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Who are you and what do you want?!!
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
And has it changed over the last 6 months with all this upheaval?!?
Does your profile reflect what you’re looking for and any changes?
I’ve always been a crap fabber but the last 6 months has made me appreciate quiet company and basic intimacy so much more.
So come say hello and see if anyone localish or who takes your fancy, is looking for the same as you 
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I think the last few months having a good conversation is much more important. I've spoken about such a broad range of subjects with people on here. From virology, politics, literature to where best to buy a corset.
The emphasis has changed a bit due to the inability to meet and tbh I've enjoyed the stimulation of the old grey matter |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My profile states I'm here for the forums and a place to upload photos so I'm definitely getting what I want from the website. I do find myself wanting more though. But, when the time comes I'm sure I'll be able to get what I want.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I joined not long before all the madness started, and didn't do forums at all until couple weeks before lockdown. So in a sense what I "want" has changed, but probably for the better than compared to when I first joined |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello and no my profile is the same like before
A shag tonight I bet ?"
Yes, my profile name sums it up pretty good I think, also I like to lift weights and my favourite sweets are the haribos |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Even though my profile says been here over a year I've only been active for a couple of months once I realised there was a forum.
And I've changed my profile three times already as what I want subtly alters.
At the moment what I want is to post on the forums, make some connections through messaging and see how things go.
Crawling before walking and running.
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
I had this question asked of me a little while ago and I can't answer it now any more than I could then. I really don't know what I want from fab but until I figure it out I'm having fun in the forum.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I want a woman to go home to after work, but I also dont want anyone to answer to.
I've grown a lot while being single and want to see how far I can go. I also want a partner to share that with me.
If that makes sense to anyone let me know |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"Hello and no my profile is the same like before
A shag tonight I bet ?Yes, my profile name sums it up pretty good I think, also I like to lift weights and my favourite sweets are the haribos "
And you like buns |
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"And has it changed over the last 6 months with all this upheaval?!?
Does your profile reflect what you’re looking for and any changes?
I’ve always been a crap fabber but the last 6 months has made me appreciate quiet company and basic intimacy so much more.
So come say hello and see if anyone localish or who takes your fancy, is looking for the same as you
Be honest "
It's changed hugely for us, we decided to try this way of meeting people during lockdown, it's nice to find likeminded people to chat to but can't wait to meet some people for more than drinks.
We've communicated better and are in such a good place with us we are just starting out. Xxx |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"And has it changed over the last 6 months with all this upheaval?!?
Does your profile reflect what you’re looking for and any changes?
I’ve always been a crap fabber but the last 6 months has made me appreciate quiet company and basic intimacy so much more.
So come say hello and see if anyone localish or who takes your fancy, is looking for the same as you
Be honest
It's changed hugely for us, we decided to try this way of meeting people during lockdown, it's nice to find likeminded people to chat to but can't wait to meet some people for more than drinks.
We've communicated better and are in such a good place with us we are just starting out. Xxx"
Ah that’s lovely to hear it’s good to take the time to pause and just get to know people with zero expectation! |
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I have absolutely no idea what I want. At the moment I'm not sure I want anything.
Actually, what I want is to be who I was 2 years ago, the confident dickhead who wouldn't let anyone too close.
But alas that ain't gonna happen, so ....
For now I'm working on rebuilding my confidence... AGAIN  and maybe in time I'll meet again. I'm kinda thinking it'll just be socials, although there is a couple I would meet, as I know they'd be cool and things would go at whatever pace they went at with fuck all "nose out of jointness" if we just had nowt more than a right good giggle and put the world to rights. |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"I have absolutely no idea what I want. At the moment I'm not sure I want anything.
Actually, what I want is to be who I was 2 years ago, the confident dickhead who wouldn't let anyone too close.
But alas that ain't gonna happen, so ....
For now I'm working on rebuilding my confidence... AGAIN and maybe in time I'll meet again. I'm kinda thinking it'll just be socials, although there is a couple I would meet, as I know they'd be cool and things would go at whatever pace they went at with fuck all "nose out of jointness" if we just had nowt more than a right good giggle and put the world to rights."
Well if you ever want a change of scenery for a piss up and no stress you know where to come 
Until then one day at a time. X |
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"I have absolutely no idea what I want. At the moment I'm not sure I want anything.
