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To the women.. if you ARE interested in someone, how long before you reply?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just a general question really...
A guy sends you a well constructed message (with face pic) and you open and read it.
Now... I am not stupid and I'm bet aware that a read message that isn't replied to generally means the person receiving the message is not interested.
However, how long do most girls leave it before replying to a message that DOES pique your interest?
Instantly? An hour? A day?
Asking for a friend, just curious
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pretty much instantly otherwise I’ll forget or it will get lost in my inbox. Sometimes I mark as unread so I can come back to it if I’m not able to answer at that time.
I would like them to get ride of the sent box though so people can’t see when their messages have been read though. I don’t like that feature. People read too much into it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pretty much instantly otherwise I’ll forget or it will get lost in my inbox. Sometimes I mark as unread so I can come back to it if I’m not able to answer at that time.
I would like them to get ride of the sent box though so people can’t see when their messages have been read though. I don’t like that feature. People read too much into it "
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If I'm going to reply but don't want to then and there I will mark the message unread as a reminder.
Some of my conversations are.using ling and detailed messages, so I don't reply until I have time to give it my full attention.
If I've opened a message, left it on read but not replied then I'm not planning on replying. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Pretty much instantly otherwise I’ll forget or it will get lost in my inbox. Sometimes I mark as unread so I can come back to it if I’m not able to answer at that time.
I would like them to get ride of the sent box though so people can’t see when their messages have been read though. I don’t like that feature. People read too much into it "
This is why I'm asking... I like the feature of seeing when a message is read.
It's about the only armoury or weapon a guy has in this battlefield, if it isn't hard enough |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Pretty much instantly otherwise I’ll forget or it will get lost in my inbox. Sometimes I mark as unread so I can come back to it if I’m not able to answer at that time.
I would like them to get ride of the sent box though so people can’t see when their messages have been read though. I don’t like that feature. People read too much into it
This is why I'm asking... I like the feature of seeing when a message is read.
It's about the only armoury or weapon a guy has in this battlefield, if it isn't hard enough "
Oh god but a message read and not replied to is even worse though. I have taken to deleting sent messages on whattsapp for this reason. Makes life so much more peaceful. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Pretty much instantly otherwise I’ll forget or it will get lost in my inbox. Sometimes I mark as unread so I can come back to it if I’m not able to answer at that time.
I would like them to get ride of the sent box though so people can’t see when their messages have been read though. I don’t like that feature. People read too much into it
This is why I'm asking... I like the feature of seeing when a message is read.
It's about the only armoury or weapon a guy has in this battlefield, if it isn't hard enough
Oh god but a message read and not replied to is even worse though. I have taken to deleting sent messages on whattsapp for this reason. Makes life so much more peaceful. "
I can deal with a read message that's deleted, that's fine...i know where I stand etc.
Is the ones that are read and stay read with no reply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pretty much instantly otherwise I’ll forget or it will get lost in my inbox. Sometimes I mark as unread so I can come back to it if I’m not able to answer at that time.
I would like them to get ride of the sent box though so people can’t see when their messages have been read though. I don’t like that feature. People read too much into it
This is why I'm asking... I like the feature of seeing when a message is read.
It's about the only armoury or weapon a guy has in this battlefield, if it isn't hard enough
Oh god but a message read and not replied to is even worse though. I have taken to deleting sent messages on whattsapp for this reason. Makes life so much more peaceful.
I can deal with a read message that's deleted, that's fine...i know where I stand etc.
Is the ones that are read and stay read with no reply. "
Delete those buggers too, they are the worst  |
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"Just a general question really...
A guy sends you a well constructed message (with face pic) and you open and read it.
Now... I am not stupid and I'm bet aware that a read message that isn't replied to generally means the person receiving the message is not interested.
However, how long do most girls leave it before replying to a message that DOES pique your interest?
Instantly? An hour? A day?
Asking for a friend, just curious
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Totally depends on what else is going on at the time. Might be straight away, might be days later!
Mrs TMN x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just a general question really...
A guy sends you a well constructed message (with face pic) and you open and read it.
Now... I am not stupid and I'm bet aware that a read message that isn't replied to generally means the person receiving the message is not interested.
However, how long do most girls leave it before replying to a message that DOES pique your interest?
Instantly? An hour? A day?
Asking for a friend, just curious
Totally depends on what else is going on at the time. Might be straight away, might be days later!
Mrs TMN x"
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By *abonWoman
over a year ago
L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham |
It varies from straight away to within a day or two for me for a first message. For subsequent messages (with people I want to chat to), it can be straight away to...erm...a week! Longer gaps than that usually mean I think it’s fizzled out... |
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By *B69Woman
over a year ago
Wiltshire |
Depends how much time I have at the moment of opening the msg, if I’m short on time I will mark it as unread and go back to it, but if I have the time then I would reply straight away especially if they have caught my attention |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Depends what else I’m doing. I have messages from friends at the moment that i Need to reply but don’t have the concentration to do so... I’ve had gin "
Nice  have one on me! I'm on the disaronno |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm trying to be better at deleting ones I'm not going to reply to, as I know now that this frustrates people when they're sitting read. So I generally open everything, mark unread the ones I want to go back to and bulk delete the rest. Always feel a bit rotten though. |
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