Hi to everybody that is clearly not sleeping
Me and my husband have been looking for a lady to join us but still no luck ??
I’m now questioning everything is it the profile, our looks or maybe were just not interesting
People say the unicorn is hard to find and you better believe it 
Any honest tips are greatly appreciated |
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"Have you given clubs a try? no we were thinking about it then lockdown hit 
Just having no luck at all "
Having been both the illusive single bi woman and part of a couple seeking one I can honestly say clubs are your best bet.
A few are open for socially distanced socialising atm, might be worth a go? |
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"Have you given clubs a try? no we were thinking about it then lockdown hit
Just having no luck at all
Having been both the illusive single bi woman and part of a couple seeking one I can honestly say clubs are your best bet.
A few are open for socially distanced socialising atm, might be worth a go? "
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If I was looking for couples I would be worried about meeting such a inexperienced couple. A lot of people don’t know how they will react until they are in the situation and even experienced couples it can go tits up. Club scene, get to know people etc is where you need to aim in my opinion |
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"Maybe the female half should join another experienced couple.. See if you like it?
Agree with the club advice too
That’s some good advice there Midnight 
 
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All these couples waiting for sexy girls to fall across their laps... Get out and find your own laps  |
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"Maybe the female half should join another experienced couple.. See if you like it?
Agree with the club advice too
That’s some good advice there Midnight
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All these couples waiting for sexy girls to fall across their laps... Get out and find your own laps "
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I'm about as far from what you're looking for as it's possible to be but looking on as an outsider so to speak I'd wonder what any woman joining you might expect. There seems to be no enthusiasm for what you're asking more a kind of reticence and an "oh well let's get this thing done" attitude.
There are hundreds of profiles looking for what you want and very few of the kind of woman you're after. This puts you on the position of needing to appeal to them.
Having read your other thread I wonder if N id a bit unsure about certain aspects of her body, hence the doubt in the op. Don't be, we're all different and nobody's genitals are perfect. |
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We have met or been in message contact with several single women who have expressed interest in getting together with us. That includes women whose profile says they are straight and aren't looking for couples, but have told us privately that's just so they don't get bombarded with messages from couples.
For us it's about forming friendships. From what we have read, most single women don't want to be talked to because you have a sexual fantasy to fulfill. They have desires of their own. For most women, it all starts in the mind, so you have to touch that sexual organ first.
We seek only friendships, but friends on here are open to things going in a sexual direction. So prioritise getting to know people, then doors can open up. Approach people because you like them, not because you have an agenda.
We have a particular female Fab friend who we have spent months getting to know and chatting largely about non-sexual stuff. She knows that we would like her and hanging around with her regardless of whether she was interested in us sexually or not. Having put time into developing that connection, we are all now chomping at the bit to tear each other's clothes off.
My serious advice to you is to play the long game. Prioritise making connections with people you like over ticking a box on your sexual bucket list. Many women who feel they are just a check list item will run a mile. |
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"Hi to everybody that is clearly not sleeping
Me and my husband have been looking for a lady to join us but still no luck ??
I’m now questioning everything is it the profile, our looks or maybe were just not interesting
People say the unicorn is hard to find and you better believe it
Any honest tips are greatly appreciated "
Could you do a pic with both of you together? You both have face pics on. A 'couple' smiley pic would be nice.  |
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"If I was looking for couples I would be worried about meeting such a inexperienced couple. A lot of people don’t know how they will react until they are in the situation and even experienced couples it can go tits up. Club scene, get to know people etc is where you need to aim in my opinion "
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In my humble opinion it comes down to this....in a club environment ,in the heat of the moment,'things' can happen fairly easily,with permission of course! where as on here, it's a more intimate meeting due to being one on one or two on one ,to be factually correct it's actually more like dating together really ,but you see people's genitals before their faces  |
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I feel I should point out in both clubs and here, it's far more likely 'she' will be part of a couple..in a club ,you can chat face to face ,we have met some lovely people and not played with them and we've both just played with a woman,who had a male partner, who we never had a proper conversation with and don't know their names  but obviously your experience will vary from ours and boundaries must be set of what you are both comfortable with doing,as EVERYONE involved should always be enjoying themselves. |
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