Actually, what I want is to be who I was 2 years ago, the confident dickhead who wouldn't let anyone too close.
But alas that ain't gonna happen, so ....
For now I'm working on rebuilding my confidence... AGAIN and maybe in time I'll meet again. I'm kinda thinking it'll just be socials, although there is a couple I would meet, as I know they'd be cool and things would go at whatever pace they went at with fuck all "nose out of jointness" if we just had nowt more than a right good giggle and put the world to rights."
Id love to have a chat with you as that sounds like the type of relationship I'd love to build with such a sexy beautifulmlady like you xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Joined fab after long term relationship ended
Thinking I was still the confident man I was 20 years ago that my dance card would be full every night.
Wow the world has moved on
Looking for to meet a woman or a couple and if there is a connection see how things go
Not looking for love but safe fun based on trust and respect |
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My profile says not meeting and here to draw, which is true.
I wasn’t sure what I wanted out of fab except some good laughs and meeting interesting people.... I’ve had that and made some great friends.
Has it changed these last months, yes it has with a clarity of thinking, realisation and taking a step over the edge my focus is elsewhere |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My profile says I'm not really looking for anything, which is true... but who knows what will happen?
If someome wants to make me the centre of all their affection while happily sharing me when it suits me, I'm not complaining |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's been a reflective time these last few months. I changed my profile as I'm not searching to meet anyone. I also feel my life is moving on and Fab may not have a place in that. We'll see. |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"It's been a reflective time these last few months. I changed my profile as I'm not searching to meet anyone. I also feel my life is moving on and Fab may not have a place in that. We'll see. "
I'm the same. Nearer leaving than staying. Not on here anywhere near as much as I use to be.
Life moves on....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's been a reflective time these last few months. I changed my profile as I'm not searching to meet anyone. I also feel my life is moving on and Fab may not have a place in that. We'll see.
I'm the same. Nearer leaving than staying. Not on here anywhere near as much as I use to be.
Life moves on.... "
I 2nd that ... |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"It's been a reflective time these last few months. I changed my profile as I'm not searching to meet anyone. I also feel my life is moving on and Fab may not have a place in that. We'll see.
I'm the same. Nearer leaving than staying. Not on here anywhere near as much as I use to be.
Life moves on....
I 2nd that ... "
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By *ik MMan
over a year ago
Lancashire |
I’ve been here for years and whilst I might have had an inkling what I was looking for I only recently found it when I was least expecting it. The only problem is I didn’t stop to wonder if I might be what she was looking for. As a result I’ve created an unholy mess and now I’m left wondering what the point is here anymore.
Maybe my profile could do with a tweak, maybe it’s time for a change...or maybe after the last few months I’ve ended up a whole lot more fragile and delicate than I ever thought possible. Regardless, it has definitely made me think twice about my whole existence and taken me to places that aren’t pretty.
I’ll bounce back of that I’m sure, I’m just not sure what the rebuilt me will look like or be looking for  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The 6mths leading up to covid i was in a relationship and I thought i wouldn't be single again.
Covid and other things put an end to that life and now my profile is what im looking for going forward.
i can't put my heart on the line again. Im putting me 1st for probably the 1st time ever in my life.
If i find someone who takes my heart then thats OK as well.
I will never say never again but I have very high walls.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve been here for years and whilst I might have had an inkling what I was looking for I only recently found it when I was least expecting it. The only problem is I didn’t stop to wonder if I might be what she was looking for. As a result I’ve created an unholy mess and now I’m left wondering what the point is here anymore.
Maybe my profile could do with a tweak, maybe it’s time for a change...or maybe after the last few months I’ve ended up a whole lot more fragile and delicate than I ever thought possible. Regardless, it has definitely made me think twice about my whole existence and taken me to places that aren’t pretty.
I’ll bounce back of that I’m sure, I’m just not sure what the rebuilt me will look like or be looking for "
Why can't the rebuilt you be the same as the original? It might only be a temporary 'break' or even just a chip.
Pretty much everyone is fragile after this horrendous year so don't beat yourself up.
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By *ik MMan
over a year ago
Lancashire |
"I’ve been here for years and whilst I might have had an inkling what I was looking for I only recently found it when I was least expecting it. The only problem is I didn’t stop to wonder if I might be what she was looking for. As a result I’ve created an unholy mess and now I’m left wondering what the point is here anymore.
