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Right quick questions for the bisexual women!
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over a year ago
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"Are you more likely to marry and have children with a woman or a man and what age did you know you were bisexual?
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For me personally I was first attracted to women as a very young child. I would kiss the page 3 models in the newspapers and get ink on my face from the newspaper lol, then I always went to the ladies underwear section of catalogues.
I started showing an interest in boys from about 10 years old, my first kiss was with a lad. I used to practice kissing girls with the back of my hand against theirs but really I wanted to kiss them properly.
I married a man and have 2 children with him, we have since divorced. All my relationships have been with men. Swinging gives me the opportunity to indulge myself in my desire for women and I enjoy that balance.
Her x
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Are you more likely to marry and have children with a woman or a man and what age did you know you were bisexual?
For me personally I was first attracted to women as a very young child. I would kiss the page 3 models in the newspapers and get ink on my face from the newspaper lol, then I always went to the ladies underwear section of catalogues.
I started showing an interest in boys from about 10 years old, my first kiss was with a lad. I used to practice kissing girls with the back of my hand against theirs but really I wanted to kiss them properly.
I married a man and have 2 children with him, we have since divorced. All my relationships have been with men. Swinging gives me the opportunity to indulge myself in my desire for women and I enjoy that balance.
Her x
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Ok great thanks for that answer,I'm just trying to understand more not for me personally but how many women are more inclined to settle with a man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I knew I liked women in my teens. For me it’s always been a physical thing though. I could never fall for a woman as such or have a proper relationship. It’s just a bit of fun for me. My preference is and always has been men. If I had to choose it wouldn’t even be a choice. Men for me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are you more likely to marry and have children with a woman or a man and what age did you know you were bisexual?
For me personally I was first attracted to women as a very young child. I would kiss the page 3 models in the newspapers and get ink on my face from the newspaper lol, then I always went to the ladies underwear section of catalogues.
I started showing an interest in boys from about 10 years old, my first kiss was with a lad. I used to practice kissing girls with the back of my hand against theirs but really I wanted to kiss them properly.
I married a man and have 2 children with him, we have since divorced. All my relationships have been with men. Swinging gives me the opportunity to indulge myself in my desire for women and I enjoy that balance.
Her x
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The lingerie section in the old littleswoods catalogues definitely takes me back to growing up too... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you more likely to marry and have children with a woman or a man and what age did you know you were bisexual?
For me personally I was first attracted to women as a very young child. I would kiss the page 3 models in the newspapers and get ink on my face from the newspaper lol, then I always went to the ladies underwear section of catalogues.
I started showing an interest in boys from about 10 years old, my first kiss was with a lad. I used to practice kissing girls with the back of my hand against theirs but really I wanted to kiss them properly.
I married a man and have 2 children with him, we have since divorced. All my relationships have been with men. Swinging gives me the opportunity to indulge myself in my desire for women and I enjoy that balance.
Her x
The lingerie section in the old littleswoods catalogues definitely takes me back to growing up too..."
Without the internet that was fascinating to me in those days and as a young person finding out about myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was about 14 when i finally acknowledged that I am Bi.
I predominantly meet men, settled and had kids with one. I like penis an awful lot, but I also like connecting and playing with occasional ladies  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I liked women a good few years before I discovered I found men attractive; I knew I was bisexual the first time I had a strong attraction to a man, not a woman because I identified as a lesbian during my teenage years.
As far as marrying and having children, it will be with a man. I could see myself meeting/dating women in the future but right now I'm rather cockcentric. |
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My bisexuality surfaced after I engaged to a man who is my husband now so I don’t have much experiences in terms of vanilla dating or emotional relationships with woman. However, I did desire few of my close friends so if they had any inclinations towards that as well, I might’ve ended living with one.
I don’t want children so that would be out of the equation in both scenerios   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you more likely to marry and have children with a woman or a man and what age did you know you were bisexual?
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I would marry neither and I'm too old to have kids.
I knew I was bi at 21.
Now I know I'm not 'bisexual'. Knew that a couple of years ago. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I still figuring it out. I regret not having acted on urges to experiment when I was younger and now I'm terrified that I'll be the equivalent of a bumbling teenage boy and let another woman down. So I still stop myself from going for it, although I desperately want to.
I actually would love some advice/insight into how to brave that first time when you're older, and whether anyone who's more experienced has been with someone who wasn't? We all know how unappealling the 'teach me ropes' people are  , I don't wanna be that guy!
I never picture a relationship with a woman though, it's purely sexual desire. |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Are you more likely to marry and have children with a woman or a man and what age did you know you were bisexual?
I would marry neither and I'm too old to have kids.
I knew I was bi at 21.
