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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Post your real mood (and Forum mood if you want).
I will post my mood at least once daily thus bumping the thread every day for a week.
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Always remember there is a real feeling person behind every username and avatar
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NB: I am not a mental health professional. Any comments or advice I might make are purely from my own personal experience.
If you feel you cannot cope or your mood is spiralling out of control you should contact your GP. At a minimum you should go through the symptom checker at 111.nhs.uk |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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( Real mood ) very focused rembered what light that fire in the first place and pushing to new limits bent the bar yesterday lol
Forum mood normal Funny serious sarcastic jokey and playing around take the piss all depends on the end off my post
If it’s ha ha lol pretty much means I have a joke with you not to be taken to seriously or in less you want it to be ha ha lol
No xxxx mean not really in to you but will still convo with you
Xxxx means I definitely in to you
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Real.. selfishly deflated, anxious, jealous, angry,
Forum, ... yeah im ok"
To sum it up in one word - "Fine".
Hopefully cheered up on here after a while   |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Forum Mood: Apathetic mostly
Real Mood: Strangely anxious, off kilter and unsettled but mixed in with a degree of hope - can't explain it better than that but will snap out of it I'm sure |
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I'm a bit bleugh.
Been having trouble sleeping coupled with nightmares this past week or so, off food completely and I've made the connection this morning I think.
Tomorrow would have been my 2 year anniversary, but instead it's his 13th wedding anniversary. I'm not sure how I feel. I'm not sad we aren't together of course, but there's no denying I'm sad things turned out the way they did.
So, my mind is wondering what they'll be doing, and I can't lie, I'm pissed off. If I'd never met him I could have been celebrating an anniversary with someone who DOES deserve me but instead I'm sat here lacking trust and faith in humanity |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a bit bleugh.
Been having trouble sleeping coupled with nightmares this past week or so, off food completely and I've made the connection this morning I think.
Tomorrow would have been my 2 year anniversary, but instead it's his 13th wedding anniversary. I'm not sure how I feel. I'm not sad we aren't together of course, but there's no denying I'm sad things turned out the way they did.
So, my mind is wondering what they'll be doing, and I can't lie, I'm pissed off. If I'd never met him I could have been celebrating an anniversary with someone who DOES deserve me but instead I'm sat here lacking trust and faith in humanity"
This time next year you could be looking back at this and thinking what a wonderful year you had.
(13 years!!!? wtf) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Real - excited for my tripup to Manchester for a few days this week even though I'm worried sick about money.
Forum - I don't take this place too seriously. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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" Real life: head in the shed with too many decisions to make.
Forum: not feeling it  "
I know what you mean about the forum this morning/afternoon. Just not getting the same brain buzz. My RL mood had dipped and feel slightly anxious. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Real - excited for my tripup to Manchester for a few days this week even though I'm worried sick about money.
Forum - I don't take this place too seriously."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Real: questioning my life in general and co templating big changes.....
Fab: questioning whether this is the right place for me.....  "
Maybe hide your profile and take a break from Fab. Most people seem to come back anyway and start from scratch because they deleted their profile.
Change can be good but maybe a massive overhaul in one go is not always best. Start small and work your way up. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Forum Mood: Apathetic mostly
Real Mood: Strangely anxious, off kilter and unsettled but mixed in with a degree of hope - can't explain it better than that but will snap out of it I'm sure "
Monday blues? Your RL mood sounds a bit like mine at the moment. Distraction is usually key to helping to shift a low mood. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A bit anxious but I’m alright now. Dealt with the problem, feel like a bit of an idiot but meh "
Everyone feels a bit of an idiot at times. I'm feeling like one at the moment over something which is triggering my anxiety and I know I just need to step over the cliff a bit ... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Real.. selfishly deflated, anxious, jealous, angry,
Forum, ... yeah im ok"
It's OK to feel deflated especially as your weekend didn't work out as planned. Generally pissed off would be a good term - just get back on the horse and start planning your next weekend. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm a bit bleugh.
Been having trouble sleeping coupled with nightmares this past week or so, off food completely and I've made the connection this morning I think.
Tomorrow would have been my 2 year anniversary, but instead it's his 13th wedding anniversary. I'm not sure how I feel. I'm not sad we aren't together of course, but there's no denying I'm sad things turned out the way they did.
So, my mind is wondering what they'll be doing, and I can't lie, I'm pissed off. If I'd never met him I could have been celebrating an anniversary with someone who DOES deserve me but instead I'm sat here lacking trust and faith in humanity"
Distraction is what you need. Go for a walk, drink in a cafe/pub. And you can't change what has happened and you need to accept that. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Forum Mood: Apathetic mostly
Real Mood: Strangely anxious, off kilter and unsettled but mixed in with a degree of hope - can't explain it better than that but will snap out of it I'm sure
Monday blues? Your RL mood sounds a bit like mine at the moment. Distraction is usually key to helping to shift a low mood."
Was more than the Monday Blues more an accumulation of things, but a bit of help with a head wobble later and it's dissipating |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Forum Mood: Apathetic mostly
Real Mood: Strangely anxious, off kilter and unsettled but mixed in with a degree of hope - can't explain it better than that but will snap out of it I'm sure
Monday blues? Your RL mood sounds a bit like mine at the moment. Distraction is usually key to helping to shift a low mood.
Was more than the Monday Blues more an accumulation of things, but a bit of help with a head wobble later and it's dissipating "
And thanks..appreciated |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Real mood is probably a little moody, my forum mood may echo that. *moodyface"
You always brighten up my day a little bit when I see your avatar on the forum (and I'm adding you to my list of 'best arse(s)' on Fab on the Best Arse part 2 thread). |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Real mood - feeling sad, needy and mentally exhausted
Forum mood- not really giving it much thought just flitting in and out for something to do "
I hope your mental exhaustion passes soon Belle, you're going through a bit of a meh time and it's okay to be needy to those who care about you. Actually scrap that, it's not being needy, it's being human and wanting to feel valued and loved. You are.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Real mood - feeling sad, needy and mentally exhausted
Forum mood- not really giving it much thought just flitting in and out for something to do
I hope your mental exhaustion passes soon Belle, you're going through a bit of a meh time and it's okay to be needy to those who care about you. Actually scrap that, it's not being needy, it's being human and wanting to feel valued and loved. You are. "
Thanks so much Meli this date 9/9 has been a hard one for me for a couple of years now and I imagine it always will be which is what’s mainly affecting my mood today |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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An update...
Forum Mood: Still mostly apathetic
Real Mood: Normal service resumed - positive, strong and full of hope that the future is bright (with a few inevitable shady patches but I'm ready for them) |
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