Maybe my profile could do with a tweak, maybe it’s time for a change...or maybe after the last few months I’ve ended up a whole lot more fragile and delicate than I ever thought possible. Regardless, it has definitely made me think twice about my whole existence and taken me to places that aren’t pretty.
I’ll bounce back of that I’m sure, I’m just not sure what the rebuilt me will look like or be looking for
Why can't the rebuilt you be the same as the original? It might only be a temporary 'break' or even just a chip.
Pretty much everyone is fragile after this horrendous year so don't beat yourself up.
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Thank you for your kind words, they are really appreciated |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who I want has definitely changed over the last 6 months. The lockdown has brought out a different side to some that’s not attractive to me. "
Elaborate  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who I want has definitely changed over the last 6 months. The lockdown has brought out a different side to some that’s not attractive to me.
Elaborate "
I’ve said enough  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who I want has definitely changed over the last 6 months. The lockdown has brought out a different side to some that’s not attractive to me.
Elaborate
I’ve said enough "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who I want has definitely changed over the last 6 months. The lockdown has brought out a different side to some that’s not attractive to me.
Elaborate
I’ve said enough
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"I’ve been here for years and whilst I might have had an inkling what I was looking for I only recently found it when I was least expecting it. The only problem is I didn’t stop to wonder if I might be what she was looking for. As a result I’ve created an unholy mess and now I’m left wondering what the point is here anymore.
Maybe my profile could do with a tweak, maybe it’s time for a change...or maybe after the last few months I’ve ended up a whole lot more fragile and delicate than I ever thought possible. Regardless, it has definitely made me think twice about my whole existence and taken me to places that aren’t pretty.
I’ll bounce back of that I’m sure, I’m just not sure what the rebuilt me will look like or be looking for "
You know I think you’re a brilliant human and I have a lot of time for you and your shit pancakes truth is sometimes we need our eyes opening to other possibilities. Maybe this is just the start of a whole new journey. Chin up and always here x |
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By *ik MMan
over a year ago
Lancashire |
"I’ve been here for years and whilst I might have had an inkling what I was looking for I only recently found it when I was least expecting it. The only problem is I didn’t stop to wonder if I might be what she was looking for. As a result I’ve created an unholy mess and now I’m left wondering what the point is here anymore.
Maybe my profile could do with a tweak, maybe it’s time for a change...or maybe after the last few months I’ve ended up a whole lot more fragile and delicate than I ever thought possible. Regardless, it has definitely made me think twice about my whole existence and taken me to places that aren’t pretty.
I’ll bounce back of that I’m sure, I’m just not sure what the rebuilt me will look like or be looking for
You know I think you’re a brilliant human and I have a lot of time for you and your shit pancakes truth is sometimes we need our eyes opening to other possibilities. Maybe this is just the start of a whole new journey. Chin up and always here x "
You’re ace thanks. I think you’ll find you made the batter x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably not but I am available for christenings and bah mitzvahs
Which question are you answering man of many words?!?"
Erm......that my profile doesn't reflect sod all except my availability for such gatherings |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"Probably not but I am available for christenings and bah mitzvahs
Which question are you answering man of many words?!?
Erm......that my profile doesn't reflect sod all except my availability for such gatherings "
Yeah it’s pants. Sort it out |
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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago
Deepest darkest Peru |
"I’ve been here for years and whilst I might have had an inkling what I was looking for I only recently found it when I was least expecting it. The only problem is I didn’t stop to wonder if I might be what she was looking for. As a result I’ve created an unholy mess and now I’m left wondering what the point is here anymore.
Maybe my profile could do with a tweak, maybe it’s time for a change...or maybe after the last few months I’ve ended up a whole lot more fragile and delicate than I ever thought possible. Regardless, it has definitely made me think twice about my whole existence and taken me to places that aren’t pretty.
I’ll bounce back of that I’m sure, I’m just not sure what the rebuilt me will look like or be looking for
Why can't the rebuilt you be the same as the original? It might only be a temporary 'break' or even just a chip.
Pretty much everyone is fragile after this horrendous year so don't beat yourself up.