Now I know I'm not 'bisexual'. Knew that a couple of years ago. "
Has it taken that long to decide you're really not into men?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Iv known since a very young age, maybe early teens.
Iv been in relationships with men and women.
I'm more interested in the person than their sex.
Iv found my perfect partner who happens to be a man but it would just have easily been a woman. |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Are you more likely to marry and have children with a woman or a man and what age did you know you were bisexual?
I would marry neither and I'm too old to have kids.
I knew I was bi at 21.
Now I know I'm not 'bisexual'. Knew that a couple of years ago. "
This is not about me but can I ask for some advise? I was going to send a message but I'm outside your filters. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've always known.
I have dated women in the past, tho never anything serious.
I don't want children, and am obviously very happily in a relationship with a man, but if I weren't, a female partner would be just as likely as a male partner.
I find more women attractive than men generally.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you more likely to marry and have children with a woman or a man and what age did you know you were bisexual?
I would marry neither and I'm too old to have kids.
I knew I was bi at 21.
Now I know I'm not 'bisexual'. Knew that a couple of years ago.
This is not about me but can I ask for some advise? I was going to send a message but I'm outside your filters."
Me? Yes of course you can mail me. I don't have any mail filters. |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Are you more likely to marry and have children with a woman or a man and what age did you know you were bisexual?
I would marry neither and I'm too old to have kids.
I knew I was bi at 21.
Now I know I'm not 'bisexual'. Knew that a couple of years ago.
This is not about me but can I ask for some advise? I was going to send a message but I'm outside your filters.
Me? Yes of course you can mail me. I don't have any mail filters. "
Thankyou,but it's saying I can't I'm outside your age filters. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you more likely to marry and have children with a woman or a man and what age did you know you were bisexual?
I would marry neither and I'm too old to have kids.
I knew I was bi at 21.
Now I know I'm not 'bisexual'. Knew that a couple of years ago.
This is not about me but can I ask for some advise? I was going to send a message but I'm outside your filters.
Me? Yes of course you can mail me. I don't have any mail filters.
Thankyou,but it's saying I can't I'm outside your age filters. "
Sent you a message. I'll check filters. Sorry |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi OP,
Excuse the intrusion - your thread just provoked the observation that most of the Fab females I connect with are bi to some extent. I can't put my finger on why that is - but food for thought.
I suppose in answer to your original question, it depends on where on the bi spectrum they sit. Certianly, there is much less social pressure to conform to the nuclear family model, so more freedom.
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Hi OP,
Excuse the intrusion - your thread just provoked the observation that most of the Fab females I connect with are bi to some extent. I can't put my finger on why that is - but food for thought.
I suppose in answer to your original question, it depends on where on the bi spectrum they sit. Certianly, there is much less social pressure to conform to the nuclear family model, so more freedom.
Q"
Until I joined Fab I didn't realise that quite so many women were bisexual. |
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I'm married with 3 children and been with Mr for 13 years. I have always been attracted to other girls since I was at school and later experimented with girls and loved it. I also at the same time like guys but there was never any confusion. After being with hub a few years he kinda guessed I'd got bi tendencies and after a few years of fantasising about the both of us with another women we decided to go for it first FFM was kind of out of the blue with a friend of mine and that lasted 8 months until she got into a relationship and from there we joined other sites as well as fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I highly doubt I could ever be in a serious relationship with a woman.
I’ll fuck a woman quite happily, but I’ve never loved another woman and can’t see it happening. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was into woman before I was into men but would never have a relationship with a woman. Two lots of pms... no chance 
However now it’s men that attract me more |
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"I actually would love some advice/insight into how to brave that first time when you're older, and whether anyone who's more experienced has been with someone who wasn't? We all know how unappealling the 'teach me ropes' people are , I don't wanna be that guy! "
Hi! I know that it’s generally Luke posting under our account, but this is Hannah writing.
I would call myself hetero-romantic and bi-sexual. I have only had romantic relationships with men, but I am sexually attracted to both men and women.
I have been bi-curious since I was young. I was attracted to women and enjoyed girl-on-girl porn. But, although I kissed and caressed women starting when I was about 17, I never had sex with one until I was 41. Until then, I had never been as turned on with a woman as I had been with a man, and I suppose I just hadn’t met the right person yet. She was a close friend of mine and it happened quite naturally and organically.
I was also nervous that I wouldn’t know what I was doing, but it really helps to BE a woman. I just did to her what I knew I would like and it worked a treat! Also, bear in mind that every person is different. Even if you have a lot of experience, it doesn’t necessarily follow that everyone will like or respond to the same things. That’s why I think it’s SO sexy to talk about what you like and both give feedback and respond to instruction in bed. Then both parties can relax and enjoy themselves knowing that everyone’s happy. |
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"Are you more likely to marry and have children with a woman or a man and what age did you know you were bisexual?
