I don't think it's overrated but I *do* think it's too often seen as the "aim", rather than just another element of the buffet table of sex - I've had sex where penetration hasn't happened that has been just as fantastic as when it has.
No not at all, it's what foreplay builds up too, the main event so too speak. Even when I cum during foreplay there is nothing I want more afterwards than his cock mrs y
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