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How do you feel when you’ve messaged every woman within 20 miles and no takers
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I wouldn't ever message every woman within a certain radius, but if I had I'd firstly be questioning how selective I was being and whether I just saw every hole as a goal, and secondly if none of them had replied I'd be looking at what I could change to improve my chances of getting a reply, including whether I should be looking for people that I matched what they were looking for, and they matched what I was, rather than blanket bombing everyone within that radius. |
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"I wouldn't ever message every woman within a certain radius, but if I had I'd firstly be questioning how selective I was being and whether I just saw every hole as a goal, and secondly if none of them had replied I'd be looking at what I could change to improve my chances of getting a reply, including whether I should be looking for people that I matched what they were looking for, and they matched what I was, rather than blanket bombing everyone within that radius."
i know what ya saying . I started off with the ones I fancied. All nice and polite, introducing my self. Not to long not to short not pushy not pleading. That didn’t work. May a short punchy message then, Nope. Ok maybe cheeky will work, nope not that either. Ok message the ones that I wouldn’t want to meet , they’ll answer and I’ll have to make my excuses. Nope even they don’t want me. New profile name and new photos, nope.
So I’m turning gay see if that will help Lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ummmmm. I will let you know if I ever do!
But, seriously don't lose hope. People are fickle, what they like/don't like changes on a given day.
Perhaps look at your profile and see if it can be improved. Change what you say in your messages.
Just hang around the forums, let people get to know you!
Don't give up. How many women have you chatted up in the pub have straight away jumped you? |
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"seriously op did you read every woman within 20miles profile and was so well suited you message them or did you just randomly message them without a thoughy whether you where compatable or not"
nah just trying some response even the ones I wouldn’t touch with yours.
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I wouldn't ever message every woman within a certain radius, but if I had I'd firstly be questioning how selective I was being and whether I just saw every hole as a goal, and secondly if none of them had replied I'd be looking at what I could change to improve my chances of getting a reply, including whether I should be looking for people that I matched what they were looking for, and they matched what I was, rather than blanket bombing everyone within that radius.i know what ya saying . I started off with the ones I fancied. All nice and polite, introducing my self. Not to long not to short not pushy not pleading. That didn’t work. May a short punchy message then, Nope. Ok maybe cheeky will work, nope not that either. Ok message the ones that I wouldn’t want to meet , they’ll answer and I’ll have to make my excuses. Nope even they don’t want me. New profile name and new photos, nope.
So I’m turning gay see if that will help Lol. "
I do hope your tongue is well and truly in your cheek with all of that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldn't ever message every woman within a certain radius, but if I had I'd firstly be questioning how selective I was being and whether I just saw every hole as a goal, and secondly if none of them had replied I'd be looking at what I could change to improve my chances of getting a reply, including whether I should be looking for people that I matched what they were looking for, and they matched what I was, rather than blanket bombing everyone within that radius.i know what ya saying . I started off with the ones I fancied. All nice and polite, introducing my self. Not to long not to short not pushy not pleading. That didn’t work. May a short punchy message then, Nope. Ok maybe cheeky will work, nope not that either. Ok message the ones that I wouldn’t want to meet , they’ll answer and I’ll have to make my excuses. Nope even they don’t want me. New profile name and new photos, nope.
So I’m turning gay see if that will help Lol. "
The only word I have is wow! |
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So I’m turning gay see if that will help Lol.
Let me know how it goes!  "
im gonna start messaging TS’s that’s if I can find one that looks like woman and not a boxer in woman’s knickers and a bad wig |
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"seriously op did you read every woman within 20miles profile and was so well suited you message them or did you just randomly message them without a thoughy whether you where compatable or notnah just trying some response even the ones I wouldn’t touch with yours. "
Jesus christ!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldn't ever message every woman within a certain radius, but if I had I'd firstly be questioning how selective I was being and whether I just saw every hole as a goal, and secondly if none of them had replied I'd be looking at what I could change to improve my chances of getting a reply, including whether I should be looking for people that I matched what they were looking for, and they matched what I was, rather than blanket bombing everyone within that radius.i know what ya saying . I started off with the ones I fancied. All nice and polite, introducing my self. Not to long not to short not pushy not pleading. That didn’t work. May a short punchy message then, Nope. Ok maybe cheeky will work, nope not that either. Ok message the ones that I wouldn’t want to meet , they’ll answer and I’ll have to make my excuses. Nope even they don’t want me. New profile name and new photos, nope.
