Up to you to use your judgement, if they say they’re single, believe them, or don’t

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"At least be honest about it,and don't put no time wasters on your profile when you happen to be the time waster

Rant over

I understand why you are ranting, I really do. But on my profile I am clear about my situation. Which leads to :

A) people have not read my profile and then are surprised after I tell them I have read their’s and they need to read mine as it looks as if I am not on their ‘requirements list’

2) assumed I am a timer waister and ignored.

Being up front and honest on here is .... difficult.

You have a great week and I hope things pick up for you x "

Thank you,I do get where you are coming from though,have a nice day xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"If they’re cheating, they probably aren’t gonna be an honest person. Up to you to use your judgement, if they say they’re single, believe them, or don’t "

You really think that it's that easy then?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"At least be honest about it,and don't put no time wasters on your profile when you happen to be the time waster

Rant over

It’s all there in my profile of people don’t like it then they can move on, I don’t ever want there to be any misunderstandings anywhere along the way so have always been open about my situation "

To be fair I don’t even think it needs to be in a profile. None of anyone else’s business unless you’re arranging to meet. It should be mentioned through messaging though. Although it’s always the first thing I ask anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If they’re cheating, they probably aren’t gonna be an honest person. Up to you to use your judgement, if they say they’re single, believe them, or don’t

You really think that it's that easy then?"

Yup. Make an informed choice. Is it worth meeting someone?

This is coming from me, and I met someone who had a heavily pregnant girlfriend that I had no idea about. And I knew the guy I was meeting outside of fab, had known him for years. I only discovered he wasn’t single when he had me bent over and said ‘need to keep my phone on loud, girlfriends due date is tomorrow’.

Kicked him out, haven’t seen him again.

But - I made the choice to sleep with him in the first place, knowing fine well he could have been lying.

I’m an adult, I will choose if I sleep with someone who is a potential liar and cheater.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"These posts always make me laugh single guys aren’t the only ones that lie about their marital/relationship status I’ve chatted with and arranged meets with females and it’s then turned out there’s an unknown partner in the background. I’m not bothered is their attached would just like honesty but rants like this are getting boring people know it happens accept it no move on this isn’t Facebook.

Yep, we all know that but this thread was specifically about men."

Threads complaining about married or attached people are probably 99.9% about guys how many do you ever see from men complaining about women

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"These posts always make me laugh single guys aren’t the only ones that lie about their marital/relationship status I’ve chatted with and arranged meets with females and it’s then turned out there’s an unknown partner in the background. I’m not bothered is their attached would just like honesty but rants like this are getting boring people know it happens accept it no move on this isn’t Facebook.

Well don't comment it's that simple,I'm also aware that this isn't Facebook,I'm also bored of the ,this isn't Facebook remarks"

Well if you don’t like someone giving you their input on the subject don’t post about it then be a grown up accept these things happen and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"These posts always make me laugh single guys aren’t the only ones that lie about their marital/relationship status I’ve chatted with and arranged meets with females and it’s then turned out there’s an unknown partner in the background. I’m not bothered is their attached would just like honesty but rants like this are getting boring people know it happens accept it no move on this isn’t Facebook.

Yep, we all know that but this thread was specifically about men.

Threads complaining about married or attached people are probably 99.9% about guys how many do you ever see from men complaining about women"

To be fair most of the threads about married/attached are from the married attached guys! How many of those threads do you see from married/attached women?! People should just get on with what they do and not try and seek approval for it. They’re not gonna get it here!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"These posts always make me laugh single guys aren’t the only ones that lie about their marital/relationship status I’ve chatted with and arranged meets with females and it’s then turned out there’s an unknown partner in the background. I’m not bothered is their attached would just like honesty but rants like this are getting boring people know it happens accept it no move on this isn’t Facebook.

Yep, we all know that but this thread was specifically about men.

Threads complaining about married or attached people are probably 99.9% about guys how many do you ever see from men complaining about women"

The majority of men on sites like these don't care if the woman is married or not.

And make comments like " This is not Facebook "

Just LOL do you know how that makes you sound?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"These posts always make me laugh single guys aren’t the only ones that lie about their marital/relationship status I’ve chatted with and arranged meets with females and it’s then turned out there’s an unknown partner in the background. I’m not bothered is their attached would just like honesty but rants like this are getting boring people know it happens accept it no move on this isn’t Facebook.

Yep, we all know that but this thread was specifically about men.

