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over a year ago
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What are your thoughts about kissing during meets. Do You love it or You wouldn't kiss someone who's not your partner. Question is addressed to couples of course |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We started out as no kissing but after our first meeting we soon changed that , both love kissing x"
I just can't imagine good meet without kissing although I'm aware that some couples do it with partners only |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We both enjoy kissing with other people, its important for us to feel that intimacy.
We wouldn't feel comfortable meeting people who didn't want to kiss us....only because we would feel nervous in case we forget, overstep a boundary and cause offence.
Her x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like the kissing, it helps with the play and the arousal, deep kissing and caressing kinda does something for me.
I find without kissing it seems a bit blah if you know what i mean |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I won’t touch someone if I couldn’t kiss them.
It’s torture for me not to be able to kiss... literally  "
I would very much like to kiss You then as your lips looks fabulous |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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God i love snogging like I'm a teenager... Was day dreaming earlier about snogging my DD and realised i was smooching my hand haha, but was too late - was all hot + horny! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's hard not to kiss - no ? Kissing builds up the passion and intrigue of what might follow.
I for one am a big kisser, so I couldn't be with anyone if there's no kissing ; don't care how gorgeous you are lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone like kissing so far. Would be nice to hear from people who don't like to do it to know why"
Cause I get the giggles. I get awkward. I’d rather just be told to get on my knees  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ll do it, but I always get shy and get the giggles. I’m not a very good kisser anyway "
Did someone tell You that You're not a good kisser or that's what You think? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Everyone like kissing so far. Would be nice to hear from people who don't like to do it to know why
Cause I get the giggles. I get awkward. I’d rather just be told to get on my knees "
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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago
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"I couldn’t/wouldn’t meet someone that didn’t enjoy kissing.
Although it’s not pleasant if they are a rubbish kisser and don’t know it  "
Would you tell them or guide them how to kiss you the way you like it? |
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"If there is no kissing, I'm going missing and looking elsewhere for a good snog!
Kissing is a must or the rest is just going through the motions with no passion, no intimacy and no connection.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If there is no kissing, I'm going missing and looking elsewhere for a good snog!
Kissing is a must or the rest is just going through the motions with no passion, no intimacy and no connection.
Agree "
You're a good kisser too xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I couldn’t/wouldn’t meet someone that didn’t enjoy kissing.
Although it’s not pleasant if they are a rubbish kisser and don’t know it
Would you tell them or guide them how to kiss you the way you like it?"
I’d try and guide, but I think it’s difficult when it comes to someone’s kissing ‘style’. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If there is no kissing, I'm going missing and looking elsewhere for a good snog!
Kissing is a must or the rest is just going through the motions with no passion, no intimacy and no connection.
Agree
You're a good kisser too xx"
As are you Mr IP xx |
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"What are your thoughts about kissing during meets. Do You love it or You wouldn't kiss someone who's not your partner. Question is addressed to couples of course "
We don't kiss our casual sex partners passionately. It seems to be the only preference that people feel able to question and ask why. |
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"Everyone like kissing so far. Would be nice to hear from people who don't like to do it to know why"
I usually mention that we don't kiss on these threads but I'm very often very much in the minority.
I never ask anybody to explain why they like kissing so I don't really feel I need to explain why I don't |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are your thoughts about kissing during meets. Do You love it or You wouldn't kiss someone who's not your partner. Question is addressed to couples of course "
Kissing establishes a connection, a good connection normally leads to amazing sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not keen tbh. I started out not kissing at all, now I'll kiss a little bit but honestly, passionately kissing anyone on the mouth other than my other half leaves me cold and doesn't sit well with me...it's a level of intimacy that I don't want to share with anyone other than my partner
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not keen tbh. I started out not kissing at all, now I'll kiss a little bit but honestly, passionately kissing anyone on the mouth other than my other half leaves me cold and doesn't sit well with me...it's a level of intimacy that I don't want to share with anyone other than my partner
Mrs"
I fully understand You. What's the reaction when You saying, no kissing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I was part of a couple and I was happy enough to swing I think I'd be happy enough to kiss others I met and have my partner do the same. Kissing plays a big part in the bedroom and I dont think I could have a meet where I couldn't kiss. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not keen tbh. I started out not kissing at all, now I'll kiss a little bit but honestly, passionately kissing anyone on the mouth other than my other half leaves me cold and doesn't sit well with me...it's a level of intimacy that I don't want to share with anyone other than my partner
Mrs
I fully understand You. What's the reaction when You saying, no kissing? "
It's never been an issue at all |
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"Has to be kisses and lots of them.. Nothing better than a slowy,sexy kiss with a good set of lips and tongue...Massive turn on...   "
Couldnt agree more.love a nice sensual slow kiss, lots of tongue and lips interrupted for a little neck and shoulder nuzzle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I won’t touch someone if I couldn’t kiss them.
