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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to meet a man who would deny me 
He would count down from 20, and if I came before 20 I was punished
Fuck it was so hot"
How often did you succeed? xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to meet a man who would deny me
He would count down from 20, and if I came before 20 I was punished
Fuck it was so hot
How often did you succeed? xx"
About half the time, a quarter of the time it would just be me begging for him to let me cum. If I did that, he’d start back from 20 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I used to meet a man who would deny me
He would count down from 20, and if I came before 20 I was punished
Fuck it was so hot"
If you succeeded, did he shout "Jumanji!"
(Only joking. Yes that sounds hot. Especially if you were tied up and writhing mmm.) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to meet a man who would deny me
He would count down from 20, and if I came before 20 I was punished
Fuck it was so hot
How often did you succeed? xx
About half the time, a quarter of the time it would just be me begging for him to let me cum. If I did that, he’d start back from 20"
So hot xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to meet a man who would deny me
He would count down from 20, and if I came before 20 I was punished
Fuck it was so hot
How often did you succeed? xx
About half the time, a quarter of the time it would just be me begging for him to let me cum. If I did that, he’d start back from 20"
Sounds very sexy, I love being teased and edging when I wank, had an ex who used to wank my cock then let go just as I was about to cum, |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I used to meet a man who would deny me
He would count down from 20, and if I came before 20 I was punished
Fuck it was so hot
How often did you succeed? xx
About half the time, a quarter of the time it would just be me begging for him to let me cum. If I did that, he’d start back from 20
Sounds very sexy, I love being teased and edging when I wank, had an ex who used to wank my cock then let go just as I was about to cum, "
That's called a ruined orgasm. Good fun, but evil too. I've suffered a few of them as well.  |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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We do it to playmates all the time, only we make them count down from 30, and then remove the wand/stimulation at random points so no pattern is observed.
Throw in some CBT or pussy spanks and you can get them over the edge in no time
If we let them get to 0 and they ask nicely we may let them cum.
Its great watching the Mrs sat on their face and hearing the muffled count down while she toys with them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We do it to playmates all the time, only we make them count down from 30, and then remove the wand/stimulation at random points so no pattern is observed.
Throw in some CBT or pussy spanks and you can get them over the edge in no time
If we let them get to 0 and they ask nicely we may let them cum.
Its great watching the Mrs sat on their face and hearing the muffled count down while she toys with them."
Mmm hot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nah, I struggle to cum enough with someone as it is, denying would be extra mean.
Though my current meet will tell me when I'm allowed to cum when we're long distance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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omg this sounds right up my street,, just suggested this to a man that excites me a lot..
he's dabbled with edging so said we can for sure give it a go x x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do it quite often to the wife, gets her so wound up and frustrated but in a sexy kinda way because she knows the orgasm at the end will be explosive and extremely wet |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Husband loves it, and a ruined orgasm also.
It's a regular part of our sex life.
Had a FWB who enjoyed it too.
Not my thing, I don't like being denied.
But happy to make their cravings happen
Jo x"
Mmmm very hot. How do you deny your husband his orgasms? What do you do to him? |
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"This is a regular thing with both of us, we absolutely love it "
just a little like edging but done multiple times, normally with edging you are still going to eventually cum but when we deny each other we don't tell each other when we will do it. With us it's not a dom & sub thing but a teasing thing. He's denied me 2/3 times in one night then left me wanting and the next day he's been working away for 2days. I could have killed him but it was super hot and the sex when he got home was incredible, like wise I've also done it to him but over the course of days & days and not let him cum |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This is a regular thing with both of us, we absolutely love it just a little like edging but done multiple times, normally with edging you are still going to eventually cum but when we deny each other we don't tell each other when we will do it. With us it's not a dom & sub thing but a teasing thing. He's denied me 2/3 times in one night then left me wanting and the next day he's been working away for 2days. I could have killed him but it was super hot and the sex when he got home was incredible, like wise I've also done it to him but over the course of days & days and not let him cum "
Mmmmm I'm amazed he had the willpower to not sneak off and cum without telling you haha. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My current squeeze does this he tells me I’m not allowed to cum and if he starts to feel me cum he pulls back or stays completely still until I’m a frustrated mess and then fucks me hard to give me a huge orgasm. In that period that he won’t let me I can get quite frustrated. Think I called him a cunt Friday  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My current squeeze does this he tells me I’m not allowed to cum and if he starts to feel me cum he pulls back or stays completely still until I’m a frustrated mess and then fucks me hard to give me a huge orgasm. In that period that he won’t let me I can get quite frustrated. Think I called him a cunt Friday "
Hahaha |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
The main thing people need to realise is that for it to work you have to deny them the release while they need it multiple times.