Thank you for your kind words, they are really appreciated "
You’re my friend, always will be and I’m always here for you and you let me raid your fridge |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably not but I am available for christenings and bah mitzvahs
Which question are you answering man of many words?!?
Erm......that my profile doesn't reflect sod all except my availability for such gatherings
Yeah it’s pants. Sort it out "
Yes madam moderator
Ps it's better than it used to be |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"I’ve been here for years and whilst I might have had an inkling what I was looking for I only recently found it when I was least expecting it. The only problem is I didn’t stop to wonder if I might be what she was looking for. As a result I’ve created an unholy mess and now I’m left wondering what the point is here anymore.
Maybe my profile could do with a tweak, maybe it’s time for a change...or maybe after the last few months I’ve ended up a whole lot more fragile and delicate than I ever thought possible. Regardless, it has definitely made me think twice about my whole existence and taken me to places that aren’t pretty.
I’ll bounce back of that I’m sure, I’m just not sure what the rebuilt me will look like or be looking for
Why can't the rebuilt you be the same as the original? It might only be a temporary 'break' or even just a chip.
Pretty much everyone is fragile after this horrendous year so don't beat yourself up.
Thank you for your kind words, they are really appreciated
You’re my friend, always will be and I’m always here for you and you let me raid your fridge "
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"Probably not but I am available for christenings and bah mitzvahs
Which question are you answering man of many words?!?
Erm......that my profile doesn't reflect sod all except my availability for such gatherings
Yeah it’s pants. Sort it out
Yes madam moderator
Ps it's better than it used to be"
Good god... step it up man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably not but I am available for christenings and bah mitzvahs
Which question are you answering man of many words?!?
Erm......that my profile doesn't reflect sod all except my availability for such gatherings
Yeah it’s pants. Sort it out
Yes madam moderator
Ps it's better than it used to be
Good god... step it up man. "
I need a ghost writer |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"Probably not but I am available for christenings and bah mitzvahs
Which question are you answering man of many words?!?
Erm......that my profile doesn't reflect sod all except my availability for such gatherings
Yeah it’s pants. Sort it out
Yes madam moderator
Ps it's better than it used to be
Good god... step it up man.
I need a ghost writer"
So many ghosting jokes on the top of my tongue |
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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago
Deepest darkest Peru |
"I’ve been here for years and whilst I might have had an inkling what I was looking for I only recently found it when I was least expecting it. The only problem is I didn’t stop to wonder if I might be what she was looking for. As a result I’ve created an unholy mess and now I’m left wondering what the point is here anymore.
Maybe my profile could do with a tweak, maybe it’s time for a change...or maybe after the last few months I’ve ended up a whole lot more fragile and delicate than I ever thought possible. Regardless, it has definitely made me think twice about my whole existence and taken me to places that aren’t pretty.
I’ll bounce back of that I’m sure, I’m just not sure what the rebuilt me will look like or be looking for
Why can't the rebuilt you be the same as the original? It might only be a temporary 'break' or even just a chip.
Pretty much everyone is fragile after this horrendous year so don't beat yourself up.
Thank you for your kind words, they are really appreciated
You’re my friend, always will be and I’m always here for you and you let me raid your fridge
Pooaacchheeedddd eggggssss "
Which I never got |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"I’ve been here for years and whilst I might have had an inkling what I was looking for I only recently found it when I was least expecting it. The only problem is I didn’t stop to wonder if I might be what she was looking for. As a result I’ve created an unholy mess and now I’m left wondering what the point is here anymore.
Maybe my profile could do with a tweak, maybe it’s time for a change...or maybe after the last few months I’ve ended up a whole lot more fragile and delicate than I ever thought possible. Regardless, it has definitely made me think twice about my whole existence and taken me to places that aren’t pretty.
I’ll bounce back of that I’m sure, I’m just not sure what the rebuilt me will look like or be looking for
Why can't the rebuilt you be the same as the original? It might only be a temporary 'break' or even just a chip.
Pretty much everyone is fragile after this horrendous year so don't beat yourself up.
