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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'll firstly apologize to those who do not fall into this category however sad to say most do ... why if your all on a sex site seeking NSA fun do you not always have condoms on you ...we can count on one hand how many come prepared...as a stag and vixen couple hubby is already giving you me his wife for the evening and a place to host then we seem to always have to supply everything else ...condoms lube and on the odd occasion a bluey and the odd drink and smokes too...even if it's a middle of the night spur of the moment surely if your putting yourself up to meet you would have your little bag of supplies for whenever the occasion arose ...as I say sorry for those who do but they seem few and far between....come on guys pull it together please we should all be responsible for safe sex here and not just down to the couple xxx |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
Chippenham Malmesbury area |
I've only gone to one meet without them but it was supposed to be only a social but we hit it off so well that things changed. I did say that I couldn't play because I didn't have condoms but they were more than happy to provide them.
Now I take them to all my meets, social or otherwise. |
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over a year ago
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"I'll firstly apologize to those who do not fall into this category however sad to say most do ... why if your all on a sex site seeking NSA fun do you not always have condoms on you ...we can count on one hand how many come prepared...as a stag and vixen couple hubby is already giving you me his wife for the evening and a place to host then we seem to always have to supply everything else ...condoms lube and on the odd occasion a bluey and the odd drink and smokes too...even if it's a middle of the night spur of the moment surely if your putting yourself up to meet you would have your little bag of supplies for whenever the occasion arose ...as I say sorry for those who do but they seem few and far between....come on guys pull it together please we should all be responsible for safe sex here and not just down to the couple xxx"
What's a bluey? |
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I was having this conversation only the other day. Out of 20-odd years of being sexually active and the hundreds of people I must have slept with I can think of literally a handful that have offered to wear a condom without me having to say something.
Disgraceful really |
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Although not meeting at this time ,, unless your desperate., I always keep a supply of condoms , lube , after shave , mouth wash and hand sanitizer in my car.. have done for years .. You just never know when .. |
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Brilliant post here. The amount of effort you guys go to host is amazing. Whenever i get to meet i always have them with me. Including some gifts (drinks, food, smokes or i ask if they need anything before arriving) i think its just plain common sense.
I have been on Socials and didn’t expect anything to happen, but they did. I always have some just for the unexpected times  |
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"I'll firstly apologize to those who do not fall into this category however sad to say most do ... why if your all on a sex site seeking NSA fun do you not always have condoms on you ...we can count on one hand how many come prepared...as a stag and vixen couple hubby is already giving you me his wife for the evening and a place to host then we seem to always have to supply everything else ...condoms lube and on the odd occasion a bluey and the odd drink and smokes too...even if it's a middle of the night spur of the moment surely if your putting yourself up to meet you would have your little bag of supplies for whenever the occasion arose ...as I say sorry for those who do but they seem few and far between....come on guys pull it together please we should all be responsible for safe sex here and not just down to the couple xxx
What's a bluey?"
Viagra?? |
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"I'll firstly apologize to those who do not fall into this category however sad to say most do ... why if your all on a sex site seeking NSA fun do you not always have condoms on you ...we can count on one hand how many come prepared...as a stag and vixen couple hubby is already giving you me his wife for the evening and a place to host then we seem to always have to supply everything else ...condoms lube and on the odd occasion a bluey and the odd drink and smokes too...even if it's a middle of the night spur of the moment surely if your putting yourself up to meet you would have your little bag of supplies for whenever the occasion arose ...as I say sorry for those who do but they seem few and far between....come on guys pull it together please we should all be responsible for safe sex here and not just down to the couple xxx"
I always have a rubber hat in my wallet ! I even have a little sachet of lube at the minute
The chances of getting the chance to use them are limited and beginning to ask why I make my wallet heavier  |
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"I'll firstly apologize to those who do not fall into this category however sad to say most do ... why if your all on a sex site seeking NSA fun do you not always have condoms on you ...we can count on one hand how many come prepared...as a stag and vixen couple hubby is already giving you me his wife for the evening and a place to host then we seem to always have to supply everything else ...condoms lube and on the odd occasion a bluey and the odd drink and smokes too...even if it's a middle of the night spur of the moment surely if your putting yourself up to meet you would have your little bag of supplies for whenever the occasion arose ...as I say sorry for those who do but they seem few and far between....come on guys pull it together please we should all be responsible for safe sex here and not just down to the couple xxx"
I can only speak for myself... Maybe it's my boy scout background... But I'm always "prepared"... Can't think of what kind of message it sends if you want to be intimate with someone and can't be arsed or are too tight to bring your own. |
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"I used to take my own just incase they tried to pull that old “ohh sorry I forgot the condoms” line  "
This!