Its easy to just say no once or twice, but the idea is to get them so worked up a light breeze will make them cum.
But you also have to make sure you don't fall into that trap where they go past needing the release. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The main thing people need to realise is that for it to work you have to deny them the release while they need it multiple times.
Its easy to just say no once or twice, but the idea is to get them so worked up a light breeze will make them cum.
But you also have to make sure you don't fall into that trap where they go past needing the release."
They can go past needing a release? How long have you denied your poor partners their orgasms? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone tried it on me once. He stopped right at the moment I was starting to cum so the orgasm died before it happened. I nearly punched him and then I cried. We agreed it wasn't for me lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Someone tried it on me once. He stopped right at the moment I was starting to cum so the orgasm died before it happened. I nearly punched him and then I cried. We agreed it wasn't for me lol "
If you had punched him, he might have cried haha. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love organ denial. It makes the orgasm so much more intense when I can come.
I use to edge myself a lot of time too. Tiltering on the edge is another kink I love |
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By *Jones19Man
over a year ago
Evesham, Worcester, Pershore |
My Fwb enjoys it alot. She always seams to get excited quicker and cum much more when she knows she has to plead to be allowed to cum. Though, never again am I going to just stop for a min, after making her hold one in for so long. Never seen someone turn so quickly in my life. Some people have no patience. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think if a guy randomly decided to try it when I was about to cum I'd be fucking furious.
Previously however I've been withkn a dom/sub (ish) dynamic and as a 'punishment' and as a kind of play it can lead up to a mind-blowing orgasm. But I very much need to know it's happening and be in the headspace for it x |
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By *ermaidWoman
over a year ago
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"Orgasm denial. Who does it? Who suffers it? Who inflicts it?
I've heard about the kink, but never done it on either side."
I love it! Being tied up and edging to a denial over and over again is incredible! When I finally am allowed to orgasm it can last half an hour +, or I just orgasm one after the other.
If its followed up by forced orgasms, even better! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Orgasm denial. Who does it? Who suffers it? Who inflicts it?
I've heard about the kink, but never done it on either side.
I love it! Being tied up and edging to a denial over and over again is incredible! When I finally am allowed to orgasm it can last half an hour +, or I just orgasm one after the other.
If its followed up by forced orgasms, even better! "
I haven't been able to do forced orgasms yet... definitely would love to explore this kink. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've had a Dom try it with me but it doesn't really work - I orgasm far too easily for it to be anything more than frustrating for both of us."
This may be the only occasion when a woman cumming too easily is any sort of issue.  |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
Forced orgasm is just as much fun.
Restrained so she cannot move her legs or hands to deflect the wand left resting on her clit.
Fingers/fist used to penetrate and keep the momentum going. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Regular practice for me along with forced orgasms.
I give restrained girls the one hour challenge and edge them constantly. Also use an electrical vaginal attachment (sort of tens machine), increase that as they get close. The discomfort blocks the pleasure until eventually the pleasure wins out.
Sometimes I even make them a brew after. All heart me 
For men it's edging and wanking but also restrained on a massage table. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We also practice forced and on command.
Mrs can cum when I tell her, assuming she is already turned on and in some form of subspace, not just anywhere... though that would be funny. |
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In a previous D/s dynamic I wasn't allowed to orgasm without permission. Edging, denial and forced were all tools in his arsenal.
Ruined orgasms on the other hand were a disaster. Created a really unpleasant headspace that would have me crying & needing fed tea & chocolate.
As it was also a service dynamic he soon fixed that because he was far too domly to make me tea.  |
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Enjoy denials and turn it around to do multiple forced orgasms then back to denials. Keeps variety between sessions and toying with a sub moving her from unbridled slut to strict denials
I find multiple forced Orgasms to be easier compared to prolong denials with edging. |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
Sutton |
Psychological training in kink and the surrender of self is not to be taken lightly. A friend who is a submissive went through orgasm denial, which was fine when they were together but the problem was that when they broke up, it took her 2 years to regain control of her body. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love organ denial. It makes the orgasm so much more intense when I can come.
I use to edge myself a lot of time too. Tiltering on the edge is another kink I love "
This, ruined followed by tease followed by edge the final orgasm is spectacular.....
If you’re allowed  |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"I love organ denial. It makes the orgasm so much more intense when I can come.
I use to edge myself a lot of time too. Tiltering on the edge is another kink I love
This, ruined followed by tease followed by edge the final orgasm is spectacular.....
If you’re allowed "
Can I watch? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love organ denial. It makes the orgasm so much more intense when I can come.
I use to edge myself a lot of time too. Tiltering on the edge is another kink I love
This, ruined followed by tease followed by edge the final orgasm is spectacular.....
