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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is fab just fab,, are you looking for sex talk and thats it?
Would you entertain actual friendships where its not all sex chat?
Are you a text/message chit chatter, or would you have a phone call with someone?
i've had some wonderful phone conversations where we just lost track of time lol
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"Is fab just fab,, are you looking for sex talk and thats it?
Would you entertain actual friendships where its not all sex chat?
Are you a text/message chit chatter, or would you have a phone call with someone?
i've had some wonderful phone conversations where we just lost track of time lol
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I (the Boy) am very chatty on here.
When we get to Kik and WhatsApp, Kitty is chatty with those who interest her! |
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By *beeMan
over a year ago
Bristol |
I'm a messager, I don't like talking on the phone to anyone really.
I like messaging on here though as Its quite exciting to see the message box showing.
Prob not the same if you get bombarded with loads of messages though!!  |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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Very few of my conversations on and from here are sex based. There are in fact only a couple of people with whom I have any kind of sex chat at all, it's mostly just chatting rubbish and laughing a lot.
For most of the people I talk to it is text based, be that on here or elsewhere. But that's the way the world is a lot of the time. It fits in better with lives.
I've made some amazing friends on here, and once we've got to know each other a bit we've swapped phone numbers. So far I think the record is 11 hours with tiny breaks when the phone decides to cut off. So yes, prolific chatter if the occasion arises. And there are one or two folk who I'd love to spend more time actually talking to because I love the sound of their voices.
Fab has given me some amazing friends and I keep in touch with them as much as possible, however I can. |
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Very few of my conversations on and from here are sex based. There are in fact only a couple of people with whom I have any kind of sex chat at all, it's mostly just chatting rubbish and laughing a lot.
For most of the people I talk to it is text based, be that on here or elsewhere. But that's the way the world is a lot of the time. It fits in better with lives.
I've made some amazing friends on here, and once we've got to know each other a bit we've swapped phone numbers. So far I think the record is 11 hours with tiny breaks when the phone decides to cut off. So yes, prolific chatter if the occasion arises. And there are one or two folk who I'd love to spend more time actually talking to because I love the sound of their voices.
Fab has given me some amazing friends and I keep in touch with them as much as possible, however I can."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Very few of my conversations on and from here are sex based. There are in fact only a couple of people with whom I have any kind of sex chat at all, it's mostly just chatting rubbish and laughing a lot.
For most of the people I talk to it is text based, be that on here or elsewhere. But that's the way the world is a lot of the time. It fits in better with lives.
I've made some amazing friends on here, and once we've got to know each other a bit we've swapped phone numbers. So far I think the record is 11 hours with tiny breaks when the phone decides to cut off. So yes, prolific chatter if the occasion arises. And there are one or two folk who I'd love to spend more time actually talking to because I love the sound of their voices.
Fab has given me some amazing friends and I keep in touch with them as much as possible, however I can."
amazing to read that! maybe its a devonshire thing but i love chatting on the phone for hours, like id get a sense of a person through initial fab/whatsapp/kik banter but id rather take it to verbal conversation quickly. love hearin banter in live time, hearing instant reactions. x |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
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Very few of my conversations on and from here are sex based. There are in fact only a couple of people with whom I have any kind of sex chat at all, it's mostly just chatting rubbish and laughing a lot.
For most of the people I talk to it is text based, be that on here or elsewhere. But that's the way the world is a lot of the time. It fits in better with lives.
I've made some amazing friends on here, and once we've got to know each other a bit we've swapped phone numbers. So far I think the record is 11 hours with tiny breaks when the phone decides to cut off. So yes, prolific chatter if the occasion arises. And there are one or two folk who I'd love to spend more time actually talking to because I love the sound of their voices.
Fab has given me some amazing friends and I keep in touch with them as much as possible, however I can. this x"
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
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amazing to read that! maybe its a devonshire thing but i love chatting on the phone for hours, like id get a sense of a person through initial fab/whatsapp/kik banter but id rather take it to verbal conversation quickly. love hearin banter in live time, hearing instant reactions. x "
Maybe it is.... I'm a blow in though lol. But always been a Devon maid at heart.
