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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have on a few occasions now, had sex and not orgasmed. And the partner has asked if anything was wrong, although it’s frustrating at times nothing really was wrong at all.
Was damn close, but you wanted to stop although I had been at it for a while  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always keep a carton of yoghurt near by, don’t do what I did though and throw a fruit one on her tits when she wasn’t looking, she wanted to know why I had nectarine chunks in my cum, I had no answers I was still licking the lid. |
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By *yronMan
over a year ago
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"Always keep a carton of yoghurt near by, don’t do what I did though and throw a fruit one on her tits when she wasn’t looking, she wanted to know why I had nectarine chunks in my cum, I had no answers I was still licking the lid."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My fwb is done in minutes every time. She's focussed and it works nicely. Occasionally I don't finish. Things get overcooked and it won't happen. It might finish after a tea break or not at all on the day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My fwb is done in minutes every time. She's focussed and it works nicely. Occasionally I don't finish. Things get overcooked and it won't happen. It might finish after a tea break or not at all on the day. "
Same |
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over a year ago
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"Always keep a carton of yoghurt near by, don’t do what I did though and throw a fruit one on her tits when she wasn’t looking, she wanted to know why I had nectarine chunks in my cum, I had no answers I was still licking the lid."
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Nope.
Quite often I don't.
I suffer from delayed ejaculation (the lesser known cousin to premature ejaculation), which means it normally takes over 20 mins to cum if at all.
I still really enjoy the sex, after all orgasm is only a very small part of it and it means the lady I'm with gets plenty of time
It's just annoying when they think it's because of them. It can / has ruined relationships as they don't always understand.  |
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"Always keep a carton of yoghurt near by, don’t do what I did though and throw a fruit one on her tits when she wasn’t looking, she wanted to know why I had nectarine chunks in my cum, I had no answers I was still licking the lid."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Always keep a carton of yoghurt near by, don’t do what I did though and throw a fruit one on her tits when she wasn’t looking, she wanted to know why I had nectarine chunks in my cum, I had no answers I was still licking the lid."
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"Nope.
Quite often I don't.
I suffer from delayed ejaculation (the lesser known cousin to premature ejaculation), which means it normally takes over 20 mins to cum if at all.
I still really enjoy the sex, after all orgasm is only a very small part of it and it means the lady I'm with gets plenty of time
It's just annoying when they think it's because of them. It can / has ruined relationships as they don't always understand. "
I know that one well, had girls crying before because they think they don't do it for me. I've also always struggled to cum through interaction with someone else, I almost wish I was the opposite and was premature, doesn't need so much explaining |
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"Nope.
Quite often I don't.
I suffer from delayed ejaculation (the lesser known cousin to premature ejaculation), which means it normally takes over 20 mins to cum if at all.
I still really enjoy the sex, after all orgasm is only a very small part of it and it means the lady I'm with gets plenty of time
It's just annoying when they think it's because of them. It can / has ruined relationships as they don't always understand. "
We'd make for either a very frustrating or very well matched pair
My nerve damage means I have reduced sensation and take ages to cum too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope.
Quite often I don't.
I suffer from delayed ejaculation (the lesser known cousin to premature ejaculation), which means it normally takes over 20 mins to cum if at all.
I still really enjoy the sex, after all orgasm is only a very small part of it and it means the lady I'm with gets plenty of time
It's just annoying when they think it's because of them. It can / has ruined relationships as they don't always understand. "
20 minutes, you are lucky. Usually takes me 45 minutes or an hour to pop |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First time I had sex I didn't cum.
I also didn't cum for the first few weeks when I started seeing a woman after me and the Mrs split for a while.
But christ when I eventually did  |
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No not every time even after hours I sometimes don’t which pisses the wife off but then sometimes (most times) she doesn’t which really gets to me I don’t care if I don’t but when she doesn’t wow that makes me feel bad but that’s when the tongue makes up for it |
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I can’t remember the last guy to make me cum. As long as I enjoy the sex I’m happy enough.
What I hate is when the guy cums and I haven’t even had a chance to start enjoying myself.
Now I feel a bit paranoid with it tbh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope.
Quite often I don't.