Threads complaining about married or attached people are probably 99.9% about guys how many do you ever see from men complaining about women

To be fair most of the threads about married/attached are from the married attached guys! How many of those threads do you see from married/attached women?! People should just get on with what they do and not try and seek approval for it. They’re not gonna get it here!"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"These posts always make me laugh single guys aren’t the only ones that lie about their marital/relationship status I’ve chatted with and arranged meets with females and it’s then turned out there’s an unknown partner in the background. I’m not bothered is their attached would just like honesty but rants like this are getting boring people know it happens accept it no move on this isn’t Facebook.

Well don't comment it's that simple,I'm also aware that this isn't Facebook,I'm also bored of the ,this isn't Facebook remarks

Well if you don’t like someone giving you their input on the subject don’t post about it then be a grown up accept these things happen and move on. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"At least be honest about it,and don't put no time wasters on your profile when you happen to be the time waster

Rant over"

I've been very clear about my situation, and am happy to answer questions as part of a wider conversation. I wouldn't consider myself a timewaster, however I do ensure that I respect anyone who doesn't want to meet married guys.

No point in lying about it, you'll get found out eventually..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"These posts always make me laugh single guys aren’t the only ones that lie about their marital/relationship status I’ve chatted with and arranged meets with females and it’s then turned out there’s an unknown partner in the background. I’m not bothered is their attached would just like honesty but rants like this are getting boring people know it happens accept it no move on this isn’t Facebook.

Yep, we all know that but this thread was specifically about men.

Threads complaining about married or attached people are probably 99.9% about guys how many do you ever see from men complaining about women

To be fair most of the threads about married/attached are from the married attached guys! How many of those threads do you see from married/attached women?! People should just get on with what they do and not try and seek approval for it. They’re not gonna get it here!"

Married women = turn on

Married men = how fucking dare they, they’re all scum, their poor wives, I’m sick!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"These posts always make me laugh single guys aren’t the only ones that lie about their marital/relationship status I’ve chatted with and arranged meets with females and it’s then turned out there’s an unknown partner in the background. I’m not bothered is their attached would just like honesty but rants like this are getting boring people know it happens accept it no move on this isn’t Facebook.

Yep, we all know that but this thread was specifically about men.

Threads complaining about married or attached people are probably 99.9% about guys how many do you ever see from men complaining about women

To be fair most of the threads about married/attached are from the married attached guys! How many of those threads do you see from married/attached women?! People should just get on with what they do and not try and seek approval for it. They’re not gonna get it here!

Married women = turn on

Married men = how fucking dare they, they’re all scum, their poor wives, I’m sick!

"

Lol. That seems to be the general opinion on fab!. Not my opinion I might add!

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek


"These posts always make me laugh single guys aren’t the only ones that lie about their marital/relationship status I’ve chatted with and arranged meets with females and it’s then turned out there’s an unknown partner in the background. I’m not bothered is their attached would just like honesty but rants like this are getting boring people know it happens accept it no move on this isn’t Facebook.

Yep, we all know that but this thread was specifically about men.

Threads complaining about married or attached people are probably 99.9% about guys how many do you ever see from men complaining about women"

It's up to the men who've been *stung* or feel as though they've been strung along or had their time wasted whether they want to be vocal about it or not.

I've seen PLENTY of men start threads about having their time wasted by no shows or messages that have led nowhere.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"These posts always make me laugh single guys aren’t the only ones that lie about their marital/relationship status I’ve chatted with and arranged meets with females and it’s then turned out there’s an unknown partner in the background. I’m not bothered is their attached would just like honesty but rants like this are getting boring people know it happens accept it no move on this isn’t Facebook.

Yep, we all know that but this thread was specifically about men.

Threads complaining about married or attached people are probably 99.9% about guys how many do you ever see from men complaining about women

To be fair most of the threads about married/attached are from the married attached guys! How many of those threads do you see from married/attached women?! People should just get on with what they do and not try and seek approval for it. They’re not gonna get it here!

Married women = turn on

Married men = how fucking dare they, they’re all scum, their poor wives, I’m sick!

"

Yup this is sooooo true. Btw I love fucking married women, all the better without hubbys permission.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"These posts always make me laugh single guys aren’t the only ones that lie about their marital/relationship status I’ve chatted with and arranged meets with females and it’s then turned out there’s an unknown partner in the background. I’m not bothered is their attached would just like honesty but rants like this are getting boring people know it happens accept it no move on this isn’t Facebook.

Yep, we all know that but this thread was specifically about men.

Threads complaining about married or attached people are probably 99.9% about guys how many do you ever see from men complaining about women

The majority of men on sites like these don't care if the woman is married or not.

And make comments like " This is not Facebook "

Just LOL do you know how that makes you sound?

"

Don’t give a monkeys how it makes me sound if I’m honest.