I always have condoms but I'm always chuffed if a guy has some - it shows me that he's not just using them because I'm insistent but was planning on using them anyway. It's one of those little things that helps me relax a bit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The amount of single guys at swingers clubs with not one condom in their pocket never ceases to amaze me. Yeah, come to a club hoping for a play, but dont think to bring condoms I usually tell them to get lost if they announce they haven't got condoms when we start talking about play. It shows complete immaturity and lack of responsibility in my opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I will say we have had some real gents come with a gift ... chocolates or a bottle ect so I'm not tarring everyone with the same brush but yes the majority seems to not even think about it ....we have now started to tell them in messages prior to meeting and dont get me wrong we dont mind buying and using our own but it should be a shared responsibility xx |
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I always have condoms with me, for private meets and when I’ve been to clubs (but think that was the kiss of death lol).
It took me a while to discover Mates Skyns were the best fit for my cock (not all condoms are the same shape or size), and my cock is a sensitive little chap who prefers latex-free (but so many women ask for latex-free anyway, so win-win).
I would never turn up for a meet without condoms, and always ask the female/couple if they’re happy for me to use my own |
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I've always got a couple of condoms in the glove box of the car (I use an extremely minimalist wallet, and they don't fit safely in there), as well as breath mints and aftershave, and a change of clothes in the boot... |
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"I always have condoms with me, for private meets and when I’ve been to clubs (but think that was the kiss of death lol).
It took me a while to discover Mates Skyns were the best fit for my cock (not all condoms are the same shape or size), and my cock is a sensitive little chap who prefers latex-free (but so many women ask for latex-free anyway, so win-win).
I would never turn up for a meet without condoms, and always ask the female/couple if they’re happy for me to use my own "
Latex free Skyns for the win   |
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Why wouldn’t you bring condoms on a meet ?. Why go to all that time to arrange a meet. Maybe lots of time trying to get a meet.. then not go equipped !!
Is it arrogance ? or just the “she’ll still have it “ mentality ?
Its better to have something and not need it... than need it and not have it right. But with a Fab” twist”.. if you want it, better well have brought them 
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"I don’t just take me only rubbers, I have a little suitcase full of additional peripherals
Intrigued what else is in your bag of tricks "
Well as you asked (or at the least we’re intrigued)
Lube (normal and erm.... hardcore (can you get hardcore lube? Yes, yes you can))
Wet wipes
Nipple clamps
2 x 15ft rope (8mm cotton blend)
1 x 30ft rope (as above)
Assorted cock rings
Doxy massager (with attachments)
Various bullet stimulators
Candy nipple tassels (I really should check the use-by date)
Toy cleaner
Bottle of wine, 2 x wine glasses
Spare underwear and clothes for next day
What? I was a boy scout
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"It's the responsibility of both, surely? I've always discussed it beforehand to make sure that one of us or both of us have something."
I agree totally but you should always go prepared incase they haven't |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Twice we had to send the single guys back after the initial soft play , when we found out that they just came for a play with no condoms .
