it can be a weird one.
I love my friends, but there are times when I go quiet.
It doesn't mean I don't love them anymore, it doesn't mean I'm no longer there for them, that I've forgotten them or that I don't want them in my life.
Sometimes it really just means I'm exhausted from doing people and my brain just needs emptiness. It means I need to self care.
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Sorry you feel like that OP. although it is shit when you realise the so call friends are just idiots. But some have said there are good people out there , but can take awhile to find them |
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"it can be a weird one.
I love my friends, but there are times when I go quiet.
It doesn't mean I don't love them anymore, it doesn't mean I'm no longer there for them, that I've forgotten them or that I don't want them in my life.
Sometimes it really just means I'm exhausted from doing people and my brain just needs emptiness. It means I need to self care.
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Everyone needs to understand this and actually do it.  |
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"it can be a weird one.
I love my friends, but there are times when I go quiet.
It doesn't mean I don't love them anymore, it doesn't mean I'm no longer there for them, that I've forgotten them or that I don't want them in my life.
Sometimes it really just means I'm exhausted from doing people and my brain just needs emptiness. It means I need to self care.
Everyone needs to understand this and actually do it. "
Yep, but then a lot of the time you worry they'll think you're a bad/fake friend and you don't do the things you need to for your own wellbeing! |
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"it can be a weird one.
I love my friends, but there are times when I go quiet.
It doesn't mean I don't love them anymore, it doesn't mean I'm no longer there for them, that I've forgotten them or that I don't want them in my life.
Sometimes it really just means I'm exhausted from doing people and my brain just needs emptiness. It means I need to self care.
"
Snap. I’m a shit communicator because I need a huge amount of silence to function. Very few people get it even though I try and explain it upfront. Takes a special person to get it and respect it x |
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over a year ago
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"it can be a weird one.
I love my friends, but there are times when I go quiet.
It doesn't mean I don't love them anymore, it doesn't mean I'm no longer there for them, that I've forgotten them or that I don't want them in my life.
Sometimes it really just means I'm exhausted from doing people and my brain just needs emptiness. It means I need to self care.
Snap. I’m a shit communicator because I need a huge amount of silence to function. Very few people get it even though I try and explain it upfront. Takes a special person to get it and respect it x"
Me three. I can't deal with people all the time and often retreat into myself for days or weeks at a time, even down to ignoring messages because one to one communication is too much. I'm a tough person to be friends with but apparently it's worth it cording to some people. |
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"it can be a weird one.
I love my friends, but there are times when I go quiet.
It doesn't mean I don't love them anymore, it doesn't mean I'm no longer there for them, that I've forgotten them or that I don't want them in my life.
Sometimes it really just means I'm exhausted from doing people and my brain just needs emptiness. It means I need to self care.
Snap. I’m a shit communicator because I need a huge amount of silence to function. Very few people get it even though I try and explain it upfront. Takes a special person to get it and respect it x
Me three. I can't deal with people all the time and often retreat into myself for days or weeks at a time, even down to ignoring messages because one to one communication is too much. I'm a tough person to be friends with but apparently it's worth it cording to some people. "
Come sit with us in the quiet corner  |
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"it can be a weird one.
I love my friends, but there are times when I go quiet.
It doesn't mean I don't love them anymore, it doesn't mean I'm no longer there for them, that I've forgotten them or that I don't want them in my life.
Sometimes it really just means I'm exhausted from doing people and my brain just needs emptiness. It means I need to self care.
Snap. I’m a shit communicator because I need a huge amount of silence to function. Very few people get it even though I try and explain it upfront. Takes a special person to get it and respect it x
Me three. I can't deal with people all the time and often retreat into myself for days or weeks at a time, even down to ignoring messages because one to one communication is too much. I'm a tough person to be friends with but apparently it's worth it cording to some people. "
I totally understand that about 1 to 1 communication.
For me it can almost snap me out of my safe place (nowhere? Somewhere? there's no pressure or thinking necessary) and it's like "shit, I gotta start again now"
My phone goes on silent if I'm like that.
I guess like when someone who's pissed gets slapped up the chops and brought back to reality. |
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Quality. I have just one very close. She is a diamond. Helped me I help her. I support she supports. We don't judge. We have laughs and help each other out when it's needed. She like the mother I never had kind of friend.
After all, I only need one best friend. Not several, as toxic people I don't befriend. |
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"it can be a weird one.
I love my friends, but there are times when I go quiet.
It doesn't mean I don't love them anymore, it doesn't mean I'm no longer there for them, that I've forgotten them or that I don't want them in my life.
Sometimes it really just means I'm exhausted from doing people and my brain just needs emptiness. It means I need to self care.
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Can I steal this P?
So true!
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Those... are not friends.
I keep my circle very small.. everyone of those 6 i can put my life in thier hands and they can in mine.
The rest are acquaintances.  |
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