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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Why do they do this? It's happened to us a few times now, what do they expect is going to happen if you go to meet them?
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Invariably they think they'll get away with the wife being "unexpectedly ill" and the unsuspecting meet being happy to go along with playing with just him.
Either that or they have no intention of meeting and are just looking for the thrill of the chase and sex chat.
They're usually easily spotted though |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Doesn’t the photo verification thing help reduce this somewhat? "
No as some use old pics of ex's, or keep couple profile after a split. Some very crafty pervs on here lol |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Doesn’t the photo verification thing help reduce this somewhat? "
It does IF the "couple" are photo verified but it's not mandatory to get that - and even if it were it's not totally foolproof. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why do they do this? It's happened to us a few times now, what do they expect is going to happen if you go to meet them?
Invariably they think they'll get away with the wife being "unexpectedly ill" and the unsuspecting meet being happy to go along with playing with just him.
Either that or they have no intention of meeting and are just looking for the thrill of the chase and sex chat.
They're usually easily spotted though "
Yes, we spot them a lot easier now, x |
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"Doesn’t the photo verification thing help reduce this somewhat?
No as some use old pics of ex's, or keep couple profile after a split. Some very crafty pervs on here lol"
To be honest I expected as much. As an aside, photo verifying as a single bloke has to be the most pointless exercise ever!  |
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Theres a reason why I had to state on my profile I meet couples not the guy or woman separately. As I still get messages mainly (always) from the guy saying he has ‘permission’ to meet separately.
The biggest indicator for me, is when their profile doesn’t indicate they’re interested in Tgirls.  |
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"Doesn’t the photo verification thing help reduce this somewhat?
No as some use old pics of ex's, or keep couple profile after a split. Some very crafty pervs on here lol"
i thought you need to stand behind a piece of paper saying your fab username? or is that super imposed? but wouldn't thr mod notic they're not going the piece of paper? |
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Wank fodder.
They are hoping you will talk dirty and show them more graphic images to add to their wank bank.
Gonna add the normal Mod bit here:
If you come across a profile you believe isn't genuinely a couple then please report so Admin can have a look.
Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Theres a reason why I had to state on my profile I meet couples not the guy or woman separately. As I still get messages mainly (always) from the guy saying he has ‘permission’ to meet separately.
The biggest indicator for me, is when their profile doesn’t indicate they’re interested in Tgirls. "
Or the profiles that state straight, that boils me. We're all on here for the same thing, why can't they just be honest? If you can't be on here, then where can you?
Best excuse we have heard is 'i have friends on here, and I don't want them to know I'm bi' I usually just delete messages, as it's easier x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some Bi guys do this as well, try to entice a straight single guy with the pretence of a couple, and yet all their photos are of cocks."
Yes, had that too x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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had a message from a "couple" very recently begging to meet within 2 days, specific time of day. Husband straight, wife bi. Suddenly both straight when I said I was straight
Wouldn't take no
In my opinion a couple wouldnt speak to a woman that way as they wouldn't want their female half treated same way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"had a message from a "couple" very recently begging to meet within 2 days, specific time of day. Husband straight, wife bi. Suddenly both straight when I said I was straight
Wouldn't take no
In my opinion a couple wouldnt speak to a woman that way as they wouldn't want their female half treated same way"
Have you seen any of the threads where the man of a couple is talking about his wife?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Doesn’t the photo verification thing help reduce this somewhat? "
No because more often than not they are verified.
I find its normally when the veris are hidden or a couple of years old.
Either the female no longer wants to play or they are no longer together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If it increased their chances of being spoken to, replied to or getting laid why shouldn't they ?
It's a ruse ..... nothing more."
Because its deceptive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do they do this? It's happened to us a few times now, what do they expect is going to happen if you go to meet them?