Poor guys . They never had courage to message us again |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don’t just take me only rubbers, I have a little suitcase full of additional peripherals
Intrigued what else is in your bag of tricks
Well as you asked (or at the least we’re intrigued)
Lube (normal and erm.... hardcore (can you get hardcore lube? Yes, yes you can))
Wet wipes
Nipple clamps
2 x 15ft rope (8mm cotton blend)
1 x 30ft rope (as above)
Assorted cock rings
Doxy massager (with attachments)
Various bullet stimulators
Candy nipple tassels (I really should check the use-by date)
Toy cleaner
Bottle of wine, 2 x wine glasses
Spare underwear and clothes for next day
What? I was a boy scout
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Love it xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t just take me only rubbers, I have a little suitcase full of additional peripherals
Intrigued what else is in your bag of tricks
Well as you asked (or at the least we’re intrigued)
Lube (normal and erm.... hardcore (can you get hardcore lube? Yes, yes you can))
Wet wipes
Nipple clamps
2 x 15ft rope (8mm cotton blend)
1 x 30ft rope (as above)
Assorted cock rings
Doxy massager (with attachments)
Various bullet stimulators
Candy nipple tassels (I really should check the use-by date)
Toy cleaner
Bottle of wine, 2 x wine glasses
Spare underwear and clothes for next day
What? I was a boy scout
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Wow, wow and wow!  |
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Ha, always prepared. Love it!
"I don’t just take me only rubbers, I have a little suitcase full of additional peripherals
Intrigued what else is in your bag of tricks
Well as you asked (or at the least we’re intrigued)
Lube (normal and erm.... hardcore (can you get hardcore lube? Yes, yes you can))
Wet wipes
Nipple clamps
2 x 15ft rope (8mm cotton blend)
1 x 30ft rope (as above)
Assorted cock rings
Doxy massager (with attachments)
Various bullet stimulators
Candy nipple tassels (I really should check the use-by date)
Toy cleaner
Bottle of wine, 2 x wine glasses
Spare underwear and clothes for next day
What? I was a boy scout
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I always bring my own but its a bit of a turn off when they've come totally unprepared. Especially as I only do pre planned meets so they've had plenty of time. With the amount of efgort us women go through to prepare for a meet, the least they coukd do is run the shops for condoms on the way . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t just take me only rubbers, I have a little suitcase full of additional peripherals
Intrigued what else is in your bag of tricks
Well as you asked (or at the least we’re intrigued)
Lube (normal and erm.... hardcore (can you get hardcore lube? Yes, yes you can))
Wet wipes
Nipple clamps
2 x 15ft rope (8mm cotton blend)
1 x 30ft rope (as above)
Assorted cock rings
Doxy massager (with attachments)
Various bullet stimulators
Candy nipple tassels (I really should check the use-by date)
Toy cleaner
Bottle of wine, 2 x wine glasses
Spare underwear and clothes for next day
What? I was a boy scout
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's the responsibility of both, surely? I've always discussed it beforehand to make sure that one of us or both of us have something.
I agree totally but you should always go prepared incase they haven't "
The only time we both haven't been prepared was a last minute first meet that had been building up for months. I offered to run across the road to Sainsbury's |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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This will be a huge rant so apologies now
This for me that makes me so bloody angry in clubs. The amount of single guys who go to a club and say to either the club can I have a condom or other guys can I borrow one is unreal.
It’s a piss take. Don’t get me wrong people do play bareback, not for me. Not only are you protecting yourself using a condom but also other people as well. You may have something and not know!!!!
In the last 18 months I have said no you can’t have a condom to guys that have asked. The reason why if they can’t play maybe they will learn to get them before they go in the club.
Anyone that knows me knows I have condoms with me on a meet or a club (more than 3 or 4), why they can break putting them on or even getting them out the packet.
Ok there maybe times where a couple has come to play together and decide they want to play with someone else. But I would say I could count this on one hand when this has happened in last 15 years
I have also had condoms stollen from me in group play by other guys. Crazy hey!!! The couples that have sent guys backs to get them to bloody right and good on ya. I have even now when seeing in clubs said did you not know when you came in this was a swinging club
Anyway it is like less than 10 quid for a large box and trust me It’s cheaper than living with unplanned pregnancy or a std
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The way I view it is quite simple, let’s face it we can all go out and get a t’upenny upright, but for me, at least, I meet people from here to indulge in debauchery, that’s not to say vanilla isn’t a nice flavour, but being on here with liberated and adventurous people can lead to so much more.
