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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Or dose anyone else look at looked at me page and if someone looked at you and take ur fancy sent them a message just to say
Hello thanks for looking at my profile
I do it all the time most off the time with a positive response from people
I do it just incase the person maybe have been a bit shy to start a conversation
Mean what’s the worst time they can say not interested xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I very rarely respond to people that have viewed me. Unless they are really hot and haven't winked or already messaged...
But I do look at who has viewed me.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I sometimes fab a pic of theirs, all subtle like, and see what happens....  "
What if they view you in stealth mode but message you and tell you they're horny?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i use to be polite and message that person thanks for looking or the wink etc.
but after a while it seemed a waste of my time so i dont message at all now.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have done...once or twice.
Tbh tho, most of the people looking are in stealth mode 
Thai also, everyone is in stealth these days.... "
Always! 
For this very reason actually...i view a lot of profiles, very few I'm interested in, stealth mode saves the awkward "yeah, I looked and didn't like what I saw so didn't message"   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I sometimes fab a pic of theirs, all subtle like, and see what happens....
What if they view you in stealth mode but message you and tell you they're horny? "
Lol never gose well in the first message saying that with me or in less they really take my fancy xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I very rarely respond to people that have viewed me. Unless they are really hot and haven't winked or already messaged...
But I do look at who has viewed me.."
Fair a nuff I just feel sometimes people are a bit shy xxx |
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By *hav02Man
over a year ago
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I have messaged women a few times who have viewed my profile and fab my pics or sent a wink.... Only to then be blocked 
I mean, just message me if you like me... I'm a sweetheart gent really  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Depends hw often they've looked. If it's more than a few times over a few hours I might wink.....
So I think it's happened once. "
Lol if I see that I normally presume they knocking one out to my pics lol ha ha xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No I wouldn't because I'd worry they looked and didn't like what they saw"
Aww if what’s not to like I mean form ur profile pics ur definitely a star 12 out off 10 xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I used to get this and found it a bit awkward.. So went into stealth mode!! "
Fair is fair I I never really feel that way even if it is a not interested always good just to have a little light harted chat with people x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I message if I like the look of them. If they fab my pics, but I’m not that keen, I’ll just fab a few back as a thank you, but not message. "
Sounds a good way to do it x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I never message people who look at me. I would expect them to make the first move but if they are too shy to send a simple message then they are not for me."
That is a good way to look at it never thought off it that way x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We will message from time to time when we notice that someone has viewed a number of times but have not spoken.
It’s nice to send an ice breaker as they may be a little apprehensive."
That’s my thinking and logic behind it it’s a very good ice breaker |
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Very few and far between unless they view a lot and I like the look of them.
Im not one for making the first move so I have to be certain they will respond so generally stick with those on the forums that I have clicked with.
On the other hand, a well written message WITH face pics will get a response from me if they can get past my filters. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I view in stealth and most of the time if someone whom I’m interested in views me, I hope for some indication they’re are interested. If not I don’t lose any sleep over it.  "
Good way to look at it x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Very few and far between unless they view a lot and I like the look of them.
Im not one for making the first move so I have to be certain they will respond so generally stick with those on the forums that I have clicked with.
On the other hand, a well written message WITH face pics will get a response from me if they can get past my filters."
I don’t mind make the first move as I find sometimes people can be a bit shy and be independent by someone’s beauty and sexyness and maybe think they not good a nuff for the person x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I get a reasonable number of views but never any winks or messages of the back of those views 
Perhaps I'm doing something wrong? "
Should try ur hand at message some off those views mean what’s the worst that can happen don’t get a reply or get a not interested happy swinging at least you tryed better to have tryed than not at all xx |
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For some strange reasons, most of my views are from (straight?) men, occasionaly a couple and very few ladies, but usually I am outside the ladies age filters. So no further action required unless I receive a wink or message or other signs of active interest. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No too shy. I expect they’d say they clicked on my profile by accident and I’d feel a bit bummed out  "
And I wouldn’t suspect any one to say that to you xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or dose anyone else look at looked at me page and if someone looked at you and take ur fancy sent them a message just to say
Hello thanks for looking at my profile
I do it all the time most off the time with a positive response from people
I do it just incase the person maybe have been a bit shy to start a conversation
Mean what’s the worst time they can say not interested xxx"
More often, peep look at mine as I have looked at theirs or clicked into theirs by accident where scrolling through threads.
Never get messaged though, nor do I message them.
