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Now being on the mega side of 'fat' I actually tend to friend zone a lot of the guys who i'd actually end up fancying. I use humour to try and break the ice as lets be honest rejection sucks.
My fliting skills in a pub/on a night out are piss poor. The thread title is genuinely something ive said as an ice breaker.
So ladies and gents.. help a girl out. How do you do it? | |||
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"And the last time I pulled a guy, it was a comment that he had bigger boobs than me, as he was a body builder that broke the ice!" haha love that. Looks like humour really does work then. I've played a game of 'guess the weight' where ive dumped my boobs on their hands and told them to guess the weight.. if they get it wrong i get a drink.. haha | |||
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"And the last time I pulled a guy, it was a comment that he had bigger boobs than me, as he was a body builder that broke the ice! haha love that. Looks like humour really does work then. I've played a game of 'guess the weight' where ive dumped my boobs on their hands and told them to guess the weight.. if they get it wrong i get a drink.. haha " To be fair, with that kind of brass you can't go far wrong anyway! | |||
"You have the fact that you are very, very pretty on your side. You could chat me up just by having those eyes. Big girls often assume that nobody is going to fancy them, and with the unrealistic and frankly absurd beauty standards an image obsessed media-driven society rams down our throats it's hardly surprising. But if my time on Fab has taught me anything, it's that I'm FAR from alone in enjoying the beauty of different shapes and sizes. You might be surprised how many blokes you fancy are every bit as keen to get jiggy as you are." So before i rejoined fab (was here over 3 years ago) i was in a 2 year relationship.. and when that ended i joined a fetish site for big BIGGG girls well i was tiny compared to some.. and they wanted to feed me cake. Like i could take a photo of a fat roll or grab my belly and these guys would e eating outta the palm of my hand.. Craziness. Decided it wasnt for me so rejoined here after it gave me some confidence. Hense my pictures where i just dont give a shit about displaying my body anymore.. haha I've discovered mens admiration for the extreme bigger girl is like someone eating a bag of chips in church during a service.. You know its wrong.. but i bet someone wants some chips hehe | |||
"And the last time I pulled a guy, it was a comment that he had bigger boobs than me, as he was a body builder that broke the ice! haha love that. Looks like humour really does work then. I've played a game of 'guess the weight' where ive dumped my boobs on their hands and told them to guess the weight.. if they get it wrong i get a drink.. haha " Knowing my luck ild get it right first go.... Kick myself tho, rather a few goes ... (Hahahaha) what would the next game be ? | |||
"And the last time I pulled a guy, it was a comment that he had bigger boobs than me, as he was a body builder that broke the ice! haha love that. Looks like humour really does work then. I've played a game of 'guess the weight' where ive dumped my boobs on their hands and told them to guess the weight.. if they get it wrong i get a drink.. haha Knowing my luck ild get it right first go.... Kick myself tho, rather a few goes ... (Hahahaha) what would the next game be ? " well i dont actually know the answer... so you'd always be wrong | |||
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"And the last time I pulled a guy, it was a comment that he had bigger boobs than me, as he was a body builder that broke the ice! haha love that. Looks like humour really does work then. I've played a game of 'guess the weight' where ive dumped my boobs on their hands and told them to guess the weight.. if they get it wrong i get a drink.. haha " If that was me i would get it wrong on purpose for a second go it would be worth a drink everytime | |||
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honestly I don’t know how you chat men up, on here you can send a faf message I suppose, in real life I just think we are all having a jolly laugh and dont ever see any sign that someone fancies me, I’m such a plonka   | |||
"Yes. And chatting up is just chatting, I think. " So how do you get from chatting and laughing to the flirty stuff? | |||