You say the majority of men don’t care have you asked the majority? Like the OP I like honesty because I do care and I’m sure the majority would care as it gives them the choice as to continue with meeting

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman  over a year ago

On a mooch

I don’t see why people have to put it on their profile, it is after all a swingers site.

However, if you start chatting to someone and you know you don’t want to be with an attached person, ask the question from the outset

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Look bitches this is not Facebook!

I've got 15 minutes on Tuesday afternoon free don't waste my time!

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By *lorious hole bs16Man  over a year ago

Bristol

Let's face it, the starting point on any sites such as this,is acceptance..Things may not be as seen!

Historically lots of women and men will bend the truth in order to get laid.

That will never change..

Complaining and whingeing about it wont make an iota of difference imho.

It is our choice who we meet, do extra research if you are not sure about the marital status of men and women or simply don't meet..

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By *ex HolesMan  over a year ago

Up North

This topic is mentioned that frequently now that we should have a separate Married Men fora similar to the Virus fora.

It’s becoming very monotonous.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Look bitches this is not Facebook!

I've got 15 minutes on Tuesday afternoon free don't waste my time!

"

I was chatting to a married man once. He was quite nice. Then he said well I can’t meet in the day coz of work, I can’t do weekends and can’t really do evenings as I rarely go out in the evenings!

I just said you haven’t really thought this through have you?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This topic is mentioned that frequently now that we should have a separate Married Men fora similar to the Virus fora.

It’s becoming very monotonous. "

Yup!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Look bitches this is not Facebook!

I've got 15 minutes on Tuesday afternoon free don't waste my time!

I was chatting to a married man once. He was quite nice. Then he said well I can’t meet in the day coz of work, I can’t do weekends and can’t really do evenings as I rarely go out in the evenings!

I just said you haven’t really thought this through have you? "

I had a guy who was fucking be from behind say ‘told my wife I was golfing, well I definitely got a hole in one’

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman  over a year ago

On a mooch


"Look bitches this is not Facebook!

I've got 15 minutes on Tuesday afternoon free don't waste my time!

I was chatting to a married man once. He was quite nice. Then he said well I can’t meet in the day coz of work, I can’t do weekends and can’t really do evenings as I rarely go out in the evenings!

I just said you haven’t really thought this through have you? "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Look bitches this is not Facebook!

I've got 15 minutes on Tuesday afternoon free don't waste my time!

I was chatting to a married man once. He was quite nice. Then he said well I can’t meet in the day coz of work, I can’t do weekends and can’t really do evenings as I rarely go out in the evenings!

I just said you haven’t really thought this through have you? "

Yeah some people are just fantasise if meeting , and don't know they'll actually fit it in with their lives

LOL

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Look bitches this is not Facebook!

I've got 15 minutes on Tuesday afternoon free don't waste my time!

I was chatting to a married man once. He was quite nice. Then he said well I can’t meet in the day coz of work, I can’t do weekends and can’t really do evenings as I rarely go out in the evenings!

I just said you haven’t really thought this through have you? "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This topic is mentioned that frequently now that we should have a separate Married Men fora similar to the Virus fora.

It’s becoming very monotonous.

Yup! "

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Look bitches this is not Facebook!

I've got 15 minutes on Tuesday afternoon free don't waste my time!

I was chatting to a married man once. He was quite nice. Then he said well I can’t meet in the day coz of work, I can’t do weekends and can’t really do evenings as I rarely go out in the evenings!

I just said you haven’t really thought this through have you?

I had a guy who was fucking be from behind say ‘told my wife I was golfing, well I definitely got a hole in one’"

Twat. I’d have bit his cock off

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Look bitches this is not Facebook!

I've got 15 minutes on Tuesday afternoon free don't waste my time!

I was chatting to a married man once. He was quite nice. Then he said well I can’t meet in the day coz of work, I can’t do weekends and can’t really do evenings as I rarely go out in the evenings!

I just said you haven’t really thought this through have you?

I had a guy who was fucking be from behind say ‘told my wife I was golfing, well I definitely got a hole in one’

Twat. I’d have bit his cock off"

The joke was hilarious and I did laugh, but I made him leave and blocked him

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Look bitches this is not Facebook!

I've got 15 minutes on Tuesday afternoon free don't waste my time!

I was chatting to a married man once. He was quite nice. Then he said well I can’t meet in the day coz of work, I can’t do weekends and can’t really do evenings as I rarely go out in the evenings!

I just said you haven’t really thought this through have you?

I had a guy who was fucking be from behind say ‘told my wife I was golfing, well I definitely got a hole in one’

Twat. I’d have bit his cock off

The joke was hilarious and I did laugh, but I made him leave and blocked him"

I don’t have a problem with married men, depends on the situation, but don’t start disrespecting your wife to me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Look bitches this is not Facebook!

