 |
By *imBanks OP Man
over a year ago
Letchworth |
How do you keep things going while waiting to meet a far away fab friend?
It seems to have fizzled out after the initial excitement and messages, it's become a bit one sided and infrequent now. Damn you Covid  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"If it's right it just keeps itself going...
I think you've answered this one yourself. Sadly it's fizzled out and that's just one of those things x"
 I would agree here. And add that even in the initial stages it is all about pacing the messages. If you get that initial rush of excitement and you are virtually in each other's pockets then once that wears off so can the interest. To keep it going when you can't really plan for a meet in the current situation takes commitment from both sides. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Thing is it has to be working for both of you and happen naturally, you can't force it - and when it does happen that way it just flows and seems "right"
As someone else said sometimes you do get that initial "flurry" that then fizzled and dies down - sometimes it can be revived and sometimes it dies off completely - there really is no rhyme or reason to it. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
With my special friends we keep checking in with each other and are honest about how we are feeling with each other although sporadically we trust in our relationships.
Sometimes after that has happened it becomes one sided then I let it naturally slide away sometimes connections can be rebuilt, mostly I move on. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