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"I laugh them into bed honestly I don’t know how you chat men up, on here you can send a faf message I suppose, in real life I just think we are all having a jolly laugh and dont ever see any sign that someone fancies me, I’m such a plonka "I dont know the signs either.. that why i was hoping some guys might give us girls some tips like i am confident enough to buy a guy a drink.. ive had a few cheeky kisses.. had a few numbers.. | |||
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"Yes. And chatting up is just chatting, I think. So how do you get from chatting and laughing to the flirty stuff? " Let's call it, chatting with intent then! | |||
"Yes. And chatting up is just chatting, I think. So how do you get from chatting and laughing to the flirty stuff? " Strong eye contact, a smile and the occasional touch say on the elbow when they say something funny. Move closer, open arms rather than crossed etc, show them you are in to them. It's all classic body language. | |||
"Yes. And chatting up is just chatting, I think. So how do you get from chatting and laughing to the flirty stuff? Let's call it, chatting with intent then! " Like “would you like a drink? And what’s the likelihood of getting it on later” they sort of thing? | |||
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"Yes. And chatting up is just chatting, I think. So how do you get from chatting and laughing to the flirty stuff? Strong eye contact, a smile and the occasional touch say on the elbow when they say something funny. Move closer, open arms rather than crossed etc, show them you are in to them. It's all classic body language. " oohh im a lip biter.. i smile loads anyways.. i do this this where i kinda twitch my nose like a rabbit in a cutesy way.. sometimes i trace my fingers along my top/bra line.. expose my neck by brushing my hair to one side.. look at a guys lips as i swallow a mouthful of drink.. before re looking into his eyes | |||
"Yes. And chatting up is just chatting, I think. So how do you get from chatting and laughing to the flirty stuff? Strong eye contact, a smile and the occasional touch say on the elbow when they say something funny. Move closer, open arms rather than crossed etc, show them you are in to them. It's all classic body language. oohh im a lip biter.. i smile loads anyways.. i do this this where i kinda twitch my nose like a rabbit in a cutesy way.. sometimes i trace my fingers along my top/bra line.. expose my neck by brushing my hair to one side.. look at a guys lips as i swallow a mouthful of drink.. before re looking into his eyes " See using your fingers to draw his attention to where you want it if only for an instant is purrrfect, finish that drink and suggest a walk where you brush against him, if he keeps a respectable distance he ain't interested but I'm betting most would lean in. | |||
"You have the fact that you are very, very pretty on your side. You could chat me up just by having those eyes. Big girls often assume that nobody is going to fancy them, and with the unrealistic and frankly absurd beauty standards an image obsessed media-driven society rams down our throats it's hardly surprising. But if my time on Fab has taught me anything, it's that I'm FAR from alone in enjoying the beauty of different shapes and sizes. You might be surprised how many blokes you fancy are every bit as keen to get jiggy as you are. So before i rejoined fab (was here over 3 years ago) i was in a 2 year relationship.. and when that ended i joined a fetish site for big BIGGG girls well i was tiny compared to some.. and they wanted to feed me cake. Like i could take a photo of a fat roll or grab my belly and these guys would e eating outta the palm of my hand.. Craziness. Decided it wasnt for me so rejoined here after it gave me some confidence. Hense my pictures where i just dont give a shit about displaying my body anymore.. haha I've discovered mens admiration for the extreme bigger girl is like someone eating a bag of chips in church during a service.. You know its wrong.. but i bet someone wants some chips hehe" Hi lovely. Tried to pm you but couldn’t. I definitely wouldn’t go on sites like that. It’d be the same as me going on a milf or cougar site. I meet younger men sometimes (as well as men roughly my own age) but I certainly don’t want to be anyone’s fetish - the idea makes me  .
I’d also stop viewing yourself as an ‘extreme bigger girl’ if you can and just view yourself as a person.
I’m sure there are guys who’ll like you for the fact that you’re a pretty, intelligent young woman - regardless of how much you weigh.