It’s torture for me not to be able to kiss... literally
I would very much like to kiss You then as your lips looks fabulous "
Why thank you lovely |
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When part of a couple I wouldn't kiss other blokes and I hated him kissing other women.
My reasoning, I think it was the eye contact beforehand. It's less of the cheeky flirting and more of the "omfg I want you so damn bad I can't look away and when our lips lock there's gonna be fire"
I only wanted to feel that with him and only wanted him to feel that with me. Kissing to me is far more intimate than sex and oral. Sex is a physical act, kissing is more of an emotional feeling.... to me anyway.
Swinging was about different sexual experiences and fantasies when part of a couple, stuff we couldn't do alone. |
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"When part of a couple I wouldn't kiss other blokes and I hated him kissing other women.
My reasoning, I think it was the eye contact beforehand. It's less of the cheeky flirting and more of the "omfg I want you so damn bad I can't look away and when our lips lock there's gonna be fire"
I only wanted to feel that with him and only wanted him to feel that with me. Kissing to me is far more intimate than sex and oral. Sex is a physical act, kissing is more of an emotional feeling.... to me anyway.
Swinging was about different sexual experiences and fantasies when part of a couple, stuff we couldn't do alone. "
Add to that it could have been because in my gut something wasn't quite right and I never felt like he was truly "mine" shall we say. I didn't feel the security of a committed relationship, not fully.
And I was right to feel that way, so perhaps the kissing thing was more of a reflection of what was truly going on beneath the surface. |
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"When part of a couple I wouldn't kiss other blokes and I hated him kissing other women.
My reasoning, I think it was the eye contact beforehand. It's less of the cheeky flirting and more of the "omfg I want you so damn bad I can't look away and when our lips lock there's gonna be fire"
I only wanted to feel that with him and only wanted him to feel that with me. Kissing to me is far more intimate than sex and oral. Sex is a physical act, kissing is more of an emotional feeling.... to me anyway.
Swinging was about different sexual experiences and fantasies when part of a couple, stuff we couldn't do alone.
Add to that it could have been because in my gut something wasn't quite right and I never felt like he was truly "mine" shall we say. I didn't feel the security of a committed relationship, not fully.
And I was right to feel that way, so perhaps the kissing thing was more of a reflection of what was truly going on beneath the surface."
Or, you genuinely didn't want to get involved in kissing and that was ok, you didn't need to explain or justify your reasons to anybody.
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"When part of a couple I wouldn't kiss other blokes and I hated him kissing other women.
My reasoning, I think it was the eye contact beforehand. It's less of the cheeky flirting and more of the "omfg I want you so damn bad I can't look away and when our lips lock there's gonna be fire"
I only wanted to feel that with him and only wanted him to feel that with me. Kissing to me is far more intimate than sex and oral. Sex is a physical act, kissing is more of an emotional feeling.... to me anyway.
Swinging was about different sexual experiences and fantasies when part of a couple, stuff we couldn't do alone.
Add to that it could have been because in my gut something wasn't quite right and I never felt like he was truly "mine" shall we say. I didn't feel the security of a committed relationship, not fully.
And I was right to feel that way, so perhaps the kissing thing was more of a reflection of what was truly going on beneath the surface.
Or, you genuinely didn't want to get involved in kissing and that was ok, you didn't need to explain or justify your reasons to anybody.
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I know I found it confusing as I'd not felt like that before. I think it may have been me trying to have something, just fucking something that was for me and me alone. Or it could be just as you say, and I just didn't want it.
I could kiss and have that "fire" with other women though, just felt wrong and "cheaty" to me with other men. |
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This pretty woman thing one film and bang .....
How can kisses be more intimate other forms of interaction like ramming a penis up somebody's ass sucking someone balls ok bad examples but really if you're have sex kissing is no more or less intimate than other .. |
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"This pretty woman thing one film and bang .....
How can kisses be more intimate other forms of interaction like ramming a penis up somebody's ass sucking someone balls ok bad examples but really if you're have sex kissing is no more or less intimate than other .."
It was to me, at that time, with that person.