I suffer from delayed ejaculation (the lesser known cousin to premature ejaculation), which means it normally takes over 20 mins to cum if at all.
I still really enjoy the sex, after all orgasm is only a very small part of it and it means the lady I'm with gets plenty of time
It's just annoying when they think it's because of them. It can / has ruined relationships as they don't always understand.
I know that one well, had girls crying before because they think they don't do it for me. I've also always struggled to cum through interaction with someone else, I almost wish I was the opposite and was premature, doesn't need so much explaining"
I do get that in a way though. I’d be more upset if he didn’t cum than if I didn’t. I think I’d rather know beforehand if it may not happen or if there was medical reasons etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can’t remember the last guy to make me cum. As long as I enjoy the sex I’m happy enough.
What I hate is when the guy cums and I haven’t even had a chance to start enjoying myself.
Now I feel a bit paranoid with it tbh. "
I need my nipples pinched or have my nipple clamps on while I am having sex to make me cum.
Very rarely otherwise |
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"Nope.
Quite often I don't.
I suffer from delayed ejaculation (the lesser known cousin to premature ejaculation), which means it normally takes over 20 mins to cum if at all.
I still really enjoy the sex, after all orgasm is only a very small part of it and it means the lady I'm with gets plenty of time
It's just annoying when they think it's because of them. It can / has ruined relationships as they don't always understand.
We'd make for either a very frustrating or very well matched pair
My nerve damage means I have reduced sensation and take ages to cum too "
That could work quite well then
As long as my stamina can keep up. XD |
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"I can’t remember the last guy to make me cum. As long as I enjoy the sex I’m happy enough.
What I hate is when the guy cums and I haven’t even had a chance to start enjoying myself.
Now I feel a bit paranoid with it tbh.
I need my nipples pinched or have my nipple clamps on while I am having sex to make me cum.
Very rarely otherwise "
My wife’s the same sometimes I feel I’m going to rip them off but she still says harder |
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"Nope.
Quite often I don't.
I suffer from delayed ejaculation (the lesser known cousin to premature ejaculation), which means it normally takes over 20 mins to cum if at all.
I still really enjoy the sex, after all orgasm is only a very small part of it and it means the lady I'm with gets plenty of time
It's just annoying when they think it's because of them. It can / has ruined relationships as they don't always understand.
I know that one well, had girls crying before because they think they don't do it for me. I've also always struggled to cum through interaction with someone else, I almost wish I was the opposite and was premature, doesn't need so much explaining
I do get that in a way though. I’d be more upset if he didn’t cum than if I didn’t. I think I’d rather know beforehand if it may not happen or if there was medical reasons etc. "
I've faked it a few times.
Waited till they were shaking through their orgasm and pretended I came too.
They were so distracted with theirs that they didn't even notice.
Just needed to whip the condom off without them seeing it
Know I'm no longer embarrassed about it, and just tell them (and everyone else apparently XD) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope.
Quite often I don't.
I suffer from delayed ejaculation (the lesser known cousin to premature ejaculation), which means it normally takes over 20 mins to cum if at all.
I still really enjoy the sex, after all orgasm is only a very small part of it and it means the lady I'm with gets plenty of time
It's just annoying when they think it's because of them. It can / has ruined relationships as they don't always understand.
I know that one well, had girls crying before because they think they don't do it for me. I've also always struggled to cum through interaction with someone else, I almost wish I was the opposite and was premature, doesn't need so much explaining
I do get that in a way though. I’d be more upset if he didn’t cum than if I didn’t. I think I’d rather know beforehand if it may not happen or if there was medical reasons etc.
I've faked it a few times.
Waited till they were shaking through their orgasm and pretended I came too.
They were so distracted with theirs that they didn't even notice.
Just needed to whip the condom off without them seeing it
Know I'm no longer embarrassed about it, and just tell them (and everyone else apparently XD) "
Nah you shouldn’t be embarrassed definitely! I’d just rather know beforehand x |
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"I can’t remember the last guy to make me cum. As long as I enjoy the sex I’m happy enough.
What I hate is when the guy cums and I haven’t even had a chance to start enjoying myself.
Now I feel a bit paranoid with it tbh.
