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I want to know if you had a disability would you tell any future meets you had in mind ? Or would you leave till you met?
Some disabilities are invisible and guess some will worry that your to shallow to meet if they told you .
I've met a disabled guy in the past ..if he had told me it wouldn't change my opinion of him as a person ..was bit of shock when we got going to find what I did  |
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over a year ago
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The minimum I expect from anyone I meet is that they disclose anything that might impact our meet. It's common courtesy and I reserve the right to walk away if they aren't what they appear to be. |
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"The minimum I expect from anyone I meet is that they disclose anything that might impact our meet. It's common courtesy and I reserve the right to walk away if they aren't what they appear to be. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always be upfront, saves a lot of awkwardness for other couple, we have done it other way and had very few rejections but it does put people on the spot for a couple of minutes x m |
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"Always be upfront, saves a lot of awkwardness for other couple, we have done it other way and had very few rejections but it does put people on the spot for a couple of minutes x m "
Yes I think if you can see their face when you discuss it ..will tell all! |
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"The minimum I expect from anyone I meet is that they disclose anything that might impact our meet. It's common courtesy and I reserve the right to walk away if they aren't what they appear to be. "
Well yes but some don't I think it's unfair to cover and shock ! |
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I've met a few people who have hidden disabilities. They've told me on the meet. It makes no difference to me.
If it was something very obvious, I would probably be surprised. Disabilities shouldn't define someone, but then they can also definately impact how things are carried out.
It's hard finding the balance of openness, many ppl WOULD walk away when supplied with certain information. Which then leaves the other feeling worthless. |
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"I've met a few people who have hidden disabilities. They've told me on the meet. It makes no difference to me.
If it was something very obvious, I would probably be surprised. Disabilities shouldn't define someone, but then they can also definately impact how things are carried out.
It's hard finding the balance of openness, many ppl WOULD walk away when supplied with certain information. Which then leaves the other feeling worthless. "
Yes lots of shallow men around |
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By *amish SMan
over a year ago
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Upfront prior to meet would be best, but if it became evident at the meet, then you can always say thanks, but no thanks. Disability is massively diverse list, where to start I could not imagine, each on its own merits is how I would take it. |
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My disability status is pretty obvious via our pics, but I do point out the wheelchair before going any further. It's happened both ways- some don't mind. Some do. We've had abuse because of it too, but bollocks to them *shrug* |
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"Upfront prior to meet would be best, but if it became evident at the meet, then you can always say thanks, but no thanks. Disability is massively diverse list, where to start I could not imagine, each on its own merits is how I would take it."
It's not that I'm deliberately noy upfront, it's just that people could know me for years, including sexually and never know so I've just never even thought about it before meeting someone. |
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"Upfront prior to meet would be best, but if it became evident at the meet, then you can always say thanks, but no thanks. Disability is massively diverse list, where to start I could not imagine, each on its own merits is how I would take it."
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"Upfront prior to meet would be best, but if it became evident at the meet, then you can always say thanks, but no thanks. Disability is massively diverse list, where to start I could not imagine, each on its own merits is how I would take it."
I can't imagine how that would go.  |
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"The minimum I expect from anyone I meet is that they disclose anything that might impact our meet. It's common courtesy and I reserve the right to walk away if they aren't what they appear to be. "
What she said! |
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some disabilities are visible and some are not
there is nothing to be ashamed about being disabled there are human beings just like the rest of us
and they deserve Sexual life like us all there are no different between you and them they have got desires just like anybody else so please do not judge
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am resgisted as blind but can see abit that class as disability I also have Baker cyst on my left leg
If I meet someone with disabitly It wouldn't change anything |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have Aspergers which is a mild form of Autism which I do handle & I would definitely go with anyone who has a disability everyone deserves fun & happiness  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've got an unstable pelvis and lower spine problems. So we would always tell anyone we meet for sex as I've got to be careful. There is always different ways that don't cause pain. |
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By *rMrs84Couple
over a year ago
Doncaster |
We do. Mrs has some invisible disabilities. Nothing serious but depending on how her health is on a day it can impact what she’s up for and change our expectations for a meet at the last minute. We figure it’s fair to let people know that we may have to scale back at the last minute and, if we go ahead, a little more care may be needed with her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would like you all to know that if anyone would like to chat I’m here for everyone , I would also like to ask for your advice , if a guy told you that he wore a bag , what would you say & would it put you off ? |
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