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So are there many other cuckqueens on here, I’ve not come across any, wondering if it’s really that rare. Obviously would love to find a cuckcake but it just seems that this dynamic is not really a big thing...  |
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over a year ago
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"It’s a female bull, as in she and my man would have sex whilst I watch and clean up after x"
Thank for explaining, this terminology pickles my mind sometimes! |
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It’s been so long since we have been able to do this, I honestly didn’t think it would be so hard to find a girl that would be interested. We have had lots of threesomes as I’m very much bi and love girls. But the cuckqeen thing is something I’m missing xx |
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It is a fantasy of Hannah's to watch me (Luke) with another woman. We have found a couple of potential cuckcakes but we haven't really pursued it. There are definitely some around.
There have been threads in the past you can find with a forum search where you can find others who are interested.
I am not surprised it's difficult to find. It seems to me it's like a combination if finding a woman to join a couple and a woman for a single man. Both of those are difficult on their own and this is a double-whammy.
We always say concentrate on making friends over fulfilling sexual fantasies. Once you have met somebody and you all get on well together, the nature of this site means that they are more likely to be interested in trying things like this. But very few will be interested in this if that's all you want them for. |
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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago
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"It’s been so long since we have been able to do this, I honestly didn’t think it would be so hard to find a girl that would be interested. We have had lots of threesomes as I’m very much bi and love girls. But the cuckqeen thing is something I’m missing xx "
The only girls we've had enjoy the cuckquean dynamic with us have been from real life. Never found anyone to go through with it on fab. We had another account in here for ages (ckqncpl) and for years we never found anyone. Hubby even had a single profile but that didn't work either.
We think the cuckquean / Hot Husband thing is too much of a niche for fab and not the correct audience. |
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"It’s been so long since we have been able to do this, I honestly didn’t think it would be so hard to find a girl that would be interested. We have had lots of threesomes as I’m very much bi and love girls. But the cuckqeen thing is something I’m missing xx
The only girls we've had enjoy the cuckquean dynamic with us have been from real life. Never found anyone to go through with it on fab. We had another account in here for ages (ckqncpl) and for years we never found anyone. Hubby even had a single profile but that didn't work either.
We think the cuckquean / Hot Husband thing is too much of a niche for fab and not the correct audience. "
I don't entirely agree with that. We have known women on here who are into this dynamic. It's the age-old Fab issue of supply and demand. It is more niche than finding a lady to join a couple, but we have had enough conversations with Fab women to know that it could happen for us. We have had two women approach us directly off the back of previous threads who were interested in joining us in this way, plus we have other single female friends who may be interested if we talked to them about it. |
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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago
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"It’s been so long since we have been able to do this, I honestly didn’t think it would be so hard to find a girl that would be interested. We have had lots of threesomes as I’m very much bi and love girls. But the cuckqeen thing is something I’m missing xx
The only girls we've had enjoy the cuckquean dynamic with us have been from real life. Never found anyone to go through with it on fab. We had another account in here for ages (ckqncpl) and for years we never found anyone. Hubby even had a single profile but that didn't work either.
We think the cuckquean / Hot Husband thing is too much of a niche for fab and not the correct audience.
I don't entirely agree with that. We have known women on here who are into this dynamic. It's the age-old Fab issue of supply and demand. It is more niche than finding a lady to join a couple, but we have had enough conversations with Fab women to know that it could happen for us. We have had two women approach us directly off the back of previous threads who were interested in joining us in this way, plus we have other single female friends who may be interested if we talked to them about it. "
From our experience, and around 4 or 5 years of being on fab, lots of positive conversations about it with lots of lovely ladies and promises of meets and them becoming a Cuckcake for us, not one lady from Fab has ever done so. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My ex girlfriend was a cuckqueen she wanted to be tied up and watch me and another woman and both of us tease her unfortunately this never cam to fruition but there were plenty of other times where I went and had a meet to tell her all about it after the reclaim sex was amazing as were the meets |
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Yes fully fledged cuckquean here. My hubby has his own profile and has met many times with me but more without me. I love it and encourage him to meet other women. I am not into humiliation though which a lot of queans are. I class myself as a domme cuckquean. It’s a very rare dynamic though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cuckcake here, I enjoy the dynamic with a cuckquean couple, but it's rare to find couples who want to do this in clubs (where all of my meets take place). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cuckcake here, I enjoy the dynamic with a cuckquean couple, but it's rare to find couples who want to do this in clubs (where all of my meets take place). "
I'd have thought this would be the ideal place  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Cuckcake here, I enjoy the dynamic with a cuckquean couple, but it's rare to find couples who want to do this in clubs (where all of my meets take place).