I just like hearing their voices. It makes them feel closer. And with some people it can be like an aural hug. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a very active texter when I'm into someone, with the odd phone call thrown in. I also have friends on here I just chat generally too though, no sexy stuff |
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I am a chatterer. Living on my own, particularly in our present situation, I have plenty of time in the evening (and day for that matter) to chat.
Less keen on phone calls, as I like to dip in and out of chat whilst doing other things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is fab just fab,, are you looking for sex talk and thats it?
Would you entertain actual friendships where its not all sex chat?
Are you a text/message chit chatter, or would you have a phone call with someone?
i've had some wonderful phone conversations where we just lost track of time lol
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I’d love to chat! Any messages I receive are few and far between but are greatly appreciated all the same.  |
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"I’m chitty chitty bang bang chatty. 
You should be chattier. Talk dirty to me Fiddles..... "
I’ve got a very clay based garden needs plenty of good compost mixing in.
Ooh you mean like
I’d love you to take my hard cock in your hands and ............... |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I've made some grear friends on here. Where we talk about just about anything and everything.
I have no interest in talking to anyone who can only talk about sex on here.If that is all someone does I just stop replying after a bit. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I’m chitty chitty bang bang chatty.
You should be chattier. Talk dirty to me Fiddles.....
I’ve got a very clay based garden needs plenty of good compost mixing in.
Ooh you mean like
I’d love you to take my hard cock in your hands and ............... "
You know how to do it |
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I enjoy a bit of sex talk. I enjoy a chat but I'm not a prolific chattterer. It kinda loses it's momentum when I'm just too busy and messages get lost. Which is a shame in some cases as I have spoken to some really lovely people. |
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"I’m chitty chitty bang bang chatty.
You should be chattier. Talk dirty to me Fiddles.....
I’ve got a very clay based garden needs plenty of good compost mixing in.
Ooh you mean like
I’d love you to take my hard cock in your hands and ...............
You know how to do it "
I’m a world champ at gibberish, that and pretending I have a magnificent penis. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I’m chitty chitty bang bang chatty.
You should be chattier. Talk dirty to me Fiddles.....
I’ve got a very clay based garden needs plenty of good compost mixing in.
Ooh you mean like
I’d love you to take my hard cock in your hands and ...............
You know how to do it
I’m a world champ at gibberish, that and pretending I have a magnificent penis. "
It's rather magnificent from the angles I've seen it from. Have to see what it's like from below 
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"I’m chitty chitty bang bang chatty.
You should be chattier. Talk dirty to me Fiddles.....
I’ve got a very clay based garden needs plenty of good compost mixing in.
Ooh you mean like
I’d love you to take my hard cock in your hands and ...............
You know how to do it
I’m a world champ at gibberish, that and pretending I have a magnificent penis.
It's rather magnificent from the angles I've seen it from. Have to see what it's like from below
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Just getting my ladder. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I’m chitty chitty bang bang chatty.
You should be chattier. Talk dirty to me Fiddles.....
I’ve got a very clay based garden needs plenty of good compost mixing in.
Ooh you mean like
I’d love you to take my hard cock in your hands and ...............
You know how to do it
I’m a world champ at gibberish, that and pretending I have a magnificent penis.
It's rather magnificent from the angles I've seen it from. Have to see what it's like from below
Just getting my ladder. "
Ooh. Am I getting a rise out of you? |
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"I’m chitty chitty bang bang chatty.
You should be chattier. Talk dirty to me Fiddles.....
I’ve got a very clay based garden needs plenty of good compost mixing in.
Ooh you mean like
I’d love you to take my hard cock in your hands and ...............
You know how to do it
I’m a world champ at gibberish, that and pretending I have a magnificent penis.
It's rather magnificent from the angles I've seen it from. Have to see what it's like from below
Just getting my ladder.
Ooh. Am I getting a rise out of you? "
Like a well kneaded loaf. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I’m chitty chitty bang bang chatty.
You should be chattier. Talk dirty to me Fiddles.....
I’ve got a very clay based garden needs plenty of good compost mixing in.
Ooh you mean like
I’d love you to take my hard cock in your hands and ...............
You know how to do it
I’m a world champ at gibberish, that and pretending I have a magnificent penis.
It's rather magnificent from the angles I've seen it from. Have to see what it's like from below
Just getting my ladder.
Ooh. Am I getting a rise out of you?
