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over a year ago
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My recent brakeup broke me and I wondered (from a psychological and sex point of _iew) if everything was going to work (strange the human mind)? Got myself in a right pickle, worrying about me, her everything...
So I set out dipping my toes in the water, there was a bit of a build up, so and I forgot about my worries, just let nature take its course and I am happy to report (not bragging) that everything worked as it should. Onwards and upwards pardon the pun |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My recent brakeup broke me and I wondered (from a psychological and sex point of _iew) if everything was going to work (strange the human mind)? Got myself in a right pickle, worrying about me, her everything...
So I set out dipping my toes in the water, there was a bit of a build up, so and I forgot about my worries, just let nature take its course and I am happy to report (not bragging) that everything worked as it should. Onwards and upwards pardon the pun"
Pleased to hear it. My heart felt sad reading that first bit, we've all been there. So happy it works  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well done mate, i went through this when my engagement broke up and im still putting myself out there slowly and surely!
It takes time but you heal and people help along the way! Never worry about how your feeling because your allowed to fee whats right for you at the right times!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My recent brakeup broke me and I wondered (from a psychological and sex point of _iew) if everything was going to work (strange the human mind)? Got myself in a right pickle, worrying about me, her everything...
So I set out dipping my toes in the water, there was a bit of a build up, so and I forgot about my worries, just let nature take its course and I am happy to report (not bragging) that everything worked as it should. Onwards and upwards pardon the pun
Pleased to hear it. My heart felt sad reading that first bit, we've all been there. So happy it works "
Thank you so much, love the positivity on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Didnt you say this last weekend?"
Oh yes I did, but still relishing in the achievement, plus wanted to put a positive message out there that even the most confident people have their worries. |
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Well done OP
There has always been a stigma with men and worries.. its perfectly natural to feel like that..i went through a tough breakup, the Covid arrived, got made redundant and just feel back to square 1..
Ive hit rock bottom a few times in my life.
But the only way is up from there  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well done OP
There has always been a stigma with men and worries.. its perfectly natural to feel like that..i went through a tough breakup, the Covid arrived, got made redundant and just feel back to square 1..
Ive hit rock bottom a few times in my life.
But the only way is up from there "
Exactly that, men are brought up not being able to talk about their feelings. Let's hope we can give the gift of expression to our kids. I hope things get better for you Sir and we both know they will. Everything is temporary. Take care. |
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I've been out of the dating/relationship/sex stuff for quite a number of years (for various reasons). Joined Fab about a year ago but just let the account sit without using it. Then found the forums about a month or so ago.
Since then been putting myself out there to see what, if anything happens. Bit nervewracking and exciting/interesting all at the same time. Been messaging and chatting to some lovely people (which is way further than I'd thought I'd get by now).
At the moment just looking for that elusive first meet (yes I know COVID yadda yadda yadda). A socially distanced cafe/pub social would be good though.
I'll stick around here though as you never know who or what is just around the corner. |
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"I've been out of the dating/relationship/sex stuff for quite a number of years (for various reasons). Joined Fab about a year ago but just let the account sit without using it. Then found the forums about a month or so ago.
Since then been putting myself out there to see what, if anything happens. Bit nervewracking and exciting/interesting all at the same time. Been messaging and chatting to some lovely people (which is way further than I'd thought I'd get by now).
At the moment just looking for that elusive first meet (yes I know COVID yadda yadda yadda). A socially distanced cafe/pub social would be good though.
I'll stick around here though as you never know who or what is just around the corner."
The forums are great although you can loose days in here . The community is amazing too, so many supportive people on here all just helping each other along the way. I am sure it will happen for you Sir and before you know it the drought will have gone and you will be getting soaked regularly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been out of the dating/relationship/sex stuff for quite a number of years (for various reasons). Joined Fab about a year ago but just let the account sit without using it. Then found the forums about a month or so ago.
Since then been putting myself out there to see what, if anything happens. Bit nervewracking and exciting/interesting all at the same time. Been messaging and chatting to some lovely people (which is way further than I'd thought I'd get by now).
At the moment just looking for that elusive first meet (yes I know COVID yadda yadda yadda). A socially distanced cafe/pub social would be good though.
I'll stick around here though as you never know who or what is just around the corner.
The forums are great although you can loose days in here . The community is amazing too, so many supportive people on here all just helping each other along the way. I am sure it will happen for you Sir and before you know it the drought will have gone and you will be getting soaked regularly "
I have started to limit my time in the forums otherwise they can take over a bit. I am staying optimistic (not always a natural thing for me). But onwards and upwards and that next message could be the one ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well done OP glad things are working out for you.
The most important thing I think people need to remember is because of things they have gone through that others may have gone through similar and they need to not make others feel like they are worthless just because they have their own issues. |
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"Well done OP glad things are working out for you.
The most important thing I think people need to remember is because of things they have gone through that others may have gone through similar and they need to not make others feel like they are worthless just because they have their own issues. "
Thank you, it's good to have kind people with positive input and as you said: letting other's know that they are not on their own. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well done OP glad things are working out for you.
The most important thing I think people need to remember is because of things they have gone through that others may have gone through similar and they need to not make others feel like they are worthless just because they have their own issues. "
Well said I would add that you've always got to remember that there is a real person behind the avatar and username - always think about that first before posting/messaging which may not be pleasant for that person to read. |
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