I'd have thought this would be the ideal place "
Me too, and I've had successful cuckq meets there in the past, but many who get in touch about it would prefer to do it in private. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Cuckcake here, I enjoy the dynamic with a cuckquean couple, but it's rare to find couples who want to do this in clubs (where all of my meets take place). "
Sounds interesting x
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Cuckcake here, I enjoy the dynamic with a cuckquean couple, but it's rare to find couples who want to do this in clubs (where all of my meets take place).
I'd have thought this would be the ideal place
Me too, and I've had successful cuckq meets there in the past, but many who get in touch about it would prefer to do it in private. "
I can understand that, I know personally for me if I did it in a club around other people it would add a level of humiliation to it that I would ruin it for me |
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When I was in a relationship with my son's mother she encouraged me to fuck her best friend.I did but never felt really comfortable with the whole experience.I am far more comfortable as a cuck so obviously not suited to this dynamic.I'm sure many guys would love the opportunity but it's not for me.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes fully fledged cuckquean here. My hubby has his own profile and has met many times with me but more without me. I love it and encourage him to meet other women. I am not into humiliation though which a lot of queans are. I class myself as a domme cuckquean. It’s a very rare dynamic though "
I’m surprised by how hard it is for cuckqueens to find a cuckcake ( honestly first time I’ve heard that term ).
I have found it almost impossible to find a couple that would be into this but as you say,
without the humiliation aspect. That part is really important to me.
Are the majority of cuckqueens really into the humiliation part or have I just been unlucky? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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This has been a long-standing fantasy for us too, in fact Tinks openly admits it’s her favourite. We’ve tried a few times to make it happen, but never managed it. A few women have said that they like the idea, but have had bad experiences in the past with couples, so won’t do it again. Still something we would love to do though. |
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"Yes fully fledged cuckquean here. My hubby has his own profile and has met many times with me but more without me. I love it and encourage him to meet other women. I am not into humiliation though which a lot of queans are. I class myself as a domme cuckquean. It’s a very rare dynamic though
I’m surprised by how hard it is for cuckqueens to find a cuckcake ( honestly first time I’ve heard that term ).
I have found it almost impossible to find a couple that would be into this but as you say,
without the humiliation aspect. That part is really important to me.
Are the majority of cuckqueens really into the humiliation part or have I just been unlucky? "
Are you a keen cuckcake, then, Jaime?
We totally get what you mean about humiliation. I know a lot of people enjoy that side of sharing their partner but it does nothing for us at all. For us it's about excitement and pleasure, not putting anybody down. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hello well all i want is a kind confident perverted couple to take me under there wing dosent have to be couple at all ! Had absolutely no luck so far willing to learn from experienced people x |
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"Are you a keen cuckcake, then, Jaime?
We totally get what you mean about humiliation. I know a lot of people enjoy that side of sharing their partner but it does nothing for us at all. For us it's about excitement and pleasure, not putting anybody down."
In all honesty I haven’t found the right couple to explore this with yet but it’s certainly something that excites me a lot.
The couples I have met wanted more of a unicorn experience than a cake which is absolutely fine but I think the cake dynamic without the humiliation seems to be an even rarer niche. |
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"Are you a keen cuckcake, then, Jaime?
We totally get what you mean about humiliation. I know a lot of people enjoy that side of sharing their partner but it does nothing for us at all. For us it's about excitement and pleasure, not putting anybody down.
