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Is it me or does it.....
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I've been on here for a while now and just seems to be all a bit to
You have to be this
You have to be that
I want this I want that and for someone who's single guy as most men on here are you have to fight your way through the sausage fest to get noticed and even of you do just because you haven't got a blue tick or site supporter then all contact should be ignored.
Probably the only place you'd get away with this ??
Thoughts? |
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"So I've been on here for a while now and just seems to be all a bit to
You have to be this
You have to be that
I want this I want that and for someone who's single guy as most men on here are you have to fight your way through the sausage fest to get noticed and even of you do just because you haven't got a blue tick or site supporter then all contact should be ignored.
Probably the only place you'd get away with this ??
Thoughts?"
It's a meat market, goes with the turf and works both ways. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We all have preferences and in a lot of instances won't just bang anyone with a pulse. So yeah, being fussy works for us. Some people just can't take rejection very well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm about half this and half that... I do OK though.
You have thre choices really OP..
Play the game and try and meet the multiple criteria.
Just chat to people who are easier going and actually match your preferences.
Or leave. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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BREAKING NEWS;
Man baffled that women on swinging site have preferences and will choose the men they are attracted to and now Tom with the weather, what’s it looking like out there Tom ? |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
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"So I've been on here for a while now and just seems to be all a bit to
You have to be this
You have to be that
I want this I want that and for someone who's single guy as most men on here are you have to fight your way through the sausage fest to get noticed and even of you do just because you haven't got a blue tick or site supporter then all contact should be ignored.
Probably the only place you'd get away with this ??
Thoughts?"
I've just read your profile text OP...you're really not helping yourself!! |
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"BREAKING NEWS;
Man baffled that women on swinging site have preferences and will choose the men they are attracted to and now Tom with the weather, what’s it looking like out there Tom ?"
My name's not Tom  but it's looking dry, cold and dusty in the OPs area... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We know what we want and spent along time putting profile together if you cannot be bothered to read it and go ahead and message because you liked the pics then expect rejection |
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"So I've been on here for a while now and just seems to be all a bit to
You have to be this
You have to be that
I want this I want that and for someone who's single guy as most men on here are you have to fight your way through the sausage fest to get noticed and even of you do just because you haven't got a blue tick or site supporter then all contact should be ignored.
Probably the only place you'd get away with this ??
Thoughts?"
That has not gone down well in the room  |
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Most people have preferences before they'll consent to meeting someone let alone any intimacy. This is... kind of a good thing? That this is based on consent?
Find those that suit you, see if they feel the same way, don't expect anything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have preferences even if I don't have a shopping list on my profile. I know what I'm looking for. I would imagine 99.9% of people on here have preferences.
It all depends what you expect to get from the site. I'm enjoying the site and getting from it what I want.
Relax, go with the flow. It's not a race. And behind most of the avatars and usernames is a real person dealing with who knows what outside of Fab.
Perhaps you haven't quite worked out what you really really want from Fab.
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Thing is OP I look at it this way - why sweat the things you can't change? Why not just focus on you and your preferences and finding those that match them, rather than expecting others to change theirs to fit yours?
I've been here four years and can honestly say it's mostly been a positive experience and I've met some lovely people, both socially and for more - and if I can do it, honestly anyone can if they adopt the right attitude, approach and expectations.
People are entitled to ask for what they want, you won't change them by bemoaning that they don't lower their expectations just for you - we all have preferences, so you just have to accept that you can't meet everybody's. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do men, that moan about the ratios n what not, think that, if they were the other way around, that we would be the ones fucking anyone that showed an interest, regardless of attraction?! |
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I don’t get the mindset that people have that because it’s a “sex” site people should be happy with who ever messages.
Reality is people who meet are here to fulfil fantasies not have a quickie. Yes some are here for that but very few.
If you want a quickie you need to get yourself on an escort site or get your self down the pub and use your chatting up skills.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I've been on here for a while now and just seems to be all a bit to
You have to be this
You have to be that
I want this I want that and for someone who's single guy as most men on here are you have to fight your way through the sausage fest to get noticed and even of you do just because you haven't got a blue tick or site supporter then all contact should be ignored.
Probably the only place you'd get away with this ??
Thoughts?"
My thoughts are I take people at face value and read their profile. I've spoken to guys who have been on here 1 day and had a good chat.
Also another thought is if a guy's profile is having a few pops at women they are feeling the chill. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thing is OP I look at it this way - why sweat the things you can't change? Why not just focus on you and your preferences and finding those that match them, rather than expecting others to change theirs to fit yours?
I've been here four years and can honestly say it's mostly been a positive experience and I've met some lovely people, both socially and for more - and if I can do it, honestly anyone can if they adopt the right attitude, approach and expectations.
People are entitled to ask for what they want, you won't change them by bemoaning that they don't lower their expectations just for you - we all have preferences, so you just have to accept that you can't meet everybody's."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t get the mindset that people have that because it’s a “sex” site people should be happy with who ever messages.
Reality is people who meet are here to fulfil fantasies not have a quickie. Yes some are here for that but very few.
If you want a quickie you need to get yourself on an escort site or get your self down the pub and use your chatting up skills.
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Are you equating the people who are on here for quickies to escorts? 
Cause I do it for free |
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