I've got 15 minutes on Tuesday afternoon free don't waste my time!

I was chatting to a married man once. He was quite nice. Then he said well I can’t meet in the day coz of work, I can’t do weekends and can’t really do evenings as I rarely go out in the evenings!

I just said you haven’t really thought this through have you?

I had a guy who was fucking be from behind say ‘told my wife I was golfing, well I definitely got a hole in one’

Twat. I’d have bit his cock off

The joke was hilarious and I did laugh, but I made him leave and blocked him

I don’t have a problem with married men, depends on the situation, but don’t start disrespecting your wife to me. "

Yup. I didn’t know he was married, he told me he wasn’t, which is why I laughed. Then I said ‘oh fuck off’ and he said ‘no I’m being serious’ and kept going?! Like nah mate. Dislodge yourself from my vagina and leave

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Look bitches this is not Facebook!

I've got 15 minutes on Tuesday afternoon free don't waste my time!

I was chatting to a married man once. He was quite nice. Then he said well I can’t meet in the day coz of work, I can’t do weekends and can’t really do evenings as I rarely go out in the evenings!

I just said you haven’t really thought this through have you?

I had a guy who was fucking be from behind say ‘told my wife I was golfing, well I definitely got a hole in one’

Twat. I’d have bit his cock off

The joke was hilarious and I did laugh, but I made him leave and blocked him

I don’t have a problem with married men, depends on the situation, but don’t start disrespecting your wife to me. "

This is what iv never understand.

Iv had messages like "you make my wife look like a dog" why would anyone think this would impress anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Look bitches this is not Facebook!

I've got 15 minutes on Tuesday afternoon free don't waste my time!

I was chatting to a married man once. He was quite nice. Then he said well I can’t meet in the day coz of work, I can’t do weekends and can’t really do evenings as I rarely go out in the evenings!

I just said you haven’t really thought this through have you?

I had a guy who was fucking be from behind say ‘told my wife I was golfing, well I definitely got a hole in one’

Twat. I’d have bit his cock off

The joke was hilarious and I did laugh, but I made him leave and blocked him

I don’t have a problem with married men, depends on the situation, but don’t start disrespecting your wife to me.

Yup. I didn’t know he was married, he told me he wasn’t, which is why I laughed. Then I said ‘oh fuck off’ and he said ‘no I’m being serious’ and kept going?! Like nah mate. Dislodge yourself from my vagina and leave"

Oh I’d have a problem if they didn’t tell me they were married. Definitely. Give people the choice of whether to meet you.

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek


"Let's face it, the starting point on any sites such as this,is acceptance..Things may not be as seen!

Historically lots of women and men will bend the truth in order to get laid.

That will never change..

Complaining and whingeing about it wont make an iota of difference imho.

It is our choice who we meet, do extra research if you are not sure about the marital status of men and women or simply don't meet.."

Just because it's happened historically doesn't make it right.

War, genocide, slavery and all manner of other shitty behaviours have happened historically and I don't see people saying we should just accept it happens and crack on.

Should we not stand up for what we believe in and as a unit say "lying to get laid is not acceptable. Lying to get laid is actually really fucking cruel. If someone has lied to you knowing full well you'd not shag them if they told you the truth, you know something, it can make you feel extremely fucking violated.

Dirty

Stupid

Untrusting

Afraid

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Look bitches this is not Facebook!

I've got 15 minutes on Tuesday afternoon free don't waste my time!

I was chatting to a married man once. He was quite nice. Then he said well I can’t meet in the day coz of work, I can’t do weekends and can’t really do evenings as I rarely go out in the evenings!

I just said you haven’t really thought this through have you?

I had a guy who was fucking be from behind say ‘told my wife I was golfing, well I definitely got a hole in one’

Twat. I’d have bit his cock off

The joke was hilarious and I did laugh, but I made him leave and blocked him

I don’t have a problem with married men, depends on the situation, but don’t start disrespecting your wife to me.

This is what iv never understand.

Iv had messages like "you make my wife look like a dog" why would anyone think this would impress anyone. "

Yeah I’ve had that one. It’s horrible I hate that kind of thing x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The silence from the men is deafening

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Look bitches this is not Facebook!

I've got 15 minutes on Tuesday afternoon free don't waste my time!

I was chatting to a married man once. He was quite nice. Then he said well I can’t meet in the day coz of work, I can’t do weekends and can’t really do evenings as I rarely go out in the evenings!

I just said you haven’t really thought this through have you?

