So I’m in a strong current relationship, but I want nothing more than an ex. She is engaged, but not a day goes by without me thinking about her non stop. We are currently talking whilst working on a creative project, which has seriously intensified my feelings for her. Do I open up and pour my heart out? Just because it may be the last chance? I’m really stuck for people to ask and would love some genuine advice. I can’t function daily because of these feelings |
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I understand that. But theirs actually no problem with my current girlfriend. I don’t seek other females for sex or relationship reasons, I’ve never met a anyone more suited to me, apart from my ex. So to split up with my current girlfriend would partially be backwards. I do feel I should, but if my ex rejects me fully, I’ve wasted the 2nd most important girl I’ve met |
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Why is she an ex?
Why do you think you have feelings for her now? Because she’s moved on?
Imo, rarely does getting back with an ex work out, they are usually exes for good reason. |
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Don’t string them along or you will lose them both. Don’t make it messy. You can’t have your cake and eat it, it won’t end well. Best choose, and choose fast |
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If your current girlfriend is the “2nd most important” in your life you should end it now. The main reason being that it’s cruel to keep her tagging along behind a ghost of an old relationship. If your ex wants you back or not, no one deserves to be a consolation prize. |
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I’ve chosen. I guess I need the courage to talk to my current girlfriend and explain how I feel and how it really isn’t about her, and she couldn’t do anything to change how I feel. It’s just impossible to explain I need time to re-evaluate my life and Get my head around my ex without actually losing my current girl forever. I wouldn’t act behind her back either. Hence me asking for advice in my life pickle |
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You could say I’m mad asking relationship advice on a swinger forum but to my way of thinking swinger couples know how to trust and be trusted better than anybody? And also know where the boundary is |
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"If your current girlfriend is the “2nd most important” in your life you should end it now. The main reason being that it’s cruel to keep her tagging along behind a ghost of an old relationship. If your ex wants you back or not, no one deserves to be a consolation prize. "
This.
I’d hate you if I found I was second choice. |
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"If your current girlfriend is the “2nd most important” in your life you should end it now. The main reason being that it’s cruel to keep her tagging along behind a ghost of an old relationship. If your ex wants you back or not, no one deserves to be a consolation prize. "
This  |
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"A fairytale world where she’d allow me to push the avenue whilst waiting for me would be amazing. But It’s not going to be that pretty in reality I guess "
Wouldn't it be lovely if we could all have our cake and eat it.
Tread warily, you may find you have no cake at all.
Maybe some time out? |
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"So I’m in a strong current relationship, but I want nothing more than an ex. She is engaged, but not a day goes by without me thinking about her non stop. We are currently talking whilst working on a creative project, which has seriously intensified my feelings for her. Do I open up and pour my heart out? Just because it may be the last chance? I’m really stuck for people to ask and would love some genuine advice. I can’t function daily because of these feelings "
Forbidden fruit
Age old tale
Grass is greener - it rarely is btw
Go for it. What have you got to lose?
Saira x |
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"I understand that. But theirs actually no problem with my current girlfriend. I don’t seek other females for sex or relationship reasons, I’ve never met a anyone more suited to me, apart from my ex. So to split up with my current girlfriend would partially be backwards. I do feel I should, but if my ex rejects me fully, I’ve wasted the 2nd most important girl I’ve met "
I've changed my mind
You're clearly a C**t |
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Well that escalated quickly.
Women aren't football teams. They should all be number 1 when with you. Sounds like your current GF is the reserve team and nobody wants to watch them. Let her get into someone else's first team. She deserves a better pitch to play on. |
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"If your current girlfriend is the “2nd most important” in your life you should end it now. The main reason being that it’s cruel to keep her tagging along behind a ghost of an old relationship. If your ex wants you back or not, no one deserves to be a consolation prize.
This "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Feel sorry for your current girlfriend, you don't diserve her, let her get on with her life and find someone who doesn't think of her as second best, grow a pair, if I was your current girl and read this, you feet wouldn't touch the ground as I got rid of you and moved on, are you so insecure that you can't be single? And at the same time probably distroy your girlfriend if she found out, don't be so selfish |
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"If you love two people at the same time,choose the second one, because if you really loved the first one you wouldn`t have fallen for the second."
Johnny Depp (surprisingly) |
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""If you love two people at the same time,choose the second one, because if you really loved the first one you wouldn`t have fallen for the second."
Johnny Depp (surprisingly)"
Yeah
He's done fabulously with relationships |
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"I’m actually curious now why the Ex-girlfriend is an Ex? If she was so perfect etc why did you break up? "
I'm curious as to which one got took to Tesco
My life is dull compared to OP's |
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"I’m actually curious now why the Ex-girlfriend is an Ex? If she was so perfect etc why did you break up?
I'm curious as to which one got took to Tesco
My life is dull compared to OP's"
If i was closer I'd love to help you liven it up  |
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"I’m actually curious now why the Ex-girlfriend is an Ex? If she was so perfect etc why did you break up?
I'm curious as to which one got took to Tesco
My life is dull compared to OP's
If i was closer I'd love to help you liven it up "
If you have
A. A Black Country accent
B. And Uno game
And C. A local Tesco
I might consider it |
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"I’m actually curious now why the Ex-girlfriend is an Ex? If she was so perfect etc why did you break up?
I'm curious as to which one got took to Tesco
My life is dull compared to OP's
If i was closer I'd love to help you liven it up
If you have
A. A Black Country accent
B. And Uno game
And C. A local Tesco
I might consider it"
An not and. Ffs |
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"I’m actually curious now why the Ex-girlfriend is an Ex? If she was so perfect etc why did you break up?
I'm curious as to which one got took to Tesco
My life is dull compared to OP's
If i was closer I'd love to help you liven it up
If you have
A. A Black Country accent
B. And Uno game
And C. A local Tesco
I might consider it
An not and. Ffs"
Will my brummie accent do x |
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"I’m actually curious now why the Ex-girlfriend is an Ex? If she was so perfect etc why did you break up?
I'm curious as to which one got took to Tesco
My life is dull compared to OP's
If i was closer I'd love to help you liven it up
If you have
A. A Black Country accent
B. And Uno game
And C. A local Tesco
I might consider it
An not and. Ffs
Will my brummie accent do x"
At a push |
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"I’m actually curious now why the Ex-girlfriend is an Ex? If she was so perfect etc why did you break up?
I'm curious as to which one got took to Tesco
My life is dull compared to OP's
If i was closer I'd love to help you liven it up
If you have
A. A Black Country accent
B. And Uno game
And C. A local Tesco
I might consider it
An not and. Ffs
Will my brummie accent do x
At a push"
They be a plenty a pushing going on x |
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