Sending hugs
Peachy xxxx | |||
"As the father of a teenage daughter, it is a very real concern at how damaging the forced standards of beauty are on society, and on women in particular. Having worked as a glamour / porn photographer I've had the privilege of photographing some absolutely stunning women in lots of states of undress (I know, I'm a lucky guy, right?) With one single exception, every girl despite how fabulous they all were in their own right, had an issue or issues with one or more aspect of their look. They all aspired to be something else, when the person they were was beautiful. The exception? Well, ironically, she was no great shakes at all, and had the worst boob job I've ever seen, and I've seen a lot. On the four hour shoot, the first three hours were spent trying to get her head out of her arse. If I've learnt nothing over the years its that we are all different. If you are the best version of yourself, you'll be okay. If you're a size 24, well there are more than enough guys who find a size 24 attractive. And from your profile OP, I can see an orderly queue forming. I'm often asked who the most beautiful person I've photographed is. Obviously, it's my daughter, but aside from her, judging from the reaction her photos generate it was a lovely, busty, very curvy blond lady with very ample and luxurious proportions. Size 24, maybe more... and it didn't matter a jot. How attractive? Thing of Bridgit Bardot in her prime, and won a good day, and you get the idea, but when 100% straight women looked at her photos and gasped, I knew my work was done. Be proud of who you are OP." What a lovely post. Thanks so much. My step dad is a photographer and so by default know loads of other 'togs' and i always see their photo's and totally admire that one of them only shoots plus size girls and ive spoken to this guy about photographing me potentially one day.. all the girls look mega confident and so 'deliciously full' THink some of that must come from him as a photographer to make them feel confident infront of the camera. | |||
"Yes. And chatting up is just chatting, I think. So how do you get from chatting and laughing to the flirty stuff? Strong eye contact, a smile and the occasional touch say on the elbow when they say something funny. Move closer, open arms rather than crossed etc, show them you are in to them. It's all classic body language. oohh im a lip biter.. i smile loads anyways.. i do this this where i kinda twitch my nose like a rabbit in a cutesy way.. sometimes i trace my fingers along my top/bra line.. expose my neck by brushing my hair to one side.. look at a guys lips as i swallow a mouthful of drink.. before re looking into his eyes " Acting like you don't know how to flirt, and then dropping that description on us? Girl, please! You've pulled me and you weren't even talking to me.  | |||
"You have the fact that you are very, very pretty on your side. You could chat me up just by having those eyes. Big girls often assume that nobody is going to fancy them, and with the unrealistic and frankly absurd beauty standards an image obsessed media-driven society rams down our throats it's hardly surprising. But if my time on Fab has taught me anything, it's that I'm FAR from alone in enjoying the beauty of different shapes and sizes. You might be surprised how many blokes you fancy are every bit as keen to get jiggy as you are. So before i rejoined fab (was here over 3 years ago) i was in a 2 year relationship.. and when that ended i joined a fetish site for big BIGGG girls well i was tiny compared to some.. and they wanted to feed me cake. Like i could take a photo of a fat roll or grab my belly and these guys would e eating outta the palm of my hand.. Craziness. Decided it wasnt for me so rejoined here after it gave me some confidence. Hense my pictures where i just dont give a shit about displaying my body anymore.. haha I've discovered mens admiration for the extreme bigger girl is like someone eating a bag of chips in church during a service.. You know its wrong.. but i bet someone wants some chips hehe Hi lovely. Tried to pm you but couldn’t. I definitely wouldn’t go on sites like that. It’d be the same as me going on a milf or cougar site. I meet younger men sometimes (as well as men roughly my own age) but I certainly don’t want to be anyone’s fetish - the idea makes me .
I’d also stop viewing yourself as an ‘extreme bigger girl’ if you can and just view yourself as a person.
I’m sure there are guys who’ll like you for the fact that you’re a pretty, intelligent young woman - regardless of how much you weigh.
Sending hugs
Peachy xxxx"Oh sorry flower didnt realise i had message filters on.. Yeah i did stop using the site as it was unhealthy for my own mind set. Im not comfortable. They were encouraging a life style i never want to embrace. I posted about weight loss once and got mobbed and slated.. Thanks for your lovely words x x x | |||
"You have the fact that you are very, very pretty on your side. You could chat me up just by having those eyes. Big girls often assume that nobody is going to fancy them, and with the unrealistic and frankly absurd beauty standards an image obsessed media-driven society rams down our throats it's hardly surprising. But if my time on Fab has taught me anything, it's that I'm FAR from alone in enjoying the beauty of different shapes and sizes. You might be surprised how many blokes you fancy are every bit as keen to get jiggy as you are. So before i rejoined fab (was here over 3 years ago) i was in a 2 year relationship.. and when that ended i joined a fetish site for big BIGGG girls well i was tiny compared to some.. and they wanted to feed me cake. Like i could take a photo of a fat roll or grab my belly and these guys would e eating outta the palm of my hand.. Craziness. Decided it wasnt for me so rejoined here after it gave me some confidence. Hense my pictures where i just dont give a shit about displaying my body anymore.. haha I've discovered mens admiration for the extreme bigger girl is like someone eating a bag of chips in church during a service.. You know its wrong.. but i bet someone wants some chips hehe Hi lovely. Tried to pm you but couldn’t. I definitely wouldn’t go on sites like that. It’d be the same as me going on a milf or cougar site. I meet younger men sometimes (as well as men roughly my own age) but I certainly don’t want to be anyone’s fetish - the idea makes me .