So I’m turning gay see if that will help Lol. "
that bit about messaging the ones you wouldn't meet, kind of sums up why you aren't getting meets, think about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To old, wrong sex, dicks to Small, not tall enough, body the wrong shape, wrong colour, wrong sexual persuasion. "
May I suggest not sending dick pics out? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To old, wrong sex, dicks to Small, not tall enough, body the wrong shape, wrong colour, wrong sexual persuasion.
May I suggest not sending dick pics out?"
Dont tell 'em that
I'm gonna have to totally rewrite my profile text now, and I'm a very busy woman  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do you have any requirements?
Or do you just message anything with a pulse?
I’m pretty sure any woman you message who may read this post will feel exceptionally flattered and wanted now...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s why the forum is here...it’s a waiting room for people looking for more people to arrive within their radius.
Some people have been here between 18 to 99 years. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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So I’m turning gay see if that will help Lol.
Let me know how it goes!
im gonna start messaging TS’s that’s if I can find one that looks like woman and not a boxer in woman’s knickers and a bad wig "
That will probably yield even worse results for you , well unless the paper comes out prior to get the meet for an hour |
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Option 1 keep trying
Option 2 form a group
Option 3 become a TV/TS
Option 4 give up
Option 5 life of crime
Let's face it men here outnumber the women 100:1 so they are fickle n fussy. If you're not a tall sex God your going to have to have something else get very lucky, with clubs closed it's tough.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldn't ever message every woman within a certain radius, but if I had I'd firstly be questioning how selective I was being and whether I just saw every hole as a goal, and secondly if none of them had replied I'd be looking at what I could change to improve my chances of getting a reply, including whether I should be looking for people that I matched what they were looking for, and they matched what I was, rather than blanket bombing everyone within that radius.i know what ya saying . I started off with the ones I fancied. All nice and polite, introducing my self. Not to long not to short not pushy not pleading. That didn’t work. May a short punchy message then, Nope. Ok maybe cheeky will work, nope not that either. Ok message the ones that I wouldn’t want to meet , they’ll answer and I’ll have to make my excuses. Nope even they don’t want me. New profile name and new photos, nope.
So I’m turning gay see if that will help Lol. "
I wouldn't bother messaging any woman. I look at their profile and that's enough. If they want they can message me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To old, wrong sex, dicks to Small, not tall enough, body the wrong shape, wrong colour, wrong sexual persuasion. "
Enough about the women, whats wrong with you? |
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It is difficult punching through the barriers that women need to put up with your first message but you may be going about it in the wrong way. Stay calm and optimistic and honest. Don’t message those that you are not interested in. That’s just like more junk mail through their letter boxes. It’s only ever going to go in the bin. |
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I'd say stop messaging.
You are just going to annoy people, especially now they have all seen you are now just sending them out to people you don't even fancy
The ladies on here are inundated with messages. Just because they don't reply doesn't mean they wouldn't be interested, they may have just missed it.
Instead use the forums, get chatting, have fun.
Eventually people will start to see who you are and you will naturally start making friends and connections... as long as your not a complete dick. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"seriously op did you read every woman within 20miles profile and was so well suited you message them or did you just randomly message them without a thoughy whether you where compatable or notnah just trying some response even the ones I wouldn’t touch with yours. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To old, wrong sex, dicks to Small, not tall enough, body the wrong shape, wrong colour, wrong sexual persuasion. "
men are commodities i'm afraid. finding sincreity on the other hand is in short supply |
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"What is the best 1st message to get ppl attention????"
Send a pic of your cock with a polite "wanna meet round the back of the pound shop?" Women are easy like that on here. Feel free to copy paste like the rest of us, that way you can get through more with little effort |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"OP after messaging everyone with a pulse within 20 miles and getting no takers I usually follow it up with a status message
“Cake!!!!! Free cake!!!!!!”
You’ll thank me later "
Cake?  |
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"OP after messaging everyone with a pulse within 20 miles and getting no takers I usually follow it up with a status message
“Cake!!!!! Free cake!!!!!!”
You’ll thank me later
Cake? "
See OP......
The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.
Try cake. |
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Thank you Mr & Mrs Marmite for your PM and subsequent block so that I can’t reply.
No I’m not desperate nor am I sad
My post was meant tongue in cheek. If you can’t see that, I’m sorry.
Yes I’ve messaged a good number of women. And I only messaged those who genuinely match my preferences. And yes it is quite annoying when you read a long profile to find in the last sentence.
That your to old the wrong sex to short wrong colour wrong sexual orientation.
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"What is the best 1st message to get ppl attention????
Send a pic of your cock with a polite "wanna meet round the back of the pound shop?" Women are easy like that on here. Feel free to copy paste like the rest of us, that way you can get through more with little effort "
Bugger that didn’t work. |
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