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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Had 3 over the past few days where the women that sent them have never said two word to me. And still don’t.
But have very nice profiles.
What’s that all about? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had 3 over the past few days where the women that sent them have never said two word to me. And still don’t.
But have very nice profiles.
What’s that all about?"
Get quite a few of them never even chatted  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Delete ignore block delete auto delete ignore block.....lovely place this Fab Swingers.
What about Hi Hello No thanks Thank you May I ask why you’ve requested.
I guess it’s easy to be awful to people tho right!?! |
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"Delete ignore block delete auto delete ignore block.....lovely place this Fab Swingers.
What about Hi Hello No thanks Thank you May I ask why you’ve requested.
I guess it’s easy to be awful to people tho right!?!"
Or how about sending a message to the person you’re interested in speaking to rather than presuming they are entitled to see the content they have kept as private for a reason? |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Don't delete them. If you do they can keep resending. Mine just sit there so they can't do this. 
Is this the same with winks? "
I think winks have a 30 day time limit, ie you can't resend them before this is up. X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Delete ignore block delete auto delete ignore block.....lovely place this Fab Swingers.
What about Hi Hello No thanks Thank you May I ask why you’ve requested.
I guess it’s easy to be awful to people tho right!?!
Or how about sending a message to the person you’re interested in speaking to rather than presuming they are entitled to see the content they have kept as private for a reason?"
The thing is, I see loads of statuses moaning about this and then said people do it themselves.
Where’s the facepalm emoji when you need it  |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Delete ignore block delete auto delete ignore block.....lovely place this Fab Swingers.
What about Hi Hello No thanks Thank you May I ask why you’ve requested.
I guess it’s easy to be awful to people tho right!?!"
No not really, as by doing the above that you suggested, we end up with endless why nots, or worse, a tirade of abuse. If you read the faq section, it's not considered rude not to reply, no reply means no interest. As for the block, many use it as a filter so they don't come up in searches and newsfeeds. Deleting also means no interest. Now please tell me why you would wish to engage with someone who clearly isn't interested just to waste your time and their time? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Delete ignore block delete auto delete ignore block.....lovely place this Fab Swingers.
What about Hi Hello No thanks Thank you May I ask why you’ve requested.
I guess it’s easy to be awful to people tho right!?!
No not really, as by doing the above that you suggested, we end up with endless why nots, or worse, a tirade of abuse. If you read the faq section, it's not considered rude not to reply, no reply means no interest. As for the block, many use it as a filter so they don't come up in searches and newsfeeds. Deleting also means no interest. Now please tell me why you would wish to engage with someone who clearly isn't interested just to waste your time and their time? "
Mine is simply to try and convey a message of tolerance within this little community. I haven’t the answers as to why people do wacky things like request friends with no introduction or representation.
You mention abuse so I’ll tell you this. Abuse is rife on here regardless. I get abuse for sending a well thought out articulate message, called lazy fake pig and my messages are cut and pasted, even told “hope I get my legs blown off if deployed” (army).
Tolerance and kindness is all I preach |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Delete ignore block delete auto delete ignore block.....lovely place this Fab Swingers.
What about Hi Hello No thanks Thank you May I ask why you’ve requested.
I guess it’s easy to be awful to people tho right!?!
No not really, as by doing the above that you suggested, we end up with endless why nots, or worse, a tirade of abuse. If you read the faq section, it's not considered rude not to reply, no reply means no interest. As for the block, many use it as a filter so they don't come up in searches and newsfeeds. Deleting also means no interest. Now please tell me why you would wish to engage with someone who clearly isn't interested just to waste your time and their time?
Mine is simply to try and convey a message of tolerance within this little community. I haven’t the answers as to why people do wacky things like request friends with no introduction or representation.
You mention abuse so I’ll tell you this. Abuse is rife on here regardless. I get abuse for sending a well thought out articulate message, called lazy fake pig and my messages are cut and pasted, even told “hope I get my legs blown off if deployed” (army).
