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Does age really matter?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When it comes to getting that spark getting the attraction to someone especially on Fab is age really a problem because once upon a time we all used to be young and now we are all getting old  |
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By *am4youMan
over a year ago
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Age does matter and but all to their own. I personally will not have sexual intercourse with someone I’m old enough to be her dad or someone old enough to be my mum. Like I said it’s all about preference.
I have a good friend on here that will never have sex with someone than she’s not at least 20 years than. |
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At a club or party i am well aware i have had great sex with men very much younger than me. This is never a problem and age is not an issue but if i choose to spend 1 to 1 time with a certain person then i really do need someone i feel comfortable with in many other ways apart from just a sexual connection. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Young looking guys are a big no
We have a son in late teens so that's just wrong in my eyes
Everyone is different OP
Jo x "
I completely understand that everyone is different everyone has got their own opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes I wish it didn't matter as they are some beautiful women that are older than myself on this site that I would love to talk too but everyone has a preference and you have to respect that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I sometimes think maybe it would be fun to shag someone in their 20s /30s... But then i think what on earth will we talk about  "
You never know there could be some interesting things that you could talk about like the weather  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes it’s important, and wouldn’t go with anyone my child’s age, maturity and experience counts for a lot"
I've always said for 32 years old I'm not too bad in the mature way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I sometimes think maybe it would be fun to shag someone in their 20s /30s... But then i think what on earth will we talk about
You talk? "
Ummm yeah haha.... I need input  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I sometimes think maybe it would be fun to shag someone in their 20s /30s... But then i think what on earth will we talk about
You never know there could be some interesting things that you could talk about like the weather "
Err
See.. I'll stick with my interesting 40+..actually seems to be 50+ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For a no strings sex meet I am not really bothered about age , as long as there is the physical attraction to want to meet in the first place .
If I was wanting to date then yes age is massively important for me . |
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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago
Butlins, Bognor Regis |
Yes it matters, fab is different from a club. You build a rapport with someone here and generally someone of a similar age gets my references, there are exceptions but I'll never really go too young... There are people reading this thinking he hasn't got a chance anyway lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I sometimes think maybe it would be fun to shag someone in their 20s /30s... But then i think what on earth will we talk about "
^^This^^  While I would be flattered if someone in their 20s/30s wanted to sleep with me in all honesty it would probably not happen or, if it did, just be a one off (but like anything there will be exceptions).
While I usually prefer someone 5-6 years younger I wouldn't discount anyone 5-6 years older if a connection was there. |
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Also I look at my body which shows signs of a life well lived and the experiences we've been through together and think that despite their protestations that they like older women, young men in their 20s and 30s would never pick an older woman over younger if they had the choice.
I don't say that in a sad way but it's realistic and I don't want to feel like second best. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Doesn't matter for me personally. I feel a bit awkward if I'm with someone too young, I know I shouldn't feel awkward but I just feel peoples "gaze of judgment" with anything too much more than ten years difference.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes i find 20 somethings dont have much realworld life experience or much i can relate with in conversations.
I like people around my age -5 year +10 years... better conversion and soo so much better & more experimental in bed.
Im not strict on age but i wouldnt fuck a fit 20 year old just because she was pretty.  |
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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago
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"Also I look at my body which shows signs of a life well lived and the experiences we've been through together and think that despite their protestations that they like older women, young men in their 20s and 30s would never pick an older woman over younger if they had the choice.
I don't say that in a sad way but it's realistic and I don't want to feel like second best. "
I completely agree, I'm surprised if anyone in their 20s or 30s shows any interest in me. Clubs are different and I get that |
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"Also I look at my body which shows signs of a life well lived and the experiences we've been through together and think that despite their protestations that they like older women, young men in their 20s and 30s would never pick an older woman over younger if they had the choice.
I don't say that in a sad way but it's realistic and I don't want to feel like second best.
I completely agree, I'm surprised if anyone in their 20s or 30s shows any interest in me. Clubs are different and I get that"
Yes.
I think once you reach 50 to 65/70 things even out a bit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The spark is the one that makes a difference to me. Age less so.
If someone is fun, attractive to me and interesting then I’m always happy to get to know them, age be damned. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't shag an 18 or a 99 year old. I have an range between those that I seem to keep falling into. But that's probably just the 'middle age crisis' age when men panic that they'll never have sex again so they chat me up. |
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