Hence the little suitcase, none of the things have to be used, but when you are in a hotel, it’s nice to have everything to hand, should the mood take you (including rubbers!)
The wine is very helpful if I get stood up
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By *JohnMan
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
Confession time. I'm one of those men who doesn't always have condoms at hand.
If I'm going to the supermarket, I don't take condoms. If I'm visiting my parents, I don't take condoms. If I'm going for a nice walk in the countryside on my own, I don't take condoms. Reckless, I know.
But to a meet, or a club, or a social where there's anywhere above a negative possibility of anything, then I make sure I have some. I'm not that stupid.
I'm even taking them to the social nights at the club now. I don't really know why - there's no chance they'll get used. It's just part of my club-going routine. |
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over a year ago
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"I always bring my own but its a bit of a turn off when they've come totally unprepared. Especially as I only do pre planned meets so they've had plenty of time. With the amount of efgort us women go through to prepare for a meet, the least they coukd do is run the shops for condoms on the way . "
Excuse me! It takes me 1.7 hours to prepare for a meet 
Also, I bring my own condoms because they fit me, unlike durex which everyone seems to have |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you all for your comments ive found a little rhyme for you singles goes like this ..
In days of old when men were bold and Johnny's weren't invented
They would rap a sock around there cock and babies were prevented
Now i know times have changed and your not all not knights of the round table but if they thought ahead so can you ..ps do not try and sex me with a sock as that wont work either xx |
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"I don’t just take me only rubbers, I have a little suitcase full of additional peripherals
Intrigued what else is in your bag of tricks
Well as you asked (or at the least we’re intrigued)
Lube (normal and erm.... hardcore (can you get hardcore lube? Yes, yes you can))
Wet wipes
Nipple clamps
2 x 15ft rope (8mm cotton blend)
1 x 30ft rope (as above)
Assorted cock rings
Doxy massager (with attachments)
Various bullet stimulators
Candy nipple tassels (I really should check the use-by date)
Toy cleaner
Bottle of wine, 2 x wine glasses
Spare underwear and clothes for next day
What? I was a boy scout
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Man after my own heart. I'm liking your work. |
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"Thank you all for your comments ive found a little rhyme for you singles goes like this ..
In days of old when men were bold and Johnny's weren't invented
They would rap a sock around there cock and babies were prevented
Now i know times have changed and your not all not knights of the round table but if they thought ahead so can you ..ps do not try and sex me with a sock as that wont work either xx"
Fuck me. Holy sheep shit. I didn't think women like you exsisted. Did you get sent from heaven? |
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"I always bring my own but its a bit of a turn off when they've come totally unprepared. Especially as I only do pre planned meets so they've had plenty of time. With the amount of efgort us women go through to prepare for a meet, the least they coukd do is run the shops for condoms on the way .
Excuse me! It takes me 1.7 hours to prepare for a meet
Also, I bring my own condoms because they fit me, unlike durex which everyone seems to have "
That's very precise. Quick shower and 1.5 hours doing your hair?
