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"Its simple really. Traditional marriage asks a woman to have 1 Willie for life These women. Heroes amongst the masses want 2 or more Willies Hence non monogamy "Vaginas too! Don't forget the vaginas! | |||
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"Its simple really. Traditional marriage asks a woman to have 1 Willie for life These women. Heroes amongst the masses want 2 or more Willies Hence non monogamy
Vaginas too! Don't forget the vaginas! "Apologies you're right 
Any number or combo of willies or fannys higher than one | |||
"I'm just a slut. It's not even just about the sex, it's the freedom. I love the whole process. The flirting, the building connections, the affection. I've done monogamy, I just know I'm much happier non-monogamous. " I second that   | |||
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That exploration, discussion and fun actually makes us more horny and connected when it's just us together. And nothing is yet to beat that special "thing" we have together as a married couple.  | |||
"Could also be that more people are open about it now because we have the internet and we can glimpse into the lives of people who wouldn’t have otherwise met "I definitely agree with you. Do you think that this could also be the reason why people are less willing to "settle" in relationships? The presentation of "false" realities leaving people seeking something they'll probably never find? | |||
"Hey! We play as a couple. Feel free to drop us a message x" We would want to play as a couple same as you guys, hard to know if either/both of us would ever feel comfortable with play separately and especially not with the knowledge of the other, but it seems to be a fairly commonplace thing here. | |||
"We have been monogamous for 12 years. We have been married for 8. We could still be monogamous, we are 100% happy with our relationship. No trust issues. Full respect. Our swinging journey started as looking for a female for me, as I'd never really explored that and as hubby said, it's "an itch he can't scratch". I could go without it. But we both had fantasies and are comfortable and trusting enough to explore those together. Why because we're married should we not explore our fantasies together? Because society says "it isn't done"... nah. We're doing no harm. We're having fun.
That exploration, discussion and fun actually makes us more horny and connected when it's just us together. And nothing is yet to beat that special "thing" we have together as a married couple. "sounds perfectly normal and reasonable to me | |||
"Hey! We play as a couple. Feel free to drop us a message x We would want to play as a couple same as you guys, hard to know if either/both of us would ever feel comfortable with play separately and especially not with the knowledge of the other, but it seems to be a fairly commonplace thing here." Sorry that should say without the knowledge of the other..  | |||
"We have been monogamous for 12 years. We have been married for 8. We could still be monogamous, we are 100% happy with our relationship. No trust issues. Full respect. Our swinging journey started as looking for a female for me, as I'd never really explored that and as hubby said, it's "an itch he can't scratch". I could go without it. But we both had fantasies and are comfortable and trusting enough to explore those together. Why because we're married should we not explore our fantasies together? Because society says "it isn't done"... nah. We're doing no harm. We're having fun.
That exploration, discussion and fun actually makes us more horny and connected when it's just us together. And nothing is yet to beat that special "thing" we have together as a married couple. "You explained it just how it was, is and has been for us. 100% 
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"I'm a swinger, and I'm here as a single female with my husbands permission, though he's not into swinging himself. I've always been able to be with other women, since he's always known I'm bisexual, and didn't want me to miss that part of myself. It was actually his idea for me to sleep with other men, he finds the idea erotic (not in a cuck way, he isn't into humiliation or anything) and he likes for me to go to the club, have fun with people I'm attracted to and then come home and tell him about it while we fuck. Its added to our already great sex life I'd say. Though I don't think the thought would've occurred to me if he hadnt suggested it. " This sound similar but the reverse of us We enjoy fun tog after a meet so much the more, do you find the same? The other excitements last weeks  | |||
"I (L) feel as though the approach of @Bluebellracer is a realistic and open way of having a healthy sex life today. I think that it is becoming increasingly difficult to be completely monogamous in today's society more than ever." I think you're right here, it's nice to have the option of exploring different parts of your sexuality, together. | |||
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"It's interesting to hear a male perspective in this kind of relationship. Does the turn on override any feeling of jealousy? Or would you say it's maturity/love/perspective which makes her playing without you not an issue?" Trust and security in a relationship. There shouldn't be any feelings of jealousy? We are both allowed to play solo, but always meet as a couple first. How does you dynamic work or make you feel OP?... | |||
"It's interesting to hear a male perspective in this kind of relationship. Does the turn on override any feeling of jealousy? Or would you say it's maturity/love/perspective which makes her playing without you not an issue?" I always wanted my mrs to go all the way when we were playing Loved seeing her with other guys , but not sure about her going it alone t b h ! Might have worked | |||
  and enjoyed every second of it. During this time our fantasies grew. So we decided to stay and see where this road takes us. We only play together. And would only do something we were both 100% in doing.