I've never seen Pretty Woman so can't use that as a reference point. |
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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago
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"Not keen tbh. I started out not kissing at all, now I'll kiss a little bit but honestly, passionately kissing anyone on the mouth other than my other half leaves me cold and doesn't sit well with me...it's a level of intimacy that I don't want to share with anyone other than my partner
Mrs"
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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago
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"When part of a couple I wouldn't kiss other blokes and I hated him kissing other women.
My reasoning, I think it was the eye contact beforehand. It's less of the cheeky flirting and more of the "omfg I want you so damn bad I can't look away and when our lips lock there's gonna be fire"
I only wanted to feel that with him and only wanted him to feel that with me. Kissing to me is far more intimate than sex and oral. Sex is a physical act, kissing is more of an emotional feeling.... to me anyway.
Swinging was about different sexual experiences and fantasies when part of a couple, stuff we couldn't do alone. "
Totally agree.  |
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"When part of a couple I wouldn't kiss other blokes and I hated him kissing other women.
My reasoning, I think it was the eye contact beforehand. It's less of the cheeky flirting and more of the "omfg I want you so damn bad I can't look away and when our lips lock there's gonna be fire"
I only wanted to feel that with him and only wanted him to feel that with me. Kissing to me is far more intimate than sex and oral. Sex is a physical act, kissing is more of an emotional feeling.... to me anyway.
Swinging was about different sexual experiences and fantasies when part of a couple, stuff we couldn't do alone.
Add to that it could have been because in my gut something wasn't quite right and I never felt like he was truly "mine" shall we say. I didn't feel the security of a committed relationship, not fully.
And I was right to feel that way, so perhaps the kissing thing was more of a reflection of what was truly going on beneath the surface.
Or, you genuinely didn't want to get involved in kissing and that was ok, you didn't need to explain or justify your reasons to anybody.
I know I found it confusing as I'd not felt like that before. I think it may have been me trying to have something, just fucking something that was for me and me alone. Or it could be just as you say, and I just didn't want it.
I could kiss and have that "fire" with other women though, just felt wrong and "cheaty" to me with other men."
Yes I understand. For me it's as simple as I don't want (or need ) that level of intimacy with anyone else, I wouldn't hold another man's hand either.
If people would discuss it, like you've done, without judgement of preconception I'd discuss right back |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We started as no kissing 20 minutes into our first meet i was kissing the lady Danish was watching and got turned on so much it went out the window.
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"This pretty woman thing one film and bang .....
How can kisses be more intimate other forms of interaction like ramming a penis up somebody's ass sucking someone balls ok bad examples but really if you're have sex kissing is no more or less intimate than other ..
It was to me, at that time, with that person.
I've never seen Pretty Woman so can't use that as a reference point."
Think this show how different men are to women (some)  celebrations our differences.. |
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"This pretty woman thing one film and bang .....
How can kisses be more intimate other forms of interaction like ramming a penis up somebody's ass sucking someone balls ok bad examples but really if you're have sex kissing is no more or less intimate than other .."
Easily to some of us. Are you saying we're wrong to feel that level of intimacy from a kiss? |
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"When part of a couple I wouldn't kiss other blokes and I hated him kissing other women.
My reasoning, I think it was the eye contact beforehand. It's less of the cheeky flirting and more of the "omfg I want you so damn bad I can't look away and when our lips lock there's gonna be fire"
I only wanted to feel that with him and only wanted him to feel that with me. Kissing to me is far more intimate than sex and oral. Sex is a physical act, kissing is more of an emotional feeling.... to me anyway.
Swinging was about different sexual experiences and fantasies when part of a couple, stuff we couldn't do alone.
Add to that it could have been because in my gut something wasn't quite right and I never felt like he was truly "mine" shall we say. I didn't feel the security of a committed relationship, not fully.
And I was right to feel that way, so perhaps the kissing thing was more of a reflection of what was truly going on beneath the surface.
Or, you genuinely didn't want to get involved in kissing and that was ok, you didn't need to explain or justify your reasons to anybody.
I know I found it confusing as I'd not felt like that before. I think it may have been me trying to have something, just fucking something that was for me and me alone. Or it could be just as you say, and I just didn't want it.
I could kiss and have that "fire" with other women though, just felt wrong and "cheaty" to me with other men.
Yes I understand. For me it's as simple as I don't want (or need ) that level of intimacy with anyone else, I wouldn't hold another man's hand either.
If people would discuss it, like you've done, without judgement of preconception I'd discuss right back "
Thank you, I gotta admit the judgey from others in this thread has, instead of giving people a "safe space" to discuss their feelings (especially ones that can be confusing) kinda belittled them.