Thank you for your kind words, they are really appreciated
You’re my friend, always will be and I’m always here for you and you let me raid your fridge
Pooaacchheeedddd eggggssss
Which I never got "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The last 6 months has changed my outlook on what I want from the site. Although I stopped looking for meets before the upheaval began, and stuck to the forums seeking a more social approach on the site, I’m now looking for a few social meets, possibly regular coffee dates. I even considered leaving, and spent very little time online during lockdown  |
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By *ik MMan
over a year ago
Lancashire |
"I’ve been here for years and whilst I might have had an inkling what I was looking for I only recently found it when I was least expecting it. The only problem is I didn’t stop to wonder if I might be what she was looking for. As a result I’ve created an unholy mess and now I’m left wondering what the point is here anymore.
Maybe my profile could do with a tweak, maybe it’s time for a change...or maybe after the last few months I’ve ended up a whole lot more fragile and delicate than I ever thought possible. Regardless, it has definitely made me think twice about my whole existence and taken me to places that aren’t pretty.
I’ll bounce back of that I’m sure, I’m just not sure what the rebuilt me will look like or be looking for
Why can't the rebuilt you be the same as the original? It might only be a temporary 'break' or even just a chip.
Pretty much everyone is fragile after this horrendous year so don't beat yourself up.
Thank you for your kind words, they are really appreciated
You’re my friend, always will be and I’m always here for you and you let me raid your fridge
Pooaacchheeedddd eggggssss
Which I never got
You’ll have to come back so we can relive the night with eggs!!! "
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over a year ago
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"I’ve been here for years and whilst I might have had an inkling what I was looking for I only recently found it when I was least expecting it. The only problem is I didn’t stop to wonder if I might be what she was looking for. As a result I’ve created an unholy mess and now I’m left wondering what the point is here anymore.
Maybe my profile could do with a tweak, maybe it’s time for a change...or maybe after the last few months I’ve ended up a whole lot more fragile and delicate than I ever thought possible. Regardless, it has definitely made me think twice about my whole existence and taken me to places that aren’t pretty.
I’ll bounce back of that I’m sure, I’m just not sure what the rebuilt me will look like or be looking for
Why can't the rebuilt you be the same as the original? It might only be a temporary 'break' or even just a chip.
Pretty much everyone is fragile after this horrendous year so don't beat yourself up.
Thank you for your kind words, they are really appreciated "
Definitely ??
Besides covid I have had the worst and most devastating year of my life .
Like you I am also trying to rebuild myself and trying to accept loss / change and physical change in so many ways .
It’s hard to allow yourself to feel fragile and vulnerable at any time
We are all just real people with real feelings and ultimately a need for connection and sometimes this site should be avoided for a while when we’re feeling that way as it can seem so shallow x
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Still the same as when we first joined
We've had a few more messages than pre lockdown, but still looking for the right play mate for Lou
We have missed going to clubs as we'd made a few new friends
Ray x |
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By *affron40 OP Woman
over a year ago
manchester |
"I’ve been here for years and whilst I might have had an inkling what I was looking for I only recently found it when I was least expecting it. The only problem is I didn’t stop to wonder if I might be what she was looking for. As a result I’ve created an unholy mess and now I’m left wondering what the point is here anymore.
Maybe my profile could do with a tweak, maybe it’s time for a change...or maybe after the last few months I’ve ended up a whole lot more fragile and delicate than I ever thought possible. Regardless, it has definitely made me think twice about my whole existence and taken me to places that aren’t pretty.
I’ll bounce back of that I’m sure, I’m just not sure what the rebuilt me will look like or be looking for
Why can't the rebuilt you be the same as the original? It might only be a temporary 'break' or even just a chip.
Pretty much everyone is fragile after this horrendous year so don't beat yourself up.
Thank you for your kind words, they are really appreciated
Definitely ??
Besides covid I have had the worst and most devastating year of my life .
Like you I am also trying to rebuild myself and trying to accept loss / change and physical change in so many ways .
It’s hard to allow yourself to feel fragile and vulnerable at any time
We are all just real people with real feelings and ultimately a need for connection and sometimes this site should be avoided for a while when we’re feeling that way as it can seem so shallow x
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It can be like that.. the forum can also be the place to sit and chat absolute crap and laugh with others who are also having a crappy time or just value the kindness of others.. I’ve certainly found comfort since I’ve returned. There are good people here x |
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I’m not overly complicated I don’t think.
I want one or two people in my life that I can laugh with, drink with, be friends with, trust and have amazing sex with!
Anything else on top of that is just a bonus.
I do want to go to a club or two and see how that goes once they reopen again  |
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