For me personally I was first attracted to women as a very young child. I would kiss the page 3 models in the newspapers and get ink on my face from the newspaper lol, then I always went to the ladies underwear section of catalogues.
I started showing an interest in boys from about 10 years old, my first kiss was with a lad. I used to practice kissing girls with the back of my hand against theirs but really I wanted to kiss them properly.
I married a man and have 2 children with him, we have since divorced. All my relationships have been with men. Swinging gives me the opportunity to indulge myself in my desire for women and I enjoy that balance.
Her x
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This is literally my life x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are you more likely to marry and have children with a woman or a man and what age did you know you were bisexual?
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I won't have kids with anyone. I simply don't want them.
Young. I can't say how old. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I actually would love some advice/insight into how to brave that first time when you're older, and whether anyone who's more experienced has been with someone who wasn't? We all know how unappealling the 'teach me ropes' people are , I don't wanna be that guy!
Hi! I know that it’s generally Luke posting under our account, but this is Hannah writing.
I would call myself hetero-romantic and bi-sexual. I have only had romantic relationships with men, but I am sexually attracted to both men and women.
I have been bi-curious since I was young. I was attracted to women and enjoyed girl-on-girl porn. But, although I kissed and caressed women starting when I was about 17, I never had sex with one until I was 41. Until then, I had never been as turned on with a woman as I had been with a man, and I suppose I just hadn’t met the right person yet. She was a close friend of mine and it happened quite naturally and organically.
I was also nervous that I wouldn’t know what I was doing, but it really helps to BE a woman. I just did to her what I knew I would like and it worked a treat! Also, bear in mind that every person is different. Even if you have a lot of experience, it doesn’t necessarily follow that everyone will like or respond to the same things. That’s why I think it’s SO sexy to talk about what you like and both give feedback and respond to instruction in bed. Then both parties can relax and enjoy themselves knowing that everyone’s happy."
Thank you Hannah! I think that's all pretty much what I hoped to hear x |
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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago
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I was about 11-12, and my interest in women kicked in long before any interest in men. Majority of relationships have been with men, although these days I've given up so more likely to date a woman. Wouldn't ever marry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I married and had children with a man but I've been attracted to women for as long as I can remember. It was always just part of who I was, I didn't see it as any different to liking boys and no one ever made a big deal out of it.
I wouldn't have a traditional relationship with either now as it's just not what I'm looking for but would love to find a female FWB as much as I would a male one, one day. |
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"Hi OP,
Excuse the intrusion - your thread just provoked the observation that most of the Fab females I connect with are bi to some extent. I can't put my finger on why that is - but food for thought.
I suppose in answer to your original question, it depends on where on the bi spectrum they sit. Certianly, there is much less social pressure to conform to the nuclear family model, so more freedom.
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Until I joined Fab I didn't realise that quite so many women were bisexual."
Just an observation, and hopefully not a sweeping generalisation...
I think (genetically, maybe) women have the capacity to be bisexual more than men, either that or women are more likely to be open about admitting such things, I've been out in pubs with my ex and other women and find women are more likely to snog other women than men with men, having said that, since being on here, I've been amazed to see how many gay (or bi maybe) men there are around my local area (I don't seek gay/bi men btw, they show up on the mobile app under 'near me' or whatever it's called)
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’m bi, I knew I was bi the first time I saw Michelle pfieffer (however the fuck you spell it) as cat woman. 
I had more girlfriends than boyfriends growing up and always fancied women more than men. They’re so much more attractive! I always felt I would end up in a long term relationship with a woman but then I met sid and fell in love... |
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Just an observation, and hopefully not a sweeping generalisation...
I think (genetically, maybe) women have the capacity to be bisexual more than men, either that or women are more likely to be open about admitting such things, I've been out in pubs with my ex and other women and find women are more likely to snog other women than men with men, having said that, since being on here, I've been amazed to see how many gay (or bi maybe) men there are around my local area (I don't seek gay/bi men btw, they show up on the mobile app under 'near me' or whatever it's called)
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It’s because society makes it more socially acceptable for women to be flexible sexually. Lesbians are at the top of just about every man’s to do list (though it makes zero sense). Basically, because girls kissing girls turn men on, it becomes accepted.  |
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"I'm married with 3 children and been with Mr for 13 years. I have always been attracted to other girls since I was at school and later experimented with girls and loved it. I also at the same time like guys but there was never any confusion. After being with hub a few years he kinda guessed I'd got bi tendencies and after a few years of fantasising about the both of us with another women we decided to go for it first FFM was kind of out of the blue with a friend of mine and that lasted 8 months until she got into a relationship and from there we joined other sites as well as fab "
What other sites is there? |
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