If you’re allowed
Can I watch?"
Just watch? |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"I love organ denial. It makes the orgasm so much more intense when I can come.
I use to edge myself a lot of time too. Tiltering on the edge is another kink I love
This, ruined followed by tease followed by edge the final orgasm is spectacular.....
If you’re allowed
Can I watch?
Just watch? "
Well, if more is an option I'll just steal you and keep you tied to my bed  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love organ denial. It makes the orgasm so much more intense when I can come.
I use to edge myself a lot of time too. Tiltering on the edge is another kink I love
This, ruined followed by tease followed by edge the final orgasm is spectacular.....
If you’re allowed
Can I watch?
Just watch?
Well, if more is an option I'll just steal you and keep you tied to my bed "
How many men have you got tied up in your home by now? |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"I love organ denial. It makes the orgasm so much more intense when I can come.
I use to edge myself a lot of time too. Tiltering on the edge is another kink I love
This, ruined followed by tease followed by edge the final orgasm is spectacular.....
If you’re allowed
Can I watch?
Just watch?
Well, if more is an option I'll just steal you and keep you tied to my bed
How many men have you got tied up in your home by now? "
None....yet! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love organ denial. It makes the orgasm so much more intense when I can come.
I use to edge myself a lot of time too. Tiltering on the edge is another kink I love
This, ruined followed by tease followed by edge the final orgasm is spectacular.....
If you’re allowed
Can I watch?
Just watch?
Well, if more is an option I'll just steal you and keep you tied to my bed
How many men have you got tied up in your home by now?
None....yet!"
Uh oh. Must be risky being a window cleaner round your neck of the woods! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love organ denial. It makes the orgasm so much more intense when I can come.
I use to edge myself a lot of time too. Tiltering on the edge is another kink I love
This, ruined followed by tease followed by edge the final orgasm is spectacular.....
If you’re allowed
Can I watch?
Just watch?
Well, if more is an option I'll just steal you and keep you tied to my bed "
Ooooh tied and teased |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love organ denial. It makes the orgasm so much more intense when I can come.
I use to edge myself a lot of time too. Tiltering on the edge is another kink I love
This, ruined followed by tease followed by edge the final orgasm is spectacular.....
If you’re allowed
Can I watch?
Just watch?
Well, if more is an option I'll just steal you and keep you tied to my bed
Ooooh tied and teased "
You forget Denied......time and time again until control is not an option |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love organ denial. It makes the orgasm so much more intense when I can come.
I use to edge myself a lot of time too. Tiltering on the edge is another kink I love
This, ruined followed by tease followed by edge the final orgasm is spectacular.....
If you’re allowed
Can I watch?
Just watch?
Well, if more is an option I'll just steal you and keep you tied to my bed
Ooooh tied and teased
You forget Denied......time and time again until control is not an option"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Next you'll be saying the earth is flat and squirt is just piss ffs! 
Yw 
I'd happily prove orgasm's are real with you DC....
If you weren’t so far away ..... *sigh* "
Distance should never be a barrier to sexy times... |
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It's a great thing to do to a women. Especially when they are restrained and can't do anything about it. It's not for everyone but to keep up that denial and teasing an lead to some interesting things. It can take some time to truly get to know how each person reacts and to get it just right, there is always the risk of a ruined orgasm if you get to close. All round its great fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love organ denial. It makes the orgasm so much more intense when I can come.
I use to edge myself a lot of time too. Tiltering on the edge is another kink I love
This, ruined followed by tease followed by edge the final orgasm is spectacular.....
If you’re allowed
Can I watch?
Just watch?
Well, if more is an option I'll just steal you and keep you tied to my bed
Ooooh tied and teased
You forget Denied......time and time again until control is not an option"
Talking from experience minx?? |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"I love organ denial. It makes the orgasm so much more intense when I can come.
I use to edge myself a lot of time too. Tiltering on the edge is another kink I love
This, ruined followed by tease followed by edge the final orgasm is spectacular.....
If you’re allowed
Can I watch?
Just watch?
Well, if more is an option I'll just steal you and keep you tied to my bed
Ooooh tied and teased "
Yep, then you can return the favour |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love organ denial. It makes the orgasm so much more intense when I can come.
I use to edge myself a lot of time too. Tiltering on the edge is another kink I love
This, ruined followed by tease followed by edge the final orgasm is spectacular.....
If you’re allowed
Can I watch?
Just watch?
Well, if more is an option I'll just steal you and keep you tied to my bed
Ooooh tied and teased
You forget Denied......time and time again until control is not an option
Talking from experience minx?? "
nce or twice Amp, though one in particular stands out. I think what did it was placing my hand over his mouth and whispering “Look at me” whilst.....sure you get the picture
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