Our vanilla friends of many years have just called us fab friends for the first time.
Now have we been sussed or are we just over thinking?
Hoping it's the latter.
What's your thoughts and do your vanilla friends know about this side of your life?
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"Our vanilla friends of many years have just called us fab friends for the first time.
Now have we been sussed or are we just over thinking?
Hoping it's the latter.
What's your thoughts and do your vanilla friends know about this side of your life?
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Does it really matter? If they enjoy the lifestyle as much as you, but you're not their type or vice versa, then you could swap stories / experiences and leave it at that. After all, there's never any obligation to play, with anyone |
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We wouldn't want our friends knowing. It's a small community where we live, people would judge without understanding, and above all it's our sex life, not for public discussion down the local pub. We value our privacy.
We do understand not everyone feels that way but it's our sex life and that's how we feel about ours. |
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"We wouldn't want our friends knowing. It's a small community where we live, people would judge without understanding, and above all it's our sex life, not for public discussion down the local pub. We value our privacy.
We do understand not everyone feels that way but it's our sex life and that's how we feel about ours."
We feel the same way you do.
Its easy to think they might have sussed you but they probably don't even know there's a swingers site called Fab  .
I've got a friend who often replied to a text message with the word "fab". I think it's entirely innocent but sometimes I wonder. |
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"We wouldn't want our friends knowing. It's a small community where we live, people would judge without understanding, and above all it's our sex life, not for public discussion down the local pub. We value our privacy.
We do understand not everyone feels that way but it's our sex life and that's how we feel about ours."
Just ignore it and play dumb if they ask outright. Then deny. It's not worth the hassle.
Many people don't understand what 'privacy' means. |
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We are discrete and mostly meet away from our local area. Once or twice I thought people might have found out. I think it is another turn on to know that we are doing something secret x |
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Why do people believe that because the site is called Fab, then swinging is the one and only thing the word is connected to .... thank fuck they didn't call it milk swingers or something else in everyday vocabulary
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"Why do people believe that because the site is called Fab, then swinging is the one and only thing the word is connected to .... thank fuck they didn't call it milk swingers or something else in everyday vocabulary
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I don't think the word fab is used that much nowadays,not many people I know use it in day to day conversations that's why. |
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I tend to use 'fab' quite a lot to describe something good, don't give it a second thought if someone else does, the site wouldn't be first thing to come to mind. |
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"We are discrete and mostly meet away from our local area. Once or twice I thought people might have found out. I think it is another turn on to know that we are doing something secret x"
This is exactly us too. It's great having a sexy little secret. |
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