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Irrational fears, most of us have something we're scared of, some common phobias & some not so common.
Mine are birds & rodents, but the aren't a problem since developing agoraphobia & sociophobia.
Let's see what some of your phobias are... If you're not too scared to tell  |
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falling back down the hole of despair and darkness. Being so afraid that I could barely go to the shop because I thought everyone was a threat. Having to rebuild who I am. I never ever want to experience that again.
I'm now too afraid to give my heart to another. People are cunts and abuse the gifts they are given. |
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"Clowns and spiders.
Spiders give me the heebeegeebees and clowns are just wrong "
I’ll save you from the spiders! I love them, so will happily remove any required my darling  |
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"Do you find having agrophobia and sociophobia a problem ?"
Not really, Anything I need I can order online & get delivered, Asda for groceries, Ebay for most other things, And I get my meds from prescription delivery service. I get a little anxiety when I know my groceries are going to be delivered but it's manageable, The only time I have to leave my flat is to go to the wheelie bin & I do that early hours of the morning when there's nobody around. I do sometimes miss the company of others but the fab forums gives me some human interaction. Its an unconventional life but I manage. |
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"Do you find having agrophobia and sociophobia a problem ?
Not really, Anything I need I can order online & get delivered, Asda for groceries, Ebay for most other things, And I get my meds from prescription delivery service. I get a little anxiety when I know my groceries are going to be delivered but it's manageable, The only time I have to leave my flat is to go to the wheelie bin & I do that early hours of the morning when there's nobody around. I do sometimes miss the company of others but the fab forums gives me some human interaction. Its an unconventional life but I manage."
Are you trying to get help about them? Finding things to avoid them doesn’t sound the best way. |
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"falling back down the hole of despair and darkness. Being so afraid that I could barely go to the shop because I thought everyone was a threat. Having to rebuild who I am. I never ever want to experience that again.
I'm now too afraid to give my heart to another. People are cunts and abuse the gifts they are given."
I feel your pain Miss Peach, Ive been there & I know how hard is it to crawl back out that hole! You're stronger than you think & time will heal you, I've got every confidence in you! You're not alone |
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"Clowns and spiders.
Spiders give me the heebeegeebees and clowns are just wrong
I’ll save you from the spiders! I love them, so will happily remove any required my darling "
My hero! 
Will you remove any clowns that sneak in through the open window too? |
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"Clowns and spiders.
Spiders give me the heebeegeebees and clowns are just wrong
I’ll save you from the spiders! I love them, so will happily remove any required my darling
My hero!
Will you remove any clowns that sneak in through the open window too? "
I’ll smack them in their silly red noses, just for you sweetie 
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"Clowns and spiders.
Spiders give me the heebeegeebees and clowns are just wrong
I’ll save you from the spiders! I love them, so will happily remove any required my darling "
You can take them away from me too |
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I used to be petrified of clowns , I couldn’t even look at a picture of one weirdly I was able to watch the new It knowing it was Bill Skarsgard who I love I could cope with it and now I’m not bothered! |
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"Do you find having agrophobia and sociophobia a problem ?
Not really, Anything I need I can order online & get delivered, Asda for groceries, Ebay for most other things, And I get my meds from prescription delivery service. I get a little anxiety when I know my groceries are going to be delivered but it's manageable, The only time I have to leave my flat is to go to the wheelie bin & I do that early hours of the morning when there's nobody around. I do sometimes miss the company of others but the fab forums gives me some human interaction. Its an unconventional life but I manage.
Are you trying to get help about them? Finding things to avoid them doesn’t sound the best way. "
Honestly, no. I tried hypn0therapy when it first started but having to use public transport to get there only made it worse, and now i've just given up |
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"Multi coloured stairs or those with the red tape on the edge
I can’t go passed the line "
Oh thats us buggered for a meet then, i cant leave my 1st floor flat & i painted my stairs primary colours |
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"Pretty ladies.... 
*nods* a self-confidence boost should cure that fella  "
Haha I don't think I need any more confidence, I get in enough trouble as it is....   |
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"Oh... I'm scared of heights too
I can climb up and down 3 way extension ladders, but working off one gives me the heebeejeebees  "
anything higher than a step ladder and i get the shakes, or floors you can see through which was a problem when i was a contractor at oil refineries |
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"Butterflies. Scare the living daylights out of me if they come near me. Be pretty from a distance please and thanks.
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I'm guessing its the unpredictable flight path? They never fly in a straight line |
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"Pretty ladies....
*nods* a self-confidence boost should cure that fella
Haha I don't think I need any more confidence, I get in enough trouble as it is.... "
people rating your bum has probably boosted your confidence, but i havent checked it out... your bum or the thread |
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"Clowns and spiders.
Spiders give me the heebeegeebees and clowns are just wrong
I’ll save you from the spiders! I love them, so will happily remove any required my darling
You can take them away from me too"
Send them to me. I’ll name them and treat them like pals! |
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"Pretty ladies....
*nods* a self-confidence boost should cure that fella
Haha I don't think I need any more confidence, I get in enough trouble as it is....
people rating your bum has probably boosted your confidence, but i havent checked it out... your bum or the thread"
It's not the first time Yas has done my bum. Have you rated my ballbag yet? |
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"Oh I forgot to say I’m scared of heights and “skin things” give me the boake!