Special triangular condoms eh? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I reckon just check with them and ask before meeting. A quick text or call to say "don't forget the condoms if you want to put your wiener in my enchanted pussy or magical bumhole" should do the trick, and if they're dumb enough to ignore that then I'd kick them out tbf.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t just take me only rubbers, I have a little suitcase full of additional peripherals
Intrigued what else is in your bag of tricks
Well as you asked (or at the least we’re intrigued)
Lube (normal and erm.... hardcore (can you get hardcore lube? Yes, yes you can))
Wet wipes
Nipple clamps
2 x 15ft rope (8mm cotton blend)
1 x 30ft rope (as above)
Assorted cock rings
Doxy massager (with attachments)
Various bullet stimulators
Candy nipple tassels (I really should check the use-by date)
Toy cleaner
Bottle of wine, 2 x wine glasses
Spare underwear and clothes for next day
What? I was a boy scout
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Almost as good as mine but no wine or much rope in mine xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For those of you that havent seen playbag:
Condoms
Lube
Toy wipes
Ball gag
Bullet vib
Wand
Small vib
Pin wheel
Blind fold
Paddle
Crop
Rope
2 collars (1 large 1 small)
Chains
Hand cuffs
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Nice kit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always bring my own but its a bit of a turn off when they've come totally unprepared. Especially as I only do pre planned meets so they've had plenty of time. With the amount of efgort us women go through to prepare for a meet, the least they coukd do is run the shops for condoms on the way .
Excuse me! It takes me 1.7 hours to prepare for a meet
Also, I bring my own condoms because they fit me, unlike durex which everyone seems to have
That's very precise. Quick shower and 1.5 hours doing your hair?
Special triangular condoms eh? "
Well hair on the head takes 20 seconds, it's the rest of the body hair that takes up all the time 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thank you all for your comments ive found a little rhyme for you singles goes like this ..
In days of old when men were bold and Johnny's weren't invented
They would rap a sock around there cock and babies were prevented
Now i know times have changed and your not all not knights of the round table but if they thought ahead so can you ..ps do not try and sex me with a sock as that wont work either xx Fuck me. Holy sheep shit. I didn't think women like you exsisted. Did you get sent from heaven? "
lol mabye xx |
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"For those of you that havent seen playbag:
Condoms
Lube
Toy wipes
Ball gag
Bullet vib
Wand
Small vib
Pin wheel
Blind fold
Paddle
Crop
Rope
2 collars (1 large 1 small)
Chains
Hand cuffs
Nice kit "
Lol..my kinda man!.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest I would rather provide them, I need latex free if I provide them I know they will be ok for me. The same with lube, I know what lube suits my body. Oh and I get a variety pack of skyns so I have Different sizes and types so they can’t use the it won’t fit excuse.
I even cancelled a meet with a rather endowed guy once as he could only use mysize condoms but I couldn’t risk having a reaction to them so we decided not to meet. |
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"I always bring my own but its a bit of a turn off when they've come totally unprepared. Especially as I only do pre planned meets so they've had plenty of time. With the amount of efgort us women go through to prepare for a meet, the least they coukd do is run the shops for condoms on the way .
Excuse me! It takes me 1.7 hours to prepare for a meet
Also, I bring my own condoms because they fit me, unlike durex which everyone seems to have
That's very precise. Quick shower and 1.5 hours doing your hair?
Special triangular condoms eh?
Well hair on the head takes 20 seconds, it's the rest of the body hair that takes up all the time
XXS "
Must take so long to get it all set in rollers.
Do you get them specially made? |
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"I always bring my own but its a bit of a turn off when they've come totally unprepared. Especially as I only do pre planned meets so they've had plenty of time. With the amount of efgort us women go through to prepare for a meet, the least they coukd do is run the shops for condoms on the way .
Excuse me! It takes me 1.7 hours to prepare for a meet
Also, I bring my own condoms because they fit me, unlike durex which everyone seems to have
That's very precise. Quick shower and 1.5 hours doing your hair?
Special triangular condoms eh?
Well hair on the head takes 20 seconds, it's the rest of the body hair that takes up all the time
XXS
Must take so long to get it all set in rollers.
Do you get them specially made? "
I order online to save embarrassment at the checkout |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Slightly incredulous at this thread...
Always in the glove box or jacket pocket, not on presumption but if on the 1% chance things move that way on random meet (not arranged) then how hard would I kick myself for missing out..
Plus it's just bloody respectful..