Thank you for saying how it is for you. It goes to show that everyone IS different and that's OK. It also goes to show that just because someone doesn't understand something doesn't make it wrong. |
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"When part of a couple I wouldn't kiss other blokes and I hated him kissing other women.
My reasoning, I think it was the eye contact beforehand. It's less of the cheeky flirting and more of the "omfg I want you so damn bad I can't look away and when our lips lock there's gonna be fire"
I only wanted to feel that with him and only wanted him to feel that with me. Kissing to me is far more intimate than sex and oral. Sex is a physical act, kissing is more of an emotional feeling.... to me anyway.
Swinging was about different sexual experiences and fantasies when part of a couple, stuff we couldn't do alone.
Add to that it could have been because in my gut something wasn't quite right and I never felt like he was truly "mine" shall we say. I didn't feel the security of a committed relationship, not fully.
And I was right to feel that way, so perhaps the kissing thing was more of a reflection of what was truly going on beneath the surface.
Or, you genuinely didn't want to get involved in kissing and that was ok, you didn't need to explain or justify your reasons to anybody.
I know I found it confusing as I'd not felt like that before. I think it may have been me trying to have something, just fucking something that was for me and me alone. Or it could be just as you say, and I just didn't want it.
I could kiss and have that "fire" with other women though, just felt wrong and "cheaty" to me with other men.
Yes I understand. For me it's as simple as I don't want (or need ) that level of intimacy with anyone else, I wouldn't hold another man's hand either.
If people would discuss it, like you've done, without judgement of preconception I'd discuss right back
Thank you, I gotta admit the judgey from others in this thread has, instead of giving people a "safe space" to discuss their feelings (especially ones that can be confusing) kinda belittled them.
Thank you for saying how it is for you. It goes to show that everyone IS different and that's OK. It also goes to show that just because someone doesn't understand something doesn't make it wrong. "
It's interesting to me that people do vehemently defend kissing and their right not to meet those of us who don't. We're genuinely not a threat |
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"This pretty woman thing one film and bang .....
How can kisses be more intimate other forms of interaction like ramming a penis up somebody's ass sucking someone balls ok bad examples but really if you're have sex kissing is no more or less intimate than other .."
For me there's a huge emotional connection when I kiss my partner. And I find it more intimate. Intimate on a different level. And that's something I don't want to give to someone else. That's ours. Something we have between us that I'm unwilling to share. |
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"This pretty woman thing one film and bang .....
How can kisses be more intimate other forms of interaction like ramming a penis up somebody's ass sucking someone balls ok bad examples but really if you're have sex kissing is no more or less intimate than other ..
For me there's a huge emotional connection when I kiss my partner. And I find it more intimate. Intimate on a different level. And that's something I don't want to give to someone else. That's ours. Something we have between us that I'm unwilling to share."
I understand totally. I've shared kisses with my ex that were so emotionally charged and beautifully connected that they have reduced both of us to tears. Not sobbing on the floor sad tears, but eye-leakingly beautiful tears of appreciation and one-ness. So unbelievably lost in the moment where everything in the universe felt it had aligned.
That's seriously special.
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"This pretty woman thing one film and bang .....
How can kisses be more intimate other forms of interaction like ramming a penis up somebody's ass sucking someone balls ok bad examples but really if you're have sex kissing is no more or less intimate than other ..
For me there's a huge emotional connection when I kiss my partner. And I find it more intimate. Intimate on a different level. And that's something I don't want to give to someone else. That's ours. Something we have between us that I'm unwilling to share.
I understand totally. I've shared kisses with my ex that were so emotionally charged and beautifully connected that they have reduced both of us to tears. Not sobbing on the floor sad tears, but eye-leakingly beautiful tears of appreciation and one-ness. So unbelievably lost in the moment where everything in the universe felt it had aligned.
That's seriously special.
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That's exactly it. And I think that's a huge part of the reason kissing (or even the thought of kissing) someone else leaves me feeling almost bereft. I think you said earlier in the thread about it almost being like a betrayal. |
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If I’m highly attracted to someone, kissing is a must as I want to be as close to them as possible. It’s also a massive turn on for me.
But I can fuck and be fucked without it, if I’m just after some quick relief. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sex without kissing, is like house without central heating... cold.
Kiss or go home. I've never had bad sex with a woman who knew how to kiss. It's the foundation of all that follows, and is a before, during and after. |
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"Sex without kissing, is like house without central heating... cold.
Kiss or go home. I've never had bad sex with a woman who knew how to kiss. It's the foundation of all that follows, and is a before, during and after."
There are alternative forms of heating... |
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