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over a year ago
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Hi peeps, ok so we are a couple who are now starting to experiment. We have both slept with women previously but not done anything with anyone else during the last 4 years of our relationship. But now the time has come, I am happy with B playing with females or males and he is happy with me playing with either male or female. B is only looking to have fun with females at the moment and I would feel more comfy just having fun more with men for now. We are wanting to do this alone at the moment and not as a couple but this may change in the future as we get more into the ‘swing’ of things.
We have messaged quite a few people on here but they seem to be put off when we’re not looking to meet for a ‘3way’ or ‘4way’
So we thought couples would be into maybe having B with the female in one room and me (P) in another room with the male? Is this a thing or should we look into other things to get us started?
It’s been a massive decision introducing this into our life so for the time being would prefer to keep things on our own (or different rooms if needed) but we both have access to this and look for each other etc and agree on what goes on.
Please help us out 
P&B
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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DON'T COMPROMISE!
Stick to what you want to do!
Yes, it may take you a little longer to find, but rather that than do something you'll not enjoy as much.
Go at your own pace and take baby steps into whatever you feel comfortable doing.
We're almost 5 years into this as a couple and we're only just now confident that we know what we're happy with and exactly how we lile to play...if the dynamic isn't right, we simply don't bother, it's not worth it.
Good luck 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You could also have single profiles. That could maybe work better if you’re looking to meet separately. Just mention you are in a relationship with the other person’s permission. I had a joint one but we both kept our single profiles too.
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Hi both and welcome to the forums. 
Whatever you feel will work for you is worth taking the time to find. Don't change your goalposts or limits if things seem to be taking longer than you expected. There's no rush.
You'll find there will be a fair few females that won't be interested in bi guys, but also plenty that will.
That's my words of wisdom.
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"DON'T COMPROMISE!
Stick to what you want to do!
Yes, it may take you a little longer to find, but rather that than do something you'll not enjoy as much.
Go at your own pace and take baby steps into whatever you feel comfortable doing.
We're almost 5 years into this as a couple and we're only just now confident that we know what we're happy with and exactly how we lile to play...if the dynamic isn't right, we simply don't bother, it's not worth it.
Good luck
Lu "
Fuck sake Lu, we pretty much wrote the same but you had faster thumbs  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"DON'T COMPROMISE!
Stick to what you want to do!
Yes, it may take you a little longer to find, but rather that than do something you'll not enjoy as much.
Go at your own pace and take baby steps into whatever you feel comfortable doing.
We're almost 5 years into this as a couple and we're only just now confident that we know what we're happy with and exactly how we lile to play...if the dynamic isn't right, we simply don't bother, it's not worth it.
Good luck
Lu
Fuck sake Lu, we pretty much wrote the same but you had faster thumbs "
I'm speedy for a chunkster   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As others have said dont make compromises stick to what your comfortable with, in answer to one of your questions yes seperate room fun is a thing and some cples are also looking for this as for meeting separately as the female you will find it easier as it's hard enough for single guys on here let alone married ones trying to prove they have permission to play but best of luck and hope you find a what your looking for |
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