I say slightly incredulous as having heard horror stories from too many ladies..... |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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"For those of you that havent seen playbag:
Condoms
Lube
Toy wipes
Ball gag
Bullet vib
Wand
Small vib
Pin wheel
Blind fold
Paddle
Crop
Rope
2 collars (1 large 1 small)
Chains
Hand cuffs
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Damn I knew I forgot something 2 floggers  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For those of you that havent seen playbag:
Condoms
Lube
Toy wipes
Ball gag
Bullet vib
Wand
Small vib
Pin wheel
Blind fold
Paddle
Crop
Rope
2 collars (1 large 1 small)
Chains
Hand cuffs
Damn I knew I forgot something 2 floggers "
No candles for wax play? xx |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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"For those of you that havent seen playbag:
Condoms
Lube
Toy wipes
Ball gag
Bullet vib
Wand
Small vib
Pin wheel
Blind fold
Paddle
Crop
Rope
2 collars (1 large 1 small)
Chains
Hand cuffs
Damn I knew I forgot something 2 floggers
No candles for wax play? xx"
No no no I don’t do wax play not my thing lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t just take me only rubbers, I have a little suitcase full of additional peripherals
Intrigued what else is in your bag of tricks
Well as you asked (or at the least we’re intrigued)
Lube (normal and erm.... hardcore (can you get hardcore lube? Yes, yes you can))
Wet wipes
Nipple clamps
2 x 15ft rope (8mm cotton blend)
1 x 30ft rope (as above)
Assorted cock rings
Doxy massager (with attachments)
Various bullet stimulators
Candy nipple tassels (I really should check the use-by date)
Toy cleaner
Bottle of wine, 2 x wine glasses
Spare underwear and clothes for next day
What? I was a boy scout
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You being so prepared is rather sexy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For those of you that havent seen playbag:
Condoms
Lube
Toy wipes
Ball gag
Bullet vib
Wand
Small vib
Pin wheel
Blind fold
Paddle
Crop
Rope
2 collars (1 large 1 small)
Chains
Hand cuffs
Damn I knew I forgot something 2 floggers
No candles for wax play? xx
No no no I don’t do wax play not my thing lol "
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Sex with condoms is the norm for me, I usually have a condom with me when leaving the house, this one is for an urgent and pleasant surprise and is replaced every couple of month if not used.
I keep a stash of condoms in a drawer in my bed room, different types, ripped, extra thin, extra thick, special lube, latex free, etc.
In that stash, I have also different lubes, scented, unscented and one also usable as massage oil (although I prefer real one for a proper massage).
I have also a chocolate and a strawberry body paint, both of them should be consumed in the next couple of weeks before they go stale. Probably I will eat them with ice cream or pan cakes, if no lady shows interest.
Regarding toys, I have two small bullet vibrators and a slightly larger one, all USB rechargeable and ideal for a clit and pussy massage. In total they last about two hours or several really long orgasm as I have tried with a lady before the lockdown.
Nipple clamps, a soft leather whip and some rope and cling film for a more kinky experience.
All of that goes into a battle bag, including wet wipes, charger for the vibrators, a small bag for the used condoms or other packaging and of course my usual travel stuff like shower gel, toothpaste and -brush, mouth wash and fresh underwear to change.
I am prepared |
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"I always bring my own but its a bit of a turn off when they've come totally unprepared. Especially as I only do pre planned meets so they've had plenty of time. With the amount of efgort us women go through to prepare for a meet, the least they coukd do is run the shops for condoms on the way .
Excuse me! It takes me 1.7 hours to prepare for a meet
Also, I bring my own condoms because they fit me, unlike durex which everyone seems to have "
You bring your own! Hand made? |
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bit rude not to have them on you i think.
id hope people would show someone the door if they turned up without them.
its like they are communicating an excuse to go in bareback |
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I carry condoms to all meets, no matter what. I'd hope it always suggests genuine respect for who I'm meeting and that I've given them due consideration prior to meeting. Surely things like this say things about us, for good or bad? Someone forgetting on occasion isn't unreasonable, but theres a distinct feeling some people (not always just blokes) deliberately 'forget'. It immediately sets you up for people thinking you're someone to be avoided surely? |
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