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"I'm just a slut. It's not even just about the sex, it's the freedom. I love the whole process. The flirting, the building connections, the affection. I've done monogamy, I just know I'm much happier non-monogamous. I second that "Third, well said Lacey. Sex with each person is different, offering a different experience with each individual. I enjoy making connections, talking, getting to know someone a little, the social aspect, being chased and empowered (I won't lie), and then the new and different sex I get to experience with each different person/persons. The whole process, and especially the sex is different each time, exciting, fun, and interesting. I'm also a slut, and I don't care, it's what I enjoy. To answer some specific points from the op - my marriage is fine and perfectly satisfying, I don't need to sleep around loads (I'd be happy without it), but it enhances my life and sex life. There are no trust or jealousy issues with hubby. Also, he's attracted to slutty women, enjoys watching videos of me, and likes me coming home sloppy. Reclaim sex is amazing. So it adds to our marriage rather than detracting. I can separate my emotions from physical sex completely, I don't think this is actually uncommon, even for women, albeit not possible for everyone. Lastly, I think society is much more accepting of open relationships and promiscuous women, as long as everyone is being honest it's fine. The internet also facilitates it very easily now. Xx | |||
"It's interesting to hear a male perspective in this kind of relationship. Does the turn on override any feeling of jealousy? Or would you say it's maturity/love/perspective which makes her playing without you not an issue?" Does the turn on override any jealousy - yes Maturity, love? Yes. I understand that she gets a thrill from the attention, the buzz and excitement plus sex with someone new is always different. I know what those things feel like, know she enjoys them and want her to have that available to her. At the same time there is a mind fuck aspect, there's a voyeuristic aspect (even if it's only heating the details after) and then there's the reclaim sex. Kind of win win really. Mr | |||
"Was there ever any internal guilt initially during the transition from monogamy to a open relationship? Does your partner have the same freedom?" No guilt. It took some adjusting to get used to what each other was comfortable with and some reassurance at first as the unknown can be quite scary. Yes he does have the same freedom. | |||
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"It's interesting to hear a male perspective in this kind of relationship. Does the turn on override any feeling of jealousy? Or would you say it's maturity/love/perspective which makes her playing without you not an issue?" For us we don't really get off on each other having sex with others. It's something I've enjoyed in the past if I'm present but meeting separately isn't really about it being a turn on. Mostly we just feel happy for each other if they've had a good time. In the early days I had some jealousy when I was home alone while he was with someone else but now I love my nights to myself . | |||
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"It's interesting to hear a male perspective in this kind of relationship. Does the turn on override any feeling of jealousy? Or would you say it's maturity/love/perspective which makes her playing without you not an issue? Does the turn on override any jealousy - yes Maturity, love? Yes. I understand that she gets a thrill from the attention, the buzz and excitement plus sex with someone new is always different. I know what those things feel like, know she enjoys them and want her to have that available to her. At the same time there is a mind fuck aspect, there's a voyeuristic aspect (even if it's only heating the details after) and then there's the reclaim sex. Kind of win win really. Mr" I hear that. I've heard on other forums from people more well versed on the matter than myself that there is some kind of primative aspect to sexual behaviour in regards to group sex/other males and your partner in regards to competition and creating community. I can't remember the specifics but it was interesting if true. | |||
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"I have a great sex life with my partner and we have both never been unhappy with it. I was never interested in being with other men, but after eight years my partner was very open with me about how much he wanted to share me. I was in shock at first and it took me a while to come round to the idea, but now I'm happier than ever and so is he. I think it has only enhanced our sex life and made the two of us a stronger couple. I don't know how he does it though because I definitely couldn't share him "You are so completely on the same wavelength as us. | |||
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"I think maybe there's a lot of over thinking going on. I suspect a lot of it boils down to the simple enjoyment of sexual variety. Its no reflection on their partner or quality of what they have together. Its just no one can change into another person (or even change gender) to provide the variety that people a lot of people (often secretly) crave now and then." Yep. I love people and their individuality and quirks. This is why I have lots of different friends and this extends into lovers as well. | |||
"I think maybe there's a lot of over thinking going on. I suspect a lot of it boils down to the simple enjoyment of sexual variety. Its no reflection on their partner or quality of what they have together. Its just no one can change into another person (or even change gender) to provide the variety that people a lot of people (often secretly) crave now and then." | |||