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I'm on here as a single male but meet as a couple she doesn't want to be on profile we will be in Derby Saturday staying over |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not shour why they do it get it all the time so I have a rule
If it’s a couples profile I say both have to be there both don’t have to play I am totally fine if one just wants to sit and watch
Seems to work pretty well still get the odd
Ooo but wife dose not like tv/ts dose not want to see that kind off thing
I normally just say well yous are not for me then |
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We arrange to meet them at club, normally scares them off, but on odd occasions we do meet single guys, or married but separated I insist on meeting them for social first, before they allowed to meet wife, that also scares some off, I can understand why some single women, even some couples are so careful as there are a lot of weirdos and time wasters on site, not to mention cheats both male and female |
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By *addyAWoman
over a year ago
Beside the Seaside |
"its no worse than men pretending to be female, its funny you never see ladies pretending to be men "
I had one of those. It was an easy spot though - the way she spoke, the David Gandy pictures..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've given up with couples as it does always seem to be just the guy talking to me , and a lot pretending to be thr "wifey". Yawn."
This is why i gave up meeting couples.
I tend to just meet them at clubs and parties. |
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We’ve found if it goes to dirty talk very quickly it’s just a guy trying to get off.
We had one where a couple contacted us saying the wife wanted to play with us alone.
This then changed to hubby would be present at the initial social for her safety, which we had no problem with.
Then hubby would come to the social alone to make sure we were real and verify us for her
Finally they announced if we wanted to play with hubby at the social they were both ok with that, and we could catch up with the wife at a later date.
10/10 for effort |
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By *yronMan
over a year ago
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"Why do they do this? It's happened to us a few times now, what do they expect is going to happen if you go to meet them?
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It happened to me many years ago, I turned up at the pub I was supposed to meet them at, only for this guy to turn up. He said that he thought I wouldn't have come if he wasn't part of a couple. I play with other guys, but not ones who lie from the start, so I left. |
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By *yronMan
over a year ago
grangemouth |
"We’ve found if it goes to dirty talk very quickly it’s just a guy trying to get off.
We had one where a couple contacted us saying the wife wanted to play with us alone.
This then changed to hubby would be present at the initial social for her safety, which we had no problem with.
Then hubby would come to the social alone to make sure we were real and verify us for her
Finally they announced if we wanted to play with hubby at the social they were both ok with that, and we could catch up with the wife at a later date.
10/10 for effort "
In the first message, he wanted to watch his wife play with me.
The next message was that he wanted to join in.
Then it was he wanted to play with me and the wife to join in.
Then he said he hadn't spoken to the wife, but would be round at mine straight afterwards (I hadn't given him my address).
Then it was his wife didn't know and could he come round and have me give him a blowjob?
When I asked if his wife actually existed, he blocked me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a couple profile with an fwb, it sort of works in reverse. I find couples interested in meeting us but when I give him thier details he doesn't bother messaging them. Which is annoying. |
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It's common. Super common. Photo verified doesn't help either really to stop this really...
There's a profile that always pops up on our feed. A new one every week it seems but it's always same thing. A couples profile where they are both bi and the woman wants her man to meet a man or couple... This has been going on for around 6 months and they just create a new profile after you block there contact..
We however immediately block any single person that messages us and says there alone or there wife's away or any crap like that without a lot of verifications and if they have them then we just say to message when your both there and can make an audio or video call. 99 percent of them disappeared at that point with the odd one saying they will get in touch after by surprisingly they never do.
Having been on here I while and this is just us. A good 50 to 70 percent of people to message us either never get any verifications or come across as fake which is why generally we used to use the club scene far more then chat on here after x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s seems to be more common recently I don’t get it either loads of new couple profiles set up the last month or so with no photos or veris and status saying male half only free , wife working horny bored male or something like that I’ve blocked loads |
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"Why do they do this? It's happened to us a few times now, what do they expect is going to happen if you go to meet them?
Invariably they think they'll get away with the wife being "unexpectedly ill" and the unsuspecting meet being happy to go along with playing with just him.
Either that or they have no intention of meeting and are just looking for the thrill of the chase and sex chat.
They're usually easily spotted though "
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By (user no longer on site)
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My mate from here was talking to a man who she suspected of pretending to be a couple off here. She foolishly told him/them that she was off to do her grocery shopping and then when she got to Asda car park she got a text from him to tell her what car she was driving. He then pulled up beside her and got out of his car to approach her..... Creepy as!  |
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They have been known to do this to try to get party invites, and then on arrival come up with the excuse that the wife had suddenly taken I'll but he didn't want let anyone down, and so came to join us. I've had it happen when I've hosted a party. |
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