In all honesty I haven’t found the right couple to explore this with yet but it’s certainly something that excites me a lot.
The couples I have met wanted more of a unicorn experience than a cake which is absolutely fine but I think the cake dynamic without the humiliation seems to be an even rarer niche."
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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We wouldn’t define ourselves exclusively that way, but it’s certainly a scenario we enjoy...and as others have observed, it’s rare to find a cuckcake on Fab, a niche within a niche really.
It’s not something we’d want to explore in a club as part of the whole eroticism of that experience is the private atmosphere you create for all three, and we’ve found clubs don’t really lend themselves to that for us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hello well all i want is a kind confident perverted couple to take me under there wing dosent have to be couple at all ! Had absolutely no luck so far willing to learn from experienced people x"
Think you may be on the wrong thread.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes fully fledged cuckquean here. My hubby has his own profile and has met many times with me but more without me. I love it and encourage him to meet other women. I am not into humiliation though which a lot of queans are. I class myself as a domme cuckquean. It’s a very rare dynamic though
I’m surprised by how hard it is for cuckqueens to find a cuckcake ( honestly first time I’ve heard that term ).
I have found it almost impossible to find a couple that would be into this but as you say,
without the humiliation aspect. That part is really important to me.
Are the majority of cuckqueens really into the humiliation part or have I just been unlucky? "
I dislike the humiliation part too. Some scenarios such as me being blindfolded or being made to wait outside the room sound hot and I guess they are sort of humiliating, but I never want to be made to feel like the cake is "better" as it changes my feelings from jealously (good) to insecurity (bad) |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Yes fully fledged cuckquean here. My hubby has his own profile and has met many times with me but more without me. I love it and encourage him to meet other women. I am not into humiliation though which a lot of queans are. I class myself as a domme cuckquean. It’s a very rare dynamic though
I’m surprised by how hard it is for cuckqueens to find a cuckcake ( honestly first time I’ve heard that term ).
I have found it almost impossible to find a couple that would be into this but as you say,
without the humiliation aspect. That part is really important to me.
Are the majority of cuckqueens really into the humiliation part or have I just been unlucky?
I dislike the humiliation part too. Some scenarios such as me being blindfolded or being made to wait outside the room sound hot and I guess they are sort of humiliating, but I never want to be made to feel like the cake is "better" as it changes my feelings from jealously (good) to insecurity (bad)"
Yes, this is a fine line.
Humiliation is such a loaded word...the experience for the cuckquean can be deliciously humiliating, because she is watching her man fuck another woman for his pleasure, and she is being made to watch a scene that is very taboo in the eyes of society, and goes against every expectation of a ‘normal’ relationship.
And the quean can feel ashamed of herself, because she cannot do anything but find this subversion scorching hot, and wants nothing more than to see her man satisfy this cuckcake, and clean them both up afterwards - something that everyone she knows on ‘normal’ life would be horrified by if they knew she desired such things.
But this ‘humiliation’ is not about insecurity, but security and empowerment - there is really nothing stronger than a couple who can watch each other fuck people for the pleasure they can take from it, safe in the knowledge it brings them closer together as a loving couple.
The feelings in these scenarios are very powerful. |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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Thinking more on this, the key point is that play in the bedroom can be humiliating without being insulting - and it can be degrading without being belittling.
These are complex emotions, and however we choose to mess around with them to make ourselves feel good is just fine, as long as everyone involved is consensual, and finds it satisfying. |
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We do this to a certain degree, I love to watch him with other women and will often take a step back and watch them for a while but I always like to get involved  it is on our list to just let the Hubby and another girl have sex in front of me and let them both finish |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"We do this to a certain degree, I love to watch him with other women and will often take a step back and watch them for a while but I always like to get involved it is on our list to just let the Hubby and another girl have sex in front of me and let them both finish "
That’s the difficulty, isn’t it? Unless you’re tied up, it’s so hard not to join in!  |
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"We do this to a certain degree, I love to watch him with other women and will often take a step back and watch them for a while but I always like to get involved it is on our list to just let the Hubby and another girl have sex in front of me and let them both finish "
Us too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone tried any kind of online play with this?