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"No, I'm of the view that if they wanted to be contacted by me they would have sent a message."
That was kind of how I was looking at it, but think I'll have to be a bit more proactive from now on |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Or dose anyone else look at looked at me page and if someone looked at you and take ur fancy sent them a message just to say
Hello thanks for looking at my profile
I do it all the time most off the time with a positive response from people
I do it just incase the person maybe have been a bit shy to start a conversation
Mean what’s the worst time they can say not interested xxx
More often, peep look at mine as I have looked at theirs or clicked into theirs by accident where scrolling through threads.
Never get messaged though, nor do I message them.
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Touch screen phones can be a pain for that I got a tendency off posting and comeing back and scrolling and hitting the delete button on the way down and need to re post xx |
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I do look at who has looked at me and will look at their profile and gallery if I like their photo.
Occasionally I have messaged to say thanks for looking, but am always a little anxious about doing this as they have chosen to only view and not message, so maybe they didn't like what they saw |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I do look at who has looked at me and will look at their profile and gallery if I like their photo.
Occasionally I have messaged to say thanks for looking, but am always a little anxious about doing this as they have chosen to only view and not message, so maybe they didn't like what they saw "
Can’t see why they wouldn’t but each to they own maybe I just to nice and don’t mind geting turned down lol xx |
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"I do look at who has looked at me and will look at their profile and gallery if I like their photo.
Occasionally I have messaged to say thanks for looking, but am always a little anxious about doing this as they have chosen to only view and not message, so maybe they didn't like what they saw
Can’t see why they wouldn’t but each to they own maybe I just to nice and don’t mind geting turned down lol xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or dose anyone else look at looked at me page and if someone looked at you and take ur fancy sent them a message just to say
Hello thanks for looking at my profile
I do it all the time most off the time with a positive response from people
I do it just incase the person maybe have been a bit shy to start a conversation
Mean what’s the worst time they can say not interested xxx
More often, peep look at mine as I have looked at theirs or clicked into theirs by accident where scrolling through threads.
Never get messaged though, nor do I message them.
Touch screen phones can be a pain for that I got a tendency off posting and comeing back and scrolling and hitting the delete button on the way down and need to re post xx"
Even more irritating when you hit delete on a message thread.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Or dose anyone else look at looked at me page and if someone looked at you and take ur fancy sent them a message just to say
Hello thanks for looking at my profile
I do it all the time most off the time with a positive response from people
I do it just incase the person maybe have been a bit shy to start a conversation
Mean what’s the worst time they can say not interested xxx
More often, peep look at mine as I have looked at theirs or clicked into theirs by accident where scrolling through threads.
Never get messaged though, nor do I message them.
Touch screen phones can be a pain for that I got a tendency off posting and comeing back and scrolling and hitting the delete button on the way down and need to re post xx
Even more irritating when you hit delete on a message thread.
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Not done that one yet lol x |
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By *mberWoman
over a year ago
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I'm in stealth mode.
But I
a) never look at who's looked at me and
b) if I did, I'd assume that they looked, decided that they didn't like me and that they'd moved on.
So no, I wouldn't message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dislike this.
If you looked and liked just say so. If you arent confident enough for this, then you are unlikely to be my type anyway!
This is why I have gone back into stealth mode, because I got fed up of it x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope
And I don’t like when people do it to me (well, used to, cause I’m in ninja mode now because of this). I’m a nosey cunt, I’ll creep your profile. If I wanted to message you, I would have done it. |
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Nah, if someone looks and doesn't message or wink, I assume they weren't interested, or were just having a random browse like most of us do. Plus, I would feel annoyed if everyone I only looked at messaged me to say thanks, so I wouldn't do it to someone else.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There’s a couple that sometimes appear on hot pics that have viewed my profile quite a few times.
I’m wondering if that’s their way of saying, hey we like what we see, message us?
What’s wrong with a wink or message these days?!  |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
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"Nah, if someone looks and doesn't message or wink, I assume they weren't interested, or were just having a random browse like most of us do. Plus, I would feel annoyed if everyone I only looked at messaged me to say thanks, so I wouldn't do it to someone else.
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Exactly our thoughts too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nah, if someone looks and doesn't message or wink, I assume they weren't interested, or were just having a random browse like most of us do. Plus, I would feel annoyed if everyone I only looked at messaged me to say thanks, so I wouldn't do it to someone else.
Exactly our thoughts too "
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