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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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After an experience of using a strapon on a guy I wanted to share some of my thoughts.
The main thing I took from this experience is just how physically tiring it is for you guys to fuck us!
I wont say fuck "ladies" as I am perfectly aware that there are men, women & others who identify differently on the gender spectrum that love being fucked.
So for purpose of this thread and not to exclude anyone I will use the terms "fucker" = the person doing the most of the work! and "fuckee!= The person receiving this delicious experience!
So folks. Fuckers have it hard.
They want to please the fuckee but also want to experience intense pleasure themselves naturally,which in some positions is just not at all easy.
So fuckees, dont just lay there. Be really appreciative of your partner.
They are bending into all sorts of contortions to fit into you at that perfect deep thrusting angle that hits all the right spots!
Fuckers (especially good fuckers) are fit.
They are sexercising with you.
It is a physical workout!
No wonder they build up a sweat,
And change positions, as I found out myself when using my strapon that certain positions made my legs really ache, and I was out of breath.
Another thing I realised was the angle of the dangle, and how I had to guide my rubber strapon dildo inside the guy.
Penises don't just find the hole and fit in easily straight away, there is gonna be some manipulation and wiggling about before bullseye!
Also I saw sex from a mans perspective!
Seeing the positions that my fuckee was in was a totally different view on things than when I am being fucked. And that was quite interesting actually.
As interesting an experience as it was, it isn't something that I would seek out to do specifically as it didn't give me any sexual pleasure or release. Rubber cocks have no sensation! Lol.
but when clubs reopen, you never know. My strapon may sometimes make an appearance!
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"After an experience of using a strapon on a guy I wanted to share some of my thoughts.
The main thing I took from this experience is just how physically tiring it is for you guys to fuck us!
I wont say fuck "ladies" as I am perfectly aware that there are men, women & others who identify differently on the gender spectrum that love being fucked.
So for purpose of this thread and not to exclude anyone I will use the terms "fucker" = the person doing the most of the work! and "fuckee!= The person receiving this delicious experience!
So folks. Fuckers have it hard.
They want to please the fuckee but also want to experience intense pleasure themselves naturally,which in some positions is just not at all easy.
So fuckees, dont just lay there. Be really appreciative of your partner.
They are bending into all sorts of contortions to fit into you at that perfect deep thrusting angle that hits all the right spots!
Fuckers (especially good fuckers) are fit.
They are sexercising with you.
It is a physical workout!
No wonder they build up a sweat,
And change positions, as I found out myself when using my strapon that certain positions made my legs really ache, and I was out of breath.
Another thing I realised was the angle of the dangle, and how I had to guide my rubber strapon dildo inside the guy.
Penises don't just find the hole and fit in easily straight away, there is gonna be some manipulation and wiggling about before bullseye!
Also I saw sex from a mans perspective!
Seeing the positions that my fuckee was in was a totally different view on things than when I am being fucked. And that was quite interesting actually.
As interesting an experience as it was, it isn't something that I would seek out to do specifically as it didn't give me any sexual pleasure or release. Rubber cocks have no sensation! Lol.
but when clubs reopen, you never know. My strapon may sometimes make an appearance!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is a great post. I've had a pegging request so had a shiny new strap on delivered in anticipation of use.
Would be a first time of doing it for me so thanks for posting this as gives me more insight of whats to come xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After an experience of using a strapon on a guy I wanted to share some of my thoughts.
The main thing I took from this experience is just how physically tiring it is for you guys to fuck us!
I wont say fuck "ladies" as I am perfectly aware that there are men, women & others who identify differently on the gender spectrum that love being fucked.
So for purpose of this thread and not to exclude anyone I will use the terms "fucker" = the person doing the most of the work! and "fuckee!= The person receiving this delicious experience!
So folks. Fuckers have it hard.
They want to please the fuckee but also want to experience intense pleasure themselves naturally,which in some positions is just not at all easy.
So fuckees, dont just lay there. Be really appreciative of your partner.
They are bending into all sorts of contortions to fit into you at that perfect deep thrusting angle that hits all the right spots!
Fuckers (especially good fuckers) are fit.
They are sexercising with you.
It is a physical workout!
