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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi I'm very new to all this and really not sure if I'm doing things right.
I no I have to be patient with things and wait but I just want to no if my profile is ok ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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on reading your profile the following jumps out at me :-
1/ you are new to swinging
2/ dont want the hassle of a relationship
3/ want fun
4/ like meeting new people
5/ enjoy socialsing in sexy environments
do you think your profile stands out from the crowd? are you selling yourself enough?
personally i think your profile is rather empty and needs filling out.....but hey its your profile and you know yourself best |
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No patience, youve been on the site 7 days. This is a swinging site. Not dial a shag. I think you need to revaluate what you are looking for and what you expect from the site. Then sit down and write yourself a proper profile. Now if after 7 months you still havent had a meet, revaluate again. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No patience, youve been on the site 7 days. This is a swinging site. Not dial a shag. I think you need to revaluate what you are looking for and what you expect from the site. Then sit down and write yourself a proper profile. Now if after 7 months you still havent had a meet, revaluate again."
Its not expecting to meet someone this fast Im thinking about, its more to do with getting no response from any messages I've sent |
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Ok, so you cant / wont put a face pic up... Why no other public pics.. At least give people a bit of an idea about ou.
From your profile text I see your name, and that you dont have a lot of spare time... If I was browsing and looking to contact someone I'd pass that by.. Nothing about you, what you're looking for, and what you can offer to anyone who may be thinking about meeting you.
Theres also nothing about the type of people you want to meet
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its not expecting to meet someone this fast Im thinking about, its more to do with getting no response from any messages I've sent "
Take a look how many single guys there are on this site. Work out how many messages someone you find attractive may get. And realise ladies and couples just can't reply to every message. Keep an eye on whether they are read and ignored or just not read. Either way walk away as persisting can be seen as either desperate or unattractive.
Tried chatrooms to make new contacts? Works for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't put one on my profile because of my work there is one on my friends pic because I can check who's looking at it  "
No picture because of your work is no excuse and doesn't wash with me at all. An awful lot of us who "cannot due to work" still have a face picture on here, that is because one can set it as private as only you can see it. You can then explain in your first message that you do have one, and then attach it to a further message, easy  |
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"Ok, so you cant / wont put a face pic up... Why no other public pics.. At least give people a bit of an idea about ou.
From your profile text I see your name, and that you dont have a lot of spare time... If I was browsing and looking to contact someone I'd pass that by.. Nothing about you, what you're looking for, and what you can offer to anyone who may be thinking about meeting you.
Theres also nothing about the type of people you want to meet
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Spot on!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi I'm very new to all this and really not sure if I'm doing things right.
I no I have to be patient with things and wait but I just want to no if my profile is ok ??"
Your profile is very similar to many other short ones so better them and expand it. Go into a little detail on what you like what you would like to offer, keep it positive light and welcoming, add a few more pictures and see how it goes. You won't find thinks easy but perseverance will give rewards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hav a sensitive job but I still have a face pic as my profile pic at the end of the day wot u choose to do outside of work is no ones business but your own if they don't like it tough! So im sorry but the "I can't coz of me job" line doesn't fly wiv me. |
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