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over a year ago
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Something that popped on my Facebook today and it felt relevant to share here:
It's easy to feel uncared for when people aren't able to communicate and connect with you in the way you need. And it's so hard not to internalize that silence as a reflection on your own worth. But the truth is that the way people operate is not about you. Most people are so caught up in their own responsibilities, struggles, and anxiety that the thought of asking someone else how they're doing doesn't even cross their mind. They aren't inherently bad or uncaring--they're just busy and self-focused. And that's okay. It's not evidence of some fundamental failing on your part. It doesn't make you unloveable or invisible. It just means that those people aren't very good at looking beyond their own world. But the fact that you are--that despite the darkened you feel, you have the ability to share you love and light with others--is a strength. Your work isn't to change who you are; it's to find people who are able to give you the connection you need. Because despite what you feel, you are not too much. You are not too sensitive or too needy. You are thoughtful and empathetic. You are compassionate and kind. And with or without anyone's acknowledgement or affection, you are enough.
Daniell Koepke
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"Something that popped on my Facebook today and it felt relevant to share here:
It's easy to feel uncared for when people aren't able to communicate and connect with you in the way you need. And it's so hard not to internalize that silence as a reflection on your own worth. But the truth is that the way people operate is not about you. Most people are so caught up in their own responsibilities, struggles, and anxiety that the thought of asking someone else how they're doing doesn't even cross their mind. They aren't inherently bad or uncaring--they're just busy and self-focused. And that's okay. It's not evidence of some fundamental failing on your part. It doesn't make you unloveable or invisible. It just means that those people aren't very good at looking beyond their own world. But the fact that you are--that despite the darkened you feel, you have the ability to share you love and light with others--is a strength. Your work isn't to change who you are; it's to find people who are able to give you the connection you need. Because despite what you feel, you are not too much. You are not too sensitive or too needy. You are thoughtful and empathetic. You are compassionate and kind. And with or without anyone's acknowledgement or affection, you are enough.
Daniell Koepke
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Something that popped on my Facebook today and it felt relevant to share here:
It's easy to feel uncared for when people aren't able to communicate and connect with you in the way you need. And it's so hard not to internalize that silence as a reflection on your own worth. But the truth is that the way people operate is not about you. Most people are so caught up in their own responsibilities, struggles, and anxiety that the thought of asking someone else how they're doing doesn't even cross their mind. They aren't inherently bad or uncaring--they're just busy and self-focused. And that's okay. It's not evidence of some fundamental failing on your part. It doesn't make you unloveable or invisible. It just means that those people aren't very good at looking beyond their own world. But the fact that you are--that despite the darkened you feel, you have the ability to share you love and light with others--is a strength. Your work isn't to change who you are; it's to find people who are able to give you the connection you need. Because despite what you feel, you are not too much. You are not too sensitive or too needy. You are thoughtful and empathetic. You are compassionate and kind. And with or without anyone's acknowledgement or affection, you are enough.
Daniell Koepke
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Something that popped on my Facebook today and it felt relevant to share here:
It's easy to feel uncared for when people aren't able to communicate and connect with you in the way you need. And it's so hard not to internalize that silence as a reflection on your own worth. But the truth is that the way people operate is not about you. Most people are so caught up in their own responsibilities, struggles, and anxiety that the thought of asking someone else how they're doing doesn't even cross their mind. They aren't inherently bad or uncaring--they're just busy and self-focused. And that's okay. It's not evidence of some fundamental failing on your part. It doesn't make you unloveable or invisible. It just means that those people aren't very good at looking beyond their own world. But the fact that you are--that despite the darkened you feel, you have the ability to share you love and light with others--is a strength. Your work isn't to change who you are; it's to find people who are able to give you the connection you need. Because despite what you feel, you are not too much. You are not too sensitive or too needy. You are thoughtful and empathetic. You are compassionate and kind. And with or without anyone's acknowledgement or affection, you are enough.
Daniell Koepke
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I like that. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"surely its better to fall into the hands of a serial killer than a woman with a lustful mind... Friedrich Nietzsche
Of course I don't believe him  "
Always keep questioning philosophers
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Yes I read how good honey is and how it is the ultimate healer, especially now eith the flu season starts it is not a vaccine but rather a symptom releaver such as it is good against coughs amongst other things too |
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"Yes I read how good honey is and how it is the ultimate healer, especially now eith the flu season starts it is not a vaccine but rather a symptom releaver such as it is good against coughs amongst other things too "
I’ve never touched honey thanks to a twilight zone episode ! |
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"Yes I read how good honey is and how it is the ultimate healer, especially now eith the flu season starts it is not a vaccine but rather a symptom releaver such as it is good against coughs amongst other things too
I’ve never touched honey thanks to a twilight zone episode ! "
Oh I love honey. |
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"Yes I read how good honey is and how it is the ultimate healer, especially now eith the flu season starts it is not a vaccine but rather a symptom releaver such as it is good against coughs amongst other things too
I’ve never touched honey thanks to a twilight zone episode !
Oh I love honey. "
It’s bc a Ronald Dahl short story called Royal Jelly and it freaked me just being read it, to then see it come to life on TV was enough  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Something that popped on my Facebook today and it felt relevant to share here:
It's easy to feel uncared for when people aren't able to communicate and connect with you in the way you need. And it's so hard not to internalize that silence as a reflection on your own worth. But the truth is that the way people operate is not about you. Most people are so caught up in their own responsibilities, struggles, and anxiety that the thought of asking someone else how they're doing doesn't even cross their mind. They aren't inherently bad or uncaring--they're just busy and self-focused. And that's okay. It's not evidence of some fundamental failing on your part. It doesn't make you unloveable or invisible. It just means that those people aren't very good at looking beyond their own world. But the fact that you are--that despite the darkened you feel, you have the ability to share you love and light with others--is a strength. Your work isn't to change who you are; it's to find people who are able to give you the connection you need. Because despite what you feel, you are not too much. You are not too sensitive or too needy. You are thoughtful and empathetic. You are compassionate and kind. And with or without anyone's acknowledgement or affection, you are enough.
Daniell Koepke
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Loved that. Thanks for sharing.
I won't add anything other than this tangentially related quote I recently saw attributed to Morgan Freeman:
"Never take criticism from anyone who you wouldn't go to for advice."
Think that's one a lot of us can learn from.  |
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over a year ago
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"Yes I read how good honey is and how it is the ultimate healer, especially now eith the flu season starts it is not a vaccine but rather a symptom releaver such as it is good against coughs amongst other things too
I’ve never touched honey thanks to a twilight zone episode !
Oh I love honey. "
You love honey? Have you tried Bondara or any of the other places?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes I read how good honey is and how it is the ultimate healer, especially now eith the flu season starts it is not a vaccine but rather a symptom releaver such as it is good against coughs amongst other things too
I’ve never touched honey thanks to a twilight zone episode !
Oh I love honey. "
Same here. I like it too. I have a tea spoon on the yogurt everyday, it is very tasty |
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By (user no longer on site)
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This spoke to me so much.
"She is an exquisite girl who loves with reckless abandon, and she kisses like there is no tomorrow. She will love you until the bittersweet end and smile at loves beautiful wreckage."
NR Hart
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yes I read how good honey is and how it is the ultimate healer, especially now eith the flu season starts it is not a vaccine but rather a symptom releaver such as it is good against coughs amongst other things too
I’ve never touched honey thanks to a twilight zone episode !
Oh I love honey.
You love honey? Have you tried Bondara or any of the other places? "
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