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When I go on a meet I find myself talking to much! It's not nervous talking i just have to fill a silence! In fact I do it in all situations remember once we were all going quite a distance and i was going in son inlaws car and my daughter pre warned me not to talk to much lol! Do people find constant chatter annoying?  x |
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i talk alot but one of my fab meets talked more than me... at first I thought it was nerves but I think after the second meet, he just doesn't like silence. plus we have alot in common to have lots of things to chat about. Best to find someone who equally loves talking   |
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depends if the constant chatter is disturbing tranquility and peace. Sometimes you just wanna take in a moment and breathe it in.
Also, if the constant chatter is all about them or if they don't read the signals that actaully, I'm quite enjoying this song and wouldn't mind fucking hearing it! |
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I personally do as I like to hear my own thoughts from time to time. I suppose it depends on how long you're with the person,if you're only together for a few hours then great talk away,if you're together constantly then I'd need a break from constant chit chat. |
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I am exactly the same, I cant stand awkward silences and find myself chatting constantly. I think a few people i have met have found it annoying and have been told to shut up a couple of times. Lol |
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"I talk alot but never nervous. I just like a good natter and intrigued to find out about the person i am with."
Yeah but that has substance, you're wanting to learn rather than just talking for the sake of it. |
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Years and years ago I went to the cinema with a blind date, I had to shush her. Strangely we didn't meet again.
I remember the film more than the woman, and yes the cinema is a shockingly bad first date. |
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over a year ago
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"When I go on a meet I find myself talking to much! It's not nervous talking i just have to fill a silence! In fact I do it in all situations remember once we were all going quite a distance and i was going in son inlaws car and my daughter pre warned me not to talk to much lol! Do people find constant chatter annoying? x"
Not at all I don't mind the chatter especially as I'm the silent type  |
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over a year ago
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"I generally enjoy listening to people more than I enjoy talking myself "
This for me too.
I prefer them talking but if I couldn't even get a word in after a few hours then  |
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"I generally enjoy listening to people more than I enjoy talking myself
This for me too.
I prefer them talking but if I couldn't even get a word in after a few hours then "
True As long as they do that little giggle, smile, and "I'm talking too much aren't I?" I'm golden  |
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"When I go on a meet I find myself talking to much! It's not nervous talking i just have to fill a silence! In fact I do it in all situations remember once we were all going quite a distance and i was going in son inlaws car and my daughter pre warned me not to talk to much lol! Do people find constant chatter annoying? x"
I'm exactly the same. And as yet I've not annoyed to many I don't think |
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Yes I find it incredibly annoying and irritating if someone is talking to fill silence or just for the sake of it.
I talk more when nervous or excited (usually a bit rambling) but generally I enjoy listening more than talking especially in a group of people.
But sometimes to sit in silence with someone is the best. |
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"depends if the constant chatter is disturbing tranquility and peace. Sometimes you just wanna take in a moment and breathe it in.
Also, if the constant chatter is all about them or if they don't read the signals that actaully, I'm quite enjoying this song and wouldn't mind fucking hearing it!"
Lol I do try and not chat about me I ask them a out their likes the current topics etc x |
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"Yes I find it incredibly annoying and irritating if someone is talking to fill silence or just for the sake of it.
I talk more when nervous or excited (usually a bit rambling) but generally I enjoy listening more than talking especially in a group of people.
But sometimes to sit in silence with someone is the best."
Opps! Dont think I can do that! I once said I'm not going to talk for 10 mins! He got his phone out and set timer I didnt make it |
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"i talk alot but one of my fab meets talked more than me... at first I thought it was nerves but I think after the second meet, he just doesn't like silence. plus we have alot in common to have lots of things to chat about. Best to find someone who equally loves talking "
Good idea! Sometimes it's more awkward than others x |
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"I am exactly the same, I cant stand awkward silences and find myself chatting constantly. I think a few people i have met have found it annoying and have been told to shut up a couple of times. Lol"
Havent been told yet I'm surprised I havent lol x |
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For someone who yaks as much as I do on here you'd think I'd be a real chatterbox, and I can be if someone peaks my interest, but I'm not afraid of silence. It shouldn't be seen as awkward, either.
And I especially don't like talking (myself I mean) when I'm driving. The car has a radio for a reason  |
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"I don't mind people who talk a lot but I don't like it if I can't get a word in edgeways. I prefer a two way conversation to me listening while someone else talks "
Yes this is the ideal! But find some answer then it's back to silence x |
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"I don't mind people who talk a lot but I don't like it if I can't get a word in edgeways. I prefer a two way conversation to me listening while someone else talks
Yes this is the ideal! But find some answer then it's back to silence x"
That's the art of conversation in my opinion. Someone puts an idea forward or asks a question, someone else gives their opinion of answers the question in such a way that the other person can respond. It can be difficult at first especially if one or both of you are nervous. It's useful to have a few ideas of things to talk about before you meet someone I think.
I worked with a woman who just talked, all the time. I don't know why, she literally talked until she ran out of breath. Conversation was impossible so everyone just spent as little time as possible with her. Which was sad |
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"I don't mind people who talk a lot but I don't like it if I can't get a word in edgeways. I prefer a two way conversation to me listening while someone else talks
Yes this is the ideal! But find some answer then it's back to silence x
That's the art of conversation in my opinion. Someone puts an idea forward or asks a question, someone else gives their opinion of answers the question in such a way that the other person can respond. It can be difficult at first especially if one or both of you are nervous. It's useful to have a few ideas of things to talk about before you meet someone I think.