I’d also stop viewing yourself as an ‘extreme bigger girl’ if you can and just view yourself as a person.
I’m sure there are guys who’ll like you for the fact that you’re a pretty, intelligent young woman - regardless of how much you weigh.
Sending hugs
Peachy xxxx"I have to agree, people will accept you for who you are so long as you accept yourself, don't ever let someone try to shape you to serve their desires. Sites like that do nobody any favours as all they are doing is telling you your size is what defines you, we are all so much more than that. | |||
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"As the father of a teenage daughter, it is a very real concern at how damaging the forced standards of beauty are on society, and on women in particular. Having worked as a glamour / porn photographer I've had the privilege of photographing some absolutely stunning women in lots of states of undress (I know, I'm a lucky guy, right?) With one single exception, every girl despite how fabulous they all were in their own right, had an issue or issues with one or more aspect of their look. They all aspired to be something else, when the person they were was beautiful. The exception? Well, ironically, she was no great shakes at all, and had the worst boob job I've ever seen, and I've seen a lot. On the four hour shoot, the first three hours were spent trying to get her head out of her arse. If I've learnt nothing over the years its that we are all different. If you are the best version of yourself, you'll be okay. If you're a size 24, well there are more than enough guys who find a size 24 attractive. And from your profile OP, I can see an orderly queue forming. I'm often asked who the most beautiful person I've photographed is. Obviously, it's my daughter, but aside from her, judging from the reaction her photos generate it was a lovely, busty, very curvy blond lady with very ample and luxurious proportions. Size 24, maybe more... and it didn't matter a jot. How attractive? Thing of Bridgit Bardot in her prime, and won a good day, and you get the idea, but when 100% straight women looked at her photos and gasped, I knew my work was done. Be proud of who you are OP." I like this 
It really is all about the confidence and how you feel about yourself. Not what other people think of you. If you’re totally happy with yourself you won’t care what other people think. I truly believe this. | |||
"THink some of that must come from him as a photographer to make them feel confident infront of the camera. " It's a two way street OP. | |||
".. well tonight is your unlucky night..
Now being on the mega side of 'fat' I actually tend to friend zone a lot of the guys who i'd actually end up fancying. I use humour to try and break the ice as lets be honest rejection sucks.
My fliting skills in a pub/on a night out are piss poor. The thread title is genuinely something ive said as an ice breaker.
So ladies and gents.. help a girl out. How do you do it? "How do you friend zone guys you end up fancying? Is it out of choice or by accident? | |||
".. well tonight is your unlucky night..
Now being on the mega side of 'fat' I actually tend to friend zone a lot of the guys who i'd actually end up fancying. I use humour to try and break the ice as lets be honest rejection sucks.
My fliting skills in a pub/on a night out are piss poor. The thread title is genuinely something ive said as an ice breaker.
So ladies and gents.. help a girl out. How do you do it?
How do you friend zone guys you end up fancying? Is it out of choice or by accident? "Think i just chat too much about the wrong stuff.. and dont perhaps read signals from a guy.. if there are any. | |||
".. well tonight is your unlucky night..
Now being on the mega side of 'fat' I actually tend to friend zone a lot of the guys who i'd actually end up fancying. I use humour to try and break the ice as lets be honest rejection sucks.
My fliting skills in a pub/on a night out are piss poor. The thread title is genuinely something ive said as an ice breaker.
So ladies and gents.. help a girl out. How do you do it? "always love a bbw  | |||
".. well tonight is your unlucky night..
Now being on the mega side of 'fat' I actually tend to friend zone a lot of the guys who i'd actually end up fancying. I use humour to try and break the ice as lets be honest rejection sucks.
My fliting skills in a pub/on a night out are piss poor. The thread title is genuinely something ive said as an ice breaker.
So ladies and gents.. help a girl out. How do you do it?
How do you friend zone guys you end up fancying? Is it out of choice or by accident?