Like a well kneaded loaf. "
Oooofffftttt Fiddles. That's done it for me |
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A purely sexual connection is a little boring, friendship with or without benefits is all good though for me mundane prattle is just that, mundane. I'd rather connect and talk about meaningful stuff or silly shit, flit between them and some more saucy stuff then back again. Swapping naughty texts is fun but phone sex not so, also not in to long phone calls as a rule, communication takes so much more than just your voice. I think text differs slightly due to the lack of urgency to respond so you get to put some thought in to it....unlike my shite post here. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
The vast majority of the discussions I have from here aren't in the remotest bit "sexy" - in my time here I've chatted about all sorts and made good friends of the non-sexual variety as well as the sexual.
Sometimes the chat just flows naturally and easily, other times it has to be nurtured, and sometimes it just fizzled naturally - no different from real life interaction really. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i'd say i'm quite texty...both naughty chat and just general friendly chat.
and with the right person, i can chat on the phone/video aaaaall night long about nothing and everything  "
you are very easy to talk too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is fab just fab,, are you looking for sex talk and thats it?
Would you entertain actual friendships where its not all sex chat?
Are you a text/message chit chatter, or would you have a phone call with someone?
i've had some wonderful phone conversations where we just lost track of time lol
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That last line sums it up nicely for me. Nothing wrong with a bit of flirting but it's not about sex talk. Perfect time with all the restrictions to build a connection.
I am made to feel weird by some on here for expecting this to be a normal done thing. |
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In real life I'm very chatty with my friends, but on fab I'm very guarded as to who comes into my inner circle and can count on one hand my actual friends that I chat to on a daily basis and because I use fab for mainly sex I actually have more sex talk than normal conversations on here |
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"Is fab just fab,, are you looking for sex talk and thats it?
Would you entertain actual friendships where its not all sex chat?
Are you a text/message chit chatter, or would you have a phone call with someone?
i've had some wonderful phone conversations where we just lost track of time lol
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For me it's all, and only, about the chat! We don't play with others so I use fab to make new friends before going to clubs and stay in touch. In the past week I've had three socials with two different new guys where we chatted bollocks in parks and pubs for hours, it's not the same as talking to real life boring people. So anyone who fancies a banter filled chat hmu! Bonus points if we can actually meet up and chat shit over drinks haha
Jem xx |
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By *hav02Man
over a year ago
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"i'd say i'm quite texty...both naughty chat and just general friendly chat.
and with the right person, i can chat on the phone/video aaaaall night long about nothing and everything
you are very easy to talk too "
As an early worm, You can wake me up any morning |
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Im extremely chatty in real life. To much so at times.
But i chat in pm on here but thats about it. I never sex chat with anyone even my long term friends prefer to be doing it than chatting about it. I talk about once a week on the phone to my long term friends and thats it. I rarely add anyone to whatsapp i find it to intrusive. My real life friends we have an open whatsapp conversation going and add to it when weve got something to say.
I never text a text could be sat there weeks as i never check them. I have no notifications switched on i find that intrusive and people who expect instant replies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would prefer to chat on the phone if I had the choice purely because a conversation flows better. I've had couple of phone chats with Fabbers but it's been mostly texting. I've spoken all genders on here and will keep in touch with one or two guys that I have no intention of shagging lol it's not all about getting the leg over on Fab |
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Oh I love to chat! To the point that people tell me to shut up or fall asleep.
I have a few people on here that I can talk to for hours, but most only want to message. Or talk dirty. And I ain't doing that til we've done the dirty |
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"I love to chat! I talk to a few from fab on phone and message chat x
I must be messaging the wrong women "
I love voices I find them as much of a turn on as eyes if someone has both then that's a bonus x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love to chat! I talk to a few from fab on phone and message chat x
I must be messaging the wrong women
I love voices I find them as much of a turn on as eyes if someone has both then that's a bonus x"
It usually helps them see better |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i'd say i'm quite texty...both naughty chat and just general friendly chat.
and with the right person, i can chat on the phone/video aaaaall night long about nothing and everything
you are very easy to talk too
As an early worm, You can wake me up any morning "
might take you up on that again x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love to chat! I talk to a few from fab on phone and message chat x
I must be messaging the wrong women
I love voices I find them as much of a turn on as eyes if someone has both then that's a bonus x
It usually helps them see better "
The eyes or the voice |
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I happily chat to people, about all sorts on here
Wouldn't talk on the phone with someone I wasn't planning to meet.