Tolerance and kindness is all I preach "
That’s a disgrace of a comment to send someone. I hope you blocked and reported them? |
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The friend requests from stunning women are the fab hunters who reside on page 1 of hot photos. If they are your friend, their very sexy photos are more likely to get your fab because they pop up in your updates. |
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"Delete ignore block delete auto delete ignore block.....lovely place this Fab Swingers.
What about Hi Hello No thanks Thank you May I ask why you’ve requested.
I guess it’s easy to be awful to people tho right!?!"
There is certain etiquette to follow a random friend request always suspicious and should be always deleted method often employed by hackers picture collectors and fake profiles simply not worth the risk.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Delete ignore block delete auto delete ignore block.....lovely place this Fab Swingers.
What about Hi Hello No thanks Thank you May I ask why you’ve requested.
I guess it’s easy to be awful to people tho right!?!
No not really, as by doing the above that you suggested, we end up with endless why nots, or worse, a tirade of abuse. If you read the faq section, it's not considered rude not to reply, no reply means no interest. As for the block, many use it as a filter so they don't come up in searches and newsfeeds. Deleting also means no interest. Now please tell me why you would wish to engage with someone who clearly isn't interested just to waste your time and their time?
Mine is simply to try and convey a message of tolerance within this little community. I haven’t the answers as to why people do wacky things like request friends with no introduction or representation.
You mention abuse so I’ll tell you this. Abuse is rife on here regardless. I get abuse for sending a well thought out articulate message, called lazy fake pig and my messages are cut and pasted, even told “hope I get my legs blown off if deployed” (army).
Tolerance and kindness is all I preach
That’s a disgrace of a comment to send someone. I hope you blocked and reported them?"
No I didn’t block or report this particular woman. She has her reasons for saying such awful things and I’m not interested.
Anyway I’m cluttering your thread with a totally different subject.
Enjoy the day OP and fellow Faboids x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it’s about getting their pics fabbed..... I never accept a friend request unless I’m chatting to the person and I like what I see..... not a fan of having loads of friends and not chatting to a single one  |
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"Had 3 over the past few days where the women that sent them have never said two word to me. And still don’t.
But have very nice profiles.
What’s that all about?"
Maybe it’s reverse psychology
We receive quite a few from people we’ve never even chatted to (mostly from single guys), so we assume they’re just nosey feckers who just want to see what photos we have behind the veil...
Mostly end in a block if we already have a note on their profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never send a request unless I have spoken and more importantly asked if I could send one.
Being a single male, rarely do I get friend requests but when I do I expect that the person or persons have at least said hello before I accept.
I do have plenty of pics in friend only, I think requests are for those.
My Pics are there for a reason, friends who I trust and privacy from those who I don't.
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"I get the very rude "show me your friend pics", as if I'm some kind of take out service..
I think some people forget that there is a person behind the photo.
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How about #can I see you friends picture sweet tits..
Lol kidding  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had 3 over the past few days where the women that sent them have never said two word to me. And still don’t.
But have very nice profiles.
What’s that all about?"
The rules for men and women are different on here.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Noone wants to be my friend - cry cry cry LOL
Seriously - why send friend request when you don't know them, or have no intention not chatting. I'm assuming to get wank material ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Iv 280 new ones I’m not looking anymore I usually ask people myself there’s a few I’d love to ask but I’m too shy too   "
Bustbelle , shy ?? Now I've heard everything lol
Just kidding - I should count my.welf lucky to be one of your friends (hug) |
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
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"Iv 280 new ones I’m not looking anymore I usually ask people myself there’s a few I’d love to ask but I’m too shy too
Bustbelle , shy ?? Now I've heard everything lol
Just kidding - I should count my.welf lucky to be one of your friends (hug)"
I am really shy  haha well you did ask nicely  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Iv 280 new ones I’m not looking anymore I usually ask people myself there’s a few I’d love to ask but I’m too shy too
Bustbelle , shy ?? Now I've heard everything lol
Just kidding - I should count my.welf lucky to be one of your friends (hug)
I am really shy haha well you did ask nicely "
I'm always nice me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We either ASK if they want to add us or wait to be asked to add them after messages have been exchanged first. Seems the politest way in our option "
Yup always ask - consent is important |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Once upon a time, I sent a message and rather than a reply, simply received a friend request, which I accepted. Messaged them back, a few time, never had a reply, so just deleted them from my friends list.