Think i just chat too much about the wrong stuff.. and dont perhaps read signals from a guy.. if there are any. "They could always interrupt your chat by kissing you. The signs are definitely there then. | |||
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"I'm the same op I always doubt a guy really fancies me. Been known to question are you sure youve seen my pics? Or go through my pics wondering if my pics don't reflect my size n maybe that's why guys message. I'm apologising before we've even met in case guys are disappointed meh. I've got great chat that's my strong point coyld do with just putting my chat with a nicer body eeek. Hopi g sometips on here will help " my pics are brutally honest, from every angle, fat rolls, etc.. yet i still am like 'really' when a man expresses an interest | |||
"You have the fact that you are very, very pretty on your side. You could chat me up just by having those eyes. Big girls often assume that nobody is going to fancy them, and with the unrealistic and frankly absurd beauty standards an image obsessed media-driven society rams down our throats it's hardly surprising. But if my time on Fab has taught me anything, it's that I'm FAR from alone in enjoying the beauty of different shapes and sizes. You might be surprised how many blokes you fancy are every bit as keen to get jiggy as you are." There is hope yet xx | |||
"Size isn't a problem to me, I'm a big lad myself and it'd be hypocritical to turn someone down because of their size. " see i have to disagree there. i dislike large men. they just dont do it for me. | |||
"I'm the same op I always doubt a guy really fancies me. Been known to question are you sure youve seen my pics? Or go through my pics wondering if my pics don't reflect my size n maybe that's why guys message. I'm apologising before we've even met in case guys are disappointed meh. I've got great chat that's my strong point coyld do with just putting my chat with a nicer body eeek. Hopi g sometips on here will help " Ladies, in my opinion you are beautiful and very sexy and you should feel confident about your body. I like nothing more than to feel and caress a big lady, kiss and lick all the rolls and curves and feel her happiness and excitement. But then, I am a small, little guy who will probably disappear between your big and beautiful breasts when I try to hug and kiss you  | |||
"I'm the same op I always doubt a guy really fancies me. Been known to question are you sure youve seen my pics? Or go through my pics wondering if my pics don't reflect my size n maybe that's why guys message. I'm apologising before we've even met in case guys are disappointed meh. I've got great chat that's my strong point coyld do with just putting my chat with a nicer body eeek. Hopi g sometips on here will help " I can so relate to this, my standard line is I’m a big girl, I realise it’s not everyone’s cup of tea x I find just being honest is the best way xx | |||
"I'm the same op I always doubt a guy really fancies me. Been known to question are you sure youve seen my pics? Or go through my pics wondering if my pics don't reflect my size n maybe that's why guys message. I'm apologising before we've even met in case guys are disappointed meh. I've got great chat that's my strong point coyld do with just putting my chat with a nicer body eeek. Hopi g sometips on here will help my pics are brutally honest, from every angle, fat rolls, etc.. yet i still am like 'really' when a man expresses an interest " Yep me too!!!! | |||
"As the father of a teenage daughter, it is a very real concern at how damaging the forced standards of beauty are on society, and on women in particular. Having worked as a glamour / porn photographer I've had the privilege of photographing some absolutely stunning women in lots of states of undress (I know, I'm a lucky guy, right?) With one single exception, every girl despite how fabulous they all were in their own right, had an issue or issues with one or more aspect of their look. They all aspired to be something else, when the person they were was beautiful. The exception? Well, ironically, she was no great shakes at all, and had the worst boob job I've ever seen, and I've seen a lot. On the four hour shoot, the first three hours were spent trying to get her head out of her arse. If I've learnt nothing over the years its that we are all different. If you are the best version of yourself, you'll be okay. If you're a size 24, well there are more than enough guys who find a size 24 attractive. And from your profile OP, I can see an orderly queue forming. I'm often asked who the most beautiful person I've photographed is. Obviously, it's my daughter, but aside from her, judging from the reaction her photos generate it was a lovely, busty, very curvy blond lady with very ample and luxurious proportions. Size 24, maybe more... and it didn't matter a jot. How attractive? Thing of Bridgit Bardot in her prime, and won a good day, and you get the idea, but when 100% straight women looked at her photos and gasped, I knew my work was done. Be proud of who you are OP. I like this
It really is all about the confidence and how you feel about yourself. Not what other people think of you. If you’re totally happy with yourself you won’t care what other people think. I truly believe this. "I agree, love this x | |||
"I'm the same op I always doubt a guy really fancies me. Been known to question are you sure youve seen my pics? Or go through my pics wondering if my pics don't reflect my size n maybe that's why guys message. I'm apologising before we've even met in case guys are disappointed meh. I've got great chat that's my strong point coyld do with just putting my chat with a nicer body eeek. Hopi g sometips on here will help my pics are brutally honest, from every angle, fat rolls, etc.. yet i still am like 'really' when a man expresses an interest " Hello lovely, I just want to reinforce all the lovely comments on here for you. You are absolutely beautiful! And sound a right laugh - I'd love to spend an evening in the pub with you. We'd have a giggle. But as someone else stated earlier, no matter how perfect we may view someone's body, they're not happy with it. I've put on a fair bit of weight this year, and I honestly think the gorgeous, fit guys who message me are taking the p#ss! Accept you're beautiful and do not settle for less than you want. Xx | |||