I had a guy who was fucking be from behind say ‘told my wife I was golfing, well I definitely got a hole in one’

Twat. I’d have bit his cock off

The joke was hilarious and I did laugh, but I made him leave and blocked him

I don’t have a problem with married men, depends on the situation, but don’t start disrespecting your wife to me.

This is what iv never understand.

Iv had messages like "you make my wife look like a dog" why would anyone think this would impress anyone. "

‘You make my fiancé look like dog shit’

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By *eneral HysteriaMan  over a year ago

Newcastle


"These posts always make me laugh single guys aren’t the only ones that lie about their marital/relationship status I’ve chatted with and arranged meets with females and it’s then turned out there’s an unknown partner in the background. I’m not bothered is their attached would just like honesty but rants like this are getting boring people know it happens accept it no move on this isn’t Facebook. "

THIS

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"At least be honest about it,and don't put no time wasters on your profile when you happen to be the time waster

Rant over"

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By *eneral HysteriaMan  over a year ago

Newcastle


"The silence from the men is deafening "

The first remark was from a man

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The silence from the men is deafening

The first remark was from a man"

OK bro

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The silence from the men is deafening

The first remark was from a man

OK bro "

Are you looking for us to justify ourselves to you or something?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Look bitches this is not Facebook!

I've got 15 minutes on Tuesday afternoon free don't waste my time!

I was chatting to a married man once. He was quite nice. Then he said well I can’t meet in the day coz of work, I can’t do weekends and can’t really do evenings as I rarely go out in the evenings!

I just said you haven’t really thought this through have you?

I had a guy who was fucking be from behind say ‘told my wife I was golfing, well I definitely got a hole in one’

Twat. I’d have bit his cock off

The joke was hilarious and I did laugh, but I made him leave and blocked him

I don’t have a problem with married men, depends on the situation, but don’t start disrespecting your wife to me.

This is what iv never understand.

Iv had messages like "you make my wife look like a dog" why would anyone think this would impress anyone.

‘You make my fiancé look like dog shit’"

You flatterer you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The silence from the men is deafening

The first remark was from a man

OK bro

Are you looking for us to justify ourselves to you or something?

"

You can shut up as well

What are you doing Tuesday afternoon invetween 3.45 and 4pm?

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By *it ov quality!Man  over a year ago

west yorkshire

Does this apply to the "single" women who have b/f or hubby tucked away but require discretion?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The silence from the men is deafening

The first remark was from a man

OK bro

Are you looking for us to justify ourselves to you or something?

You can shut up as well

What are you doing Tuesday afternoon invetween 3.45 and 4pm?

"

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By *eneral HysteriaMan  over a year ago

Newcastle


"What is this

The I'm an honest cheater thread?

"

Another one

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Well I stand by what I say,though thanks for your opinions folks

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I always state from the start I have a partner, no point lying about it. Just like I won't tell people I'm 6ft1" or have full head of dark curly hair

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By *ab jamesMan  over a year ago

ribble valley


"Look bitches this is not Facebook!

I've got 15 minutes on Tuesday afternoon free don't waste my time!

"

OK, you've pulled!

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek

As an aside.

For those who don't fess up about their marital status, go take a peep at the "how does it feel" thread if you'd be so "kind"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well sorry but,if the married guys where honest about there situation then I wouldn't feel the need to rant

Stated on my profile married, wife knows I’m on here we have couple profile too. Not all men are bad guys.

So her post wasn't aimed at you then."

And my post wasn’t aimed at you. Her post was very general saying married men are dishonest!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Lots of single women are married as well and not all couples are couples, surely you just have a conversation you don't put your life story on the profile do you ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"As an aside.

For those who don't fess up about their marital status, go take a peep at the "how does it feel" thread if you'd be so "kind" "

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By *imple2020Man  over a year ago

Co Durham


"The silence from the men is deafening

The first remark was from a man

OK bro "

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By *latinumkittenWoman  over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth


"At least be honest about it,and don't put no time wasters on your profile when you happen to be the time waster

Rant over"

I've never seen the point in that statement on a profile - does it really deter those seen as wasting time? It just tells me, that person doesn't have adequate open dialogue to prevent such occurrences

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's on my profile so I'm honest about it

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By *oiluvfunMan  over a year ago

Penrith


"Well sorry but,if the married guys where honest about there situation then I wouldn't feel the need to rant"

I’m open from the start about my situation, but even though I put it on the first line of my profile text, it’s amazing how few people actually read it......

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By *oiluvfunMan  over a year ago

Penrith


"Does this apply to the "single" women who have b/f or hubby tucked away but require discretion? "

Don’t you dare derail a man-bashing thread! Tut tut!

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