No wonder they build up a sweat,
And change positions, as I found out myself when using my strapon that certain positions made my legs really ache, and I was out of breath.
Another thing I realised was the angle of the dangle, and how I had to guide my rubber strapon dildo inside the guy.
Penises don't just find the hole and fit in easily straight away, there is gonna be some manipulation and wiggling about before bullseye!
Also I saw sex from a mans perspective!
Seeing the positions that my fuckee was in was a totally different view on things than when I am being fucked. And that was quite interesting actually.
As interesting an experience as it was, it isn't something that I would seek out to do specifically as it didn't give me any sexual pleasure or release. Rubber cocks have no sensation! Lol.
but when clubs reopen, you never know. My strapon may sometimes make an appearance!
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By *kiolo1Couple
over a year ago
Whitland |
"Good write up I love using my strap on. I can get immense sexual pleasure from it.
There are ones available that you can get little vibrators to put in the wearers side. "
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Great post which i can definitely empathise with. It is like a physical workout being the fucker ive also had experience of being the fuckee with a strap on and its hard to find the right position if you are taller than your fucker. I do love the sight of a lady in nice underwear and strap on. |
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I've never found using my strap on tiring as such, when I first started using it I found I hard to get the right rhythm and how far I was pulling out. They can require some core strength if using for a while though ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
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"I'm with you there it's fucking knackering! Also uses muscles I didn't know I had. I wonder if guys get the same muscle soreness if they're out of practice . "
And told off by you women if we fall asleep afterwards!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a great post! Something I've always wanted to try. I have awesome thigh and core strength so am even more excited that it could suit me"
It’ll work your glutes too! |
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Ive got to ask how long ( time wise ) did you use it on him for ?
As the I want a long stayer comes to mind there.
Did you get cramp in the back muscle of the thigh
For your pleasure try a vibrating bullet positioned above your clit as you pound him it will hit and vibrate against it depending on your strapon |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looking forward to more insights from Bella in the future. And if you feel the need to be pleasured, feel free to chat privately, love the last video you posted on your profile ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"At last someone can appreciate the effort we put in "
I do. Really I DO!
Which is why I have begun embarking on a daily (wherever possible) excercise regime of stretching, pilates and yoga moves so that I don't cramp up when sexercising!!![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Wow. I go out for the day and return to find 20 comments on my thread! Thank you all. I am glad I took the time to write this now!
And probably 4000 messages in your inbox "
Actually surprisingly not!! Not even 40! Lol. ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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"Ive got to ask how long ( time wise ) did you use it on him for ?
As the I want a long stayer comes to mind there.
Did you get cramp in the back muscle of the thigh
For your pleasure try a vibrating bullet positioned above your clit as you pound him it will hit and vibrate against it depending on your strapon"
Um. Time wise I don't know. I didn't set a stopwatch lol.
I don't do that when I am playing.
It was as long as it took to make him get double vision! Hehe
I didn't get cramp but it was uncomfortable at times, so I had to keep moving the poor guy around just so I could continue to pound his tight little ass!
I was not out to cum from this session, it was an exploratory experience for me. And a much needed bit of kink/anal play for my friend.
Thanks for suggesting the vibrator idea though. I was aware of it and could have used one should I have wanted to. |
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"Great post which i can definitely empathise with. It is like a physical workout being the fucker ive also had experience of being the fuckee with a strap on and its hard to find the right position if you are taller than your fucker. I do love the sight of a lady in nice underwear and strap on."
A woman in fetish wear towering over someone whilst wearing a big strapon cock does look rather imposing. I can see the appeal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never been pegged but have been the fucker plenty its tiring but soo rewarding. Nothing like seeing the pleasure on the fuckees face
Plenty of thrusting excercises out there lol ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"I've never found using my strap on tiring as such, when I first started using it I found I hard to get the right rhythm and how far I was pulling out. They can require some core strength if using for a while though "
The rhythm is really difficult!!! I think I was a really rubbish fucker - probably needs lots more practise - T will be thrilled
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm open for being used as a strap on slut. I'd love too be spit roasted and made to do as I'm told. Especially if there is a big line up and each one gets more girthy an longer each time stretching out my tight little ass. ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love this post. Thanks
I have one tucked in the drawer that I havnt used yet, though I fear I'm really not all that fit and I'm going to end up very red faced! |
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"Love this post. Thanks
I have one tucked in the drawer that I havnt used yet, though I fear I'm really not all that fit and I'm going to end up very red faced! " I'd be happy being your first receiver ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"This is a great post! Something I've always wanted to try. I have awesome thigh and core strength so am even more excited that it could suit me"
Willing volunteer here |
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"After an experience of using a strapon on a guy I wanted to share some of my thoughts.