"As the father of a teenage daughter, it is a very real concern at how damaging the forced standards of beauty are on society, and on women in particular. Having worked as a glamour / porn photographer I've had the privilege of photographing some absolutely stunning women in lots of states of undress (I know, I'm a lucky guy, right?) With one single exception, every girl despite how fabulous they all were in their own right, had an issue or issues with one or more aspect of their look. They all aspired to be something else, when the person they were was beautiful. The exception? Well, ironically, she was no great shakes at all, and had the worst boob job I've ever seen, and I've seen a lot. On the four hour shoot, the first three hours were spent trying to get her head out of her arse. If I've learnt nothing over the years its that we are all different. If you are the best version of yourself, you'll be okay. If you're a size 24, well there are more than enough guys who find a size 24 attractive. And from your profile OP, I can see an orderly queue forming. I'm often asked who the most beautiful person I've photographed is. Obviously, it's my daughter, but aside from her, judging from the reaction her photos generate it was a lovely, busty, very curvy blond lady with very ample and luxurious proportions. Size 24, maybe more... and it didn't matter a jot. How attractive? Thing of Bridgit Bardot in her prime, and won a good day, and you get the idea, but when 100% straight women looked at her photos and gasped, I knew my work was done. Be proud of who you are OP." Kirsten halborg?  | |||
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"No words of wisdom from me. I'm piss poor at flirting too "Wow stunning | |||
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"Kirsten halborg? "She wouldn't have got a look in next to the girl I photographed... similar look though! | |||
"I've put on a fair bit of weight this year, and I honestly think the gorgeous, fit guys who message me are taking the p#ss!" Is that because you've become condition to the myth that only a woman of a certain size and shape can be beautiful? If you believe that, you need to change your religion. | |||
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"And the last time I pulled a guy, it was a comment that he had bigger boobs than me, as he was a body builder that broke the ice! haha love that. Looks like humour really does work then. I've played a game of 'guess the weight' where ive dumped my boobs on their hands and told them to guess the weight.. if they get it wrong i get a drink.. haha " and if you have any sense you wont tell them if they are right lol. Keep the drinks flowing | |||
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 when I take my clothes off and all the wobbly bits hit the floor, when you find someone who does treasure you for all the “bad bits” that you see about yourself it’s the best feeling in the world tbh | |||
"And the last time I pulled a guy, it was a comment that he had bigger boobs than me, as he was a body builder that broke the ice! haha love that. Looks like humour really does work then. I've played a game of 'guess the weight' where ive dumped my boobs on their hands and told them to guess the weight.. if they get it wrong i get a drink.. haha " What do they get if they guess correctly | |||
"I don’t want to be fetishised either but also I want to be with someone who isn’t going to go when I take my clothes off and all the wobbly bits hit the floor, when you find someone who does treasure you for all the “bad bits” that you see about yourself it’s the best feeling in the world tbh "If you're fat, clothes don't hide that. They know you're fat before you get naked. They know what they're getting. | |||
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"I don’t want to be fetishised either but also I want to be with someone who isn’t going to go when I take my clothes off and all the wobbly bits hit the floor, when you find someone who does treasure you for all the “bad bits” that you see about yourself it’s the best feeling in the world tbh
If you're fat, clothes don't hide that. They know you're fat before you get naked. They know what they're getting. "There just seems so much more of it when it’s set free though | |||
"Dread the day a bloke uses the term “fat lass” on here! " I'd prefer that to BBW myself. | |||
"Many guys aren’t bothered about size as long as you are fun, sexy and enjoy yourself - all those you seem to have in spades." That's because sexy isn't a shape or size, but an attitude. | |||
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"Just be who you are cute n sassy you have got whit and charm as well as have a laugh I know that your cheeky then go with that I know a few larger ladies and the one thing I can say is they really do have a laugh and a joke some can be the life of a party That does attract me as I have been with many ladies larger than myself. 3rd pic from the bottom id remove it, you dont really need it there. as I think you are being over brutal as there is plenty more other pics that you could use go on all 4s take a side shot, lay on the bed rest a leg off the side of the bed " Just a couple of things I wanted to pick up on from your post... That generalisation that fat women are "bubbly"...it's nowt to do with someone's size. And describing that pic, 3rd up from the bottom as brutal  it's a beautiful pic! Fat women do not need to hide their fatness! It's merely a photo of the OPs tum. Personally, i think it's a beautiful, artistic shot. Far from "brutal".