I worked with a woman who just talked, all the time. I don't know why, she literally talked until she ran out of breath. Conversation was impossible so everyone just spent as little time as possible with her. Which was sad"
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Candy if you are in the company of a gentleman don't forget you can always say "kind sir I feel I am using my mouth in a rather unproductive way. Would you kindly tickle the itch at the back of my throat with your cock please as I need to swallow some lubrication".... I think you will find that solves your problem. Lol |
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Yeah, I probably tend to ramble on a bit both before and after the "action" bit of a meet. It's an odd balance to strike. On the one hand, I don't want to just say "Get your kit off" as soon as she's through the door. On the other hand, once I'm chatting about whether squirrels know they're missing out on The Mandalorian (or, y'know, whatever), it's difficult to know how to steer it back to "...and now it is sexy time".
Same afterwards. I'm very much not a "That was nice. Now go away" kind of guy, but I think sometimes I might let the pillow talk run on a bit too long? Not a problem if I'm hosting, as she can always say "Anyway, I really have to get going", but if I'm sitting in her bed, prattling on about dinosaurs and she just wants to go to sleep, that could very well be awkward...  |
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I’m way too much of a chatterbox. I will talk about any and everything 
It’s definitely hard to get from chit chatting about who would win in a fight a unicorn or a mermaid, to smooshing genitals though. It’s not always a smooth transaction |
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"I’m way too much of a chatterbox. I will talk about any and everything
It’s definitely hard to get from chit chatting about who would win in a fight a unicorn or a mermaid, to smooshing genitals though. It’s not always a smooth transaction "
Pro tip: body paint and fight reenactment.  |
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"I’m way too much of a chatterbox. I will talk about any and everything
It’s definitely hard to get from chit chatting about who would win in a fight a unicorn or a mermaid, to smooshing genitals though. It’s not always a smooth transaction
Pro tip: body paint and fight reenactment. "
Oh my goodness why didn’t I think of this!
Gotta lube up and thrash about in the floor like a mermaid |
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"Candy if you are in the company of a gentleman don't forget you can always say "kind sir I feel I am using my mouth in a rather unproductive way. Would you kindly tickle the itch at the back of my throat with your cock please as I need to swallow some lubrication".... I think you will find that solves your problem. Lol"
Yes for a short while at least! Pmsl! X |
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"I’m way too much of a chatterbox. I will talk about any and everything
It’s definitely hard to get from chit chatting about who would win in a fight a unicorn or a mermaid, to smooshing genitals though. It’s not always a smooth transaction
Pro tip: body paint and fight reenactment.
Oh my goodness why didn’t I think of this!
Gotta lube up and thrash about in the floor like a mermaid "
I reckon I could grow a horn quite easily in those circumstances... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m way too much of a chatterbox. I will talk about any and everything
It’s definitely hard to get from chit chatting about who would win in a fight a unicorn or a mermaid, to smooshing genitals though. It’s not always a smooth transaction
Pro tip: body paint and fight reenactment.
Oh my goodness why didn’t I think of this!
Gotta lube up and thrash about in the floor like a mermaid
I reckon I could grow a horn quite easily in those circumstances..."
Looks like we’re about to find out who would win |
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"Yeah, I probably tend to ramble on a bit both before and after the "action" bit of a meet. It's an odd balance to strike. On the one hand, I don't want to just say "Get your kit off" as soon as she's through the door. On the other hand, once I'm chatting about whether squirrels know they're missing out on The Mandalorian (or, y'know, whatever), it's difficult to know how to steer it back to "...and now it is sexy time".
Same afterwards. I'm very much not a "That was nice. Now go away" kind of guy, but I think sometimes I might let the pillow talk run on a bit too long? Not a problem if I'm hosting, as she can always say "Anyway, I really have to get going", but if I'm sitting in her bed, prattling on about dinosaurs and she just wants to go to sleep, that could very well be awkward... "
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"I’m way too much of a chatterbox. I will talk about any and everything
It’s definitely hard to get from chit chatting about who would win in a fight a unicorn or a mermaid, to smooshing genitals though. It’s not always a smooth transaction
Pro tip: body paint and fight reenactment.
Oh my goodness why didn’t I think of this!
Gotta lube up and thrash about in the floor like a mermaid
I reckon I could grow a horn quite easily in those circumstances...
Looks like we’re about to find out who would win "
I'm starting to feel like a winner |
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"I’m way too much of a chatterbox. I will talk about any and everything
It’s definitely hard to get from chit chatting about who would win in a fight a unicorn or a mermaid, to smooshing genitals though. It’s not always a smooth transaction
Pro tip: body paint and fight reenactment.
Oh my goodness why didn’t I think of this!
Gotta lube up and thrash about in the floor like a mermaid
I reckon I could grow a horn quite easily in those circumstances...
Looks like we’re about to find out who would win
I'm starting to feel like a winner"
Get the maple syrup ready |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m way too much of a chatterbox. I will talk about any and everything
It’s definitely hard to get from chit chatting about who would win in a fight a unicorn or a mermaid, to smooshing genitals though. It’s not always a smooth transaction
Pro tip: body paint and fight reenactment.
Oh my goodness why didn’t I think of this!
Gotta lube up and thrash about in the floor like a mermaid
I reckon I could grow a horn quite easily in those circumstances...
Looks like we’re about to find out who would win
I'm starting to feel like a winner
Get the maple syrup ready "
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