I've chatted to someone about 6 years now and we've never met and we do talk alot of rubbish.
I only don't engage someone gets v crude or rude in a message, when we haven't spoken much. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us, if the social side isn't there, play isn't going to happen.
We look at swinging as fun times with our friends. Occasionally we might have one offs but they're always either someone we've met at a club and got on with socially or someone we've gotten to know before hand and just not wanted to or had a chance to play again for whatever reason.
Personally speaking, I have a decent number of fab friends I've either not now or never have had a sexual interest in.
We might be swingers but we're still people, and in my experience people make friends in all kinds of places
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Im a chatty texter ... i tend to be a multi tasker so can hold a text conversation, do the housework and watch tv all at the same time ...
Would love to make some non sex friends just to have soneone who understands the scene to be able to chatter to ..
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I'm a chatterer. I think there's only one person on here I have much sex chat with, and it took a very long time for that to start (and doesn't happen often, in fairness - 90% of the time I'm talking utter bollocks). The rest of the time it's a combination of superficial small talk and deep and meaningful stuff. I am always happy to chat to someone interesting, whether either of us are interested in meeting or not.
I do tend to use messages rather than phone - I find phone calls awkward until we've met, and then I'm fine with them. Sometimes text or WhatsApp doesn't allow space to explain, but a long message on here doesn't allow for questions and elaboration, so phone is the best way to go.
Horses for courses. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I actually forget what this site is for sometimes (yes I know it’s for anything you make of it) and find myself chatting about all kinds of things to people. I’m sure sometimes the must wonder wtf I’m on about! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m an erratic chatter but I’ve never done the sexy chat shiz. I like to get to know people and decide if I like them as humans "
I hope I don't come across as Alien |
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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago
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Very rarely do sex chat i think that's a myth ppl think because this is a swinging site , that what you should talk about , but if that's all men can talk about I'm not interested , its general chat for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is fab just fab,, are you looking for sex talk and thats it?
Would you entertain actual friendships where its not all sex chat?
Are you a text/message chit chatter, or would you have a phone call with someone?
i've had some wonderful phone conversations where we just lost track of time lol
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We chat to people on here about what we and they are looking for. If there's a mutual interest and sense of humour we have kik. Its not all about sex for us its also about chatting to like minded couples/ladies about whatever they want to talk about. Sexting, flirting, social meets and maybe some fun is always going to be a bonus.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very rarely do sex chat i think that's a myth ppl think because this is a swinging site , that what you should talk about , but if that's all men can talk about I'm not interested , its general chat for me "
Exactly. If you can't hold a general conversation and every message is what you would like to do to my wife. Were not interested we would much rather have a natter with a bit of flirting, innuendo and banter. |
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For us sex comes out of meeting people we like, can have a good chat with and socialise with.
A couple of our best friends on here we are regularly in contact with on WhatsApp. We've even had virtual lunches with one of them over a video call.
If we don't feel like we could socialise with somebody we wouldn't want to meet them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is fab just fab,, are you looking for sex talk and thats it?
Would you entertain actual friendships where its not all sex chat?
Are you a text/message chit chatter, or would you have a phone call with someone?
i've had some wonderful phone conversations where we just lost track of time lol
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I’m up for friendship as well as you know what sharing and learning is a good thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends. I'm not much of a sexter. I text a fuck load though and REALLY enjoy it! I talk to a few fabbers a lot and generally that has not a lot to do with shagging. If I'm meeting someone then messages/pics can be a bit filthy, but otherwise it's random day to day funniness and pics of my weird life and random shiz like my puppy.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m chatty, when I remember to reply 
I love a good natter on the phone... not sex chat, just general chat and I have made some great friends from here who I talk to about anything and everything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Super chit chatty! In fact I’d be more likely to arrange a meet with someone who is happy chit chatting rather then straight into the list of things they want to do to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I definitely want more than just sex talk from fab. I am very open to friendships but I do find it quite difficult to text and I honestly suck at replying and I struggle to keep a conversation going. I an also pretty bad at phone calls so I haven't really made many friendships through here. I much prefer face to face chat. If I'm comfortable around you I genuinely don't shut up and talk about anything and everything.
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