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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Porn-fuelled fantasist (-10), or hedonistic Bohemian (+10)
A great site for all of us - but where do you feel you are on this spectrum?
I think my desire for sensual escapism pushes me a long way towards the +10
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I dunno, I'm not a fantasist but I have no desire to be a complete hedonist. I probably have a lot less sex than I would ideally want because of the way my sexual attraction works but the alternative would be to force myself to have sex with people I didn't desire so not really an enjoyable alternative. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I dunno, I'm not a fantasist but I have no desire to be a complete hedonist. I probably have a lot less sex than I would ideally want because of the way my sexual attraction works but the alternative would be to force myself to have sex with people I didn't desire so not really an enjoyable alternative. "
My wording probably wasn’t great - we’re fantasists at both ends of the spectrum. If I put more thought into it, I see one end of the spectrum being a desire to engage in a specific activity (regardless of the person(s) I am engaging with) -10 to a desire for a sensual adventure with mutual emotional attraction, where the sexual experience naturally evolves +10, fast or slow.
Maybe we all flip to any point on this spectrum dependent on current mood? |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I dunno, I'm not a fantasist but I have no desire to be a complete hedonist. I probably have a lot less sex than I would ideally want because of the way my sexual attraction works but the alternative would be to force myself to have sex with people I didn't desire so not really an enjoyable alternative.
My wording probably wasn’t great - we’re fantasists at both ends of the spectrum. If I put more thought into it, I see one end of the spectrum being a desire to engage in a specific activity (regardless of the person(s) I am engaging with) -10 to a desire for a sensual adventure with mutual emotional attraction, where the sexual experience naturally evolves +10, fast or slow.
Maybe we all flip to any point on this spectrum dependent on current mood?"
I think both mood and partner can have an impact if you're talking about specific sexual adventures |
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"I dunno, I'm not a fantasist but I have no desire to be a complete hedonist. I probably have a lot less sex than I would ideally want because of the way my sexual attraction works but the alternative would be to force myself to have sex with people I didn't desire so not really an enjoyable alternative.
My wording probably wasn’t great - we’re fantasists at both ends of the spectrum. If I put more thought into it, I see one end of the spectrum being a desire to engage in a specific activity (regardless of the person(s) I am engaging with) -10 to a desire for a sensual adventure with mutual emotional attraction, where the sexual experience naturally evolves +10, fast or slow.
Maybe we all flip to any point on this spectrum dependent on current mood?"
Now I'm more confused  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm a realistic fantasist with a conservative bent and bohemian underpinnings. I might just be left of centre of the anal fister but out to lunch when it comes to PPP. |
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