Everyone should post whatever images they like to post.
I know you weren't being mean or trying to offend or anything, I'm not suggesting you were. Just my 2 cents
Lu | |||
"Dread the day a bloke uses the term “fat lass” on here! I'd prefer that to BBW myself." Each to there own, but you gotta admit, the likelyhood of a guy getting torn apart is far greater | |||
"Dread the day a bloke uses the term “fat lass” on here! I'd prefer that to BBW myself. Each to there own, but you gotta admit, the likelyhood of a guy getting torn apart is far greater " Depends on who he's talking to. I'm not sure why someone's size really needs to be referenced tbh. | |||
".. well tonight is your unlucky night..
Now being on the mega side of 'fat' I actually tend to friend zone a lot of the guys who i'd actually end up fancying. I use humour to try and break the ice as lets be honest rejection sucks.
My fliting skills in a pub/on a night out are piss poor. The thread title is genuinely something ive said as an ice breaker.
So ladies and gents.. help a girl out. How do you do it? "You’re not “fat” more of a BBW | |||
".. well tonight is your unlucky night..
Now being on the mega side of 'fat' I actually tend to friend zone a lot of the guys who i'd actually end up fancying. I use humour to try and break the ice as lets be honest rejection sucks.
My fliting skills in a pub/on a night out are piss poor. The thread title is genuinely something ive said as an ice breaker.
So ladies and gents.. help a girl out. How do you do it?
You’re not “fat” more of a BBW "See, as a fat woman, this always annoys me. What's wrong with being "fat"? Why is being a porn category better? | |||
"Just be who you are cute n sassy you have got whit and charm as well as have a laugh I know that your cheeky then go with that I know a few larger ladies and the one thing I can say is they really do have a laugh and a joke some can be the life of a party That does attract me as I have been with many ladies larger than myself. 3rd pic from the bottom id remove it, you dont really need it there. as I think you are being over brutal as there is plenty more other pics that you could use go on all 4s take a side shot, lay on the bed rest a leg off the side of the bed Just a couple of things I wanted to pick up on from your post... That generalisation that fat women are "bubbly"...it's nowt to do with someone's size. And describing that pic, 3rd up from the bottom as brutal it's a beautiful pic! Fat women do not need to hide their fatness! It's merely a photo of the OPs tum. Personally, i think it's a beautiful, artistic shot. Far from "brutal".
Everyone should post whatever images they like to post.
I know you weren't being mean or trying to offend or anything, I'm not suggesting you were. Just my 2 cents
Lu "I was saying shes been over brutal with herself The generalisation is what ive noted/found with them as much as having a parent the same as well | |||
".. well tonight is your unlucky night..
Now being on the mega side of 'fat' I actually tend to friend zone a lot of the guys who i'd actually end up fancying. I use humour to try and break the ice as lets be honest rejection sucks.
My fliting skills in a pub/on a night out are piss poor. The thread title is genuinely something ive said as an ice breaker.
So ladies and gents.. help a girl out. How do you do it?
You’re not “fat” more of a BBW
See, as a fat woman, this always annoys me.
What's wrong with being "fat"?
Why is being a porn category better? "“Fat” is derogatory That’s all...BBW isn’t exactly complimentary either | |||
".. well tonight is your unlucky night..
Now being on the mega side of 'fat' I actually tend to friend zone a lot of the guys who i'd actually end up fancying. I use humour to try and break the ice as lets be honest rejection sucks.
My fliting skills in a pub/on a night out are piss poor. The thread title is genuinely something ive said as an ice breaker.
So ladies and gents.. help a girl out. How do you do it?
You’re not “fat” more of a BBW
See, as a fat woman, this always annoys me.
What's wrong with being "fat"?
Why is being a porn category better?