The main thing I took from this experience is just how physically tiring it is for you guys to fuck us!
I wont say fuck "ladies" as I am perfectly aware that there are men, women & others who identify differently on the gender spectrum that love being fucked.
So for purpose of this thread and not to exclude anyone I will use the terms "fucker" = the person doing the most of the work! and "fuckee!= The person receiving this delicious experience!
So folks. Fuckers have it hard.
They want to please the fuckee but also want to experience intense pleasure themselves naturally,which in some positions is just not at all easy.
So fuckees, dont just lay there. Be really appreciative of your partner.
They are bending into all sorts of contortions to fit into you at that perfect deep thrusting angle that hits all the right spots!
Fuckers (especially good fuckers) are fit.
They are sexercising with you.
It is a physical workout!
No wonder they build up a sweat,
And change positions, as I found out myself when using my strapon that certain positions made my legs really ache, and I was out of breath.
Another thing I realised was the angle of the dangle, and how I had to guide my rubber strapon dildo inside the guy.
Penises don't just find the hole and fit in easily straight away, there is gonna be some manipulation and wiggling about before bullseye!
Also I saw sex from a mans perspective!
Seeing the positions that my fuckee was in was a totally different view on things than when I am being fucked. And that was quite interesting actually.
As interesting an experience as it was, it isn't something that I would seek out to do specifically as it didn't give me any sexual pleasure or release. Rubber cocks have no sensation! Lol.
but when clubs reopen, you never know. My strapon may sometimes make an appearance!
![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) "
“The angle of the dangle”
That is genius! That’s the name of a sex story if I’ve ever heard one!
Good write up though. Going to get the Mrs to read this so she can appreciate how awesome I am! ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"After an experience of using a strapon on a guy I wanted to share some of my thoughts.
The main thing I took from this experience is just how physically tiring it is for you guys to fuck us!
I wont say fuck "ladies" as I am perfectly aware that there are men, women & others who identify differently on the gender spectrum that love being fucked.
So for purpose of this thread and not to exclude anyone I will use the terms "fucker" = the person doing the most of the work! and "fuckee!= The person receiving this delicious experience!
So folks. Fuckers have it hard.
They want to please the fuckee but also want to experience intense pleasure themselves naturally,which in some positions is just not at all easy.
So fuckees, dont just lay there. Be really appreciative of your partner.
They are bending into all sorts of contortions to fit into you at that perfect deep thrusting angle that hits all the right spots!
Fuckers (especially good fuckers) are fit.
They are sexercising with you.
It is a physical workout!
No wonder they build up a sweat,
And change positions, as I found out myself when using my strapon that certain positions made my legs really ache, and I was out of breath.
Another thing I realised was the angle of the dangle, and how I had to guide my rubber strapon dildo inside the guy.
Penises don't just find the hole and fit in easily straight away, there is gonna be some manipulation and wiggling about before bullseye!
Also I saw sex from a mans perspective!
Seeing the positions that my fuckee was in was a totally different view on things than when I am being fucked. And that was quite interesting actually.
As interesting an experience as it was, it isn't something that I would seek out to do specifically as it didn't give me any sexual pleasure or release. Rubber cocks have no sensation! Lol.
but when clubs reopen, you never know. My strapon may sometimes make an appearance!
![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif)
“The angle of the dangle”
That is genius! That’s the name of a sex story if I’ve ever heard one!
Good write up though. Going to get the Mrs to read this so she can appreciate how awesome I am! "
Oh definitely do. Or get her a strapon and let her try it out for herself and she will probably, like me, get a whole new perspective on things! ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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