I need my nipples pinched or have my nipple clamps on while I am having sex to make me cum.
Very rarely otherwise "
Yeah similar for me, I need nipple stimulation along with clit stimulation for best results |
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"Nope.
Quite often I don't.
I suffer from delayed ejaculation
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Know I'm no longer embarrassed about it, and just tell them (and everyone else apparently XD)
Nah you shouldn’t be embarrassed definitely! I’d just rather know beforehand x"
Well now you know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope.
Quite often I don't.
I suffer from delayed ejaculation
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Know I'm no longer embarrassed about it, and just tell them (and everyone else apparently XD)
Nah you shouldn’t be embarrassed definitely! I’d just rather know beforehand x
Well now you know "
. I’ll stick a private note on your profile haha |
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I'm really hard to please anyway but due to opiates (needed for extreme pain) it's even harder for me to finish.
80% of the time P1 can make me climax with no issues. If pain or painkillers are stopping me from finishing we get creative. he never fails but sometimes I do need more than penetration.
I never experienced an orgasm before him so it makes me appreciate his mind-blowing skills so much more.
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"Nope.
Quite often I don't.
I suffer from delayed ejaculation
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Know I'm no longer embarrassed about it, and just tell them (and everyone else apparently XD)
Nah you shouldn’t be embarrassed definitely! I’d just rather know beforehand x
Well now you know
. I’ll stick a private note on your profile haha "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always keep a carton of yoghurt near by, don’t do what I did though and throw a fruit one on her tits when she wasn’t looking, she wanted to know why I had nectarine chunks in my cum, I had no answers I was still licking the lid.
And now I have coffee absolutely everywhere! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The majority of the time, yes. As certain positions do it for me.
If I've ever struggled, it's been with new partners who've put pressure on me to cum or squirt. "Cum for me" during a bad fingerblasting tends to throw me off completely  |
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Like a lot of you on this thread, I don’t always cum each time ... but I do like to cum at some point if we’re having a session.
I am a pleaser and it gets me off to see my partner having an orgasm. As many as possible |
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Nope, i don't always cum during sex and never when receiving blow jobs.
Red Heads normally get me there, but that's because i have loads of chemistry whith them. Anyone else it can be hit or miss whether i reach an orgasm. |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
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It's very interesting to read that some of you guys don't always cum. I rarely get the chance to & I've only had one Fab meet where he didn't. I must admit that I thought it was me, although we've met again since that, so maybe it bothered me more than him. |
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I’m quite adept and knowing how to reach my own and help him achieve his.....
It’s a mind set between two two people - a watchful eye and a clever hand.... and if you talk about what turns you on then he isn’t left guessing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No.... i can probably count on one hand the amount of times I’ve had a full blown toe curling orgasm... but I think it’s all my doing as I really struggle to let myself go fully.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always make sure I do one way or another, D doesn’t always but that’s cool he still has a great time and will maybe cum later on that day or the next morning maybe |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Always keep a carton of yoghurt near by, don’t do what I did though and throw a fruit one on her tits when she wasn’t looking, she wanted to know why I had nectarine chunks in my cum, I had no answers I was still licking the lid."
OMG I nearly died with laughter reading this! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope. Sometimes you can start with the best intentions and for whatever reason be off your game. Usually ends with laughter or just giving up and making a cup of tea before trying again |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Always keep a carton of yoghurt near by, don’t do what I did though and throw a fruit one on her tits when she wasn’t looking, she wanted to know why I had nectarine chunks in my cum, I had no answers I was still licking the lid.
OMG I nearly died with laughter reading this! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have on a few occasions now, had sex and not orgasmed. And the partner has asked if anything was wrong, although it’s frustrating at times nothing really was wrong at all.
Was damn close, but you wanted to stop although I had been at it for a while "
First time I met my first fab guy no, we spent hours kissing no sex. Second time sex outside yes we both did.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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by my husband I have both clit and internal orgasms..
however, I now cannot cum when I only flick my bean, it has to be an internal orgasm, every time. I use to be just a clit cum girl!
As of yet, I also haven't orgasmed clit wise by anyone that I haven't been in a relationship with and no one apart from my husband with internal orgasms. |
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