Those spot popping videos actively make me want to vomit. Can’t deal! "
I couldn't watch vets programs when they were trimming the teeth of rabbits, major heebeejeebees |
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"Pretty ladies....
*nods* a self-confidence boost should cure that fella
Haha I don't think I need any more confidence, I get in enough trouble as it is....
people rating your bum has probably boosted your confidence, but i havent checked it out... your bum or the thread
It's not the first time Yas has done my bum. Have you rated my ballbag yet? "
I haven't seen that either, I may have a look if ever there's a 'Rate Nippy's nipps' |
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"Being judged
Makes me physically sick
I know what you mean, its part of my agoraphobia & sociophobia"
Oh thank you so much for reaching out that I’m not alone.
I don’t know what those words mean
I’m off to google them
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Spiders! Don’t know why, but I’m (Mr) genuinely scared shitless of Spiders!
I have to get the Mrs to catch them and get them out of the house for me  !
There have been a few nights where the Mrs has been woken up by me, whimpering in the corner asking her to catch a spider lol. She thoroughly enjoys those rude awakenings .
We had to come to an arrangement. So in an effort to try and reclaim some man points, I said I’ll catch and remove all the rapists, burglars, zombies, whatever else from the house so long as she continues to catch all the spiders.
Funnily enough she’s had to uphold her end of the bargain a lot more than I have.....  |
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"Spiders! Don’t know why, but I’m (Mr) genuinely scared shitless of Spiders!
I have to get the Mrs to catch them and get them out of the house for me !
There have been a few nights where the Mrs has been woken up by me, whimpering in the corner asking her to catch a spider lol. She thoroughly enjoys those rude awakenings .
We had to come to an arrangement. So in an effort to try and reclaim some man points, I said I’ll catch and remove all the rapists, burglars, zombies, whatever else from the house so long as she continues to catch all the spiders.
Funnily enough she’s had to uphold her end of the bargain a lot more than I have..... "
Man points, not heard of that before, I could do with a truck load to get me back in credit. Sounds like a good deal you have with Mrs |
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Butterflies, moths and spiders are my phobias.
I have a fear of heights, more so is the fear of falling from a height.
I feel uncomfortable in open water...I blame watching Jaws as a child and also enclosed tight spaces.
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"Some people have a fear of trans people , I don't know why but I've been told it's similar to the clown fear , really cheered me up lol. "
Nah, they're just dumb bigots, they don't get to call it a phobia.
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Clowns, dolls, masks, dummies (I cannot even look at a ventriloquist dummy)
Anything with an inanimate face or a face which is hidden.
Mirrors in a dark room.
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"Butterflies, moths and spiders are my phobias.
I have a fear of heights, more so is the fear of falling from a height.
I feel uncomfortable in open water...I blame watching Jaws as a child and also enclosed tight spaces.
Her x"
There seems to be quite a few with Butterfly & moth phobias, not something i'd heard of before |
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"Lighting is my main one which I'm desperately trying to get over. But the last storm I screamed and jumped off the bed and hid in the hall "
I dont like storms either, Unexpected noises make me jump outta my skin |
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"Lighting is my main one which I'm desperately trying to get over. But the last storm I screamed and jumped off the bed and hid in the hall
I dont like storms either, Unexpected noises make me jump outta my skin"
Omg this is me also, I've managed to scream in work because someone called my name and I hasn't heard them enter the room |
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"Lighting is my main one which I'm desperately trying to get over. But the last storm I screamed and jumped off the bed and hid in the hall
I dont like storms either, Unexpected noises make me jump outta my skin
Omg this is me also, I've managed to scream in work because someone called my name and I hasn't heard them enter the room "
Bless ya! people should be made to wear bells so they cant sneak up |
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"Lighting is my main one which I'm desperately trying to get over. But the last storm I screamed and jumped off the bed and hid in the hall
I dont like storms either, Unexpected noises make me jump outta my skin
Omg this is me also, I've managed to scream in work because someone called my name and I hasn't heard them enter the room
Bless ya! people should be made to wear bells so they cant sneak up"
I've genuinely have suggested this |
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Rabbits,pigeons, clowns ,rats, Anything that flutters round my head. But rabbits are top of my list I'm petrified of them. My 7year old thinks it's hilarious |
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"falling back down the hole of despair and darkness. Being so afraid that I could barely go to the shop because I thought everyone was a threat. Having to rebuild who I am. I never ever want to experience that again.
I'm now too afraid to give my heart to another. People are cunts and abuse the gifts they are given."
Some are and always have been but there are good guys out there we do exist you know. |
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I would say slugs are my biggest phobia.
I also have a fear of helicopters, but only late at night when everyone is sleeping. I don't know why but I always feel frightened and the sound of them circling the area makes me feel so nauseous. |
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"I would say slugs are my biggest phobia.
I also have a fear of helicopters, but only late at night when everyone is sleeping. I don't know why but I always feel frightened and the sound of them circling the area makes me feel so nauseous. "
Slugs are horrible icky things!
I don't like hearing helicopters at night either, always make me wonder if some sad soul has gone off the Humber bridge |
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