“Fat” is derogatory That’s all...BBW isn’t exactly complimentary either "Fat isn't derogatory. It's a descriptive word that's neither negative or positive. Is "short" a negative word? Or "tall"?, "curvy"? Bbw is literally a porn category. A fetish. Some women are ok to be labelled that. I personally hate it. I'd rather someone either referred to me as fat or simply didn't reference my size. Lu | |||
"Many guys aren’t bothered about size as long as you are fun, sexy and enjoy yourself - all those you seem to have in spades. That's because sexy isn't a shape or size, but an attitude." | |||
"Many guys aren’t bothered about size as long as you are fun, sexy and enjoy yourself - all those you seem to have in spades. That's because sexy isn't a shape or size, but an attitude. "This! Appearance is one thing, but personality makes my mind up. | |||
"That's because sexy isn't a shape or size, but an attitude.
This! Appearance is one thing, but personality makes my mind up. "Appearance is a transient experience... personality, attitude, demeanour, behaviour, outlook seal the deal. OP, go out and live your best life. You're more than equipped for this! | |||
"That's because sexy isn't a shape or size, but an attitude.
This! Appearance is one thing, but personality makes my mind up.
Appearance is a transient experience... personality, attitude, demeanour, behaviour, outlook seal the deal. OP, go out and live your best life. You're more than equipped for this!"Cheers for all the feedback and lovely comments. Perhaps with age comes confidence. I do generally try and wing it.. blag some gusto. Worst they can say is 'no thanks' | |||
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"I also don’t say fat, I prefer proper woman " Slim women aren't "proper women" then? come on guys...
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"I like a woman with a fuller figure. Usually a lot less catty too. All I've met have been very sensual. Great company. Ladies just be yourself. " Jeezus...being catty or not has fuck all to do with a woman's size. Just say you like bigger women, you don't need to imply that other women are something negative. | |||
"I also don’t say fat, I prefer proper woman Slim women aren't "proper women" then? come on guys..."There's always one | |||
"I laugh them into bed honestly I don’t know how you chat men up, on here you can send a faf message I suppose, in real life I just think we are all having a jolly laugh and dont ever see any sign that someone fancies me, I’m such a plonka "I am so bad at reading the signs as well. Long story short I spent most of the night with a woman when she said "I am going home" I said goodbye ect and left it at that. About ten minutes later she returned and said "Taxi is here" and I replied " Ok see you" She left, my mate ripped the piss out of me for the rest of the night!  | |||
"Many guys aren’t bothered about size as long as you are fun, sexy and enjoy yourself - all those you seem to have in spades. That's because sexy isn't a shape or size, but an attitude." Someone buy this man a drink | |||
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"Many guys aren’t bothered about size as long as you are fun, sexy and enjoy yourself - all those you seem to have in spades. That's because sexy isn't a shape or size, but an attitude. Someone buy this man a drink "But why can’t we say what we want ? Only something personal should be offensive??? Freedom of speech | |||
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"Many guys aren’t bothered about size as long as you are fun, sexy and enjoy yourself - all those you seem to have in spades. That's because sexy isn't a shape or size, but an attitude. Someone buy this man a drink
But why can’t we say what we want ?
Only something personal should be offensive???
Freedom of speech "You can say what you want, most of the time it’s how people say it that I find is the issue. We all know we’re not everyone’s “type” as such but it’s the attitude, feeling sexy and empowered that is attractive. | |||
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"Surely it's personality that is the most appealing asset not shape! Shape is a bonus but not everything!" Bit of both really isnt it? | |||
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"like all woman I have days when I am on top and days when I am not. " I resisting the urge to type an incredibly inappropriate joke right now, but I won't, because I'd go straight to hell, and besides, celebrate your curves, they're wonderful! | |||
"like all woman I have days when I am on top and days when I am not. I resisting the urge to type an incredibly inappropriate joke right now, but I won't, because I'd go straight to hell, and besides, celebrate your curves, they're wonderful! " ya just reread, lol nothing wrong with hell I'll save you a seat on the coach least it will be warm lol | |||
"Surely it's personality that is the most appealing asset not shape! Shape is a bonus but not everything!" True - but having said that - the op has already stated that she doesn’t like larger men - so to some it obviously is. Very few of us would meet people from literally one size extreme to the other. Many preferences fall somewhere in the middle - whereas some people fluctuate towards preferring one side or the other. This only becomes an issue, I think, if they choose to be unkind to/about those who don’t meet their preference. The point isn’t that the op’s appeal should be universal - no-one’s is! The point is that everyone has a right to be respected regardless of shape, size, age, sex etc - and has a right to be confident in who they are. | |||
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