Right so here goes...... I think I'm addicted to sex and I think this because even though I don't fancy guys if I'm horny enough and a woman isn't free then I'll let a guy fuck me to cure the itch.
I don't classify myself as gay, I wouldn't even say I'm bi because I have no sexual attraction to guys, I only find woman attractive especially ones with all the right curves x
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over a year ago
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If you've had cock inside you then you are bi. Sorry to disappoint you.
Don't need an attraction for a guy to be bi. I can say I'm gay and enjoy sex with women... that would make me either straight or bi... same terms buddy |
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over a year ago
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Look up hypersexuality and hypomania and see if it fits your situation.
I've experienced this in a hypomanic situation where nothing but cock would do even though I have no attraction to men normally. |
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I think labels are a bit over rated but if you’re looking for one then you sound bi.
Maybe you just haven’t met the right man yet. After all do you fancy all the women you’ve ever slept with? Or just all women? Probably not.
And you say that you don’t find men attractive, does that mean you’d sleep with any man no matter how he looked? I bet you wouldn’t, therefore you must find something more appealing about the ones you do sleep with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Right so here goes...... I think I'm addicted to sex and I think this because even though I don't fancy guys if I'm horny enough and a woman isn't free then I'll let a guy fuck me to cure the itch.
I don't classify myself as gay, I wouldn't even say I'm bi because I have no sexual attraction to guys, I only find woman attractive especially ones with all the right curves x
Sensible feedback on this would be great"
You're bi OP, wether you want to class yourself as such or not  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Are you saying you like things up your bum, but sometimes only a cock will do because of it's shape, it's texture, it's warmth etc...? Yep, you're still definitely bi but why stress about it? What was the question anyway? 
There's blokes on here who shag women who they don't really fancy just because they like the feel of a pussy or because the women they do fancy won't shag them and they need the boost, innit....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Finally! The true definition of 'Fab Straight' right there!! 
I’m fab gay, I like cock but secretly only fancy women. Don’t tell anybody.
Oh I fancy you.   "
Nice photos  x |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"Right so here goes...... I think I'm addicted to sex and I think this because even though I don't fancy guys if I'm horny enough and a woman isn't free then I'll let a guy fuck me to cure the itch.
I don't classify myself as gay, I wouldn't even say I'm bi because I have no sexual attraction to guys, I only find woman attractive especially ones with all the right curves x
Sensible feedback on this would be great
You're bi OP, wether you want to class yourself as such or not "
Isn’t the definition of bi being attracted to males sexually ? I’m not sure he is. If he was genuinely doing it out of pure sexual frustration/addiction is there a word for that  |
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"Right so here goes...... I think I'm addicted to sex and I think this because even though I don't fancy guys if I'm horny enough and a woman isn't free then I'll let a guy fuck me to cure the itch.
I don't classify myself as gay, I wouldn't even say I'm bi because I have no sexual attraction to guys, I only find woman attractive especially ones with all the right curves x
Sensible feedback on this would be great
You're bi OP, wether you want to class yourself as such or not
Isn’t the definition of bi being attracted to males sexually ? I’m not sure he is. If he was genuinely doing it out of pure sexual frustration/addiction is there a word for that "
Pretty sure the definition of bi is having sexual acts with males and females, regardless of who you are attracted to |
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I knew alit of ppl wouldn't understand it but it's like a greed kind of thing..... If a woman was doing it to me then I wouldn't see it from a guy but because guys are easier to find that will find my gspot then it makes it easy.
And before anyone says, no if a woman uses a strap on then it's not gay lol |
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a bit like how I don't fancy my wand, but it gets me off.
Using the man as an object, a means to an end kinda thing?
I'm unsure really how to "label" it if I had to, I just know I'd use a toy instead of a person.
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It's refreshing honesty op.
There's a few things -
Freely having sex with men. Sex addiction. Needing to be fucked.
Some men get to realise that they like their arse fucked- it may be a minor or major part of their sexual needs. It's generally easier to get a guy to fuck you than the same volume of women who want to, or who'd use a dildo on you. I think it's fairly uncommon.
Making do with male sex partners, even though straight. It's fairly common, particularly in some environments. Some porn actors and male escorts behave similarly, though not for their need for sex.
Sexual addiction. If you're unhappy with lack of control over your sexual behaviours, then it's worthwhile to research this and potentially get professional support.
Sexuality, interests and our behaviour related to these are complex and poorly understood. In the ideal world we'd have sex however we fancied, with consensual adult partners. We'd be happy, enjoying and learning as we go and a dominant section of society wouldn't be viewed as more appropriate.
I'm guessing for you op that you could feel quite isolated and that you don't perhaps have friends etc that understand you very well, ss your lifestyle isn't so typical. Sometimes when we get to a crunch point, where we feel pressured, we have an opportunity to more fully accept and understand ourselves. Take things at your own pace and learn in your own way, not how others think you should learn. Definitely look to counselling if it's too much to handle alone |
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It's not like you are using toys on yourself or having a wank to scratch the itch... You are actively seeking out a guy to fuck you... to me there must be something gay or bi in your sexual psyche. Without sound patronising as I don't know you, maybe you should accept that side of yourself and it might take your levels of enjoyment with a guy up a few notches instead of scratching the itch as you put |
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"a bit like how I don't fancy my wand, but it gets me off.
Using the man as an object, a means to an end kinda thing?
I'm unsure really how to "label" it if I had to, I just know I'd use a toy instead of a person.
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Thanks, that's a great way of explaining it. It's an object, using toys yourself isn't the same as using someone to do it for you. Again if there was loads of women into it then I wouldnt be seeking it elsewhere ever |
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"It's refreshing honesty op.
There's a few things -
Freely having sex with men. Sex addiction. Needing to be fucked.
Some men get to realise that they like their arse fucked- it may be a minor or major part of their sexual needs. It's generally easier to get a guy to fuck you than the same volume of women who want to, or who'd use a dildo on you. I think it's fairly uncommon.
Making do with male sex partners, even though straight. It's fairly common, particularly in some environments. Some porn actors and male escorts behave similarly, though not for their need for sex.
Sexual addiction. If you're unhappy with lack of control over your sexual behaviours, then it's worthwhile to research this and potentially get professional support.
Sexuality, interests and our behaviour related to these are complex and poorly understood. In the ideal world we'd have sex however we fancied, with consensual adult partners. We'd be happy, enjoying and learning as we go and a dominant section of society wouldn't be viewed as more appropriate.
I'm guessing for you op that you could feel quite isolated and that you don't perhaps have friends etc that understand you very well, ss your lifestyle isn't so typical. Sometimes when we get to a crunch point, where we feel pressured, we have an opportunity to more fully accept and understand ourselves. Take things at your own pace and learn in your own way, not how others think you should learn. Definitely look to counselling if it's too much to handle alone "
Good description and help but I defo don't need counselling and have loads of great friends but I'm not going to tell anyone about this site because it's my fun secret that I enjoy being private |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry OP but your profile pic suggests otherwise
Even if I was desperate for sex I would never even think of going with another women,let alone act on it |
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