Not sure how that would work really."
Such as watching him cam with another woman, or being in a group chat and them flirting etc but not being able to join in |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Anyone tried any kind of online play with this?
Not sure how that would work really.
Such as watching him cam with another woman, or being in a group chat and them flirting etc but not being able to join in "
Right...well, that wouldn’t be for us, but it’s certainly something others would enjoy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone tried any kind of online play with this?
Not sure how that would work really.
Such as watching him cam with another woman, or being in a group chat and them flirting etc but not being able to join in."
I could imagine that being a good substitute in lieu of actual meets right now.
Nowhere near as good as the real thing but it could tide people over, gotta get creative in 2020 |
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Innocent questions.
Does the woman joining get licked out by the wife (not her husband)?
If so is it to orgasm?
Also does it mean as the bull she can do this with nothing in return to the female beyond the psychology of it?
I've always wondered about getting oral from a woman but not wanting to reciprocate. I never acted on it because it felt selfish. I'm wondering if this scenario solves that?
Thanks!
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Innocent questions.
Does the woman joining get licked out by the wife (not her husband)?
If so is it to orgasm?
Also does it mean as the bull she can do this with nothing in return to the female beyond the psychology of it?
I've always wondered about getting oral from a woman but not wanting to reciprocate. I never acted on it because it felt selfish. I'm wondering if this scenario solves that?
Thanks!
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It’s entirely down to the scenario all three want to enjoy. There are some cuckqueans who want to do nothing except watch, some who want to be made to orally prepare and clean up the cuckcake afterwards with no reciprocation, and some who want to control the cuckcake and make her fuck the male of the couple to her instruction.
It’s like any kink scenario, you can get exactly what you want if you communicate it honestly beforehand. |
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I definitely agree with Edwalu on this, there’s so many differing scenarios to be played out.
I don’t think you’re at all alone in wanting what you’ve described and for some it can be a quite natural step in exploring with other women and I’ve played that role for some already. Don’t worry about it being selfish, just as long as everyone knows what to expect  |
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By *ikkiHbiWoman
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"So are there many other cuckqueens on here, I’ve not come across any, wondering if it’s really that rare. Obviously would love to find a cuckcake but it just seems that this dynamic is not really a big thing... "
I love it, either my gf getting fucked or my fwb, even better when both together, clean up like a woman possessed xx |
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"Yes fully fledged cuckquean here. My hubby has his own profile and has met many times with me but more without me. I love it and encourage him to meet other women. I am not into humiliation though which a lot of queans are. I class myself as a domme cuckquean. It’s a very rare dynamic though
I’m surprised by how hard it is for cuckqueens to find a cuckcake ( honestly first time I’ve heard that term ).
I have found it almost impossible to find a couple that would be into this but as you say,
without the humiliation aspect. That part is really important to me.
Are the majority of cuckqueens really into the humiliation part or have I just been unlucky?
I dislike the humiliation part too. Some scenarios such as me being blindfolded or being made to wait outside the room sound hot and I guess they are sort of humiliating, but I never want to be made to feel like the cake is "better" as it changes my feelings from jealously (good) to insecurity (bad)
Yes, this is a fine line.
Humiliation is such a loaded word...the experience for the cuckquean can be deliciously humiliating, because she is watching her man fuck another woman for his pleasure, and she is being made to watch a scene that is very taboo in the eyes of society, and goes against every expectation of a ‘normal’ relationship.
And the quean can feel ashamed of herself, because she cannot do anything but find this subversion scorching hot, and wants nothing more than to see her man satisfy this cuckcake, and clean them both up afterwards - something that everyone she knows on ‘normal’ life would be horrified by if they knew she desired such things.
But this ‘humiliation’ is not about insecurity, but security and empowerment - there is really nothing stronger than a couple who can watch each other fuck people for the pleasure they can take from it, safe in the knowledge it brings them closer together as a loving couple.
The feelings in these scenarios are very powerful."
So perfectly explained.
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