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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is there something wrong with my profile? Like I can't get a convo going to save my life and I'm never disrespectful to anyone. Is there something wrong with my profile? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there something wrong with my profile? Like I can't get a convo going to save my life and I'm never disrespectful to anyone. Is there something wrong with my profile? "
Haven't you already had two meets? |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Two meets with two different women in the six months since you have joined suggests you're not having that much trouble starting conversations (especially when you consider everything going on right now).
However being as you asked - there's nothing "wrong" with your profile for the most part, although it is a little generic and doesn't exactly make you go "wow I need to find out more" - likewise your pics that aren't awful but don't stand out either.
The only thing I would suggest you change for sure is the line that says: "I'd love to find a friend or two with whom I could share and explore within the confines of said clubs" - I'm sure you didn't mean it this way, but it reads like you're suggesting you are the one wanting to share the person you're meeting - rather than them *choosing* to play with others you might meet at a club. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the feedback guys much appreciated, I have been meaning to get some new photos taken maybe this will help.
Yes I have had two meets already but they were both pre covid, given the situation at the moment I thought maybe people would be happy to talk but it's proven even harder. Got me thinking maybe there's something wrong that I've missed.
Thanks for the help and I'll work on being more patient  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your profile is fine. I'd say just keep trying OP and hopefully you'll get some good responses soon. It's not easy when you've got a penis."
Thank you for reassuring me.. I had my suspicions  |
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"Is there something wrong with my profile? Like I can't get a convo going to save my life and I'm never disrespectful to anyone. Is there something wrong with my profile? "
What are you saying when you contact people? Are you saying anything interesting that is worth responding to? Most of the messages we get are totally vacuous and don't inspire us to say anything in response, even courteous ones. Do you come across as somebody worth talking to? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Is there something wrong with my profile? Like I can't get a convo going to save my life and I'm never disrespectful to anyone. Is there something wrong with my profile?
What are you saying when you contact people? Are you saying anything interesting that is worth responding to? Most of the messages we get are totally vacuous and don't inspire us to say anything in response, even courteous ones. Do you come across as somebody worth talking to? "
Usually it's something that I have in common with the person I'm choosing to write to. And I'll try and make daft fun of myself as that's my sense of humour. I never write the same message or something generic |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your profile is fine. I'd say just keep trying OP and hopefully you'll get some good responses soon. It's not easy when you've got a penis."
 You do make me smile and laugh  |
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Nothing really wrong with it but I'd take the disclaimer part off mainly due to the fact its a load of bollocks. You're not going to go to court if someone used a pic so why make yourself look like a sheep? |
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"Is there something wrong with my profile? Like I can't get a convo going to save my life and I'm never disrespectful to anyone. Is there something wrong with my profile?
What are you saying when you contact people? Are you saying anything interesting that is worth responding to? Most of the messages we get are totally vacuous and don't inspire us to say anything in response, even courteous ones. Do you come across as somebody worth talking to?
Usually it's something that I have in common with the person I'm choosing to write to. And I'll try and make daft fun of myself as that's my sense of humour. I never write the same message or something generic "
That's good if it's something relevant. So often people write rubbish messages.
It may just be time and perseverance. |
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