I only ever send a friend request if I've been chatting, or have met the person. My fiends list is very curated, and often gets purged (not on fab for months, goes silent, etc)
So if you are one of the few on my friends list, here's a hug, because you're special. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had 3 over the past few days where the women that sent them have never said two word to me. And still don’t.
But have very nice profiles.
What’s that all about?"
Nobody like a boaster  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah we tend to just get a few from single guys which we delete. Unless we've been having a conversation with someone beforehand there's really no need to clog up our friends list |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There's one person, where if they send another friend invite, they're getting blocked!
First 3/4 invites were deleted  "
Someone said above, if you don’t delete them they can’t send another |
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"We wait till they’re offline, accept the request, perv on the friends only pics, then unfriend them! "
We get a few and tend to do this, we only accept them from people we have already chatted to.
We have had a few requests from people with hidden profiles with whom we have never chatted. So if we accepted we wouldn’t even get the benefit of a bit of a perv. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I sometimes send out requests to people who's forum posts or pics I've enjoyed over time, as I think they might be fun to know. Sadly the state of my inbox means if they message me I don't often see it, but I view friendship here a bit differently I guess. For me, friends are people who like my content/posts/bio etc or I've liked theirs, and I might like to get to know them one day or bump into them in the future. It's not about becoming best friends and chatting daily, but more about friendly acquaintances I suppose.
Each to their own! If you don't want friend requests, just ignore them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Got one from a woman the other day .. stunning pics.. never chatted or replied to my message so she was dropped ..
This "
Yup had that too .. and the same result too |
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
Doire Theas |
"Got one from a woman the other day .. stunning pics.. never chatted or replied to my message so she was dropped .."
I think this happens me a lot and it’s honestly upsetting when someone unfriends me I try to keep up with messages but unless I’m a robot it’s not possible |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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I don't accept any friend req unless we have chatted in forum or chatted a good while
Learnt a while ago, that some add and never speak
Then they only acknowledge when you delete them, to ask why |
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I got 3 of these in the last week,
1 of which we chatted a bit for one evening then nothing, which is fine, it is what it is,
But it got me thinking about my friends list, being off here for so long then returning I thought, how many old friends have I chatted with since returning.
Not many
So I deleted the new silent Ninja requests and then had a cull and deleted some more.
I'm left with 5 and that's fine also. Would never have even crossed my mind if it wasn't for this new request to perv trend going around. |
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"I don't accept any friend req unless we have chatted in forum or chatted a good while
Learnt a while ago, that some add and never speak
Then they only acknowledge when you delete them, to ask why "
Mind me asking What answer do you give them then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Got one from a woman the other day .. stunning pics.. never chatted or replied to my message so she was dropped .."
Perhaps she wanted men on her friends list so they would Fab her pics and get her on page 1. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve just had one off a ‘woman’ been on here 2 days, not photo verified and only 3 friend photos. Because I haven’t accepted within 10 minutes they’ve blocked me haha screams man to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I sometimes send out requests to people who's forum posts or pics I've enjoyed over time, as I think they might be fun to know. Sadly the state of my inbox means if they message me I don't often see it, but I view friendship here a bit differently I guess. For me, friends are people who like my content/posts/bio etc or I've liked theirs, and I might like to get to know them one day or bump into them in the future. It's not about becoming best friends and chatting daily, but more about friendly acquaintances I suppose.
Each to their own! If you don't want friend requests, just ignore them."
So that’s why you’ve been ignoring my playful messages  |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
"I don't accept any friend req unless we have chatted in forum or chatted a good while
Learnt a while ago, that some add and never speak
Then they only acknowledge when you delete them, to ask why
Mind me asking What answer do you give them then? "
I usually say we don't keep in touch so I don't see the point in staying friends for sake |
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