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By *ltr OP Man
over a year ago
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Well I did something stupid last night 
I went out with mates and bumped into my exwife looking rather well said hi and carried on though pub she left with her friends . Later I was waiting for a taxi she pulled up and offered me a lift home I declined at first but like a tit I said ok and yes you guessed it I kicked her out at two this morning I feel like a proper twat it took me two years to divorce her and two minutes to fxxk it up  it ment nothing but I feel like shit now typical man thinking with his dick ah well here we go bring out the advice
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"Well I did something stupid last night
I went out with mates and bumped into my exwife looking rather well said hi and carried on though pub she left with her friends . Later I was waiting for a taxi she pulled up and offered me a lift home I declined at first but like a tit I said ok and yes you guessed it I kicked her out at two this morning I feel like a proper twat it took me two years to divorce her and two minutes to fxxk it up it ment nothing but I feel like shit now typical man thinking with his dick ah well here we go bring out the advice
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It's easy, you've shagged your ex. You don't need to have any more contact. If she contacts you, just say thanks for the shag but you don't want anything more.
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"Well I did something stupid last night
I went out with mates and bumped into my exwife looking rather well said hi and carried on though pub she left with her friends . Later I was waiting for a taxi she pulled up and offered me a lift home I declined at first but like a tit I said ok and yes you guessed it I kicked her out at two this morning I feel like a proper twat it took me two years to divorce her and two minutes to fxxk it up it ment nothing but I feel like shit now typical man thinking with his dick ah well here we go bring out the advice
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don't worry ...just think of it as a game of pool or tennis....she was the horny one thinking with her minge ...you just went ..ok ... what's the worst that could happen ...at least you got a shag ...is she any good btw?  |
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She was there too so you both fucked up.
We all make mistakes, acknowledge it, resolve not to do it again, move on.
You might need to gently tell her it was a one off or she might be thinking the same as you. Best have that conversation too.
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By *ltr OP Man
over a year ago
sheffield |
"She was there too so you both fucked up.
We all make mistakes, acknowledge it, resolve not to do it again, move on.
You might need to gently tell her it was a one off or she might be thinking the same as you. Best have that conversation too.
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we are both single she left to be with our fxxk buddy ive moved on but she hasnt from what she said last night I dont think she has but will be chatting to her later I hope to end it amicable I hope  |
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"She was there too so you both fucked up.
We all make mistakes, acknowledge it, resolve not to do it again, move on.
You might need to gently tell her it was a one off or she might be thinking the same as you. Best have that conversation too.
we are both single she left to be with our fxxk buddy ive moved on but she hasnt from what she said last night I dont think she has but will be chatting to her later I hope to end it amicable I hope "
Oh dear. Tread warily then, if she hasn't moved on you will need to be absolutely clear in your intent.
You know this already but *do not do this again* |
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"She was there too so you both fucked up.
We all make mistakes, acknowledge it, resolve not to do it again, move on.
You might need to gently tell her it was a one off or she might be thinking the same as you. Best have that conversation too.
we are both single she left to be with our fxxk buddy ive moved on but she hasnt from what she said last night I dont think she has but will be chatting to her later I hope to end it amicable I hope "
Be clear about what you want. It doesn't sound like either of you have moved on tbh.
If the reason she left in the first place hasn't changed tho this will just repeat and repeat like groundhog day.
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By *ltr OP Man
over a year ago
sheffield |
"Well at least your sure you have no feelings for her anymore and I bet it felt good kicking her out  not literally I hope haha  "
no not quite booting her lol but no coffee or kiss |
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I'm hoping she wakes up feeling the same, like it was a big mistake and wants nothing to come of it herself. Nothing worse than waking up the following day feeling used, especially when you hoped it might have meant more.
I hope you are both on the same page so no one gets hurt. Good luck   |
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By *ltr OP Man
over a year ago
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"Just think of it as a hands free wank, and move on."
felt sorry for the dog it used to be hers but she moved into a pet free flat and he was as excited as fxxk to see her hes sulking in back garden as we text not even squirrels are making him move  |
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By *ltr OP Man
over a year ago
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"I'm hoping she wakes up feeling the same, like it was a big mistake and wants nothing to come of it herself. Nothing worse than waking up the following day feeling used, especially when you hoped it might have meant more.
I hope you are both on the same page so no one gets hurt. Good luck "
at first I was like a revenge fxxk great but this morning I feel like a douche bag iam going to chat later when iam more together in my mind not my balls  |
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By *ltr OP Man
over a year ago
sheffield |
Following yesterday's advice from a few on here I sat my ex down over a coffee we spoke and both of us realise it was a total fxck up and we just needed a release . We both said wont happen again and we hugged andleft it at that . so all good |
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"Following yesterday's advice from a few on here I sat my ex down over a coffee we spoke and both of us realise it was a total fxck up and we just needed a release . We both said wont happen again and we hugged andleft it at that . so all good "
Glad to hear it went ok for both sides OP.
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"Following yesterday's advice from a few on here I sat my ex down over a coffee we spoke and both of us realise it was a total fxck up and we just needed a release . We both said wont happen again and we hugged andleft it at that . so all good "
more civilised adult behaviour than kicking her out |
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